Sincerely, Self

Lexi Benitez
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Self-development and mindset podcast|Come as you are, leave as the best version of yourself. Sincerelyselfpodcast.com

  1. 6d ago

    New Season, New Energy: How To Fall Reset

    Welcome back to Sincerely, Self Podcast! In this solo episode, Lexi is embracing the fall season and everything it can teach us about slowing down, releasing, reflecting, and preparing for what’s next. Just like the leaves naturally let go and change with the seasons, fall can be a beautiful reminder that releasing something doesn’t always mean you’ve lost something—it can mean you’re making room for something new. Lexi talks about using the energy of fall as an opportunity to reflect on what you’ve planted throughout the year, recognize the progress you’ve already made, and get intentional about what you want to carry with you into the next season of your life. -Using energy of the seasons to manifest episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sincerely-self/id1709372921?i=1000709681607 SINCERELY, SELF WEBSITE: sincerelyselfpodcast.com Get some EvryJewels with a discount: https://evryjewels.com/?ref=alexisbenitezvtn Use code:ALEXIS889 for $$$ off🤍 Check out my Hollister Favs: https://community.hollisterco.com/s/sincerelyself If this episode encouraged you, please: Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen. Leave a ★★★★★ review to help others find us. Connect with me on Instagram or Tiktok @sincerelyselfpodcast and let me know which action item you’ll take this week!

  2. Sep 26

    Comparison Is Stealing Your Confidence

    What’s the difference between genuine confidence and confidence that comes from your ego? In this episode of Sincerely, Self, Lexi dives into the difference between ego-based confidence and real, grounded confidence—and how comparison can secretly influence the way we see ourselves. From comparing your appearance, accomplishments, and success to other people, to comparing yourself to your partner’s past relationships, it can be easy to fall into the trap of believing that someone else’s success somehow says something about your own worth. Lexi talks about how comparison can either inflate your ego or completely diminish your self-esteem, and why neither one creates genuine confidence. She also shares a mindset shift that has helped her personally: instead of comparing yourself to other people, compare yourself to who you used to be. Look at how far you’ve come, how you’ve grown, and who you are becoming. This episode is also a reminder that self-growth doesn’t mean you’ll never have a negative thought, feel jealous, or compare yourself again. Growth is learning to recognize those thoughts, become aware of them, and choose how you respond. Comparison episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sincerely-self/id1709372921?i=1000642817640 Sincerely Honest episodes: https://youtu.be/GCu73VqghM4?is=y6ntCjR6oNBv8u7S https://youtu.be/Gmp9gtEP_iU?is=rzhYEzKvuFYxrmug ✨ SINCERELY, SELF WEBSITE: sincerelyselfpodcast.com  INSTA: https://tr.ee/_hDgsXsjmE  TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@sincerelyselfpodcast?_t=zt-8zjvsa3xu4d&_r=1  evryjewels.com/?ref=alexisbenitezvtn Use code:ALEXIS889 for $$$ off🤍  Check out my Hollister Favs: https://community.hollisterco.com/s/sincerelyself  If this episode encouraged you, please: Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen. Leave a ★★★★★ I Love you! PS: Don’t forget to follow Lexi on Instagram and TikTok for weekly guest previews, clips, and behind-the-scenes updates. Leave a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ review to help the show grow!

  3. Sep 19

    Who Are You When Everything Changes?

    After a two-month break, Lexi is officially back on Sincerely, Self—and there’s a lot to catch up on. 💌 From getting married and starting a new job to stepping away from the podcast and navigating a personal mental rut, Lexi opens up about what the past few months have taught her about identity, growth, self-love, intuition, and becoming more present. In this special three-year anniversary episode, Lexi reflects on one of the biggest lessons behind Sincerely, Self: self-love and self-acceptance are the roots of success. She talks about what happens when we tie our identity to our careers, relationships, achievements, or other external things—and how easily we can lose our sense of self when those things change. She also gets real about the fact that healing isn’t linear. Sometimes the same triggers, emotions, and patterns we’ve worked so hard to heal can show up again. But that doesn’t mean the healing didn’t work. Sometimes growth looks like simply becoming aware of the pattern and choosing to respond differently the next time. Lexi also opens up about her journey of becoming more connected to her intuition, exploring her relationship with God and spirituality, spending more time in nature, and figuring out what feels authentic to her outside of other people’s expectations. And as she enters year three of Sincerely, Self, Lexi shares what she hopes this next chapter will look like—and why she wants to prioritize being completely in tune with herself. If you’ve ever felt lost, disconnected from yourself, or like you’re becoming a completely different version of who you used to be, this episode is for you. 🤍 Welcome back to Sincerely, Self. Here’s to year three. 🥂

