Sh*t I Just Quit My Job

Maricella Herrera

Sh*I Just Quit My Job is a podcast about the questions that surface when life stops making sense: Is this it? What do I really want? Who am I if I’m not defined by my work, my old story, or other people’s expectations of me? Through candid conversations and personal reflections, host Maricella Herrera sits with the uncertainty and explores what it takes to build a life that feels more honest, joyful, and real.

  1. APR 9

    The Proof Is in the Pictures

    What if figuring out who you want to be doesn't start with imagining your future self — it starts with looking at your past one? In this minisode, Maricella walks through a deceptively simple exercise: scrolling through last year's photos to find the one where you look exactly how you want to feel. What she found was more layered, and more useful, than she expected. From a trip to Greece to a random Tuesday alone in her apartment, this episode gets into how the feeling behind a photo, the memory it holds, and the moment you're in right now are three completely different things. Plus what nostalgia actually is scientifically, why play keeps showing up as the answer, and how to use your past self as an emotional anchor for the person you're becoming. Show Notes: (00:00) Intro (00:38) No Resolutions (01:42) Why Feelings Make For Bad Goals (03:03) Future Self and Manifesting (06:02) The Photos Exercise (07:57) Three Layers in Every Photo (09:54) Greece Trip and Disconnection (12:38) Cat Costume Joy and Buckets (15:22) Oven Broke but I Persisted (18:40) The Through Line Is Play (21:37) Nostalgia and Self Continuity (24:59) Closing the Gap to Future You (26:47) Try It and Final Goodbye (27:59) Outro Subscribe and Connect Takeaways: Go through your photos from the past year and find the one where you look exactly how you want to feel. How you feel right now looking at it is data too.Every photo has three layers: how you look in it, how you feel seeing it now, and how you felt when it was taken. They're not always the same thing.Play isn't just about fun. The moments that light you up are telling you something about what you need more of.Nostalgia isn't only backward-looking. Research suggests it's your brain connecting past you to present you in order to push you toward future you.You don't have to picture an abstract future self. Start with a real past feeling and use it as the anchor. Links: Em on the Brain (Emily McDonald) — Planet Em podcast on Spotify / Apple PodcastsEmily McDonald on What Now? with Trevor Noah — "Can You Rewire Your Brain?"What a Broken Oven Taught Me About Myself — Substack Find Maricella: Substack: https://maricellaherrera.substack.com/Instagram: @quitmyjobpodquitmyjobpod.com

    29 min
  2. The Spiritual Abolitionist

    MAR 26

    The Spiritual Abolitionist

    Host Maricella Herrera introduces a nurturing, candid conversation with Kvon Tucker, CEO and founder of Consciously, a purpose-driven coaching and consulting firm. They discuss fear, courage, and “spiritual abolitionism,” which Kvon defines as helping people release narratives and conditioning that keep them stuck and move toward liberation. Kvon shares his path from studying psychology and workplace behavior to leadership development roles at Netflix, Amazon, and Google. While at Google, he built a coaching practice during the pandemic and new fatherhood, but fear kept him from leaving his full time role. An internal investigation into his online activity and perceived integrity became a breaking point, and he quit on his daughter’s first birthday, later moving toward Costa Rica. Kvon has a vision of helping leaders escape limiting corporate structures. About Kvon Tucker: Kvon Tucker is the CEO and Founder of Consciously, a purpose-driven coaching and consulting firm helping leaders grow with clarity, freedom, and purpose. A Professional Certified Coach (PCC) with nearly 20 years of experience in leadership development, Kvon has coached and developed executives at companies like Netflix, Amazon, Google, Meta, and Tesla. His mission is simple: all I know is how to help people grow. www.consciously.one Show Notes: (00:00) Teaser + Intro (00:52) Welcome to the Episode (03:25) Meet Kvon Tucker (05:17) Childhood Dreams (07:16) Spiritual Abolitionist (09:18) Fear and Courage Practice (12:43) Fearlessness vs Recklessness (15:44) How He Got Into Tech (17:06) From Depression to Purpose (24:46) Netflix Amazon and Ego (29:29) Google Exit Reflections (32:39) Coaching Origins And Certification (34:11) Pandemic Dad And Coaching Boom (37:05) Fear Of Leaving Corporate (39:26) Investigation And Breaking Point (41:37) Quitting And Moving To Costa Rica (44:41) Support Systems Through Crisis (48:27) Underground Railroad For Leaders (51:34) AI And Identity Beyond Work (55:25) Finding Clarity What Do You Want (57:00) Advice To Past Self And Closing

    1 hr
  3. What If Your Superpower Is the Obvious Thing?

    MAR 12

    What If Your Superpower Is the Obvious Thing?

