Build Better Dads

Ramon weatherall Sr

 My father is a great man. He raised me. He was present. He was there.But there are 5 things about money he never taught me — and not because he didn't love me. Because nobody taught him either.In this video, I share the 5 money lessons my 89-year-old father never taught me, and the 5 lessons I'm teaching my son and daughter so the cycle stops in our family line.I killed $118,000 in debt without a six-figure salary. Most of that debt came from running my father's broken money playbook for 15 years before I knew it was broken.Working dads — if your father never sat you down and taught you about money, this video is for you. We were raised by good men who didn't know. The cycle doesn't break by accident. It breaks because one man in the family line decides he's tired of running the same playbook.Be that man.—THE 5 THINGS MY FATHER NEVER TAUGHT ME:1. How to invest2. How to budget3. How to defend a purchase4. The difference between calculated risk and hope5. That money is a tool — not a goal—THIS WEEK'S CHALLENGE:Write two lists.LIST 1: 5 things my father never taught me about moneyLIST 2: 5 things I'm going to teach my sonThat second list is your legacy.—WATCH NEXT:🎥 The video that started this channel — "The 10-Second Rule I Learned After Taking My 89-Year-Old Father to the Bank"["My 89 year Old Father at the Bank Taught Me Why Most Dads Stay Broke"}https://youtu.be/im_vb6E_Y7U🎥 The exact question that killed my $118K debt — "The 10-Second Rule That Stops Dads From Bleeding Money"[lThe 10-Second Rule I Learned After Taking My 89-Year-Old Father To The Bank]https://youtu.be/8IzCEe5TrWM

  1. Sep 28 ·  Video

    Working Dads: Being Exhausted Is Not a Badge of Honor

    Please like, subscribe, comment and share this video so we can reach more fathers, dads and parents to make the world a a change one Being one of many working dads doesn't mean you have to be exhausted. Learn why rest is actually better for your family. Many men, especially working dads, wear their exhaustion like a trophy, believing that constant grinding is the only way to be a provider. But constant fatigue often leads to burnout, leaving you with little energy for the people who matter most. This discussion explores why neglecting your own rest isn't a measure of good fatherhood, but a fast track to being absent even when you are physically present. True intentional parenting requires you to show up recharged and engaged, not just logged in or clocked out. We break down the shift in mindset needed to prioritize recovery so you can actually be the father your family needs. Stop viewing your limits as weaknesses and start treating your health as a necessary component of your role at home. Finding a sustainable work-life balance isn't about doing less; it's about being more effective with your time and energy. Subscribe for weekly fatherhood coaching to refine your approach to family life, and share your thoughts on how you manage the daily grind. 0:00 The Myth of the Exhausted Father 1:48 Being Needed vs. Being Useful 3:33 Inheriting the Wrong Blueprint 7:08 The Lie We Tell Ourselves About Rest Support the show

  2. Sep 14 ·  Video

    Can People Tell You're Father Without You Saying it?

    In this episode, we explore what it truly means to be recognized as a father through your actions and presence, not just words. We discuss how self-awareness, public perception, and personal responsibility shape the image of a dad in everyday life.  keywords fatherhood, self-awareness, public perception, personal responsibility, building better dads, father image, social influence, parenting, masculinity, community impact  key  topics The importance of actions in defining fatherhood How others perceive us as fathers The role of self-awareness in personal growth Impact of public perception on behavior Building a positive image as a dad The significance of walking the walk in fatherhood How social media influences perceptions of dads The importance of self-reflection for fathers The connection between personal responsibility and community respect Lessons from real-life examples of fatherhood  sound bites "Can people tell you're a father without you saying it?" "Your actions in public reflect your character as a father." "Are you fine with how others perceive you as a dad?" Chapters 00:00 Introduction: What Does It Mean to Be a Recognized Father? 01:56 The Incident at Work: How Others Perceive Fatherhood 04:07 The Significance of Actions and Behavior in Public 05:59 Self-Awareness: Knowing How Others See You 08:09 The Impact of Public Perception on Personal Responsibility 09:51 Building a Positive Dad Image Through Consistency 11:57 Lessons from Real-Life Examples of Fatherhood 13:57 The Role of Social Media and Cultural Influences 15:55 The Importance of Self-Reflection and Accountability 18:05 How to Be a Better Dad in Public and Private 19:54 The Legacy of Responsible Fatherhood 21:59 Final Thoughts: Walking the Walk as a Dad Support the show

  3. Sep 6 ·  Video

    Are We Setting Our Sons Up To Fail?

    In this episode, Dr. Richard C. Horowitz shares valuable insights on how fathers can better support their sons' emotional development, set appropriate boundaries, and foster resilience. We explore practical strategies for parenting with intention and understanding to help boys transition into responsible men.  keywords fatherhood, parenting, emotional intelligence, discipline, resilience, family meetings, boundaries, responsibility, child development  key  topics Difference between discipline and punishment How to build resilience in boys Effective communication with sons Setting boundaries and rules The importance of family meetings Modeling emotional intelligence Handling rejection and disappointment Signs of emotional growth in boys  takeaways Discipline takes time and involves teaching responsibility. Avoid overprotecting your children; let them face manageable challenges. Read your child's behavior for signs of emotional well-being. Regular family meetings create open communication. Model emotional honesty to teach kids how to handle feelings.  sound bites "Let them fail a little to build resilience." "Walk the walk and share your emotions." "Be present and walk the walk to build trust." Chapters 00:00 Introduction and the importance of fatherhood 02:10 The difference between discipline and punishment 04:44 Avoiding overhelping and helicopter parenting 06:38 Handling bullying and teaching resilience 09:18 Recognizing emotional signs in boys 12:11 Having crucial conversations before age 18 13:44 The role of family meetings and rituals 16:57 Negotiating rules and building ownership 19:09 Teaching boys to handle rejection and emotions 22:28 Dealing with misbehavior and shutdown techniques 26:44 The importance of presence and modeling behavior Support the show

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 My father is a great man. He raised me. He was present. He was there.But there are 5 things about money he never taught me — and not because he didn't love me. Because nobody taught him either.In this video, I share the 5 money lessons my 89-year-old father never taught me, and the 5 lessons I'm teaching my son and daughter so the cycle stops in our family line.I killed $118,000 in debt without a six-figure salary. Most of that debt came from running my father's broken money playbook for 15 years before I knew it was broken.Working dads — if your father never sat you down and taught you about money, this video is for you. We were raised by good men who didn't know. The cycle doesn't break by accident. It breaks because one man in the family line decides he's tired of running the same playbook.Be that man.—THE 5 THINGS MY FATHER NEVER TAUGHT ME:1. How to invest2. How to budget3. How to defend a purchase4. The difference between calculated risk and hope5. That money is a tool — not a goal—THIS WEEK'S CHALLENGE:Write two lists.LIST 1: 5 things my father never taught me about moneyLIST 2: 5 things I'm going to teach my sonThat second list is your legacy.—WATCH NEXT:🎥 The video that started this channel — "The 10-Second Rule I Learned After Taking My 89-Year-Old Father to the Bank"["My 89 year Old Father at the Bank Taught Me Why Most Dads Stay Broke"}https://youtu.be/im_vb6E_Y7U🎥 The exact question that killed my $118K debt — "The 10-Second Rule That Stops Dads From Bleeding Money"[lThe 10-Second Rule I Learned After Taking My 89-Year-Old Father To The Bank]https://youtu.be/8IzCEe5TrWM