Life After I Do Podcast

Life After I Do
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  • Updated Weekly

Marriage and relationships can be tough. You may feel like you’re the only one struggling but you’re not. Life After I do is a weekly podcast where Morice and Kynesha, a black married millennial couple, share their experiences and advice on everything from kids and family to intimacy and connection. Noting is off limits.  In their 24 years together and 10 years of marriage, Morice and Kynesha have learned a lot about what it takes to make a relationship work. They know the importance of communication, trust and commitment. They also know it’s okay to not have it all figured out.  Join them every Wednesday as they talk about their own journey of “Life After I do”.

  1. 2d ago ·  Video

    It’s the Little Things: Consideration in Marriage

    Consideration in marriage is one of those things that can look small from the outside but feel huge inside the relationship. In this episode, Nesha G and Moelethal talk about what it means to truly consider your spouse, from communication, gas in the car, lunch notes, and protecting personal time to recognizing the mental load and not volunteering your partner’s time without asking. The episode opens with Go Birds energy, football stress, Sunday dinner, gym fatigue, books, family moments, and Nesha realizing she may need a proper deload. Then the conversation shifts into how couples can genuinely love each other while still being inconsiderate in ways that create frustration, resentment, or emotional distance. Nesha and Moe also discuss the difference between being considerate and people-pleasing, why small acts can make someone feel deeply loved, and how consideration includes respecting goals, hobbies, rest, communication, and emotional needs. The episode also asks whether you can be a good parent while admitting you sometimes regret becoming one. Our 2 Cents closes with Booski stories about a wife who stopped having regular conversations with her husband after cheating, a husband upset that his wife would not blindly move to Australia, and a wife wondering if she is wrong for flying home to celebrate her birthday instead of driving back from a work convention with her husband. Send us Fan Mail Support the show  Thanks for rocking with us! Don’t forget to follow Life After I Do so you never miss an episode. Got a relationship situation you want us to weigh in on? Hit us at https://beacons.ai/laidpodcast — we just might talk about it in a future episode.

  2. Sep 9 ·  Video

    Our 2 Cents Vol. 40: Call Their Bluff

    Our 2 Cents Vol. 40 relationship advice starts with family, boundaries, money, messy exes, and the hard truth that people will keep taking advantage of you when you keep making room for their behavior. Nesha G and Moelethal respond to Booski stories about siblings inviting themselves over, breakfast bills, screenshots before a wedding, texting married men, separated spouses, and adult children trying to use a future grandbaby as leverage. In this episode, we talk about a sister showing up with her affair partner after her brother just got out of the hospital, a man getting mad after secretly paying for breakfast he could not comfortably afford, and a woman sending proof to her ex’s fiancée two days before the wedding. Nesha and Moe also respond to a wife accused of crossing the line by texting a married male friend about a surprise birthday party and a separated woman who does not care about her husband’s girlfriend being uncomfortable. The episode closes with a Quick Two Cents conversation about when “I’m doing this for my kids” turns into neglecting yourself, plus an update on adult children living rent-free while expecting parents to keep funding their stay-at-home-parent plan. Send us Fan Mail Support the show  Thanks for rocking with us! Don’t forget to follow Life After I Do so you never miss an episode. Got a relationship situation you want us to weigh in on? Hit us at https://beacons.ai/laidpodcast — we just might talk about it in a future episode.

  3. Sep 2 ·  Video

    Setting Boundaries: Parenting Edition

    Setting boundaries with your kids is not about being mean. It is about teaching respect, emotional regulation, responsibility, and the difference between having feelings and acting disrespectfully. In this episode, Nesha G and Moelethal talk about parenting through real life, from broken bones and big feelings to screen-time rules, household standards, and kids learning that every choice has a consequence. The episode opens with a packed family week: Mini-Booski double fractured her foot right as gymnastics season was gearing up, Nesha competed in her first powerlifting competition, hit new platform PRs, and the family pushed through another busy August. From there, the conversation shifts into what it really looks like to set boundaries with children while still making them feel loved, heard, and protected. Nesha and Moe discuss why kids can be upset without being disrespectful, why parents should not make consequences they will not enforce, why screen time and social media need strict limits, and why children need a voice but not always a vote. They also ask whether being the breadwinner is enough of a parenting contribution and close with Our 2 Cents stories about stay-at-home parenting expectations, student loans, and a wedding cake gift that got out of hand. Send us Fan Mail Support the show  Thanks for rocking with us! Don’t forget to follow Life After I Do so you never miss an episode. Got a relationship situation you want us to weigh in on? Hit us at https://beacons.ai/laidpodcast — we just might talk about it in a future episode.

  4. Aug 26 ·  Video

    Our 2 Cents Vol. 39: When Effort Isn’t Enough

    Our 2 Cents Vol. 39 relationship advice starts with a heavy question from a Booski asking what else she can do to save a marriage where she feels like she is carrying the financial load, the mental load, the decision-making, and the intimacy. Nesha G and Moelethal talk through the painful space where love may be real and effort may exist, but the marriage still may not be giving one partner what they need. In this episode, we discuss a wife who feels exhausted after years of repeating herself, a friendship that falls apart over trust, secrecy, and an address, and a single mother trying to remove her name from a house she co-signed for her ex-boyfriend’s mother nine years ago. Nesha and Moe also respond to wedding drama involving a sister’s new boyfriend, a girlfriend upset over a late-night board game hangout, and updates from past Booski stories. This Our 2 Cents episode is about boundaries, accountability, emotional exhaustion, trust, legal protection, family pressure, and knowing when patience has turned into tolerance. Send us Fan Mail Support the show  Thanks for rocking with us! Don’t forget to follow Life After I Do so you never miss an episode. Got a relationship situation you want us to weigh in on? Hit us at https://beacons.ai/laidpodcast — we just might talk about it in a future episode.

