Rock Life Coaching and Mentoring

Alexander and Petra Rojas, M.A.
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Alex and Petra, both holding Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy, are driven by their passion to guide individuals towards a closer relationship with Jesus through counseling and deliverance. They firmly believe in utilizing the teachings of the Bible to encourage healthier mental health practices and foster connections with fellow believers for ongoing discipleship. By tuning in to their discussions, you will gain a deeper understanding of aligning your body, mind, and spirit to experience inner peace with God. Prepare yourself to be mentored and equipped with valuable tools for mental well-being.

  1. Loving Him Well (Session 3) When He's Not Leading Well

    Mar 30

    Loving Him Well (Session 3) When He's Not Leading Well

    What do you do when your husband is not leading spiritually and you feel alone in your marriage? In this live, we talk to wives who feel frustrated, disconnected, and stuck. We break down what may be happening beneath the surface, how your response can affect the relationship, and what it looks like to move forward in a biblical and healthy way. We also share real parts of our own marriage, mistakes we made early on, and what helped bring change. This conversation is not about blaming your husband or putting everything on you. It is about growing in wisdom, understanding your patterns, and learning how to respond with God at the center. If you have felt spiritually alone, caught in the same cycles, or unsure what to do next, this live is for you.   Highlights 0:00 Intro: when your husband isn't leading spiritually 2:00 Feeling spiritually alone in your marriage 7:00 Marriage rating exercise: where are you really at? 18:20 Love God first, not your spouse 27:10 Our early marriage story 36:15 Root issues, healing, and renewing the mind 57:05 Leadership tracking exercise 1:04:35 Core patterns: criticism, contempt, resistance, and fear 1:10:40 What to do next: prayer, fasting, and biblical response

    1h 16m
  2. Loving Him Well (Session 2)

    Mar 24

    Loving Him Well (Session 2)

    In this episode, Alexander and Petra Rojas talk honestly about what it means for a wife to love her husband well in a biblical and healthy way. They unpack the tension many women feel around trust, submission, fear, past hurt, and emotional safety in marriage. This is a conversation about understanding God's design, healing what has been broken, and learning how to move forward. Alexander and Petra share from both Scripture and their own marriage journey as they walk through five fears that can make it hard for a wife to trust her husband's leadership. They also cover practical steps wives can take to process those fears, communicate them in a healthy way, and invite God into the healing process. This episode is especially for wives who want to honor God in their marriage, women struggling with fear or past wounds, and couples who want greater biblical alignment in their relationship. In this episode, you'll hear about: • what biblical submission is and what it is not • why trust and emotional safety matter in marriage • how past wounds can affect present relationships • how betrayal impacts submission and connection • practical steps for hard conversations with your spouse • how prayer, healing, and healthy communication can restore hope This episode is real, heartfelt, and full of practical wisdom for couples who want their marriage to reflect Christ. If your marriage has felt out of order, strained, or heavy, this conversation will encourage you and point you back to God's design for healing and restoration.

    1h 7m
  3. Loving Your Her Well (Session 1)

    Mar 17

    Loving Your Her Well (Session 1)

    What does it actually look like for a husband to love his wife well? In this live, we talk to husbands who want to lead, love, and care for their marriage in a godly way but feel stuck, unequipped, or like they keep falling short. We break down what biblical leadership really means, what may be getting in the way, and how to grow in a way that brings real change. We walk through common struggles men face like unhealed wounds, lack of discipleship, avoidance, and disconnection from God and how those patterns impact marriage. We also share practical, biblical steps that help husbands lead with love, humility, and responsibility. This conversation is not about guilt or pressure. It is about growth, healing, and learning how to love your wife the way Christ calls you to. If you are a husband who wants to grow, a couple who wants to move forward, or someone who wants a clearer picture of biblical marriage leadership, this live is for you.

