Dementia Caregiver’s Corner

Juliah Ratladi

The journey of caring for a loved one with dementia can be deeply challenging. Juliah Ratladi, an MSc Dementia Care Specialist and experienced dementia care professional, is uniquely positioned to share her observations, experiences, knowledge, and insights on various aspects of dementia care. Together with other dementia experts and caregivers, she raises awareness, offers encouragement, and provides hope. Through meaningful discussions, they shed light on key dementia-related issues, helping to educate and support those affected by the condition. Dementia care: How deep is your love?

  1. 1d ago

    The Dementia and Death Conversation: Why Waiting Can Cost Families | Lisa Pahl

    Episode Title: The Dementia and Death Conversation: Why Waiting Can Cost Families Death is one of the few certainties in life, yet it remains one of the conversations many of us avoid. In this thought-provoking episode of the Dementia Caregivers Corner Podcast, Juliah Ratladi is joined by hospice social worker Lisa Pahl, who has spent nearly two decades supporting individuals and families through some of life's most challenging moments. Drawing on her experience in hospice care and emergency medicine, Lisa shares why talking about death isn't about giving up hope—it's about giving people a voice while they still have one. The conversation explores the importance of advance care planning, particularly for people living with dementia, where the opportunity to express wishes can gradually be lost. Lisa also discusses the inspiration behind the Death Deck, the End-of-Life (EOL) Deck, and the Dementia Deck—innovative conversation tools designed to help families navigate topics that are often difficult to begin. Together, Juliah and Lisa discuss cultural attitudes toward death, why many families avoid these conversations, how to introduce advance care planning compassionately, and why meaningful conversations today can prevent uncertainty and distress tomorrow. Whether you're a family caregiver, healthcare professional, or simply someone who wants to prepare for the future with confidence, this episode offers practical guidance and gentle encouragement to start the conversations that matter most. Because peace at the end often begins with conversations held long before the end.   5 Key Takeaways Dementia makes timing important. Dementia gradually affects a person's ability to communicate their wishes. Having conversations early allows individuals to express what matters most while they still can. Avoiding the conversation doesn't avoid the reality. Many families postpone talking about death because of fear, culture, or discomfort, but delaying these discussions often leaves loved ones facing difficult decisions without knowing what the person would have wanted. The right tools make difficult conversations easier. Resources such as the Death Deck, End-of-Life Deck, and Dementia Deck provide gentle prompts that help families begin meaningful conversations without feeling overwhelmed. Culture should shape the conversation—not prevent it. Every family and community approaches death differently. Respecting cultural beliefs while encouraging open dialogue helps ensure care planning remains personal, meaningful, and respectful. Advance care planning is a gift to those you love. Planning ahead isn't about preparing for death; it's about reducing uncertainty, protecting your wishes, and giving your family confidence and peace when difficult decisions arise. To learn more about Lisa's End-of-Life Deck and Dementia Deck, or to purchase a copy, visit thedeathdeck.com.

  2. Jul 1

    Designing for Dementia: How Smart Technology and Environments Support Sensory Changes | Professor Andrea Tales

