The Gathering: Daughters of the Living King

Judy Killebrew

Welcome to The Gathering: Daughters of the Living King, where women seek to know and experience the love of Christ.  Here, in the messiness of our daily struggles we are a gathering of women who strive to live daily with Jesus. If you are an imperfect woman seeking to maximize your spiritual growth and desire to experience a transformed life with the beauty of God's love, then The Gathering is the podcast for you.

  1. May 26

    Known Before Time: Embracing the Blueprint of Jeremiah 1:5

    Send us Fan Mail Hello and welcome to The Gathering: Daughters of the Living King. I am your host, Judy Killebrew, and today we are stepping into a truth that has the power to completely re-anchor your identity. If you are walking through a season where you feel invisible, where you might feel too busy, or you don’t know why you are here……..I want you to take a deep breath. You are not an accident. Your presence on this earth is not a mistake. As women, we are constantly bombarded by cultural scripts telling us who we should be. We look in the mirror and face the pressure to be the perfect mother, the high-achieving professional, the flawless friend, and the woman who seamlessly balances it all. We curate online profiles, try the latest wellness trends, and constantly ask ourselves, "Am I doing enough? Am I enough?" Yet, the harder we try to measure up to these shifting standards, the more fragmented we feel. Today, we are stopping the hustle. We are anchoring our hearts to foundational truth. We are diving into a single verse from the Old Testament that shifts our focus from “How do I prove myself?” to “Who has always known me?” Turn your hearts to the book of Jeremiah, chapter 1, verse 5. God speaks to a young, terrified prophet—and through His Word, God speaks directly to our souls today: "Before I formed you in the womb I knew you; before you were born I sanctified you; I ordained you a prophet to the nations." Think about that. Before a single medical scan showed your heartbeat, you were an active thought in the mind of God. Over the next few minutes, we are unpacking three life-altering dimensions of this verse: God’s preconception knowledge of you, His intentional design of your life, and His specific consecration for your purpose. Let’s dive deep. To truly understand the weight of Jeremiah 1:5, we have to look at the world into which these words were spoken. Jeremiah was not living in a time of peace and prosperity. He was called to minister during one of the darkest, most chaotic eras in Israel’s history. The setting was marked by impending judgment, political corruption, and deep spiritual blindness. The nation of Judah was sliding into moral decay. The terrifying superpower of Babylon was rising on the horizon. It was into this cultural minefield that God called a young man. Scholars estimate Jeremiah was likely a teenager or in his early twenties—young, inexperienced, and fully aware of his own limitations. Let’s read the dialogue that happens right after God’s declaration. In verse 6, Jeremiah responds: "Ah, Lord God! Behold, I cannot speak, for I am a youth." Can you hear the panic in his voice? Jeremiah looks at the assignment, looks at his resume, and sees a massive deficit. He says, "I am unqualified. I don't have the status. I don't have what it takes." We do the exact same thing, don't we? God prompts our hearts to step out in faith—maybe to lead a women's Bible study, to mentor a younger sister, to navigate a difficult medical diagnosis, or to speak truth in our workplace—and our immediate reaction is to list our deficiencies. "Lord, I’m too tired. My past is too messy. I don’t know enough scripture. Look at all these other women who are better equipped than me." But notice God’s immediate correction in verses 7 and 8: "Do not say, ‘I am a youth,’ for you shall go to all to whom I send you, and whatever I command you, you shall speak. Do not be afraid of their faces, for I am with you to deliver you,’ says the Lord." God completely bypasses Jeremiah’s excuses because the assignment never depended on Jeremiah’s adequacy. It depended on God’s authority. When God told Jeremiah, "Before I formed you, I knew you," He was giving him an anchor. God was saying, "I engineered you precisely to handle this exact moment in history." He says the same to you today, my sister. You were engineered for this moment. Let’s break down Jeremiah 1:5 phrase by phrase. There are four distinct verbs used by God here that outline the anatomy of human identity: Formed, Knew, Sanctified, and Ordained. 1. "Before I formed you..." The Hebrew word used here for "formed" is yatsar. This is the same word used in Genesis 2:7 when God forms Adam from the dust of the ground. It is an artistic, intentional word. It is the language of a potter shaping clay. Think about a master potter. They don’t just throw random clay on a wheel and hope for the best. They have a blueprint in their mind before their hands ever touch the material. They decide the thickness, the height, the texture, and the purpose of the vessel. For every woman listening who has ever struggled with body image, physical insecurities, or health challenges: your physical frame is not a cosmic accident. Your genetic makeup, your natural inclinations, your physical traits, and even the era of history you were born into were hand-formed by the Sovereign Architect of the universe. 2. "...I knew you..." In ancient Hebrew, the word for "know" is yada. This is not a superficial, intellectual knowledge. It isn't God looking down from heaven saying, "Oh yes, I know of her." Yada denotes a deep, intimate, experiential relationship. In the Old Testament, yada is used to describe the most sacred covenant bond between a husband and a wife. When God says, "I knew you," He is saying, "I loved you, I chose you, and I set My heart upon you before time began." You were loved before you ever had the chance to perform, to succeed, or to fail. Your value was established in eternity past. 3. "...before you were born I sanctified you..." To "sanctify" means to set something apart for a holy, specific purpose. In the temple practices of Israel, a vessel that was sanctified could not be used for ordinary, everyday tasks. It was reserved exclusively for the service of the King. Before you drew your first breath, God put a claim on your life. He set you apart. This means you do not belong to the culture's expectations. You do not even belong to yourself. You belong to the Living God, set apart to reflect His glory in your family, your community, and the world. 4. "...I ordained you a prophet to the nations." The word "ordained" means to appoint or to give a specific commission. Jeremiah’s specific assignment was to be a prophet to the nations. Your assignment will look different. You might be ordained to cultivate a holy home, to bring justice to a corporate space, to minister to the brokenhearted, or to break generational curses in your family line. But make no mistake: you have an assignment. You are here on official kingdom business. The theme of being known by God before birth is a golden thread woven tightly throughout the entire tapestry of Scripture. When we see a truth repeated across different writers, generations, and covenants, we must sit up and pay attention. “I am not an accident. I am hand-formed by the Creator. I am deeply known by the King. I am set apart for His purposes. I am fully equipped for my assignment. My identity is secure in Jesus Christ.”

