Don't Be Alone with Jay Kogen

Straw Hut Media

Don’t Be Alone with Jay Kogen is a comedy/advice podcast trying to fight the isolation of modern life. Each episode, Award winning TV writer/comedian/philosopher Jay Kogen has a conversation with a friend about how to solve the problems on Jay’s mind. These friends happen to be famous comics, musicians, actors, artists, writers, and sometimes even his family. It’s an entertaining, fun, and thoughtful show meant to bond us through humor, experience, and empathy.From Straw Hut Media

  1. 1d ago ·  Video

    From Janitor to The Righteous Gemstones: Tony Cavalero’s Insane Rise!

    He's played a rock-and-roll teacher, a Satanist with a heart of gold, and Ozzy Osbourne. Now Tony Cavalero is playing his biggest role yet: Dad.  School of Rock star and Righteous Gemstones scene-stealer Tony Cavalero sits down with his old boss Jay Kogen for a hilarious and surprisingly raw conversation. Tony's path ran from military school cadet to Groundlings janitor to HBO's favorite weirdo. Along the way you'll hear:  - How he found out his Nickelodeon show was canceled, by phone, seconds before a director called "action" on another set  - The mullet that wouldn't die, and the casting director who begged him not to cut it  - The one-titty bounce that broke Danny McBride in his audition  - Why he's been asked to keep his clothes on, a lot.  Then it gets real. Tony opens up about 16½ years of sobriety and about seven years and nine rounds of IVF with his wife, Annie. Their son Rowdy came from the very last embryo. He says he "cried for a lifetime," and that the heartbreak unlocked a side of him he never knew existed.  Tony is the guy who always picks the hardest path, and Jay is the guy who always takes the shortcut. Funny, heartfelt, and full of real advice on discipline, auditions, and swinging for the fences.  Bio: Tony Cavalero starred in THE RIGHTEOUS GEMSTONES, the Danny McBride series for HBO as well as in ABC's THE CONNERS. Other credits include Nickelodeon's SCHOOL OF ROCK, MODERN FAMILY, NEW GIRL, ARCHER, THE BINGE and MIRACLE WORKERS to name a few. Cavalero can be seen in the memorable role of rock icon Ozzy Osbourne in the Mötley Crüe biopic, THE DIRT. He's an Eagle Scout and a Black Belt. Tony is crazy in love with his wife, Annie, their baby son Rowdy (born March 2026), and their rescue pups, Tippi and Farley! Subscribe to Don't Be Alone with Jay Kogen for more conversations with writers, comedians, actors, creators, and thought leaders exploring life, creativity, politics, and the human experience. Website: https://www.dontbealonewjk.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dontbealonewithjaykogen/https://www.instagram.com/jaykogen/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dont.be.alone.wit Substack: https://substack.com/@jaykogen Merch: https://shop.app/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  2. Nov 3 ·  Video

    Two Comedy Pros Explain Stand-Up to an Idiot (Me) | Laura Kightlinger & Tony Camin

    I’m a pretty good comedian. Not great. Pretty good. So this week I brought in two people who really know what they’re doing to tell me how to get better. Laura Kightlinger has done just about everything in comedy. She was a featured player on Saturday Night Live, wrote for Roseanne, and spent years as a writer and producer on Will & Grace, where she also played Nurse Sheila. She created and starred in her own IFC series, The Minor Accomplishments of Jackie Woodman, and she’s turned up in Anchorman, Shallow Hal, Lucky Louie and PEN15. She has stand-up specials on HBO and Comedy Central, and she directed an award-winning documentary. Tony Camin got his start on Bay Area college radio and at San Francisco’s legendary Holy City Zoo, where Robin Williams used to play. He has done stand-up on Late Night with Conan O’Brien and at Just for Laughs. With Arj Barker and Doug Benson, he co-created The Marijuana-Logues, which ran a full year Off-Broadway. His album is called Ass Pocket of Whimsy. I pitched them a brand-new bit and asked whether I’m doing this all wrong, and I got some answers I wasn’t ready for. Laura tells the wild story of surviving a brain aneurysm, including what she said on the way to the hospital. She explains why she had to hire professional rats for her documentary, and how Jack Black helped save it. Tony remembers the night Bill Hicks liked his joke, and both of them talk me into a road trip to the weirdest comedy festival in Bigfoot country. It’s funny, it’s surprisingly moving, and I come out a slightly better comedian. Maybe. Stick around.Subscribe to Don't Be Alone with Jay Kogen for more conversations with writers, comedians, actors, creators, and thought leaders exploring life, creativity, politics, and the human experience. Website: https://www.dontbealonewjk.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dontbealonewithjaykogen/https://www.instagram.com/jaykogen/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dont.be.alone.wit Substack: https://substack.com/@jaykogen Merch: https://shop.app/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  3. Oct 27 ·  Video

