Your Bish Therapist

Melissa Reich

Melissa Reich, M.A. is a therapist turned pop culture enthusiast. Melissa earned a B.A. in Psychology and an M.A. in Clinical Psychology. Melissa provides clinical interpretations based on observable behaviors in the media, while building a community along the way. Welcome!  Full video content can be viewed on @yourbishtherapist YouTube channel, Patreon and Spotify Disclaimer: Posts are not intended to diagnose, treat or provide medical advice. Your Bish Therapist (YBT) is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The podcast, my opinions, and posts, are my own and are not associated with past or present employers, any organizations, Bravo TV, Grey Heart productions or any other television network. The information in YBT podcast and on its its social media is provided for general informational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat. Please do not act or refrain from acting based on anything you read, see, or hear on YBT, podcast or associated social media. Communicating with YBT via email, and/or social media does not form a therapeutic alliance. Melissa, operator of YBT, is unable to provide any therapeutic advice, treatment or feedback. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/your-bish-therapist--6065109/support.

  1. 1d ago

    Darling, Bish Hour: SLOMW S5: Part One

    Content Warning: Discussion of SA, DV, Narcissistic Abuse and Child Abuse What happens when the secrets of a seemingly perfect life unravel? Join Melissa Reich and Amy Phillips in the season 7 premiere of *Darling Bish Hour* as they dive deep into the unfiltered realities of the reality show *Secret Lives of Mormon Wives* Season 5. This episode reveals the turbulent emotional landscapes of the characters, exploring themes that resonate with anyone grappling with their own past traumas.      With poignant insights, Melissa and Amy tackle the complexities of relationships marked by addiction, abuse, and the weight of generational trauma. They uncover the stories behind Taylor and Dakota's tumultuous romance, discussing love addiction, narcissistic abuse and DARVO   You'll discover:   Why attachment styles matter more in shaping our relationships.   The psychological impact of parental neglect and abuse, and how it manifests in adult behavior.   The concept of DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender) and its relevance in the show’s narrative.   Real-life implications of the characters’ struggles, providing a mirror for listeners to reflect on their own experiences.      The stakes are high—failing to recognize the patterns of trauma can lead to repeating cycles of dysfunction in our own lives. This discussion is not just about entertainment; it’s a chance to gain critical insights into emotional health and healing.      Whether you're a fan of reality TV or someone looking to understand the deeper psychological themes in our lives, this episode is essential listening. Melissa and Amy’s candid conversation will leave you questioning your own narratives while providing the tools to confront your past. Tune in and get ready to unravel the complexities of love and trauma like never before. THANK YOU FOR LISTENING and for all the support! Please follow ‘Your Bish Therapist’ podcast; please give a 5-star comment & rating (it really helps!) Please follow @yourbishtherapist on Instagram and Patreon For full video (ad free, early release, full video & bonus content) visit YBT Patreon, Spreaker Supporters Club or YouTube Patreon (Ad Free, Early Release, Full Video, Bonus Content) https://patreon.com/YourBishTherapist?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Apple Podcast (Ad Free): https://apple.co/3Mfskze Spreaker Supporters club (Ad Free, Early Release):  https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/your-bish-therapist--6065109/support YouTube (Full Video): https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCu8bmVPTlWANg5v7rGRJjow?subconfirmation=1 To find links to all YBT content: https://linktr.ee/yourbishtherapist Brand Ambassador: www.Iamhumanthebrand.com for clothing with a purpose. Code BISH20 for 20% off purchase   Disclaimer: Posts are not intended to diagnose, treat or provide medical advice. Your Bish Therapist (YBT) is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The podcast, my opinions, and posts, are my own and are not associated with past or present employers, any organizations, Bravo TV, Grey Heart productions or any other television network. The information in YBT podcast and on its its social media is provided for general informational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat. Please do not act or refrain from acting based on anything you read, see, or hear on YBT, podcast or associated social media. Communicating with YBT via email, and/or social media does not form a therapeutic alliance. Melissa, operator of YBT, is unable to provide any therapeutic advice, treatment or feedback.