    19 min
  2. May 13

    The Lioness Within: A Mother’s Courage to Roar

    Send us Fan Mail Today, we give thanks to God for the gift of mothers—women who reflect His heart through their love, their strength, and their faithfulness. We honor the mothers who carried us, who nurtured us from our first breath, who taught us to walk, to pray, and to hope. We honor the adoptive and foster mothers, who surround their children with intention and love, showing the world the beauty of God’s redeeming embrace. We honor the grandmothers, aunts, and guardians who stepped in with courage and tenderness, filling homes with stability, wisdom, and joy. And today, we also honor the Spiritual mothers—the women who have poured into the lives of others through prayer, discipleship, and encouragement. These are the women who teach Scripture, who listen with compassion, who speak truth in love, and who help shape the faith of the next generation. Their influence is eternal, their ministry priceless. To every woman who has mothered a heart, guided a soul, or lifted someone up in Christ— God sees you, God loves you, and God blesses you. Your labor is not in vain. Your prayers are not forgotten. Your love is a reflection of the God who shelters us all with His comfort and His grace. May the Lord strengthen you, refresh you, and surround you with His peace. May He reward your faithfulness and fill your life with joy. And to every mother who grieves today: may you feel the nearness of God in the empty places, and may His gentle comfort remind you that your love still matters, your story still matters, and your tears are seen by the One who holds you close.

    27 min
  3. Apr 27

    Strength & Dignity for Every Season: Serving in Ministry while Parenting Emerging Adults