    Kliph Nesteroff Explains Why Canadians Are Funny. Jay Still Isn’t.

    Comedy historian and author Kliph Nesteroff joins Jay to answer one of life's great mysteries: Why are Canadians so damn funny? From Jim Carrey and Norm Macdonald to Kids in the Hall, Nathan Fielder, SCTV, Michael J. Fox, and countless others, Canada has produced an absurd amount of comedy talent. Kliph has a theory about why — and it might have something to do with being an outsider looking in on America. Kliph also tells Jay about growing up in rural Canada, obsessing over comedy and The Simpsons, becoming “California sober” before ever moving to California, and the legendary high school election where he roasted his teachers in front of the entire school, won the presidency 398–2… and promptly got kicked out. They also dig into the strange history of Canadian television, why some brilliant Canadian comedians never become famous in America, what actually makes something funny, and why Southern California apparently doesn't count as moving to the United States. Kliph's new book, Sorry, We're Funny: How Canada Became a Comedy Powerhouse, explores how a country once dismissed as humorless became responsible for some of the funniest people in entertainment. And after nearly an hour of discussing what makes Canadians funny, absolutely no progress is made toward explaining Jay. Bio: Kliph Nesteroff is the author of four books about comedy: The Comedians, We Had a Little Real Estate Problem, Outrageous and the forthcoming Sorry, We're Funny: How Canada Became a Comedy Powerhouse. He often appears in his capacity as comedy historian on CNN, HBO and Vice and has worked on projects with Judd Apatow, Albert Brooks and the late Rob Reiner. Born in Castlegar, British Columbia, he grew up watching Wayne and Shuster and the Kids in the Hall on CBC. Subscribe to Don't Be Alone with Jay Kogen for more conversations with writers, comedians, actors, creators, and thought leaders exploring life, creativity, politics, and the human experience. Website: https://www.dontbealonewjk.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dontbealonewithjaykogen/https://www.instagram.com/jaykogen/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dont.be.alone.wit Substack: https://substack.com/@jaykogen Merch: https://shop.app/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  4. Oct 20 ·  Video

    The Simpsons Writer Who Had to Teach Himself to Be Funny | Brent Forrester

    Brent Forrester has written for The Simpsons, The Office, King of the Hill, and The Ben Stiller Show. So naturally, he says he wasn't born funny. Brent joins Jay to explain how he actually taught himself comedy by obsessively studying jokes, breaking them apart, and figuring out why they worked — a process that eventually landed him in some of the greatest comedy writers' rooms in television history. They talk about writing during the classic years of The Simpsons, what made The Office work, Judd Apatow and The Ben Stiller Show, why some brilliant comedy writers aren't particularly funny in person, and whether being funny is something you can actually learn. Then things get existential. Can AI replace writers? What happens to art when there's no human being behind it? Why should anyone keep writing when a computer can generate something in seconds? Brent and Jay don't completely agree. They also get into the mechanics of writing jokes, why beginning comedy writers should start with sketches, Brent's formula for funny, why "silly isn't funny," writing characters who are broken, and why Brent is now betting on YouTube instead of waiting for Hollywood to give him permission to make something. Basically, two comedy writers attempt to explain comedy. Which seems like a terrible idea. Enjoy.Subscribe to Don't Be Alone with Jay Kogen for more conversations with writers, comedians, actors, creators, and thought leaders exploring life, creativity, politics, and the human experience. Website: https://www.dontbealonewjk.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dontbealonewithjaykogen/https://www.instagram.com/jaykogen/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dont.be.alone.wit Substack: https://substack.com/@jaykogen Merch: https://shop.app/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  5. Oct 13 ·  Video

    Paul Provenza Knows Way Too Much About Comedy!