    Episode Summary Designing for Dementia: How Smart Technology and Environments Support Sensory Changes | Professor Andrea Tales Repost: In this episode, I am honoured to be joined by Professor Andrea Tales, Professor of Neuropsychology and Dementia Research at Swansea University, Fellow of the British Psychological Society, and Fellow of the Learned Society of Wales. Together, we explore why dementia should be understood as more than a memory disorder. Drawing on research from her co-authored book, A New Approach to Dementia: Examining Sensory and Perceptual Impairment, Professor Tales explains how changes in vision, perception, and sensory processing can profoundly affect the daily lives of people living with dementia. Using real-life caregiving experiences, we discuss how visual perception changes may explain behaviours that are often misunderstood, why thoughtful environmental design matters, and how SMART technologies such as Alexa and digital clocks can support independence, reduce distress, and improve quality of life when tailored to the individual. Whether you are a family caregiver, healthcare professional, or simply interested in understanding dementia more deeply, this episode offers practical, evidence-based insights that could transform the way you think about dementia care.   Five Key Takeaways Dementia is more than memory loss. Changes in vision, perception, balance, and sensory processing can have a significant impact on behaviour, independence, and quality of life. What looks like challenging behaviour may actually be a sensory or perceptual difficulty. Understanding how the person experiences their environment helps caregivers respond with greater empathy and compassion. Thoughtful environmental design matters. Simple changes to lighting, colour contrast, flooring, and familiar surroundings can reduce confusion, distress, and the risk of falls. SMART technology works best when it is personalised. Devices such as Alexa, digital clocks, and other assistive technologies should be introduced based on the person's individual needs, abilities, and stage of dementia—not because they worked for someone else. Technology should enhance, not replace, human care. The greatest benefits are seen when technology supports meaningful relationships, person-centred care, and everyday independence. Throughout the conversation, I also share real-life experiences from my own dementia care journey, highlighting how understanding sensory changes transformed the way I supported people living with dementia.

    Designing for Dementia: How Smart Technology and Environments Support Sensory Changes | Professor Andrea Tales
  3. Jun 10

    When Reality Changes: Understanding Lewy Body Dementia Through a Caregiver's Eyes | Kathy Teyler Jarrett

    Episode Title: When Reality Changes: Understanding Lewy Body Dementia Through a Caregiver's Eyes | Kathy Teyler Jarrett In this episode of the Dementia Caregivers Corner Podcast, I am joined by Kathy Teyler Jarrett, author of You Are Not Alone: Dealing with Lewy Body Dementia and a passionate advocate for Lewy Body Dementia (LBD) awareness. Kathy shares her deeply personal journey as the primary caregiver for her husband, offering invaluable insight into a form of dementia that is often misunderstood and overlooked. We discuss the early warning signs, the challenges of obtaining a diagnosis, and the complex symptoms that make Lewy Body Dementia unique, including hallucinations, sleep disturbances, and changes in movement. Kathy recounts the frightening incident that became a turning point in recognising that something was seriously wrong, and she reflects on the realities of navigating daily life as a caregiver. We also explore the overwhelming amount of information available to caregivers and how to identify practical support that truly makes a difference. Finally, Kathy speaks candidly about life after caregiving, sharing how she rebuilt a sense of purpose following her husband's death and why she felt compelled to write her book to support others walking a similar path. This is a powerful conversation about resilience, education, and the importance of ensuring that no caregiver feels alone. Three Main Takeaways 1. Lewy Body Dementia is often misunderstood and difficult to recognise. Many people, including caregivers, have never heard of LBD before it affects their family. Understanding its unique symptoms—such as hallucinations, fluctuating cognition, movement difficulties, and sleep disturbances—can help families seek support earlier. 2. Caregivers need practical guidance, not just information. The dementia journey can be overwhelming. Kathy highlights the importance of finding trusted resources, learning from lived experience, and focusing on strategies that are realistic and helpful for individual caregiving situations. 3. Life after caregiving requires healing and rediscovery. When caregiving becomes someone's identity, its end can leave a profound void. Kathy's story demonstrates that it is possible to find purpose again while honouring the person and journey that shaped your life.