  5. Aug 19 ·  Video

    Our 2 Cents Vol. 38: Friends, Affairs, and Consequences

    Our 2 Cents Vol. 38 brings a full lineup of Booski stories about boundaries, friendships, family entitlement, social media expectations, cheating, and the complicated space between support and disrespect. Nesha G and Moelethal respond to situations where people are trying to figure out what is fair, what is messy, and what needs to be addressed before resentment takes over. In this episode, we discuss a mother-in-law treating a summer apartment like it belongs to her, a picky boyfriend refusing frozen food and leftovers, and a woman wondering if her boyfriend should have posted her for her 30th birthday. Nesha and Moe also react to a godmother acting strangely about seeing pictures on a phone, a friend using an inside joke to torment a cheating woman, and a follow-up from the woman involved with her abusive ex-husband’s best friend. The episode also asks whether opposite-sex friendships can work in marriage. Through every story, the answer keeps coming back to boundaries, communication, respect, and whether everyone involved understands the role they are supposed to play. Send us Fan Mail Support the show  Thanks for rocking with us! Don’t forget to follow Life After I Do so you never miss an episode. Got a relationship situation you want us to weigh in on? Hit us at https://beacons.ai/laidpodcast — we just might talk about it in a future episode.

  6. Aug 12 ·  Video

    Temptation

    Temptation in marriage does not disappear just because you love your spouse. In this episode of Life After I Do, Nesha G and Moelethal talk about what temptation looks like, when it becomes dangerous, and why self-control matters more than blaming someone else for being attractive. The conversation covers gym culture, women being called distractions, emotional temptation, social media algorithms, validation, comparison, secrecy, and the difference between noticing someone and crossing a boundary. Nesha and Moe also discuss whether men and women experience temptation differently and whether a strong marriage makes you less tempted or simply better at handling it. Then Our 2 Cents brings listener stories about an affair with an ex-husband’s best friend, a date who wanted to be reimbursed after rejection, and a partner who froze during a violent attack. This episode is funny, honest, layered, and full of the kind of real marriage conversation the Booskis expect. Send us Fan Mail Support the show  Thanks for rocking with us! Don’t forget to follow Life After I Do so you never miss an episode. Got a relationship situation you want us to weigh in on? Hit us at https://beacons.ai/laidpodcast — we just might talk about it in a future episode.

  7. Aug 5 ·  Video

    Would You Stay or Walk Away?

    Would you stay or walk away if your marriage was tested by betrayal, secrecy, emotional distance, debt, family disrespect, or a loss of intimacy? In this episode, Nesha G and Moelethal ask each other the hard relationship questions that most couples hope they never have to answer. From emotional affairs and secret debt to refusing counseling, comparing your spouse to someone else, quitting a job without a plan, and sharing private marital issues with family, this conversation gets into the gray areas of commitment. Some situations are clear deal breakers, while others depend on honesty, accountability, and whether both people are willing to do the work. Nesha and Moe also discuss whether compatibility or commitment matters more in a long-term relationship, why commitment requires growth, and how couples change through different seasons of life. Then Our 2 Cents closes the episode with listener dilemmas about divorce threats, physical intimacy mismatches, and a male friend asking someone’s wife to dinner while her husband is out of town. Send us Fan Mail Support the show  Thanks for rocking with us! Don’t forget to follow Life After I Do so you never miss an episode. Got a relationship situation you want us to weigh in on? Hit us at https://beacons.ai/laidpodcast — we just might talk about it in a future episode.

  8. Jul 29 ·  Video

    Our 2 Cents Vol. 37: When Chores Become Resentment

    Sometimes the smallest things reveal the biggest relationship issues. A trash bag left by the door, a credit card balance that keeps growing, a family dinner seating arrangement, or a visit that goes two hours too long can expose resentment, embarrassment, entitlement, and communication problems that have been building for years. In this episode, we discuss a Booski who needs a clean exit strategy from long visits, a family member humiliated by assigned seats based on weight, and a woman concerned about her fiancé refusing to pay off a manageable credit card balance while they are saving for a home. Nesha G and Moelethal also respond to a young man worried about sexual disconnect three months into his relationship and a wife who finally refuses to take out the trash her husband keeps letting pile up. Through every story, one theme keeps showing up: people cannot expect grace, help, patience, and understanding while refusing accountability. This Our 2 Cents episode is funny, direct, and full of real-life marriage perspective. Send us Fan Mail Support the show  Thanks for rocking with us! Don’t forget to follow Life After I Do so you never miss an episode. Got a relationship situation you want us to weigh in on? Hit us at https://beacons.ai/laidpodcast — we just might talk about it in a future episode.

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Marriage and relationships can be tough. You may feel like you’re the only one struggling but you’re not. Life After I do is a weekly podcast where Morice and Kynesha, a black married millennial couple, share their experiences and advice on everything from kids and family to intimacy and connection. Noting is off limits.  In their 24 years together and 10 years of marriage, Morice and Kynesha have learned a lot about what it takes to make a relationship work. They know the importance of communication, trust and commitment. They also know it’s okay to not have it all figured out.  Join them every Wednesday as they talk about their own journey of “Life After I do”.

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  • Creator
    Life After I Do
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    155
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Life After I Do Podcast
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