    Paul Provenza has spent basically his entire life thinking about comedy. Which sounds exhausting. Paul joins Jay to talk about what actually makes someone funny, why George Carlin scripted his performances like a play, how Sarah Silverman seemed to figure out her comedic voice immediately, and why Anthony Jeselnik understands something most comedians don't: sometimes shutting up is part of the joke. They also get into The Aristocrats — the completely insane idea Paul and Penn Jillette talked about for years before finally buying some cameras and convincing a bunch of legendary comedians to tell the same filthy joke. Then there's MAD Magazine, Bugs Bunny, John Mulaney, Doug Stanhope, Set List, Paul's upcoming documentary, getting older in show business, losing people you love, and the surprisingly difficult question of what actually makes comedy... comedy. Basically, two comedy nerds spend 50 minutes talking about why things are funny. Which, somehow, is funny. Subscribe to Don't Be Alone with Jay Kogen for more conversations with writers, comedians, actors, creators, and thought leaders exploring life, creativity, politics, and the human experience. Website: https://www.dontbealonewjk.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dontbealonewithjaykogen/https://www.instagram.com/jaykogen/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dont.be.alone.wit Substack: https://substack.com/@jaykogen Merch: https://shop.app/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  6. Oct 6 ·  Video

    Chloe Radcliffe Sold a Movie Before She Knew How to Write One

    Comedian Chloe Radcliffe gave up Target corporate for comedy club and has zero patience for people who can't say the word "birthmark" out loud. AND SOMEHOW managed to sell a movie before she really knew how to write one. Jay sits down with stand-up comedian, screenwriter, and actress Chloe Radcliffe for a funny, candid conversation about what it takes to make it in comedy, why being an outsider might actually be an advantage, and learning to own the thing everyone else notices about you first. Chloe talks about growing up with a prominent birthmark and how years of dealing with other people's reactions helped shape both her perspective and her comedy. She and Jay dig into why so many comedians seem to come from the outside looking in — and how developing a sense of humor can become both a defense mechanism and eventually a career. She also tells the wild story of accidentally selling a movie to Columbia/Sony off a verbal pitch before she really understood screenwriting. Suddenly faced with actually writing the thing, Chloe headed to the library, started reading screenplays and screenwriting books, and eventually found inspiration in scripts ranging from Groundhog Day to Jurassic Park. Chloe also opens up about the less funny side of the comedy world: bad auditions, bombing onstage, audiences that aren't always receptive to women, and an uncomfortable encounter with a male headliner that illustrates the calculations women — and other outsiders — sometimes have to make when power dynamics are stacked against them. Plus, Chloe explains how ten years of competitive speech and debate quietly trained her for stand-up, why getting laid off from Target may have been one of the best things that happened to her career, what writing for The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon taught her, and why she's determined to star in her own story rather than watch somebody else play "Chloe." And somehow Jay and Chloe still find time for narcissism, hardcore crochet, s****y pop-country, Coldplay, and the possibility that maybe some people really are just boring. It’s comedy-industry war stories, sharp cultural commentary, and two funny people figuring out why anyone would willingly choose a career in show business.Subscribe to Don't Be Alone with Jay Kogen for more conversations with writers, comedians, actors, creators, and thought leaders exploring life, creativity, politics, and the human experience. Website: https://www.dontbealonewjk.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dontbealonewithjaykogen/https://www.instagram.com/jaykogen/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dont.be.alone.wit Substack: https://substack.com/@jaykogenMerch: https://shop.app/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  7. Sep 29 ·  Video

