ABCs of Parenting Adult Children

James C Moffitt Jr.
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ABC’s of Parenting Adult Children is a thoughtful, compassionate podcast hosted by James Moffitt for parents navigating the challenges of relationships with adult sons and daughters. Through honest conversations and real-life stories, the show explores communication, boundaries, identity, LGBTQ+ acceptance, grief, faith, reconciliation, and emotional healing. Whether your relationship is strong, strained, or broken, this podcast offers insight, hope, and practical wisdom for parenting adult children with empathy and understanding. Want to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children?  Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildren

  1. 1D AGO

    How to Parent Adult Children in the Empty Nest Years, featuring Deanna Thayer

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode of "The ABC's of Parenting Adult Children," host James Moffitt is joined by Deana Thayer, M.Ed., from Focus on the Family. Together, they explore the emotional journey and challenges parents face as they transition to an empty nest. Deana shares her personal experiences and offers valuable insights into maintaining a healthy parent-adult child relationship. Key Topics: The emotional impact of children leaving home Transitioning from authority to influence Setting boundaries with adult children The importance of intentional parenting Guest: Deana Thayer, M.Ed. - Marriage and Parenting Associate at Focus on the Family Hashtags: #EmptyNest #Parenting #FamilyDynamics #FocusOnTheFamily Call to Action: If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe and share it with others who might benefit from these insights. Visit our website at parentingadultchildren.org for more resources and past episodes. Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system.  Hello, James here ! Please click on the subscribe button to gain access to premium episodes. Please go to parentingadultchildren.org website and sign up for the email list and leave a review for this episode.  If you have any requests for future topics send me an email to TalkPAC@proton.me Please share this podcast with your friends and family. Now for today's guest intervi Support the show Social Media Links  https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/  https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055  r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

    54 min

  2. MAR 27

    Understanding ADHD and Anxiety in Parenting with Zoey Kyriacou

    Send us Fan Mail Summary Keywords parenting, adult children, boundaries, ADHD, anxiety, emotional regulation, single parenting, mental health, family dynamics, communication Summary In this episode of the ABCs of Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt speaks with Zoe Kariakou, a licensed professional counselor and coach, about the complexities of parenting adult children. They discuss the challenges of navigating shifting family roles, the impact of ADHD and anxiety on high-functioning adults, the importance of setting boundaries, and the necessity of open communication. Zoe emphasizes the need for parents to allow their children to experience natural consequences and to resist people-pleasing tendencies, all while fostering emotional regulation and understanding in their relationships. Takeaways Zoe has a background in behavioral health and counseling. Parenting twins can be both challenging and rewarding. Single parenting involves a significant adjustment after divorce. High-functioning adults often mask their struggles with anxiety and ADHD. Setting boundaries is crucial in parent-adult child relationships. Anticipating others' emotions can lead to poor boundaries. Behavior can be interpreted as a form of communication. Parents must transition from authority figures to supportive mentors. Natural consequences are important for children's growth. Emotional regulation involves understanding the connection between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.  sound bites "I wanted to help." "It takes a village." "Communication is essential." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Parenting Adult Children 02:57 Zoe's Parenting Journey and Professional Background 05:46 Understanding ADHD and Anxiety in High Functioning Adults 08:48 The Importance of Setting Boundaries 15:59 Reading Behavior as a Language 18:12 Navigating Parenting Boundaries with Adult Children 24:11 Resisting People-Pleasing Tendencies 30:36 Tools for Emotional Regulation Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system.  Hello, James here ! Please click on the subscribe button to gain access to premium episodes. Please go to parentingadultchildren.org website and sign up for the email list and leave a review for this episode.  If you have any requests for future topics send me an email to TalkPAC@proton.me Please share this podcast with your friends and family. Now for today's guest intervi Support the show Social Media Links  https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/  https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055  r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

    39 min

  3. MAR 20

    When Parenting Grows Up: Nancy Pickard on Communication, Healing, and Healthy Relationships