    Dr. Sofia Pertuz spent 25 years in higher education before realizing the skills she'd been using her entire career — coaching, training, building systems, facilitating hard conversations — were exactly what she should be doing on her own. In this episode, Sofia and I talk about the long road from resident assistant to associate VP and dean of students, the burnout she didn't have a name for, pivoting through the nonprofit world and Billie Jean King Enterprises, and what it finally took to bet on herself. Plus, she's revealing something publicly for the first time on this show. We dig into why the things that come most naturally to us are often the last things we recognize as valuable — and what happens when you finally flip that switch. About Dr. Sofia B. Pertuz: Dr. Sofia B. Pertuz is a certified executive coach, consultant, and workplace culture strategist who partners with leaders and mission-driven organizations to strengthen culture, performance, and leadership capacity. As Founder of Mainstream Insight, she designs executive coaching engagements, leadership development programs, and team retreats grounded in values alignment and organizational growth. Sofia’s career spans senior leadership roles at Billie Jean King Enterprises, The Jed Foundation, and Hofstra University, where she advanced leadership pathways, workforce engagement, and organizational resilience. A bilingual facilitator and international speaker, Sofia leads transformative conversations on leadership, cultural identity, organizational change, and LGBTQ+ advocacy in both English and Spanish. She holds a PhD from Seton Hall University, serves on nonprofit boards, and is certified as an ICF Professional Certified Coach, Certified Diversity Executive®, and certified practitioner of Intercultural Development Inventory ®, Everything DiSC® and CliftonStrengths®. https://www.linkedin.com/in/sofiabautistapertuz/ https://www.instagram.com/sofiabpertuzphd Show Notes: (00:00) Teaser + Intro (05:00) What Sofia wanted to be growing up — and the secret audition her mom never knew about (10:00) How a raffle ticket explains the curse of competence (14:00) 25 years in higher ed — from RA at 22 to associate VP and dean of students (17:00) The weight of life-and-death decisions on campus (21:00) Getting recruited out of academia and discovering what freedom feels like (24:00) The standup comedy class — and why trying something totally new matters (27:00) From Jed Foundation to Billie Jean King Enterprises (34:00) Seeing the DEI backlash coming — and pivoting early (39:00) The moment she decided to bet on herself (42:00) Quitting, grief, and why she wasn't ready to talk about it until now (45:00) A first-time public announcement: Sofia wrote a book (49:00) The change implementation model she keeps coming back to in coaching (54:00) Earning your freedom with discipline (56:00) Her mom, Avon, Tupperware — and why "hustle" isn't the right word

    59 min
  4. The More Unhinged, The Better

    FEB 12

    The More Unhinged, The Better

    In this episode of 'Sh*t I Just Quit My Job,' host Maricella Herrera dives into a candid conversation with Megan Senese, a legal marketing and business development expert who co-founded the company Stage. Maricella and Megan discuss the challenges of navigating career shifts, dealing with corporate burnout, and the importance of authenticity in business. They explore Megan's transition from the corporate legal world to entrepreneurship, the strategies she used to build her business from the ground up, and the vital role of relationship building in professional success. Megan also shares valuable insights on personal branding, navigating layoffs, and the significance of doing things differently in a crowded market. The episode ends with Megan's advice to her younger self: just hold on, it will be over soon. About Megan Senese: Megan Senese is a legal marketing and business-development entrepreneur and co-founder of Stage, where she helps lawyers grow their practices through authentic relationship-building and strategy. She is especially admired for her ability to bring empathy and genuine human connection into an industry often driven purely by numbers. Show Notes 00:00 Podcast Introduction 04:30 Childhood Dreams vs. Reality 21:06 The Big Quit 23:36 Pandemic Burnout and the 2% Raise 32:25 Unlearning Corporate Toxicity 35:47 The Leap to Entrepreneurship 42:04 The Thousand Meetings Strategy 49:23 Business Development Advice 51:21 Going Unhinged on LinkedIn 55:06 The So Much to Say Podcast 58:43 Final Advice: Hold On Takeaways: The podcast delves into the complexities of personal reinvention, particularly after quitting a job that was once deemed defining.Listeners are encouraged to embrace the chaotic journey of self-discovery and the uncertainties therein, recognizing that it is a universal experience.A significant theme discussed is the importance of authenticity in business, suggesting that one can still be themselves while building a successful enterprise.The speakers emphasize the necessity of building genuine relationships and connections rather than relying solely on traditional networking methods.The conversation highlights the emotional and psychological challenges faced during career transitions, particularly in acknowledging and navigating grief associated with leaving a familiar job.Insights are shared on the evolution of personal branding and visibility in a digital age, stressing the need for uniqueness in content to stand out.

