Engineering leadership quietly breaks the day you stop touching the code. Vasu Raj Jain leads at Amazon Ads without ever leaving the codebase, and in this PreVetted Podcast episode he and Federico Ramallo turn that habit into a full playbook for staying technical, building trust, and putting AI agents in their place.Vasu is a Senior Software Engineer and Engineering Lead at Amazon Ads, where he owns the architecture for ad-serving infrastructure that handles 50M+ requests per second across Prime Video, live sports, shopping, and audio. He directly leads 30 engineers and influences 150+ across the org. He walks through the balancing act at the core of ad tech: advertiser reach, publisher trust, and customer privacy all have to stay in harmony, or the deal falls apart.His path into engineering was almost accidental. A childhood dream of becoming a pilot ended when he failed the National Defense Academy physical over his eyesight; a month of chemical engineering followed before he switched to computer science, co-founded a hyper-local street-food app, and moved from India to the University of Florida on a student exchange, where a theoretical mindset gave way to a builder's one.The heart of the conversation is how he leads without losing the code. Vasu splits a two-week sprint roughly into writing code himself, designing systems, and mentoring, and he deliberately asks his own team to assign him sprint tasks so he understands their execution layer and earns their trust by leading from example.On AI, Vasu and Federico agree hard: agentic AI is a tool, not a replacement for junior engineers. Agents run on your identity and your credentials, so when something breaks the accountability lands on the human who spun them up, never on the agent. Junior engineers bring context, judgment, and a human touch that a tool cannot. They also dig into Federico's thesis that long-tenure teams who hold the business context are what steer agents well, plus his own rule of never letting an agent commit its own code.About Vasu Raj Jain:- https://www.linkedin.com/in/vasujain00/About Federico RamalloFounder of Density Labs, the AI Engineering Partner for the mid-market, helping US companies ship AI to production, backed by a decade of shipping software with distributed engineering teams. Author of The Invisible Distance, the operating system for engineering leaders running teams across borders. Host of The PreVetted Podcast: 150+ conversations with VPs of Engineering, CTOs, and operators on what actually works.- 💼 https://www.linkedin.com/in/framallo/- 🌐 https://densitylabs.io- ✅ https://prevetted.ai🎙 PreVetted Podcast- 🎯 https://prevetted.ai/podcast- 🐦 https://x.com/PrevettedPod- 🔗 https://www.linkedin.com/company/prevetted-podcastTIMESTAMPS:0:00 Serving ads across Amazon at scale3:40 Relevant ads vs customer privacy5:18 Balancing advertisers, publishers, and customers7:37 The pilot dream and the exam that changed everything8:57 Resilience and adaptability12:35 Switching from chemical engineering to CS16:35 From India to the US on a student exchange19:20 Theoretical vs practical: the mindset shift26:51 From individual contributor to engineering lead27:11 Splitting the sprint: code, design, mentor36:22 Handling interruptions with agentic AI40:39 Why agents help humans instead of replacing them41:42 Managing agents vs mentoring junior engineers46:29 Agents are tools; accountability stays human50:16 Advice: never lose touch with the code53:58 Advice for moving from India to the US#EngineeringLeadership #AIAgents #StayingTechnical #TechLeadership #AdTech