It's Happening For Me

Ellisa McCoy
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Join Ellisa, your Spiritual Life Coach and Gene Keys Expert as she inspires and guides Purpose Seekers and Spiritual Leaders to live their soul's purpose with confidence! Each week we dive into spirituality, personal growth and development, Gene Keys, Akashic Records, and explore the subconscious mind. Through personal stories and experiences learning life's biggest lesson that it is all HAPPENING FOR US. Relatable, warm, and approachable, you belong here!  Let's connect: www.instagram.com/iamellisamae Work with me: https://stan.store/byellisamccoy

  1. Oct 8 ·  Video

    91. when "i need to learn more" becomes a trap

    ✨ WANT ME TO HELP YOU SEE THE GENIUS YOU MIGHT BE MISSING IN YOURSELF? Book your private Genius Decode →https://stan.store/byellisamccoy/p/soul-purpose-gene-keys-recorded-reading ✨ GET YOUR FREE GENE KEYS PROFILE→ https://genekeys.com/free-profile/ Do you ever feel like you need to read one more book, take one more course, get one more certification, or learn just a little bit more before you’re actually qualified to share what you know? And somehow…the more you learn, the more aware you become of everything you DON’T know? In this video, we’re diving into Gene Key 48 and the journey from the Shadow of Inadequacy → the Gift of Resourcefulness → the Siddhi of Wisdom. I’m talking about why inadequacy can run so deep, how it can show up in leadership and business, and why some of the most knowledgeable, deeply resourced people can still struggle to trust what they know. I’m also sharing some of my own experiences with feeling wildly underqualified—even when the external evidence was telling me otherwise—and what I’ve learned about the difference between accumulating more knowledge and actually trusting yourself. Resourcefulness isn’t about having every answer. It’s trusting that when you need an answer, a resource, an idea, or a next step…you’ll be able to meet the moment. We’ll also talk about why I love tools like the Gene Keys, Human Design, and the Akashic Records—not as outside authorities that tell us who we are, but as frameworks that can help us recognize what’s already there and build deeper self-trust. If you’re a lifelong learner, seeker, course-taker, certification collector, or someone who secretly keeps wondering, “Who am I to call myself an expert?”—this one is for you. 🫶 ✨ ABOUT ME I’m Ellisa, a Gene Keys interpreter + teacher obsessed with genius, self-trust, Human Design, business, and figuring out what’s actually YOU—so you can build a life, work, and version of success around that instead of somebody else’s blueprint. Subscribe if you want to go down that rabbit hole with me. 🫶 #GeneKeys #GeneKey48 #HumanDesign #SelfTrust

    91. when "i need to learn more" becomes a trap

  2. Sep 30 ·  Video

    90. you're wasting your gifts TRYING to be perfect

    ✨ WANT ME TO DECODE YOUR GENIUS? Book your private Genius Decode → https://stan.store/byellisamccoy/p/so... ✨  GET YOUR FREE GENE KEYS PROFILE → https://genekeys.com/free-profile/  Perfectionism can look like high standards, discernment, or simply wanting to do your best—but at some point, constantly seeing what needs to be improved can become the very thing keeping you from sharing your gifts.   In this video, we’re diving into Gene Key + Human Design Gate 18 and the journey from Judgment → Integrity → Perfection.  I’m sharing how perfectionism has shown up in my own life, how judgment can turn into procrastination and self-criticism, and why the part of you that can instantly see what could be better might actually be one of your greatest gifts.  We’ll talk about how to work WITH that gift instead of letting it keep you stuck—and I’ll leave you with a few questions to contemplate where perfectionism, judgment, and integrity are showing up in your own life.   Work with me: https://stan.store/byellisamccoy

    90. you're wasting your gifts TRYING to be perfect

  3. Sep 24 ·  Video

    89. How to find your genius in your Gene Keys Profile

    🧬 Want me to personally decode YOUR natural genius? Get your Genius Decode here → https://stan.store/byellisamccoy/p/soul-purpose-gene-keys-recorded-reading ✨ GET YOUR FREE GENE KEYS PROFILE: https://genekeys.com/ Your natural genius can actually be one of the HARDEST things to recognize about yourself because the things that come most naturally to you just feel… normal!!!😂 You might not even realize that the way you think, communicate, solve problems, create, lead or move through the world is something other people don't naturally do the same way. One of my favorite places to look for clues to your genius is your Gene Keys Activation Sequence. 🧬 In this video, I'm walking you through the four spheres — your Life's Work, Evolution, Radiance + Purpose — and, more importantly, how I look at them together. I don't see them as four random pieces of information about you. Together, they start telling the story of your genius. I also walk you through my own Activation Sequence and show you how I can see the SAME underlying genius expressing itself in two completely different parts of my life: my corporate recruiting career + my  business. Your Gene Keys aren't here to hand you a job title or tell you who you're supposed to become. They're giving you clues about what's already there. Your profile gives you something to investigate. Your life gives you the evidence. 🧬✨ ABOUT ME hi my babe 🥰 i'm Ellisa — a Gene Keys teacher + interpreter obsessed with helping you recognize what's distinctly YOU: your natural genius, the way you're built to contribute + what happens when you actually build your life and work around that. around here we talk Gene Keys, Human Design, meaningful work, business, self-trust + all the weird little experiments that teach us who we actually are. 😂 CONNECT WITH ME Instagram → www.instagram.com/iamellisamae Website → https://stan.store/byellisamccoy WORK WITH ME 🧬 Genius Decode → https://stan.store/byellisamccoy/p/soul-purpose-gene-keys-recorded-reading ✨ Prosperity Experience→https://stan.store/byellisamccoy/p/money-and-business-gene-keys-reading--hypnosis-