  4. Jul 18

    When everything goes wrong… you start again

    In this heartfelt solo episode of Sincerely, Self, Lexi shares an honest life update about navigating seasons of anxiety, depression, burnout, and feeling disconnected from herself. She opens up about the pressure to always have life figured out, the importance of giving yourself grace during difficult seasons, and why authenticity matters more than perfection. Through personal stories and reflections, Lexi encourages listeners to embrace the ups and downs of life, trust that healing isn’t always linear, and remember that it’s okay to simply take life one day at a time. This episode feels like catching up with a close friend—filled with vulnerability, encouragement, and the reminder that you’re never alone in what you’re going through. Link to emotions song: https://youtu.be/EV7_tIdYuvY?is=WL1WJWxq4HGnJ5_r ✨ SINCERELY, SELF WEBSITE: sincerelyselfpodcast.com  INSTA: https://tr.ee/_hDgsXsjmE  TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@sincerelyselfpodcast?_t=zt-8zjvsa3xu4d&_r=1  evryjewels.com/?ref=alexisbenitezvtn Use code:ALEXIS889 for $$$ off🤍  Check out my Hollister Favs: https://community.hollisterco.com/s/sincerelyself  If this episode encouraged you, please: Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen. Leave a ★★★★★ I Love you! PS: Don’t forget to follow Lexi on Instagram and TikTok for weekly guest previews, clips, and behind-the-scenes updates. Leave a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ review to help the show grow!

  5. Jun 13

    People pleasing is keeping you stuck: here’s how to break free

    Have you ever found yourself making decisions based on what everyone else wants instead of what feels right for you? In this solo episode of Sincerely, Self, Lexi opens up about her own struggle with people pleasing while planning her wedding and shares the powerful realizations she’s had about prioritizing other people’s opinions over her own happiness. From navigating family expectations to learning how to set healthier boundaries, this episode is a reminder that caring about others doesn’t mean abandoning yourself. Lexi dives into why so many empathetic people become people pleasers, how fear of judgment keeps us stuck, and practical ways to start trusting yourself again. If you’ve ever worried about disappointing people, felt responsible for everyone else’s feelings, or struggled to put yourself first, this conversation is for you. In This Episode: * Why people pleasing often comes from empathy * The wedding planning experience that opened Lexi’s eyes * How fear of judgment influences our decisions * The difference between kindness and self-sacrifice * Learning to stop carrying responsibility for everyone else’s emotions * Practical ways to build self-trust * How journaling can help you process difficult situations * Why your feelings and opinions matter * The importance of boundaries and self-respect You are allowed to make decisions that are best for you. Being compassionate doesn’t require abandoning your own needs, dreams, or happiness. ✨ SINCERELY, SELF WEBSITE: sincerelyselfpodcast.com  INSTA: https://tr.ee/_hDgsXsjmE  TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@sincerelyselfpodcast?_t=zt-8zjvsa3xu4d&_r=1  evryjewels.com/?ref=alexisbenitezvtn Use code:ALEXIS889 for $$$ off🤍  Check out my Hollister Favs: https://community.hollisterco.com/s/sincerelyself  If this episode encouraged you, please: Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen. Leave a ★★★★★ I Love you! PS: Don’t forget to follow Lexi on Instagram and TikTok for weekly guest previews, clips, and behind-the-scenes updates. Leave a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ review to help the show grow!

  6. May 30

    The Truth About Hustle Culture, Burnout, and Purpose with Serendipitous Rebel

    What if success wasn’t about doing more… but about doing what actually matters? In this episode of Sincerely Self, Lexi sits down with certified life and business coach Wendy Guth and master marketer Krystal Eicher, co-founders of Serendipitous Rebel, for a conversation that challenges the constant pressure to hustle harder. Together, they share the story behind building their business and dive into the SAVER framework — a holistic approach to creating a life and business that supports who you are instead of draining you. They explore the reality of hustle culture, how so many people unknowingly live in fight-or-flight mode, and why constantly being busy can become a way to avoid discomfort. They also discuss nervous system regulation, authentic connection, self-care beyond surface-level fixes, and creating a version of success that aligns with your current season of life. If you’ve ever felt exhausted trying to keep up, stuck in survival mode, or like you’re constantly pouring into everyone else while losing yourself in the process, this conversation is for you. More on Krystal & Wendy: ​https://serendipitousrebel.com / ​ ​✨ SINCERELY, SELF WEBSITE: sincerelyselfpodcast.com  INSTA: https://tr.ee/_hDgsXsjmE  TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@sincerelyselfpodcast?_t=zt-8zjvsa3xu4d&_r=1  evryjewels.com/?ref=alexisbenitezvtn Use code:ALEXIS889 for $$$ off🤍  Check out my Hollister Favs: https://community.hollisterco.com/s/sincerelyself  If this episode encouraged you, please: Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen. Leave a ★★★★★ I Love you! PS: Don’t forget to follow Lexi on Instagram and TikTok for weekly guest previews, clips, and behind-the-scenes updates. Leave a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ review to help the show grow!

