Sh*t I Just Quit My Job

Maricella Herrera

Ever stood on the edge of a big decision, wondering if it's the right move? If you've ever wondered, "Is this it?" while gazing at your daily grind, you're not alone. After making it to the top of the company I had worked at for eleven years, I took a leap, and all I could say was, "Sh*t, I just quit my job!" The future's hazy, but many have faced the same uncertainty and come out stronger. We usually hear about their successes after the leap, but what about the messy middle? How'd they find the courage? What were their fears? What would they do differently? And how did they discover what they really wanted? Each week, I'll share stories of people who've taken big leaps, and I'll talk about my own journey. Join us as we explore change, resilience, and finding fulfillment in the unknown. "Sh*t I Just Quit My Job" is your guide to embracing the messy middle and discovering your potential beyond uncertainty. maricellaherrera.substack.com

  1. Stronger Than You Think

    12/12/2025

    Stronger Than You Think

    Two weeks before the Chicago Marathon, Maricella was terrified. Not just about the race—about what it would mean if she finished and felt destroyed, ashamed of her pace, not wanting to run again. In this deeply personal episode, she shares what it's like to show up to something hard while feeling like a fraud. She reads her raw journal entries about training anxiety, works through shame about being "too slow," and tells the story of race day—including the sign that changed everything. This isn't a story about hitting a time goal (she didn't). It's about discovering you're stronger than you thought. About the tools and reminders we need when we forget we're capable. About hope, shame, and doing hard things scared. Maricella shares a tattoo on her leg that says "Braver, Stronger, Smarter"—from Winnie the Pooh, gotten after the hardest moments of her life. She talks about the bracelets she wore during the race, her partner who believed in her when she didn't believe in herself, and what it means to find your strength not in the outcome, but in showing up. This is the final episode of 2025. In this episode: - Pre-race anxiety and the bonking pattern during training - Working through shame about pace and performance - Reading unfiltered journal entries from two weeks before the race - The difference between facts and fears - Hope as fuel vs. tying self-worth to outcomes - Race day: the sign, the nausea, the finish - Feeling strong instead of destroyed - The anchors we carry (bracelets, tattoos, people) - Feeling like a fraud even after accomplishing hard things - Using tools (therapy, journaling, friends, AI) to see clearly - Showing up scared and doing it anyway Mentioned in this episode: Win the Inside Game by Steve Magness SAFE methodology (created by guest Jaqueline Oliveira-Cella) This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit maricellaherrera.substack.com

    43 min
  2. Your Thanksgiving survival tool (no, really)

    11/26/2025

    Your Thanksgiving survival tool (no, really)