    1 hr
  5. You Need a Little Crazy

    JAN 29

    You Need a Little Crazy

    In this conversation, Denis Keane shares his journey from a corporate career to entrepreneurship, highlighting the challenges and lessons learned along the way. He discusses his experiences in the nightlife and restaurant industries, the importance of people skills, and the role of adaptability in navigating the ever-changing landscape of startups and technology. Denis emphasizes the need for risk-taking and the value of understanding business fundamentals, while also reflecting on personal growth and self-worth. Show Notes This episode presents a profound exploration of career transitions, personal growth, and the entrepreneurial spirit through the lenses of Maricela Herrera and her guest, Denis Keane. The narrative begins with Maricella's honest reflection on her struggles with motivation and the emotional toll of returning to her routine after a significant hiatus. Her vulnerability lays the groundwork for a rich discussion with Denis, whose dynamic background as an entrepreneur in the nightlife and technology sectors illustrates the multifaceted nature of career journeys. Denis recounts his experiences navigating the challenges of establishing a successful nightclub in a gentrifying neighborhood, offering insights into the importance of risk-taking and seizing opportunities. The conversation further delves into the lessons learned from both industries, emphasizing the value of people skills and the necessity of adaptability in the face of uncertainty. As the episode unfolds, listeners are invited to reconsider their definitions of success and the paths they choose, ultimately reinforcing the idea that both personal and professional growth often emerge from embracing chaos and uncertainty. GLbkdq5KTbiTButeRXLM Takeaways: In the podcast episode, Dennis Keane discusses the necessity of adaptability in business, emphasizing that the ability to pivot is crucial for success in rapidly changing environments.A significant theme addressed in the interview is the importance of understanding financial metrics, which is essential for running any business effectively, including restaurants and startups.Dennis highlights that personal connections and people skills are indispensable, as they enhance communication and foster a productive workplace culture in both the restaurant and tech industries.The conversation reveals that fear of failure often inhibits individuals from pursuing their passions, and Dennis advocates for embracing risk as an integral part of the entrepreneurial journey.Dennis's journey illustrates how experiences in the restaurant industry can provide transferable skills that are extremely beneficial in the tech startup world, particularly in managing teams and understanding customer dynamics.The episode also touches upon the evolving role of AI in business, suggesting that those who adapt and learn to leverage technology will thrive, while those who resist will likely fall behind. About Denis Keane: Denis Keane is an entrepreneur and investor who has founded multiple businesses, backed early-stage startups, and advised companies on growth and business development. Most recently, he served as COO and investor in an AI startup that successfully exited through acquisition. Denis now works with founders and leadership teams to help scale operations and unlock new growth opportunities.

    54 min
  6. Stronger Than You Think

    12/12/2025

    Stronger Than You Think

    Two weeks before the Chicago Marathon, Maricella was terrified. Not just about the race—about what it would mean if she finished and felt destroyed, ashamed of her pace, not wanting to run again. In this deeply personal episode, she shares what it's like to show up to something hard while feeling like a fraud. She reads her raw journal entries about training anxiety, works through shame about being "too slow," and tells the story of race day—including the sign that changed everything. This isn't a story about hitting a time goal (she didn't). It's about discovering you're stronger than you thought. About the tools and reminders we need when we forget we're capable. About hope, shame, and doing hard things scared. Maricella shares a tattoo on her leg that says "Braver, Stronger, Smarter"—from Winnie the Pooh, gotten after the hardest moments of her life. She talks about the bracelets she wore during the race, her partner who believed in her when she didn't believe in herself, and what it means to find your strength not in the outcome, but in showing up. This is the final episode of 2025. In this episode: - Pre-race anxiety and the bonking pattern during training - Working through shame about pace and performance - Reading unfiltered journal entries from two weeks before the race - The difference between facts and fears - Hope as fuel vs. tying self-worth to outcomes - Race day: the sign, the nausea, the finish - Feeling strong instead of destroyed - The anchors we carry (bracelets, tattoos, people) - Feeling like a fraud even after accomplishing hard things - Using tools (therapy, journaling, friends, AI) to see clearly - Showing up scared and doing it anyway Mentioned in this episode: Win the Inside Game by Steve Magness SAFE methodology (created by guest Jaqueline Oliveira-Cella) This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit maricellaherrera.substack.com

    43 min
  7. Your Thanksgiving survival tool (no, really)

    11/26/2025

    Your Thanksgiving survival tool (no, really)