    89. How to find your genius in your Gene Keys Profile

  4. Sep 18 ·  Video

    88. i QUIT coffee for 21 days & realized I had no idea what my NATURAL energy felt like

    i genuinely NEVER thought i would be the person to stop drinking coffee 😂 i love coffee. like LOVE coffee. it was part of my morning, my workday, my little walks, recording podcasts, doing readings, long drives… everything lol. but i’ve also dealt with headaches + migraines for most of my life, and recently they had gotten to the point where i was getting them constantly. and somewhere along the way i got into this cycle of drinking a ton of caffeine, getting a headache, taking Excedrin (which ALSO has caffeine lol), feeling better and then doing the whole thing over again. so a few weeks ago i finally decided to see what would happen if i stopped. and you guys… i feel SO different. i talk about the first few days of caffeine withdrawal, the brain fog, being absolutely exhausted at my desk 😂, my relationship with addiction + dopamine, sobriety, potentially getting tested for ADHD, and a story about me having an absolutely ridiculous meltdown because Jorge wouldn't stop at Starbucks lol. but the part that has been the most interesting to me is realizing that i didn't actually know what my natural energy felt like. i thought i was someone who needed naps all the time. i thought i was naturally super go-go-go, impatient, always needing to be doing something. i thought coffee helped me have energy. and now i’m realizing my actual baseline is SO much more chill than i thought it was. i still have energy. i still get shit done. i’m still ambitious and excited and very much ME. 😂 but i don’t feel like i’m constantly spiking and crashing anymore. and that realization turned this into something way bigger for me than just quitting coffee. how many things do we do over and over again for YEARS and eventually just decide “this is who i am”? i’m not anti-coffee and i’m definitely not telling you to stop drinking it lol. this has just been one big experiment for me, and i wanted to share what i’ve noticed after 20+ days because i genuinely did not expect to feel this f*****g good. connect on Instagram: www.instagram.com/iamellisamae Get your Genius & Prosperity Decoded: https://stan.store/byellisamccoy

    88. i QUIT coffee for 21 days & realized I had no idea what my NATURAL energy felt like

  5. Sep 14 ·  Video

    87. are you chasing the wrong version of success? LOVING my 9-5 AND ALSO being a business owner

    hi beauty! what does success mean to YOU?  i own a business. i love entrepreneurship. AND… i also love my 9–5. 😂  somewhere along the way, especially in the online business world, quitting your job became this weird milestone that proves you’ve “made it.”  but what if you don’t f*cking want to?   maybe your version of success is a $20M company with employees.  maybe it’s a tiny business you run from your house.  maybe it’s a corporate career AND a creative business.  maybe you want to work 50 hours because you’re f*****g obsessed with your work. maybe you want to work 15.  maybe you want a huge audience. maybe you want 30 incredible clients.   the point isn’t the 9–5. the point is: DID YOU CHOOSE THE LIFE YOU’RE BUILDING?  i think we’ve gotten so busy chasing what success is supposed to look like that we forgot to ask ourselves what we actually f*****g want. 😂  that’s what this video is really about.  ✨  🧬 want to understand what’s distinctly YOU? Decode Your Genius with my Activation Gene Keys Reading!  https://stan.store/byellisamccoy/p/soul-purpose-gene-keys-recorded-reading follow along for for Gene Keys, Human Design, purpose, business + figuring out how to build a life that actually feels like yours. 🤍

    87. are you chasing the wrong version of success? LOVING my 9-5 AND ALSO being a business owner

  6. Sep 10 ·  Video

    86. you are God pretending to be human: Gene Key 0, time travel + embodiment with Jair Griffin