  2. 1d ago

    Darling, Bish Hour: SLOMW S5: Part Two

    Taylor and Dakota’s story is more than reality-TV drama. Melissa and Amy continue to unpack the Secret Lives of Mormon Wives storyline through a trauma-informed lens, exploring how manipulation, accountability, and unresolved pain can shape relationships—and why context matters.   The conversation breaks down emotional flashbacks, DARVO (deny, attack, reverse victim and offender), reactive abuse, and the fight, flight, freeze, and fawn responses. Melissa and Amy also discuss how unhealthy relationship patterns can affect children, friendships, self-worth, and the ability to feel safe. They look beyond Taylor and Dakota to Layla, Mikayla, and Jen, touching on eating-disorder recovery, sexual abuse, intimacy, body image, and the pressures of life in the public eye. This candid discussion balances compassion with accountability and offers a reminder that healing is possible—and support is available. At the end, Melissa shares resources for people seeking help with domestic violence, substance use, and sex and love addiction.   THANK YOU FOR LISTENING and for all the support! Please follow ‘Your Bish Therapist’ podcast; please give a 5-star comment & rating (it really helps!) Please follow @yourbishtherapist on Instagram and Patreon For full video (ad free, early release, full video & bonus content) visit YBT Patreon, Spreaker Supporters Club or YouTube Patreon (Ad Free, Early Release, Full Video, Bonus Content) https://patreon.com/YourBishTherapist?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Apple Podcast (Ad Free): https://apple.co/3Mfskze Spreaker Supporters club (Ad Free, Early Release):  https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/your-bish-therapist--6065109/support YouTube (Full Video): https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCu8bmVPTlWANg5v7rGRJjow?subconfirmation=1 To find links to all YBT content: https://linktr.ee/yourbishtherapist Brand Ambassador: www.Iamhumanthebrand.com for clothing with a purpose. Code BISH20 for 20% off purchase   Disclaimer: Posts are not intended to diagnose, treat or provide medical advice. Your Bish Therapist (YBT) is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The podcast, my opinions, and posts, are my own and are not associated with past or present employers, any organizations, Bravo TV, Grey Heart productions or any other television network. The information in YBT podcast and on its its social media is provided for general informational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat. Please do not act or refrain from acting based on anything you read, see, or hear on YBT, podcast or associated social media. Communicating with YBT via email, and/or social media does not form a therapeutic alliance. Melissa, operator of YBT, is unable to provide any therapeutic advice, treatment or feedback.

  3. Aug 21

    Bite Size Bish: The Valley Reunion Pt. 3

    In the Season 6 finale, Melissa AKA YBT dives deep into the emotionally charged topics that emerged from the Valley Reunion Part Three. Join Melissa as she unpacks the complexities of addiction and accountability through the lens of the reunion's most striking moments. With raw honesty, she examines Danny's troubled relationship with alcohol, highlighting how his denial and lack of ownership jeopardize not only his recovery but also the well-being of those around him.   With her signature blend of humor and candor, Melissa offers not just observations, but calls to action. This is essential listening for anyone wanting to understand the intricacies of addiction and recovery while having a reality TV Kiki. Tune in to gain insight that could transform your perspective and empower those around you. THANK YOU FOR LISTENING and for all the support! Please follow ‘Your Bish Therapist’ podcast; please give a 5-star comment & rating (it really helps!) Please follow @yourbishtherapist on Instagram and Patreon For full video (ad free, early release, full video & bonus content) visit YBT Patreon, Spreaker Supporters Club or YouTube Patreon (Ad Free, Early Release, Full Video, Bonus Content) https://patreon.com/YourBishTherapist?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Apple Podcast (Ad Free): https://apple.co/3Mfskze Spreaker Supporters club (Ad Free, Early Release):  https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/your-bish-therapist--6065109/support YouTube (Full Video): https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCu8bmVPTlWANg5v7rGRJjow?subconfirmation=1 To find links to all YBT content: https://linktr.ee/yourbishtherapist Brand Ambassador: www.Iamhumanthebrand.com for clothing with a purpose. Code BISH20 for 20% off purchase Disclaimer: Posts are not intended to diagnose, treat or provide medical advice. Your Bish Therapist (YBT) is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The podcast, my opinions, and posts, are my own and are not associated with past or present employers, any organizations, Bravo TV, Grey Heart productions or any other television network. The information in YBT podcast and on its its social media is provided for general informational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat. Please do not act or refrain from acting based on anything you read, see, or hear on YBT, podcast or associated social media. Communicating with YBT via email, and/or social media does not form a therapeutic alliance. Melissa, operator of YBT, is unable to provide any therapeutic advice, treatment or feedback.