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode of ABC's of Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt speaks with Nancy Pickard, an integrative life coach and author, about the complexities of parenting adult children. They discuss the importance of setting boundaries, the impact of generational trauma, and the necessity of self-care for parents. Nancy emphasizes the need for open communication and understanding in relationships with adult children, as well as the importance of healing one's own wounds to prevent passing them on to the next generation. The conversation offers valuable insights for parents navigating the challenges of raising adult children and maintaining healthy relationships. Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system.  Hello, James here ! Please click on the subscribe button to gain access to premium episodes. Please go to parentingadultchildren.org website and sign up for the email list and leave a review for this episode.  If you have any requests for future topics send me an email to TalkPAC@proton.me Please share this podcast with your friends and family. Now for today's guest intervi Support the show Social Media Links  https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/  https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055  r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

    45 min

  4. MAR 20

    Navigating Dyslexia: Insights for Parents with Russel VanBrocklin

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode of ABC's of Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt speaks with Russell VanBrocklin, an expert in helping parents navigate the challenges of raising dyslexic children. Russell shares his personal journey with dyslexia and how it shaped his approach to education. He discusses the importance of focusing on a child's specialty, the craft of research, and innovative strategies to foster confidence and engagement in dyslexic learners. The conversation emphasizes the need for a tailored approach to education that prioritizes individual strengths and interests, ultimately leading to success in both academic and professional settings. Keywords dyslexia, parenting, education, adult children, learning strategies, confidence, specialization, structured literacy, craft of research, engagement Takeaways Russell's personal experience with dyslexia informs his approach to education. Dyslexic students often excel when focusing on their areas of interest. The craft of research is crucial for academic success. Engagement in a child's specialty can lead to significant improvements in learning. Structured literacy methods may not be as effective as tailored approaches. Parents can play a vital role in their child's educational journey. Dyslexic students need to be taught from specific to general concepts. Confidence in dyslexic children can be fostered through targeted strategies. The importance of passion in learning cannot be overstated. Older dyslexic students often learn faster than younger ones.  https://dyslexiaclasses.com/ABCsofParenting Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system.  Hello, James here ! Please click on the subscribe button to gain access to premium episodes. Please go to parentingadultchildren.org website and sign up for the email list and leave a review for this episode.  If you have any requests for future topics send me an email to TalkPAC@proton.me Please share this podcast with your friends and family. Now for today's guest intervi Support the show Social Media Links  https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/  https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055  r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

    53 min

  5. MAR 13

    When Feelings Feel Big: Helping Your Adult Children Feel Safe With Their Emotions

    Send us Fan Mail Keywords emotional development, parenting, resilience, children's emotions, mental health, emotional expression, parenting advice, emotional resilience, child psychology, family dynamics Summary In this episode of ABC's of Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt speaks with Jacinta Field about the importance of emotional development and resilience in children. They discuss Jacinta's personal journey through healing and how it shaped her approach to parenting. The conversation covers practical advice for parents on how to model healthy emotional expression, the significance of validating children's feelings, and the myths surrounding children's emotions. Jacinta emphasizes the need for parents to take care of themselves and establish boundaries to foster a nurturing environment for their children. The episode concludes with a powerful reminder that parents are enough just as they are, and that mistakes are part of the journey. Takeaways Emotions are not the enemy; they are a natural part of life. Parents should validate their children's feelings instead of trying to fix them. Teaching children to express their emotions is crucial for their resilience. Tantrums are often a release of pent-up emotions, not just bad behavior. Children learn best when they are given responsibilities and independence. Modeling healthy emotional expression starts with parents being authentic. Self-care is essential for parents to avoid resentment and burnout. Creating a safe space for children to express themselves is vital. Understanding that children are our greatest teachers can change parenting dynamics. It's important to remember that everyone makes mistakes, and that's okay.  sound bites "Emotions are not the enemy." "Kids are our greatest teachers." "We all make mistakes; it's okay." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Emotional Development 08:10 The Journey of Healing and Parenting 14:40 Understanding Emotional Resilience 22:28 Myths About Children's Emotions 34:17 Modeling Healthy Emotional Expression 42:36 Practical Steps for Parents 45:45 Final Takeaway: You Are Enough Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system.  Hello, James here ! Please click on the subscribe button to gain access to premium episodes. Please go to parentingadultchildren.org website and sign up for the email list and leave a review for this episode.  If you have any requests for future topics send me an email to TalkPAC@proton.me Please share this podcast with your friends and family. Now for today's guest intervi Support the show Social Media Links  https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/  https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055  r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