    Send us Fan Mail Today, we are discussing women serving in ministry and who are parenting children who are emerging into adulthood. If you have children, more than likely you have gone through this season, or you are going through this season, or this season will be in your future. Having gone through this season myself with 5 children, I want to share the unique challenges and spiritual opportunities of this special time in our lives. The call to serving in ministry is sacred. It’s personal. And for many women, whether we are leading a small group, teaching Sunday School, working in non-profits, or serving our community….ministry is a life poured out in service. But when ministry overlaps with parenting older teenagers or college‑aged children, something shifts. The pouring out continues, but the vessel itself is changing. This season is full of tension, transition, and deep emotional complexity for mother and child. Our home — once filled with the daily work of hands‑on parenting — becomes a place of prayerful watching. Our young adult children are stepping into independence, yet they still look for our wisdom, our steadiness, and our love. And for women serving in ministry, this season can feel like a delicate dance: Releasing our children into adulthood while staying present with them, and at the same time, leading and serving our community while continuing to nurture the home environment.  Ecclesiastes 3:1 reminds us, “To everything there is a season.” But to be very honest, this season can feel especially complicated. Because women who serve in ministry often feel the weight of two worlds: The public calling to serveThe private responsibility of the familyWe may feel scrutinized — by congregations, communities, or even our own expectations. We may self-impose pressure to appear spiritually strong or even try to maintain a certain family image…which can be heavy……creating guilt, exhaustion, or a sense of inadequacy. Women may wrestle with guilt—feeling they are not doing enough at home or at work.  But friend, Scripture pushes back on that pressure. God never asked us to be perfect. He asked us to be faithful. 2 Corinthians 12:9 reminds us, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Colossians 3:23 tells us, “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord.” And I love the Apostle Paul’s words in Galatians 1:10:  “Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God?” That is powerful. We must remember that our audience is God, not people. Parenting emerging adults requires discernment, emotional presence, and spiritual resilience. And serving in Ministry requires the same. Jesus’ invitation to us for rest becomes essential: He states in Matthew 11:28  “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” Jesus modeled boundaries. He withdrew. He rested. He said no.

    13 min
  4. Mar 28

    The "Rahab"-ilitation of Faith

    Send us Fan Mail Friends, today we are discussing the story of Rahab and what she teaches women of today in courage, redemption, and Kingdom Purpose.  The story of Rahab, found primarily in Joshua Chapter 2 and Matthew Chapter 1, stands as one of Scripture’s most striking portraits of transformation. Rahab was a Canaanite prostitute living in Jericho who saved two Israelite spies sent by Joshua, securing safety for her family during the city’s destruction. Known for her faith and courage, she abandoned her past, became part of Israel, and is remarkably listed in the genealogy of Jesus Christ. Though her life began in a place of brokenness and moral compromise, Rahab emerges as a woman of remarkable courage, discernment, and faith. Her journey speaks powerfully to women today—women navigating identity, past wounds, cultural pressures, and the call of God on their lives. Rahab’s life is a living testimony of what God can do with a willing heart. The first point Rabah makes in scripture is that your past does not disqualify you. Rahab is introduced as “Rahab the prostitute.” For many, that label would have been the end of the story. Yet Scripture refuses to hide her past because God intends to highlight His grace. Rahab shows women today that: God is not intimidated by your historyYour past is not your identityAnd, your story can become a testimonyRahab’s transformation reminds women that God specializes in rewriting lives. He does not wait for perfection—He responds to faith. Rahab’s defining moment came when she chose to hide the Israelite spies. This was an act of treason against her own city and could have cost her life. Yet she acted with boldness because she recognized God's movement. We can learn from Rahab that courage is not the absence of fear—it is choosing obedience in the face of fear. Courage may look like: Standing for truth when it is unpopularProtecting the vulnerableLeaving unhealthy patterns or relationshipsAnd trusting God with an uncertain futureRahab’s bravery shows that one courageous decision can change the trajectory of an entire family. Rahab saw what others in Jericho refused to acknowledge: God was at work. She discerned the moment, recognized the truth, and aligned herself with God’s purposes. Women today are called to cultivate that same spiritual discernment—to see beyond circumstances and recognize where God is moving. Rahab teaches that discernment requires: ListeningObservingSeeking truthResponding with wisdomHer insight saved her household and positioned her for blessing. Rahab did not simply believe in the God of Israel; she acted on that belief. She hid the spies, negotiated for her family’s safety, and tied the scarlet cord in her window as a sign of the covenant. Her story reminds women that faith is not passive. It is lived out in choices, obedience, and trust. Faith becomes visible when we: Step into God’s callingMake decisions aligned with His WordTrust Him with outcomes we cannot controlRahab’s story dismantles the idea that women are secondary in God’s plan. She played a strategic role in Israel’s victory and became part of the lineage of Jesus Himself. Women today can draw strength from Rahab’s example: God sees youGod calls youGod equips youGod includes you in His redemptive workRahab’s life affirms that women carry influence, purpose, and spiritual authority.