  4. Aug 18

    House of Stassi and The Valley with Caitlin Marshall

    In the season finale of *Your Bish Therapist*, Melissa Reich is joined by her best friend and fellow content creator Caitlin Marshall for an intimate conversation that dives deep into the world of reality TV and personal resilience. Caitlin shares her recent experience at the premiere of *House of Stasi*, revealing the unfiltered emotions behind the scenes and why this show resonates with so many people today. You'll discover how Caitlin navigates the often chaotic landscape of content creation, provides behind-the-scenes insights from the premiere, and shares her admiration for Stassi Schroeder's evolution as a public figure. Join us as we break down key moments from the event, You’ll hear about how meaningful conversations with Stassi helped reshape her perspective on reality TV's impact on personal narratives. Perfect for fans of reality TV, aspiring creators, and anyone passionate about authenticity in storytelling, this episode is essential listening. Tune in to uncover the heart behind the hustle and the real lives that inspire the drama we love to watch. THANK YOU FOR LISTENING and for all the support! Please follow ‘Your Bish Therapist’ podcast; please give a 5-star comment & rating (it really helps!) Please follow @bestiesbycaitlin and @yourbishtherapist on Instagram and Patreon For full video (ad free, early release, full video & bonus content) visit YBT Patreon, Spreaker Supporters Club or YouTube Patreon (Ad Free, Early Release, Full Video, Bonus Content) https://patreon.com/YourBishTherapist?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Apple Podcast (Ad Free): https://apple.co/3Mfskze Spreaker Supporters club (Ad Free, Early Release):  https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/your-bish-therapist--6065109/support YouTube (Full Video): https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCu8bmVPTlWANg5v7rGRJjow?subconfirmation=1 To find links to all YBT content: https://linktr.ee/yourbishtherapist Brand Ambassador: www.Iamhumanthebrand.com for clothing with a purpose. Code BISH20 for 20% off purchase Disclaimer: Posts are not intended to diagnose, treat or provide medical advice. Your Bish Therapist (YBT) is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The podcast, my opinions, and posts, are my own and are not associated with past or present employers, any organizations, Bravo TV, Grey Heart productions or any other television network. The information in YBT podcast and on its its social media is provided for general informational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat. Please do not act or refrain from acting based on anything you read, see, or hear on YBT, podcast or associated social media. Communicating with YBT via email, and/or social media does not form a therapeutic alliance. Melissa, operator of YBT, is unable to provide any therapeutic advice, treatment or feedback.

  5. Aug 14

    Personal Updates and The Valley reunion pt. 2

    Initially Melissa provides updates about recent health issues, plans for the podcast and ways to support. She then discusses the second part of The Valley reunion breaking down Luke, Danny and Jesse’s behaviors. If you are feeling overwhelmed by health challenges and love Bravo, Join Melissa in this candid episode as she shares her raw journey through complex health issues, the emotional toll of medical trauma, and the importance of community support. She highlights the significance of self-advocacy in healthcare and shares practical advice for managing anxiety and trauma in medical settings. You’ll learn how to harness your own resilience, no matter how life throws you curveballs.  THANK YOU FOR LISTENING and for all the support! Please follow ‘Your Bish Therapist’ podcast; please give a 5-star comment & rating (it really helps!) Please follow @yourbishtherapist on Instagram and Patreon For full video (ad free, early release, full video & bonus content) visit YBT Patreon, Spreaker Supporters Club or YouTube Patreon (Ad Free, Early Release, Full Video, Bonus Content) https://patreon.com/YourBishTherapist?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Apple Podcast (Ad Free): https://apple.co/3Mfskze Spreaker Supporters club (Ad Free, Early Release):  https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/your-bish-therapist--6065109/support YouTube (Full Video): https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCu8bmVPTlWANg5v7rGRJjow?subconfirmation=1 To find links to all YBT content: https://linktr.ee/yourbishtherapist Brand Ambassador: www.Iamhumanthebrand.com for clothing with a purpose. Code BISH20 for 20% off purchase Disclaimer: Posts are not intended to diagnose, treat or provide medical advice. Your Bish Therapist (YBT) is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The podcast, my opinions, and posts, are my own and are not associated with past or present employers, any organizations, Bravo TV, Grey Heart productions or any other television network. The information in YBT podcast and on its its social media is provided for general informational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat. Please do not act or refrain from acting based on anything you read, see, or hear on YBT, podcast or associated social media. Communicating with YBT via email, and/or social media does not form a therapeutic alliance. Melissa, operator of YBT, is unable to provide any therapeutic advice, treatment or feedback.