    In this special episode, host Maricella Herrera introduces listener calls to the podcast for the first time. She sits down with Jaqueline Oliveira-Cella to test SAFE—an AI-powered emotional awareness tool—on two real workplace scenarios submitted by listeners. SAFE is a methodology that helps people pause and reframe in high-stakes emotional moments at work and in life. The framework stands for Set intentions, Acknowledge facts vs emotions, Frame and reframe, and Execute. In this episode, Maricella and Jackie work through two common workplace challenges: Scenario 1: Navigating a Company ReorgA listener shares their anxiety about job security after their group is acquired by a larger team. They're unsure whether to update their resume, network with the new team, or wait to see how leadership decisions unfold. Using SAFE, they separate facts from feelings, identify what's within their control, and develop concrete micro-actions like "building bridges, not safety nets." Scenario 2: Managing Uncertainty with a New BossAnother listener describes the discomfort of having a new manager who meets with the team before direct reports. They want to make a good first impression but don't know how to introduce themselves without overloading or being absent. SAFE helps them reframe the situation, consider the manager's perspective, and create a thoughtful introduction strategy. Throughout both scenarios, Maricella and Jackie discuss the importance of distinguishing facts from emotions, finding hope and agency in uncertain situations, and taking small, strategic actions rather than waiting passively. They also explore how AI tools like SAFE can augment critical thinking and emotional awareness—not replace human connection. This is Part 1 of a two-part series. Next week, Maricella shares her own experience using SAFE to navigate anxiety before running the Chicago Marathon in October 2024. Topics covered in this episode: Emotional awareness and workplace stress AI-powered tools for mental health and emotional regulation Company reorganizations and job security anxiety Managing relationships with new managers Separating facts from feelings in high-stakes situations Design thinking and AI as augmentation Evidence-based journaling and reflective practices Building resilience during workplace uncertainty TIMESTAMPS: [00:00] Cold open: The "fuck you" moment[01:00] Thanksgiving intro and gratitude[12:30] Conversation with Jackie begins[15:30] What is SAFE? The framework explained[20:30] Why Jackie created SAFE: personal experiences with workplace challenges[26:00] AI as augmentation vs. shortcut: critical thinking and design thinking[28:00] The future of emotional intelligence in an AI world[33:00] Listener Scenario #1: Company reorg and job security anxiety[35:00] Breaking down facts vs. emotions in the reorg scenario[39:00] Hope and agency: what the listener didn't mention[41:00] Micro-actions: Building bridges, not safety nets[46:00] Listener Scenario #2: New manager meeting the team first[48:00] Setting intentions for a first impression[50:00] Reframing: Could this be about fairness, not hierarchy?[52:00] Micro-actions: Draft an intro note, observe and listen[57:00] Asking SAFE about talking to the team[59:00] What's next for SAFE and closing thoughts LINKS & RESOURCES: Try SAFE for yourself (free on ChatGPT): https://chatgpt.com/g/g-68c2e478cba88191b31bf8e906de103f-s-a-f-e-leadership-daily-reflections Connect with Jaqueline Oliveira-Cella on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaquelineoc/ Previous episode with Jackie: https://maricellaherrera.substack.com/p/sht-i-had-a-midlife-awakening SUBMIT YOUR SITUATION:Listeners can leave a voice note at (646) 902-1426 or email quitymyjobpod@gmail.com to share workplace challenges for potential future episodes. GUEST BIO: Jaqueline Oliveira Cella inspires you to shift discomfort into purpose-driven action. She brings over 15 years of experience in US and global health, wealth, and wellbeing sectors, specializing in developing client-centric solutions, health equity, and risk management. Jaqueline has a proven track record of empowering employees and enhancing corporate wellness programs As the founder of wellBe consulting, Jaqueline co-creates and advises healthcare corporations on innovating health and wellbeing solutions for employers, establishing strategic partnerships, and rethinking their go-to-market strategies and key performance indicators. Her recent executive education at Harvard Medical School and her actuarial and business background further empower her to drive meaningful, impactful changes. Driven by her passion for purpose-driven action, Jaqueline created the 'Health at Work' initiative. Collaborations cover top health risk concerns topics such as Burnout in the Healthcare System, Culture & AI, Diabetes at Work, Busyness & Food, Mindful Inclusion, Menopause at Work, Measurable Inclusion & People Analytics.  ‘Health at Work’ collaborations are promoted through LinkedIn, a social initiative, extending the reach of her work to help employees advocate for their health in the workplace, and build sustable organizations by assisting employers in navigating significant health challenges with data-driven and actionable insights. KEYWORDS: emotional awareness, workplace anxiety, AI tools for mental health, company reorganization, managing new managers, SAFE framework, emotional intelligence, career transitions, job security, workplace stress, reflective journaling, ChatGPT for emotional awareness, reframing workplace challenges This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit maricellaherrera.substack.com

    1h 1m
  3. When Your Body Says Nope

    11/10/2025

    When Your Body Says Nope

    After 20 years in public child welfare, Angel Rodriguez thought she’d retire there. She was trying to revolutionize the system from the inside—building new programs, fighting bureaucracy, making change however she could. Then, at 40, an epilepsy diagnosis forced a different question: could she even keep going? In this conversation, we talk about what it’s like to go from trying to fix a broken system to realizing you first have to take care of yourself—and what it takes to start over when you thought you had it all figured out. Some highlights: * Her first thought after a grand mal seizure at 40: “I thought I was gonna go back to work the next week” * The realization that changed everything after applying to many jobs with no luck: “Maybe I’m not getting these jobs because there’s something else. I’m an expert. I should just say that.” * On untethering from her title after 23 years: “I am me whether I work for someone else, whether I work for myself, whether I am not working at all. I’m just me.” * What she’d tell herself looking back: “Be kind to yourself. You’re gonna be okay. And this is not everything about who you are.” ✨ About Angel Rodriguez: Angel Rodriguez, MSSA Co-Founder & CEO, rfc21 Angel Rodriguez is an Expert Social Worker and Innovator with over 20 years of experience transforming public child welfare systems. As Co-Founder and CEO of rfc21, she leads with heart and strategy – offering leadership coaching, curriculum design, grant management support, and expert witness services. A proud Latina and fierce advocate for equity in communities of color, Angel also serves as the Vice President on a nonprofit board in Los Angeles. She is the Director of Circles for Lean In Latinas and finds great joy in serving her community by being a changemaker. Outside of work, she loves practicing Pilates, exploring new cities, eating local cuisine, and cheering on her favorite hockey team. She lives in Los Angeles with her wife and their two adorable dogs. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit maricellaherrera.substack.com