  4. May 27

    Dementia in Africa: The Conversations We Need to Have | Julia Mogotsi

    Podcast Episode Summary Episode Title: Dementia in Africa: The Conversations We Need to Have In this episode, we explore the realities of living with dementia and caregiving in African communities through a heartfelt conversation with Julia Mogotsi from Gaborone, Botswana. The discussion highlights the different types of dementia, the lack of adequate support following diagnosis, and how families are often left to navigate the journey alone. We reflect on the progression of dementia over time, especially during and after the COVID era, and the emotional impact it has on both the person living with dementia and their caregivers. The episode also examines the unique challenges dementia caregivers face — from wandering and aggression to hallucinations, emotional burnout, and balancing work responsibilities. The conversation further focuses on the urgent need for dementia awareness across Africa, where stigma, misinformation, and cultural beliefs continue to place vulnerable older people at risk of neglect, abuse, and even death. Through real-life stories from Botswana, Namibia, and South Africa, the episode calls for communities, leaders, neighbours, employers, and health professionals to work together in creating understanding, compassion, and protection for people living with dementia. This is an emotional but important conversation aimed at encouraging awareness, support, and honest dialogue about dementia in African communities. 5 Key Takeaways Dementia is not one condition Just like cancer, dementia comes in different types, with Alzheimer’s disease being the most common. Families often feel unsupported after diagnosis Many caregivers receive little guidance, education, or emotional support once a loved one is diagnosed. Caregiving for dementia is emotionally and physically demanding Caregivers often deal with wandering, aggression, confusion, hallucinations, and burnout while trying to balance everyday life and work. Community awareness is urgently needed in Africa Misunderstanding dementia can lead to stigma, neglect, abuse, and harmful accusations such as witchcraft. Education and compassion can change lives Involving neighbours, community leaders, employers, and health professionals can help create safer and more supportive environments for people living with dementia and their caregivers.

  5. Apr 1

    Seeing the Person Beyond Dementia: Empathy, Culture & Connection with Angel Hayes

    Episode Title: Seeing the Person Beyond Dementia: Empathy, Dignity, and Connection with Angel Hayes   In this deeply insightful episode of the Dementia Caregivers’ Corner Podcast, Juliah is joined by Angel Hayes, a Namibian-born, Austria-based dementia trainer, Validation Therapy practitioner, and certified social care worker with over 13 years of experience.   Together, they explore how culture, empathy, and human connection shape the way we care for people living with dementia across different parts of the world.   Angel shares her journey from Namibia to Austria and reflects on the contrast between African cultural values—where respect for elders is deeply rooted—and Western care systems. The conversation highlights the importance of seeing the person beyond the diagnosis, understanding life stories, and responding to behaviours with compassion rather than judgment.   They also unpack the principles of Validation Therapy, the emotional realities caregivers face, and the transformative impact of truly understanding a person’s past in order to care for them in the present.   The episode does not shy away from difficult truths, addressing the stigma, abuse, and misunderstanding of dementia in some African communities, and calling for more honest, informed conversations.   This is a powerful discussion about dignity, identity, and what it truly means to care.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode   The role of culture in shaping dementia care practices How Validation Therapy helps build emotional connection Why understanding a person’s life story improves care How to reframe so-called “challenging behaviours” The emotional struggles caregivers face—and how to support them   5 Main Takeaways Dementia care must be rooted in empathy, not just clinical knowledge   Understanding emotions and validating experiences can transform how we connect with people living with dementia.   Culture plays a powerful role in how we perceive and care for dementia   African values of respect for elders offer a strong foundation—but stigma and misunderstanding still need to be addressed openly.   “Challenging behaviour” is often unmet need or distress   What we label as difficult behaviour is often a form of communication that requires patience and understanding.   Knowing a person’s life story changes everything   Biographical knowledge allows caregivers to respond in ways that honour identity, history, and dignity.   Awareness and education are urgently needed in many communities   Misconceptions about dementia can lead to stigma, neglect, and even abuse—highlighting the need for advocacy and education.   Thank you for listening.

    Seeing the Person Beyond Dementia: Empathy, Culture & Connection with Angel Hayes
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The journey of caring for a loved one with dementia can be deeply challenging. Juliah Ratladi, an MSc Dementia Care Specialist and experienced dementia care professional, is uniquely positioned to share her observations, experiences, knowledge, and insights on various aspects of dementia care. Together with other dementia experts and caregivers, she raises awareness, offers encouragement, and provides hope. Through meaningful discussions, they shed light on key dementia-related issues, helping to educate and support those affected by the condition. Dementia care: How deep is your love?

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