    52 min

  6. MAR 6

    From Manager to Mentor: A Parenting Shift with Troy Fink

    Send us Fan Mail Keywords parenting, adult children, family coaching, relationships, faith, mentorship, restoration, entrepreneurship Summary In this episode of ABC's of Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt speaks with family coach Troy Fink about the complexities of parenting adult children. They discuss the challenges parents face as their children transition into adulthood, the importance of shifting from a managerial role to a mentoring one, and the role of faith in navigating these changes. Troy shares personal experiences of restoring relationships with his children and emphasizes the need for parents to become the individuals God calls them to be in order to effectively guide their children. The conversation also touches on entrepreneurship and the lessons learned through parenting. Takeaways Adulthood is confusing and nebulous for many parents. Transitioning from manager to mentor is crucial as children grow. Restoration of relationships takes humility, consistency, and time. Faith plays a significant role in parenting and personal growth. Parents must become who God is calling them to be. It's never too late to shift dynamics in relationships. Entrepreneurship can be a reflection of personal growth and parenting lessons. Children need both parents in their lives, regardless of circumstances. The importance of intentionality in parenting and mentoring. God's grace allows for new beginnings in parenting.   sound bites "Adulthood is so nebulous." "You can start anew right now." "God can bring you full circle." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Parenting Adult Children 02:02 Troy's Journey into Family Coaching 03:07 Understanding Adulthood and Its Challenges 09:32 Transitioning from Manager to Mentor 11:24 Restoring Relationships with Adult Children 20:23 Reflections on Parenting and Personal Growth 24:45 Building a Strong Foundation in Marriage 25:59 The Power of Redemption and Restoration 27:05 Navigating Fatherhood and Mentorship 29:32 The Importance of Self-Discipline in Parenting 33:07 The Role of Fathers in a Child's Life 40:07 Overcoming Family Court Challenges 43:22 The Need for Male Role Models 46:30 Becoming Who God Calls Us to Be 49:41 Entrepreneurship and Parenting Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system.  Hello, James here ! Please click on the subscribe button to gain access to premium episodes. Please go to parentingadultchildren.org website and sign up for the email list and leave a review for this episode.  If you have any requests for future topics send me an email to TalkPAC@proton.me Please share this podcast with your friends and family. Now for today's guest intervi Support the show Social Media Links  https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/  https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055  r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

    1h 7m

  7. FEB 27

    Forgiveness & Healing in Family Dynamics

    Send us Fan Mail Keywords parenting, adult children, family healing, forgiveness, boundaries, trauma, faith, estrangement, relationships, spiritual growth Summary In this episode of ABC's Parenting Adult Children, host James Moffitt speaks with Reverend Cheryl Kincaid about the complexities of parenting adult children, particularly in the context of healing from trauma and fostering spiritual growth. They discuss the importance of forgiveness, setting boundaries, and the role of faith in navigating relationships with adult children. Cheryl shares her insights from her experiences as a foster parent and pastor, emphasizing the need for open communication, understanding, and the willingness to acknowledge past mistakes while building a hopeful future. Takeaways Parenting adult children requires understanding and compassion. Forgiveness is essential for healing in fractured families. Setting boundaries is crucial for healthy relationships. Faith can guide parents in releasing control while offering support. Acknowledging the past helps in building a new future. Open communication fosters connection and understanding. Trauma impacts parenting and relationships significantly. Estrangement can be healed with patience and love. Creating a sense of home involves accepting imperfections. Honesty and vulnerability strengthen family bonds. Sound bites "Love covers a multitude of sins." "You have to earn your own way back." "Honesty comes from our humanity." Chapters 00:00 Exploring Family Healing and Spiritual Growth 02:46 The Role of Forgiveness in Parenting 05:23 Navigating Boundaries and Relationships 08:21 The Importance of Confession and Vulnerability 10:53 Understanding Generational Trauma 13:57 Faith and Imperfection in Parenting 16:31 Honesty and Healing in Family Dynamics 19:16 Approaching Non-Faith-Based Perspectives 21:57 Estrangement and Emotional Distance 24:35 Creating a Sense of Home 27:30 Forgiveness and Boundaries 30:17 Lessons from Foster Parenting 33:16 Final Thoughts on Parenting Adult Children Rev Kincaid is the author of six books:  Hearing the Gospel Through Charles Dickens A Christmas Carol,  The Little Clay Pot  The Little Candle that Was Frightened of the Dark, K Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system.  Hello, James here ! Please click on the subscribe button to gain access to premium episodes. Please go to parentingadultchildren.org website and sign up for the email list and leave a review for this episode.  If you have any requests for future topics send me an email to TalkPAC@proton.me Please share this podcast with your friends and family. Now for today's guest intervi Support the show Social Media Links  https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/  https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055  r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

