Still Her • Millennial Motherhood & Life

With Diana

You became a mum. You didn't stop being you. ⭐︎ Join me each week, this is a space for the mums who are figuring it out in real time: matrescene, relationships, friendships, mental load, and the ongoing projects of staying yourself while everything else changes. 🍸 No polished parenting advice. I'm just a millennial mum figuring it all out, I'm still her, the girl who loves beauty and travelling. New Episode every Tuesday 🎧

  1. Aug 17

    Giving birth Public Vs Private, Cost of giving birth in Australia, our experiences

    This episode explores the real costs and experiences of having a baby in Australia, comparing public and private healthcare options. It covers everything from medical procedures to hidden expenses and personal insights. In this episode, we explore the realities of postpartum recovery, birth experiences, and the emotional journey of new motherhood, sharing personal stories and practical tips. keywords: baby costs Australia, public vs private hospital, pregnancy expenses, childbirth experience, healthcare costs, Australian maternity, pregnancy tips, birth costs, hospital tour, postpartum care postpartum, birth experiences, motherhood, recovery, natural birth, C-section, breastfeeding, mental health, parenting tips key topics Cost differences between public and private hospitalsHidden expenses in childbirth in AustraliaMedical procedures and their costs during laborPostpartum care and unexpected expensesPersonal experiences of childbirth in different systems Postpartum recovery experiencesDifferences between natural birth and C-sectionEmotional and physical challenges after birthPractical tips for postpartum careImpact of social media on new mothersPublic hospital childbirth is not free and involves unexpected costs.Private care offers more control but at a significantly higher price.Many costs are hidden until after appointments or procedures.Preparation and understanding costs can reduce stress during pregnancy.Postpartum expenses include pediatrician visits and medications. Healing times vary greatly between natural birth and C-sectionPostpartum bleeding can last up to six weeks and is a trauma responseSupport from family and friends is crucial during postpartumSocial media can create unrealistic expectations for new mothersPreparation and realistic expectations help manage postpartum challenges Takeaways: Public hospital childbirth is not free and involves unexpected costs.Private care offers more control but at a significantly higher price.Many costs are hidden until after appointments or procedures.Preparation and understanding costs can reduce stress during pregnancy.Postpartum expenses include pediatrician visits and medications. Healing times vary greatly between natural birth and C-sectionPostpartum bleeding can last up to six weeks and is a trauma responseSupport from family and friends is crucial during postpartumSocial media can create unrealistic expectations for new mothersPreparation and realistic expectations help manage postpartum challenges Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to the Cost of Having a Baby in Australia 00:02 Public vs. Private Birth Experiences 02:13 Understanding Public Hospital Costs 10:46 Private Hospital Costs and Experiences 28:07 The Induction Experience 32:56 Understanding Labor Pain 45:26 Postpartum Care and Recovery 01:14:04 The Financial Aspects of New Parenthood 01:15:22 Appointment Wait Times: Public vs. Private Care 01:18:49 Choosing the Right OB: Research and Recommendations 01:20:03 The Importance of Support: Shared Experiences 01:21:45 Conception Journey: The Stress of Trying 01:33:20 The Transition to Parenthood 01:40:17 The Reality of Motherhood 01:42:34 Social Media and Parenting Pressure

  2. Jul 27

    Why Everyone Needs a Hobby (and why we stop having them)

    Welcome back to the Still Her Podcast! On today's episode I explore the importance of hobbies in our lives, how they are often sidelined by adult responsibilities, and why reconnecting with them can boost mental health and personal fulfilment. Chapters 🎧 ♥️ 00:00 Introduction: The Shift from Childhood Hobbies to Adult Responsibilities 01:00 The Social Norms and Judgments Around Asking About Work 01:56 Hobbies as a Luxury or a Necessity for Happiness 02:47 The Risks of Turning Hobbies into Side Hustles 04:14 Personal Story: Lashing as a Hobby and Side Hustle 05:59 When Passion Turns into Burnout and Loss of Interest 06:56 The Changing Nature of Hobbies with Age and Responsibilities 08:51 The Guilt and Pressure to Be Productive 09:49 Social Media's Role in Shaping Our Perception of Success 11:48 The Toxic Mindset of Needing to Be Good at Something to Enjoy It 13:02 The Benefits of Hobbies for Mental Health and Self-Expression 13:57 Hobbies as a Source of Hope, Joy, and Break from Screens 15:01 Learning New Skills and Building Confidence Through Hobbies 15:57 Hobbies as a Social and Mental Health Booster 16:55 Personal Reflection: The Therapeutic Power of Focused Hobbies 18:12 Encouragement to Pursue Passions Without Judgment 19:08 The Importance of Doing Hobbies for Yourself 20:07 Challenge: Revisit an Old Hobby or Try Something New 20:56 Closing: Share Your Hobby Stories and Stay Connected Business Email: stillherpodcast26@gmail.com

    Why Everyone Needs a Hobby (and why we stop having them)
  3. Jul 20

    Millennial Mum Chat | Labour, and Unexpected C-Section & Surviving the Newborn Trenches

    Welcome to the very first episode of Millennial Mum Chat—a new series where I sit down with fellow mums for honest, unfiltered conversations about motherhood, life, and everything in between. In this episode, I'm joined by my beautiful friend as she shares her journey through pregnancy, labour, an unexpected C-section, and those unforgettable newborn trench days. We chat about what happened when her birth didn't go to plan, the emotions that came with becoming a mum, and what those first few weeks at home were really like. From sleepless nights and recovery to the moments that made us laugh (and cry), this is an honest conversation about the realities of early motherhood—without the filters or the pressure to have it all figured out. Whether you're expecting, deep in the newborn stage, or simply love hearing real birth stories, we hope this episode reminds you that every motherhood journey is different, and you're never alone. Grab a coffee, get comfortable, and join us for our very first Millennial Mum Chat. 💛 🎧 Chapters ☕️ 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 01:59 Reconnecting with old friends and shared experiences 08:03 Pregnancy announcement and initial reactions 13:00 First signs of labor and hospital journey 22:02 Labor details: contractions, epidural, and complications 31:57 Emergency C-section and postpartum challenges 36:59 Partner support and reflections on the birth experience Business Email: stillherpodcast26@gmail.com

    Millennial Mum Chat | Labour, and Unexpected C-Section & Surviving the Newborn Trenches

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You became a mum. You didn't stop being you. ⭐︎ Join me each week, this is a space for the mums who are figuring it out in real time: matrescene, relationships, friendships, mental load, and the ongoing projects of staying yourself while everything else changes. 🍸 No polished parenting advice. I'm just a millennial mum figuring it all out, I'm still her, the girl who loves beauty and travelling. New Episode every Tuesday 🎧