Adventures in Parenting

Patchogue-Medford Library

Adventures in Parenting was born to bring Library sponsored parenting programs and trusted information to you on your time! Adventures in Parenting is hosted by Patchogue-Medford Librarians (and busy moms) Jessi and Erin. Listen, laugh and learn as they talk to experts in all areas of parenting.

  1. MAY 27

    A Parent's Guide to Teen Slang

    Ever feel lost when teens say something is "mid" or "giving main character energy"? Join Jessi and Erin as their special guest, Emily Moyers, a Teen Librarian at PML and self professed language lover breaks down the wild world of modern slang – from how it spreads faster than ever on social media to why some terms stick while others get left on read. What's inside: ✨ The psychology behind why teens create new language 📱 Which platforms are slang factories (hint: it's not just TikTok) ⚡ Cultural appropriation vs. natural language evolution 🎯 Parent survival guide to staying current without being cringe 🧠 Slang quiz to test your fluency! Whether you're a confused parent or just fascinated by how language evolves, this episode will leave you absolutely shook by the creativity of modern communication. No cap – this one hits different! 💯 Episode Timestamps: 0:01 – Introduction 03:15 – Terms and Patterns 05:15 – Reference points for slang 06:45 – How can parents stay informed 08:55 – How does slang reflect Gen Z cultural shifts/values 10:50 – How does their time online influence slang 13:30 – Life cycle of slang terms 14:20 – Influence of marginalized groups on slang (appropriation vs mainstream) 18:30 – Possible hidden meanings of slang terms 22:05 – Platforms where slang is being created 23:40 – Favorite slang terms 28:10 – Slang quiz 35:00 - Closing Episode #21, May 2025 For more resources on this topic, check out our topic guide: Resource Guide Episode #21

    39 min
  2. JAN 10

    Your Family & AI

    Join librarians Jessi and Erin as they sit down with Nick Tanzi, a straight-talking tech expert, author, and Assistant Director of the South Huntington Public Library, who admits he has a "love-hate relationship" with AI. From ChatGPT doing homework to AI chatbots giving questionable advice, Nick reveals what's happening in our kids' digital world. Discover why Nick calls AI a "non-consensual relationship" that's invaded our lives, and learn how to turn this uninvited guest into a helpful tool for your family.  Whether you're AI-savvy or AI-scared, this episode cuts through the tech jargon to give you practical guidance on: Teaching your kids to spot AI's mistakes and biases Using AI tools together as a family (yes, like testing ChatGPT with questions you know the answers to!) Protecting your children from AI's hidden risks while embracing its benefits Episode #18, January 2025 For more resources on this topic, check out our topic guide: Resource Guide Episode #18 Time Stamps:   0:00 – Introduction  2:07 – What is A.I./overview   4:39 – Current concerns   9:05 – How should this technology be used in education  10:20 – Entry points for parents to engage with AI   12:30 – Bias and popularity vs correctness   15:20 – How to know where the data is coming from  16:38 – How can libraries support AI literacy education   18:20 – How can parents approach this topic with their child?  25:36 – What to do with A.I.   28:15 – A.I. and the complications of language  29:35 - CLEAR Framework for Generative AI by Leo Lo  32:24 – Picking the right tool for the right job   35:25 – The future

    39 min
  3. 11/22/2024

    Bullying

    In this episode, Jessi and Erin welcome Rhonda Nedderman and Natalia Johnson from local community organization, Youth Enrichment Services (YES) to discuss bullying. Learn about current bullying statistics, the shift to cyberbullying, and practical strategies for parents. YES experts share insights on empowering children, monitoring social media use, and the importance of being an "upstander." Whether your child is experiencing bullying or IS the bully, this episode offers valuable resources and actionable tips for families. 📊 Learn current bullying statistics and trends 🖥️ Implement cyberbullying prevention strategies 📱 Set up social media monitoring practices 🤗 Develop skills to support children facing bullying 💡 Learn how to address bullying behavior 🤝 Connect with local community resources Episode #17, November 2024 For more resources on this topic, check out our topic guide: Resource Guide Episode #17 Time Stamps:   0:01 – Introduction 5:25 – Impact of social media on bullying 9:50 – Steps to protect children from online bullying 11:15 – What to do if your child is the bully 22:40 – What to say to your child if they’re witnessing bullying 24:21 – Telling vs tattling 30:20 - Addressing both the bully and the bullied 32:40 – Tips for parents on how to help their children help themselves 38:31 – How to approach your child when they refuse to go to school, activities, etc. 42:00 – Dealing with the ‘after’

    53 min
  4. 10/11/2024

    The Organized Family: Decluttering Life and Mind

    In this enlightening episode, professional organizers and authors Annmarie Brogan and Marie Limpert are back to share their unique approach to organization with Jessi and Erin. As co-owners of Organize Me! of NY, LLC and authors of Beyond Tidy: Declutter Your Mind and Discover the Magic of Organized Living, Annmarie and Marie are experts on blending personalized organizational strategies with positive psychology. Tune in for a crash course in organization that will transform how you think about your space and belongings: 🎯 Explore the eight organizing principles: goal setting, visioning, sorting, deciding, home placement, associations, space management, and task completion 🗑️ Identify and tackle your "for now" clutter 📝 Set SMART goals for your organizing projects 🏠 Create a vision for each space in your home or office 🧠 Develop a growth mindset towards organizing skills Whether you're a busy parent, a professional looking to boost productivity, or simply seeking to declutter your life, this episode offers practical insights and motivational strategies to help you move beyond tidy and create lasting organizational change.  @organizemeNY @beyondtidybook Episode #16, October 2024 For more resources on this topic, check out our topic guide: Resource Guide Episode #16 Time Stamps:   00:00 - Introduction, outlook on organization and writing the book  08:30 - The eight principles identified  10:26 – How to set a manageable goal  14:48 – Establishing clear zones and having a vision for the space   17:55 – Difficulty with finishing the task  20:42 – Types of clutter and prime real estate   30:00 – Success stories  35:00 – Developing organization as a skill

    39 min

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Adventures in Parenting was born to bring Library sponsored parenting programs and trusted information to you on your time! Adventures in Parenting is hosted by Patchogue-Medford Librarians (and busy moms) Jessi and Erin. Listen, laugh and learn as they talk to experts in all areas of parenting.