    55 min
  4. Nothing Pretty About Staying Quiet

    09/26/2025

    Nothing Pretty About Staying Quiet

    This week I’m back with my first repeat guest, author, speaker, and DEI advocate Hady Mendez. We’re talking about her new book Calladita No More. The title flips the saying “calladita te ves más bonita” (you’re prettier when you’re quiet), and so does our conversation. We get into Hady’s journey from leading DEI inside corporate America to carving her own entrepreneurial path, what it really means to advocate for yourself, and why ERGs and cultural identity matter more than ever. Hady also pulls back the curtain on writing and hybrid publishing her book, building a Latina-powered team to make it happen, and the refranes and stories that shaped her voice. With personal anecdotes, refranes, and heartfelt conversations, this episode offers a deep dive into rethinking identity and the power of speaking out. 00:00 Intro clip 01:03 Introducing Hady Menez 01:36 Hady's Book: Calladita No More 04:16 Understanding DEI and ERGs 06:23 Cultural Reflections and Personal Growth 10:50 Hady's Journey as an Author 16:40 Entrepreneurial Challenges and Lessons 17:32 The Evolution of DEI and ERGs 21:43 Navigating Business and Personal Identity 26:39 Power Sessions for Mujeres 30:30 The Book: Calladita No More 31:09 Sharing Stories and Wisdom 32:00 Cultural Identity and Refranes 32:41 The Book's Structure and Purpose 35:35 Navigating Naysayers and Staying True 42:56 Hybrid Publishing Journey 48:09 Building a Supportive Team 50:46 Personal Reflections and Challenges 53:29 Final Thoughts and Recommendations About Hady Mendez:Hady Mendez is a NY-based bestselling author, Latina speaker, and ERG coach. She currently serves as the Director of Programs for Lean In Latinas. She is also the founder and CEO of Boldly Speaking LLC, a company that is transforming the professional experiences of underestimated professionals by providing them with the skills to rise and thrive in the corporate world or in whatever path they choose. With a diverse career spanning over twenty-five years, Hady has served as head of equality for a major tech firm, held multiple customer-facing roles in high tech and financial services, served as a leader and advisor across various ERGs, dedicated two years to working with incarcerated and formerly incarcerated women internationally, and served as Community School Director at an elementary school in the South Bronx. Hady’s essays have been featured in Business Insider and #WeAllGrow Latina and her thought leadership has been leveraged by organizations such as Lean In Latinas, Power To Fly, Prospanica, and many others. Hady is a Latinas in Tech Luminarias 2022 honoree, a Women of ALPFA 2023 Latinas to Watch, a 2024 LinkedIn Top Coaching & Mentoring Voice, and the recipient of HACE’s 2025 Mujer Maravilla Award. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit maricellaherrera.substack.com

    58 min
  5. Where Do You Attach Your Self-Worth?

    09/10/2025

    Where Do You Attach Your Self-Worth?

    Is your self-worth tied to the job you hold, the craft you practice, or the results you deliver? In this episode, Maricella Herrera sits down with Kira Shishkin, serial entrepreneur and founder of informed, to explore how we measure who we are through our work, why outcomes don’t always equal worth, and what happens in the messy middle of building something new. We also dive into the mental health cost of “trigger news” and how informed is rethinking the way we consume information. Key Topics: * The difference between a “job” and a “craft,” and why that distinction matters for self-worth * How growing up in Ukraine, Israel, and the US shaped Kira’s perspective on truth, trust, and information warfare * The journey from high finance to entrepreneurship, and the lessons learned along the way * Frameworks for thinking about identity, self-worth, and the risks of tying them to career outcomes * The “messy middle” of building a company: pivots, doubt, and the blackout moments no one talks about * The origin story of Informed: why Kira set out to create a bias-free, minimalist news service * The impact of “trigger news” and clickbait on mental health and polarization * How Informed curates world-shaping news for everyday people, and the philosophy behind their editorial choices * The evolution of success: from personal achievement to empowering others Notable Quotes: * “You date the solution, you marry the problem.” * “It’s not about you. It’s about your end customer, your end user, and how you can make their life better.” * “Trigger news corrupts the mind. It’s not just about information, it’s about how it’s delivered.” Connect with Us: * Instagram: @quitmyjobpod * Email: quitmyjobpod@gmail.com * Subscribe on Substack for updates and extras If you enjoyed this episode, please follow, subscribe, and leave a review! This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit maricellaherrera.substack.com

    1h 12m
4.6
out of 5
19 Ratings

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Ever stood on the edge of a big decision, wondering if it's the right move? If you've ever wondered, "Is this it?" while gazing at your daily grind, you're not alone. After making it to the top of the company I had worked at for eleven years, I took a leap, and all I could say was, "Sh*t, I just quit my job!" The future's hazy, but many have faced the same uncertainty and come out stronger. We usually hear about their successes after the leap, but what about the messy middle? How'd they find the courage? What were their fears? What would they do differently? And how did they discover what they really wanted? Each week, I'll share stories of people who've taken big leaps, and I'll talk about my own journey. Join us as we explore change, resilience, and finding fulfillment in the unknown. "Sh*t I Just Quit My Job" is your guide to embracing the messy middle and discovering your potential beyond uncertainty. maricellaherrera.substack.com