  6. Aug 11

    The Valley, Next Gen NYC & Netflix’s ‘A Toxic Love Story’ with Lyndsay Lime

    Dive headfirst into the chaotic world of reality TV with Melissa and Lyndsay as they unravel the twisted love story behind Netflix's *Toxic Love Story*. This episode is a must-listen for anyone who’s ever wondered how far love can go—or how toxic it can get.    Melissa kicks off the conversation by dissecting the dark themes that have recently engulfed the Bravo sphere, while Lyndsay brings her expert analysis from *Recap Rodeo* to shed light on the unscripted drama that makes reality TV so compelling. Together, they explore the ins and outs of the *Toxic Love Story*, revealing shocking insights Netflix left out, and even share hilarious social media memes that perfectly illustrate the characters involved.  This episode is essential listening for reality TV aficionados and anyone interested in the intersections of entertainment and mental health. Join Melissa and Lyndsay for a conversation that is as enlightening as it is entertaining—because sometimes, the truth is stranger than fiction.  THANK YOU FOR LISTENING and for all the support! Please follow ‘Recap Rodeo’ and ‘Your Bish Therapist’ podcast; please give a 5-star comment & rating (it really helps!) Please follow @vanderpodrecaps, @recaprodeo and @yourbishtherapist on Instagram and Patreon For full video (ad free, early release, full video & bonus content) visit YBT Patreon, Spreaker Supporters Club or YouTube  Patreon (Ad Free, Early Release, Full Video, Bonus Content) https://patreon.com/YourBishTherapist?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Apple Podcast (Ad Free): https://apple.co/3Mfskze Spreaker Supporters club (Ad Free, Early Release):  https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/your-bish-therapist--6065109/support YouTube (Full Video): https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCu8bmVPTlWANg5v7rGRJjow?subconfirmation=1 To find links to all YBT content: https://linktr.ee/yourbishtherapist Brand Ambassador: www.Iamhumanthebrand.com for clothing with a purpose. Code BISH20 for 20% off purchase  Disclaimer: Posts are not intended to diagnose, treat or provide medical advice. Your Bish Therapist (YBT) is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The podcast, my opinions, and posts, are my own and are not associated with past or present employers, any organizations, Bravo TV, Grey Heart productions or any other television network. The information in YBT podcast and on its its social media is provided for general informational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat. Please do not act or refrain from acting based on anything you read, see, or hear on YBT, podcast or associated social media. Communicating with YBT via email, and/or social media does not form a therapeutic alliance. Melissa, operator of YBT, is unable to provide any therapeutic advice, treatment or feedback.