    You're Not Winning This Argument, Jay

    Political arguments are everywhere. Productive political conversations? Not so much. Jay sits down with writer, poet, and political analyst Robert Arnold, author of Defiance Until Death, to talk about why America has become obsessed with winning arguments instead of actually solving problems—and why humiliating the other side probably isn’t changing anyone’s mind. Robert talks about growing up in rural Arkansas, why he thinks he can reach people across the political divide, the role of faith and identity in American politics, and what it actually takes to have a conversation with someone who completely disagrees with you. Along the way, Robert attempts something considerably more difficult: explaining all of this to Jay. They also get into rural America, MAGA, political burnout, money in politics, why local elections matter more than most people realize, and whether there’s still a way for Americans to disagree without treating every conversation like a fight to the death. Follow Robert Arnold and check out Defiance Until Death wherever books are sold. Subscribe to Don't Be Alone with Jay Kogen for more conversations with writers, comedians, actors, creators, and thought leaders exploring life, creativity, politics, and the human experience. Website: https://www.dontbealonewjk.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dontbealonewithjaykogen/https://www.instagram.com/jaykogen/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dont.be.alone.wit Substack: https://substack.com/@jaykogen Merch: https://shop.app/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

  8. Sep 22 ·  Video

    “Nobody Knows Anything”: Confessions of a TV Exec – David Kissinger

    David Kissinger grew up swimming in Nixon's pool, getting bad-mouthed by classmates over his dad's Nobel Prize, and hanging out with people history books call monsters — and he calls uncles. Jay sits down with David Kissinger — son of Henry Kissinger, TV exec behind The Office, Battlestar Galactica, and Netflix's The Beast in Me — for a conversation that swings from Watergate to Ted Danson's phone number to the time Paul McCartney pulled out a harmonica just for him. David tells the story of the president calling his childhood neighbors "sons of bitches" (in front of a 10-year-old), explains how he squandered millions of dollars developing shows before finally getting one right, and gets brutally honest about the show he still thinks was robbed of its shot. Plus: why AI can't write a joke to save its life, what Barry Diller taught him about being a good editor, and how a 6:20am hiking group became his weekly dose of joy. It's part Hollywood war stories, part front-row seat to American political history, and part two old friends just riffing. Also: listener mail about firing a friend without losing her, and a hard stance on marzipan. Bio:  David Kissinger has spent decades helping decide what America watches on TV — and he's the son of one of the most consequential (and controversial) diplomats in modern history, so he's had a front-row seat to two very different kinds of power. Professionally, Kissinger cut his teeth as a journalist, writing for outlets including Rolling Stone and Esquire, before crossing over into the entertainment industry. He rose through television development at Disney's Touchstone Television, where he helped oversee hits like Home Improvement and Boy Meets World, then went on to run NBC Universal Television Studio, where his fingerprints are on shows including The Office, House, Monk, and Battlestar Galactica. Since 2005, he's served as President of Conaco, Conan O'Brien's production company — proof that after years of corporate TV, he still knows how to have fun. His father was Henry Kissinger, the former U.S. Secretary of State, National Security Advisor, and Nobel Peace Prize winner. Growing up with that surname meant David spent his childhood somewhere between political history and normal life, which may explain why he's spent his adult life gravitating toward comedy.  Kissinger is married to Alexandra Kissinger, who worked directly with Jim Henson and has helped carry forward the Henson legacy. Outside of work, he's an avid music fan and enjoys hiking and not answering Jay’s texts.  Subscribe to Don't Be Alone with Jay Kogen for more conversations with writers, comedians, actors, creators, and thought leaders exploring life, creativity, politics, and the human experience. Website: https://www.dontbealonewjk.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dontbealonewithjaykogen/https://www.instagram.com/jaykogen/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dont.be.alone.wit Substack: https://substack.com/@jaykogen Merch: https://shop.app/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Don’t Be Alone with Jay Kogen is a comedy/advice podcast trying to fight the isolation of modern life. Each episode, Award winning TV writer/comedian/philosopher Jay Kogen has a conversation with a friend about how to solve the problems on Jay’s mind. These friends happen to be famous comics, musicians, actors, artists, writers, and sometimes even his family. It’s an entertaining, fun, and thoughtful show meant to bond us through humor, experience, and empathy.From Straw Hut Media

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