    41 min

  8. FEB 20

    Money, Boundaries & Resilience: Guiding Your Young Adult Forward

    Send us Fan Mail Keywords parenting, young adults, life transitions, mental health, financial literacy, college readiness, therapeutic consulting, adulting skills, boundaries, independence Summary In this episode of ABC's of Parenting Adult Children, James Moffitt speaks with Joanna Lilly, a therapeutic consultant, about the challenges parents face in supporting their young adult children during significant life transitions. They discuss the importance of financial literacy, the difference between being college capable and college ready, and the necessity of teaching essential life skills. Joanna emphasizes the need for parents to set boundaries and create plans when their children face setbacks, such as dropping out of college. The conversation highlights the complexities of parenting in today's world and offers practical strategies for fostering independence and resilience in young adults. Takeaways Joanna Lilly is a therapeutic consultant working with young adults. Parents need to support their children during life transitions. Financial literacy is crucial for young adults. There is a difference between being college capable and college ready. Teaching life skills is essential for independence. Setting boundaries is important for parents. Young adults need to contribute to household responsibilities. A gap year can be beneficial for mental wellness. Parents should have a plan if their child drops out of college. Resilience is key to navigating life's challenges. Sound bites "We need to be a little more positive." "It's important to have a plan." "Life is hard, it's difficult." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Parenting Adult Children 03:16 The Role of a Therapeutic Consultant 05:58 Navigating Life Transitions for Young Adults 08:46 Understanding Financial Literacy 11:26 Signs of Young Adults Needing Support 14:30 Building Life Skills for Independence 17:17 The Importance of Communication and Support 20:11 Humor in Parenting Challenges 26:13 Navigating Daily Responsibilities 26:38 Understanding College Capable vs. College Ready 32:04 The Role of Gap Years in Mental Wellness 33:43 Rethinking the Necessity of a Four-Year Degree 41:17 Addressing College Dropouts and Setting Expectations Richard Jones. I am an RN with over 34 years of Nursing Experience, much of that experience working with young adults in the corrections system.  Hello, James here ! Please click on the subscribe button to gain access to premium episodes. Please go to parentingadultchildren.org website and sign up for the email list and leave a review for this episode.  If you have any requests for future topics send me an email to TalkPAC@proton.me Please share this podcast with your friends and family. Now for today's guest intervi Support the show Social Media Links  https://www.youtube.com/@abcparentingadultchildren https://www.instagram.com/parentingadultchildren125/  https://www.tiktok.com/@chiefpropellerhead ABC's of Parenting Adult Children Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581576308055  r/parentingadultchildren Feel free to subscribe to these channels and share the links with your social media portals.

    55 min
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ABC’s of Parenting Adult Children is a thoughtful, compassionate podcast hosted by James Moffitt for parents navigating the challenges of relationships with adult sons and daughters. Through honest conversations and real-life stories, the show explores communication, boundaries, identity, LGBTQ+ acceptance, grief, faith, reconciliation, and emotional healing. Whether your relationship is strong, strained, or broken, this podcast offers insight, hope, and practical wisdom for parenting adult children with empathy and understanding. Want to be a guest on ABCs of Parenting Adult Children?  Send James Moffitt a message on PodMatch https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/parentingadultchildren

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  • Creator
    James C Moffitt Jr.
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    108
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 ABCs of Parenting Adult Children
  • Show Website
    ABCs of Parenting Adult Children

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