    The Truth About Hustle Culture, Burnout, and Purpose with Serendipitous Rebel

  7. May 23

    Stop Asking “Why Me?” And Start Asking This Instead

    This week on Sincerely Self, Lexi gets personal and shares the unexpected reason behind missing last week’s episode… a broken ankle. But instead of focusing on “Why is this happening to me?”, Lexi dives into a powerful mindset shift: What if life is happening FOR you instead of TO you? In this raw solo episode, she opens up about burnout, constantly living in “go mode,” feeling overwhelmed by work and responsibilities, and how being forced to slow down became an unexpected wake-up call. From manifestation and subconscious beliefs to purpose, abundance, grounding, and finding meaning in difficult seasons, this episode challenges listeners to rethink the obstacles in their own lives and ask: Could my setback actually be setting me up for something bigger? In this episode: * The embarrassing story of how Lexi broke her ankle * Why perspective changes everything * Signs you may be living on autopilot * Burnout and the pressure to constantly work * Abundance mindset vs scarcity mindset * Why purpose matters more than productivity * Manifestation and subconscious beliefs * Grounding practices and reconnecting with yourself * Questions to ask yourself during difficult seasons Books mentioned: * Think and Grow Rich * Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself ✨ SINCERELY, SELF WEBSITE: sincerelyselfpodcast.com  INSTA: https://tr.ee/_hDgsXsjmE  TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@sincerelyselfpodcast?_t=zt-8zjvsa3xu4d&_r=1  evryjewels.com/?ref=alexisbenitezvtn Use code:ALEXIS889 for $$$ off🤍  Check out my Hollister Favs: https://community.hollisterco.com/s/sincerelyself  If this episode encouraged you, please: Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen. Leave a ★★★★★ I Love you! PS: Don’t forget to follow Lexi on Instagram and TikTok for weekly guest previews, clips, and behind-the-scenes updates. Leave a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ review to help the show grow!

  8. May 9

    The Connection Between Your Home, Identity, & Healing with Kim Costa

    This week on Sincerely Self Podcast, Lexi sits down with realtor, author, speaker, and podcast host Kim Costa for a conversation all about the powerful connection between your environment and your well-being. Together, they dive into how the spaces we live in can either support or drain us mentally, emotionally, and spiritually — and why creating alignment in your surroundings is one of the most overlooked parts of personal growth. Kim shares the inspiration behind her “Wheelhouse Assessment,” a framework designed to help people create a life and environment that maximizes their potential. From relationships and hobbies to community, peace, and purpose, this episode explores how our surroundings influence every area of our lives. They also discuss: * Why so many people feel stuck or disconnected in their current environment * How your home can affect your mental health and energy * The importance of aligning your space with who you truly are * Why discomfort and change are often necessary for growth * How to know when it’s time for a new chapter * The difference between settling and truly thriving * Why trying something new is better than staying stuck in indecision If you’ve been feeling out of alignment, overwhelmed, or like you’ve outgrown your current season of life, this episode will encourage you to reflect on whether your environment is supporting the person you’re becoming. More on Kim: https://lifestylefoundations.com/​ ​https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/live-in-your-wheel-house/id1853930729 ✨ SINCERELY, SELF WEBSITE: sincerelyselfpodcast.com  INSTA: https://tr.ee/_hDgsXsjmE  TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@sincerelyselfpodcast?_t=zt-8zjvsa3xu4d&_r=1  evryjewels.com/?ref=alexisbenitezvtn Use code:ALEXIS889 for $$$ off🤍  Check out my Hollister Favs: https://community.hollisterco.com/s/sincerelyself  If this episode encouraged you, please: Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen. Leave a ★★★★★ I Love you! PS: Don’t forget to follow Lexi on Instagram and TikTok for weekly guest previews, clips, and behind-the-scenes updates. Leave a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ review to help the show grow!

    The Connection Between Your Home, Identity, & Healing with Kim Costa
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Self-development and mindset podcast|Come as you are, leave as the best version of yourself. Sincerelyselfpodcast.com

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  • Creator
    Lexi Benitez
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    112
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Lexi Benitez
  • Show Website
    Sincerely, Self