    GUYSSS this conversation was SO freaking good 😭 i sat down with my friend Jair Griffin — artist, musician, poet, 3/6 mental projector Astromancer + genuinely one of my favorite people to listen to talk because his mind just WORKS differently. i’ve experienced Jair’s work myself + every time i talk to him he gives me some completely new way of looking at something i thought i already understood. we talk about his experience growing up Christian + questioning religion from a really young age, how that eventually led him into astrology, Human Design, Gene Keys + metaphysics, and his belief that we are all literally God pretending to be human for a little while. ANDDDD he explains GENE KEY 0 !!! which is his concept of the void — the nothingness that everything came from — and why remembering that underneath all of our charts, identities + stories we are also NOTHING can actually be so freeing. because as much as i freaking love Gene Keys + Human Design, i never want my chart to become another box i put myself in. we also get into something Jair taught me forever ago that i am OBSESSED with: eating your Gene Keys lol. like actually taking all of this information OFF the page + finding ways to experience it through your food, body, movement, rituals + everyday life. and that really became such a big part of this conversation because you can know your entire astrology chart, Human Design + every Gene Key in your profile… but what are you actually DOING with it??? we talk about embodiment, intuition, psychedelics, spirit guides, time travel + Jair’s experiences connecting with past versions of himself, making decisions that change the trajectory of your life, preparing for the opportunities you say you want + why sometimes you have to trust yourself enough to make the audacious decision just because YOU freaking said so. we also get into creativity + one of my FAVORITE things he said: the best art is the stuff you make for YOU. not starting with “what will people like?”not creating for an imaginary audience.making something because YOU love it so freaking much that other people get to experience your love for it too. work with Jair: https://linktr.ee/jairgriffin?utm_source=linktree_profile_share<sid=761142c2-4d0b-467e-a00d-847d440908bf www.instagram.com/jair.the.dragon work with Ellisa, book your Gene Keys Reading, join the Healing Bubble: https://stan.store/byellisamccoy www.instagram.com/iamellisamae

    86. you are God pretending to be human: Gene Key 0, time travel + embodiment with Jair Griffin

  7. Sep 4 ·  Video

    85. SLUT frequency: dark feminine energy, desire + becoming unapologetically YOU with Audrey Rainwater

    okayyyy this episode is a JUICY one. i sat down with my friend Audrey Rainwater — dark feminine astrologer, mentor + pro dominatrix — for a conversation about what it actually looks like to stop dimming the parts of yourself you've been taught are too much. we talk dark feminine energy, SLUT frequency (sexy, lucrative, unstoppable + trailblazer), desire, magnetism, sex work, shame, relationships + what Audrey has learned from having a literal front row seat to the taboo side of human experience. Audrey also shares how motherhood became one of the catalysts for reclaiming her power, how astrology helped her realize that the parts of herself she had been ashamed of were actually connected to her life's work, and why sometimes having a map for WHO YOU ARE is the thing that finally gives you permission to trust yourself. we get into: dark feminine energy + feminine dominancewhy sexy + magnetic doesn't actually LOOK one specific waydesire + pleasure as a pathway back to yourselfsex work, shame + owning an unconventional lifewhat Audrey has learned about men, women + relationships through her workastrology, Lilith + finding confirmation of your life's workand what happens when you finally stop giving a f**k about people's projections and give yourself permission to LIKE WHAT YOU LIKE. this conversation is spicy, honest, fascinating + SO Audrey. 🌶️ work with Audrey: Audreydanae.com work with Ellisa: https://stan.store/byellisamccoy

    85. SLUT frequency: dark feminine energy, desire + becoming unapologetically YOU with Audrey Rainwater

  8. Sep 4 ·  Video

    85. SLUT frequency: dark feminine energy, desire + becoming unapologetically YOU with Audrey Rainwater

    okayyyy this episode is a JUICY one. i sat down with my friend Audrey Rainwater — dark feminine astrologer, mentor + pro dominatrix — for a conversation about what it actually looks like to stop dimming the parts of yourself you've been taught are too much. we talk dark feminine energy, SLUT frequency (sexy, lucrative, unstoppable + trailblazer), desire, magnetism, sex work, shame, relationships + what Audrey has learned from having a literal front row seat to the taboo side of human experience. Audrey also shares how motherhood became one of the catalysts for reclaiming her power, how astrology helped her realize that the parts of herself she had been ashamed of were actually connected to her life's work, and why sometimes having a map for WHO YOU ARE is the thing that finally gives you permission to trust yourself. we get into: dark feminine energy + feminine dominancewhy sexy + magnetic doesn't actually LOOK one specific waydesire + pleasure as a pathway back to yourselfsex work, shame + owning an unconventional lifewhat Audrey has learned about men, women + relationships through her workastrology, Lilith + finding confirmation of your life's workand what happens when you finally stop giving a f**k about people's projections and give yourself permission to LIKE WHAT YOU LIKE. this conversation is spicy, honest, fascinating + SO Audrey🌶️:) work with Audrey: Audreydanae.com work with Ellisa, book your Gene Keys Reading or join the Healing Bubble: https://stan.store/byellisamccoy

    85. SLUT frequency: dark feminine energy, desire + becoming unapologetically YOU with Audrey Rainwater
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Join Ellisa, your Spiritual Life Coach and Gene Keys Expert as she inspires and guides Purpose Seekers and Spiritual Leaders to live their soul's purpose with confidence! Each week we dive into spirituality, personal growth and development, Gene Keys, Akashic Records, and explore the subconscious mind. Through personal stories and experiences learning life's biggest lesson that it is all HAPPENING FOR US. Relatable, warm, and approachable, you belong here!  Let's connect: www.instagram.com/iamellisamae Work with me: https://stan.store/byellisamccoy

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