    In this special episode, host Maricella Herrera introduces listener calls to the podcast for the first time. She sits down with Jaqueline Oliveira-Cella to test SAFE—an AI-powered emotional awareness tool—on two real workplace scenarios submitted by listeners. SAFE is a methodology that helps people pause and reframe in high-stakes emotional moments at work and in life. The framework stands for Set intentions, Acknowledge facts vs emotions, Frame and reframe, and Execute. In this episode, Maricella and Jackie work through two common workplace challenges: Scenario 1: Navigating a Company ReorgA listener shares their anxiety about job security after their group is acquired by a larger team. They're unsure whether to update their resume, network with the new team, or wait to see how leadership decisions unfold. Using SAFE, they separate facts from feelings, identify what's within their control, and develop concrete micro-actions like "building bridges, not safety nets." Scenario 2: Managing Uncertainty with a New BossAnother listener describes the discomfort of having a new manager who meets with the team before direct reports. They want to make a good first impression but don't know how to introduce themselves without overloading or being absent. SAFE helps them reframe the situation, consider the manager's perspective, and create a thoughtful introduction strategy. Throughout both scenarios, Maricella and Jackie discuss the importance of distinguishing facts from emotions, finding hope and agency in uncertain situations, and taking small, strategic actions rather than waiting passively. They also explore how AI tools like SAFE can augment critical thinking and emotional awareness—not replace human connection. This is Part 1 of a two-part series. Next week, Maricella shares her own experience using SAFE to navigate anxiety before running the Chicago Marathon in October 2024. Topics covered in this episode: Emotional awareness and workplace stress AI-powered tools for mental health and emotional regulation Company reorganizations and job security anxiety Managing relationships with new managers Separating facts from feelings in high-stakes situations Design thinking and AI as augmentation Evidence-based journaling and reflective practices Building resilience during workplace uncertainty TIMESTAMPS: [00:00] Cold open: The "f**k you" moment[01:00] Thanksgiving intro and gratitude[12:30] Conversation with Jackie begins[15:30] What is SAFE? The framework explained[20:30] Why Jackie created SAFE: personal experiences with workplace challenges[26:00] AI as augmentation vs. shortcut: critical thinking and design thinking[28:00] The future of emotional intelligence in an AI world[33:00] Listener Scenario #1: Company reorg and job security anxiety[35:00] Breaking down facts vs. emotions in the reorg scenario[39:00] Hope and agency: what the listener didn't mention[41:00] Micro-actions: Building bridges, not safety nets[46:00] Listener Scenario #2: New manager meeting the team first[48:00] Setting intentions for a first impression[50:00] Reframing: Could this be about fairness, not hierarchy?[52:00] Micro-actions: Draft an intro note, observe and listen[57:00] Asking SAFE about talking to the team[59:00] What's next for SAFE and closing thoughts LINKS & RESOURCES: Try SAFE for yourself (free on ChatGPT): https://chatgpt.com/g/g-68c2e478cba88191b31bf8e906de103f-s-a-f-e-leadership-daily-reflections Connect with Jaqueline Oliveira-Cella on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaquelineoc/ Previous episode with Jackie: https://maricellaherrera.substack.com/p/sht-i-had-a-midlife-awakening SUBMIT YOUR SITUATION:Listeners can leave a voice note at (646) 902-1426 or email quitymyjobpod@gmail.com to share workplace challenges for potential future episodes. GUEST BIO: Jaqueline Oliveira Cella inspires you to shift discomfort into purpose-driven action. She brings over 15 years of experience in US and global health, wealth, and wellbeing sectors, specializing in developing client-centric solutions, health equity, and risk management. Jaqueline has a proven track record of empowering employees and enhancing corporate wellness programs As the founder of wellBe consulting, Jaqueline co-creates and advises healthcare corporations on innovating health and wellbeing solutions for employers, establishing strategic partnerships, and rethinking their go-to-market strategies and key performance indicators. Her recent executive education at Harvard Medical School and her actuarial and business background further empower her to drive meaningful, impactful changes. Driven by her passion for purpose-driven action, Jaqueline created the 'Health at Work' initiative. Collaborations cover top health risk concerns topics such as Burnout in the Healthcare System, Culture & AI, Diabetes at Work, Busyness & Food, Mindful Inclusion, Menopause at Work, Measurable Inclusion & People Analytics.  ‘Health at Work’ collaborations are promoted through LinkedIn, a social initiative, extending the reach of her work to help employees advocate for their health in the workplace, and build sustable organizations by assisting employers in navigating significant health challenges with data-driven and actionable insights. KEYWORDS: emotional awareness, workplace anxiety, AI tools for mental health, company reorganization, managing new managers, SAFE framework, emotional intelligence, career transitions, job security, workplace stress, reflective journaling, ChatGPT for emotional awareness, reframing workplace challenges This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit maricellaherrera.substack.com

    1h 1m
4.6
out of 5
20 Ratings

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Sh*I Just Quit My Job is a podcast about the questions that surface when life stops making sense: Is this it? What do I really want? Who am I if I’m not defined by my work, my old story, or other people’s expectations of me? Through candid conversations and personal reflections, host Maricella Herrera sits with the uncertainty and explores what it takes to build a life that feels more honest, joyful, and real.