    1h 6m
  4. Building Your Marriage on Jesus

    10/28/2025

    Building Your Marriage on Jesus

    Building Your Marriage on Jesus 🎙️ A Rock Life Coaching & Mentoring Podcast So many couples try to fix their marriage without first fixing their foundation — their relationship with God. When you grow individually in His presence every day, your marriage naturally begins to change. You can't pour love, peace, or grace into your spouse if you're not first receiving it from God. 💛 In this episode, we'll walk through a simple daily devotional rhythm designed to help you connect deeply with God and build a Christ-centered marriage. ✨ You'll learn: 4 daily steps to grow closer to God: • Read the Word and feed your spirit • Reflect on 3 key highlights from Scripture • Listen for God's voice in prayer • Take one obedient step each day 💍 Plus, 3 weekly steps to strengthen your marriage: • Share what God is teaching you with your spouse • Apply one biblical truth together • Commit to living it out this week Let's build our homes and marriages on Jesus — one day, one prayer, and one act of obedience at a time. 🔗 Listen now on Spotify: Rock Life Coaching & Mentoring 🌐 More resources: www.rocklifecoach.com

    26 min

  5. 11/28/2023

    6- How to Receive the Holy Spirit

    How do I become filled with the Holy Spirit? To become filled with the Holy Spirit requires faith and surrender to God. In Acts 2:1-4, we see that the disciples were all together in one place when suddenly a sound like a violent wind came from heaven and filled the whole house where they were sitting. They were all filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak in tongues as the Spirit enabled them. Another way is through the laying on of hands and prayer. In Acts 8:14-17, the apostles prayed for the believers in Samaria that they might receive the Holy Spirit, and then laid their hands on them, after which they received the Holy Spirit. Hearing the gospel can also lead to receiving the Holy Spirit, as we see in Acts 10:44-45 when the Holy Spirit fell upon all those who were listening to Peter's message. Finally, Luke 11:9-13 tells us that we can ask God for the Holy Spirit and he will give it to us. So, if you want to become filled with the Holy Spirit, have faith, surrender to God, hear the gospel, and ask and keep asking God for Him.

    30 min

  6. 11/21/2023

    5 - Why do I need to Receive the Holy Spirit?

    Asking why we need to be filled by Him is an important question for Christians to consider. One reason is that He empowers us to be a witness of Jesus, as stated in Acts 1:8, where Jesus tells the disciples that they will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes upon them. This power gives us strength, ability, and enables us to perform miracles, all for the purpose of going into all the world to be a witness of Jesus Christ. Another reason is that He anoints us to do our purpose, as stated in 2 Corinthians 1:21-22. God makes us stand firm in Christ, anoints us, sets His seal of ownership on us, and puts His Spirit in our hearts as a deposit, guaranteeing what is to come. This anointing gives us the ability to fulfill the purpose that God has for us. Being filled by Him empowers us to be a witness of Jesus and anoints us to do our purpose. It is essential for Christians to seek the Holy Spirit's filling to live a fulfilled life and fulfill their God-given purpose.

    45 min

  7. 11/14/2023

    4 - Who is the Holy Spirit?

    Who is He? The Holy Spirit is the third person of the Holy Trinity, along with God the Father and Jesus Christ the Son. This 3 part series on Receiving the Holy Spirit will cover, Who is He, Why Do I Need to be Filled with Him, How to Become Filled with Him, and How to Cultivate a Relationship with Him. The Holy Spirit is first introduced in the book of Genesis, where He is revealed as the Spirit of God who hovered over the waters during the creation of the world. He is also described as a person with a will, who can be grieved or resisted. Lastly, He is a promise given by Jesus Himself, who told His disciples that He would send the Spirit to be with them after His departure.

    19 min

  8. 11/07/2023

    3 - Why do I need to be Water Baptized?

    Water Baptism is a transformative act that combines this a physical event with significant spiritual implications. It involves repentance, forgiveness, the cleansing of sins, and symbolizes the burial of one's old self. Every believer is called to be water baptized in the name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.

    17 min
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Alex and Petra, both holding Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy, are driven by their passion to guide individuals towards a closer relationship with Jesus through counseling and deliverance. They firmly believe in utilizing the teachings of the Bible to encourage healthier mental health practices and foster connections with fellow believers for ongoing discipleship. By tuning in to their discussions, you will gain a deeper understanding of aligning your body, mind, and spirit to experience inner peace with God. Prepare yourself to be mentored and equipped with valuable tools for mental well-being.

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