  7. Aug 7

    Darling, Bish Hour: The Lindsay Clancy Case

    In this powerful episode, Melissa Reich and Amy Phillips tackle the topic of postpartum psychosis, shedding light on an often misunderstood and stigmatized mental health condition. If you or someone you know has recently given birth and is struggling with overwhelming thoughts or anxiety, this conversation is essential listening. Melissa, a licensed therapist, dives deep into the clinical aspects of postpartum psychosis, providing clarity on its symptoms and implications. Amy shares her personal journey with postpartum anxiety, recounting her experiences with intrusive thoughts. Together, they unravel the complexities of maternal mental health, emphasizing the critical need for open conversations and support for new mothers. Tune in for this enlightening discussion—perfect for new parents, mental health advocates, and anyone looking to foster a deeper understanding of maternal mental health. Don't miss this chance to empower yourself or someone you love with knowledge that could change lives.  THANK YOU FOR LISTENING and for all the support! Please follow ‘Drama, Darling’ and ‘Your Bish Therapist’ podcast; please give a 5-star comment & rating (it really helps!) Please follow @meetamyphillips and @yourbishtherapist on Instagram and Patreon For full video (ad free, early release, full video & bonus content) visit YBT Patreon, Spreaker Supporters Club or YouTube Patreon (Ad Free, Early Release, Full Video, Bonus Content) https://patreon.com/YourBishTherapist?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Apple Podcast (Ad Free): https://apple.co/3Mfskze Spreaker Supporters club (Ad Free, Early Release):  https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/your-bish-therapist--6065109/support YouTube (Full Video): https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCu8bmVPTlWANg5v7rGRJjow?subconfirmation=1 To find links to all YBT content: https://linktr.ee/yourbishtherapist Brand Ambassador: www.Iamhumanthebrand.com for clothing with a purpose. Code BISH20 for 20% off purchase Disclaimer: Posts are not intended to diagnose, treat or provide medical advice. Your Bish Therapist (YBT) is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The podcast, my opinions, and posts, are my own and are not associated with past or present employers, any organizations, Bravo TV, Grey Heart productions or any other television network. The information in YBT podcast and on its its social media is provided for general informational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat. Please do not act or refrain from acting based on anything you read, see, or hear on YBT, podcast or associated social media. Communicating with YBT via email, and/or social media does not form a therapeutic alliance. Melissa, operator of YBT, is unable to provide any therapeutic advice, treatment or feedback.

  8. Aug 4 ·  Bonus

    M&M Hour Pt. 1: In the City and the Valley

    Mandy and Melissa cover in the city and the Valley on Mandy's podcast 'Is this real life' with Mandy Slutsker THANK YOU FOR LISTENING and for all the support!  Please follow ‘Is this Real Life’ with Mandy Slutsker and ‘Your Bish Therapist’ podcast; please give a 5-star comment & rating (it really helps!) Please follow @mandyslutsker and @yourbishtherapist on Instagram and Patreon For full video (ad free, early release, full video & bonus content) visit YBT Patreon, Spreaker Supporters Club or YouTube Patreon (Ad Free, Early Release, Full Video, Bonus Content) https://patreon.com/YourBishTherapist?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Apple Podcast (Ad Free): https://apple.co/3Mfskze Spreaker Supporters club (Ad Free, Early Release):  https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/your-bish-therapist--6065109/support YouTube (Full Video): https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCu8bmVPTlWANg5v7rGRJjow?subconfirmation=1 To find links to all YBT content: https://linktr.ee/yourbishtherapist Brand Ambassador: www.Iamhumanthebrand.com for clothing with a purpose. Code BISH20 for 20% off purchase Disclaimer: Posts are not intended to diagnose, treat or provide medical advice. Your Bish Therapist (YBT) is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The podcast, my opinions, and posts, are my own and are not associated with past or present employers, any organizations, Bravo TV, Grey Heart productions or any other television network. The information in YBT podcast and on its its social media is provided for general informational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat. Please do not act or refrain from acting based on anything you read, see, or hear on YBT, podcast or associated social media. Communicating with YBT via email, and/or social media does not form a therapeutic alliance. Melissa, operator of YBT, is unable to provide any therapeutic advice, treatment or feedback.

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Melissa Reich, M.A. is a therapist turned pop culture enthusiast. Melissa earned a B.A. in Psychology and an M.A. in Clinical Psychology. Melissa provides clinical interpretations based on observable behaviors in the media, while building a community along the way. Welcome!  Full video content can be viewed on @yourbishtherapist YouTube channel, Patreon and Spotify Disclaimer: Posts are not intended to diagnose, treat or provide medical advice. Your Bish Therapist (YBT) is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The podcast, my opinions, and posts, are my own and are not associated with past or present employers, any organizations, Bravo TV, Grey Heart productions or any other television network. The information in YBT podcast and on its its social media is provided for general informational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose or treat. Please do not act or refrain from acting based on anything you read, see, or hear on YBT, podcast or associated social media. Communicating with YBT via email, and/or social media does not form a therapeutic alliance. Melissa, operator of YBT, is unable to provide any therapeutic advice, treatment or feedback. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/your-bish-therapist--6065109/support.

Information

  • Creator
    Melissa Reich
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    168
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Copyright Melissa Reich
  • Show Website
    Your Bish Therapist

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