    11 min
  5. Mar 3

    Unmasking Imposter Syndrome

    Send us Fan Mail Friends, today, we are talking about a feeling most of us have felt, but few of us admit: the feeling that we are totally unqualified and may lack confidence in our role that God has given us. That somehow, the job we have, the table that we have been invited to, or the ministry we are in…….all happened by accident—and any second now, someone is going to tap us on the shoulder and say, 'You don't belong here.' Have you ever felt like you don’t belong? More specifically, have you ever wondered if you were included, accepted, or invited by mistake? Have you worried that someone might have overestimated your abilities, or that you are underqualified? If so, this is called imposter syndrome. And Imposter syndrome is the reason we quit early… before we have the chance to disappoint others… or so we think. Imposter syndrome is why we never fully step into our calling: we lack confidence.  It hides in the shadows of our insecurities, shaming us with lies about our inadequacy. Imposter syndrome is the feeling that “you are not enough," and the persistent, internal, and often irrational fear that you are unworthy of God’s love and unqualified for your calling, despite evidence to the contrary. Most of us struggle with it at one time or another, totally unaware that the person right next to us might feel exactly the same way we do.   While the term is modern, the struggle has been there through the ages.  For example, Moses was a Reluctant Leader when God first called upon him. In Exodus 3:11, Moses asked God, "Who am I?" that I should go to Pharaoh and lead the people of Israel out of Egypt?” And God’s response was not a pep talk to Moses but a promise of His Divine Presence. God simply answered Moses in verse 12, "I will be with you". Another example in the Bible is Jeremiah, who could be considered The Youthful Skeptic. In Jeremiah 1:6, Jeremiah claimed he was too young and unskilled to speak for God as a prophet. Yet God commanded Jeremiah to shift focus from his own limitations to his divine appointment. God tells Jeremiah in verse 7, “Don’t say, I’m too young, for you must go wherever I send you and say whatever I tell you”. And let’s take a look at Paul in the New Testament, who learned that God's power is "made perfect in weakness" and that God’s grace is enough for us. Paul's confession of his weakness to God allowed Christ's power to rest upon him. Imposter syndrome says, "I'm weak, and that's a problem." But Paul understood, "I am weak, and that's a platform for God’s power." In 2 Corinthians 12:9-10, Paul states, “Therefore, I am very happy to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ can work through me. So now I am glad to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ can work through me.  That’s why I take pleasure in my weaknesses, and in the insults, hardships, persecutions, and troubles that I suffer for Christ. For when I am weak, then I am strong.”  Friends, our weakness isn't a liability; it's the platform where God's strength is most visible. Another issue with Imposter syndrome is that it thrives when identity is anchored in the performance of what we do. My friend, the World wants you to believe the Lie: "that you must qualify yourself to be worthy." But God’s Truth is that our Worth is inherent, not earned. We are God's "handiwork" or masterpiece, created for purposes designed in advance. We are not a masterpiece because of what we did; we are a masterpiece because of who made us. Imposter syndrome disappears when we remember that our identity is anchored in grace (when we remember that our identity is who God says we are).

    12 min
  6. Feb 27

    In 2026, Joy is my Compass!

    Send us Fan Mail My word for 2026 is Joy, and the verse I have been reflecting on is Romans 15:13, which states: "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit."  In a world that often equates well-being with external success, the biblical definition of joy (or chara in Greek) is revolutionary. And let’s not confuse happiness with joy.  Happiness is a reaction to favorable "happenings," BUT biblical joy is a settled state of contentment rooted in the character of God. As I enter into 2026, I choose to define joy not as the absence of struggle, but as the presence of God. It is the "calm delight" that comes from knowing that, regardless of the global or personal climate, the Sovereign King is still on His throne.  Joy is a fruit of the Spirit, not a feeling.  Galatians 5:22 lists joy as the second fruit of the Spirit. This implies two things for me this year: It is cultivated: Fruit takes time to grow. It requires the soil of Scripture and the water of prayer.And it is supernatural: You cannot manufacture holy joy through willpower. It is the natural byproduct of "abiding in the vine" (John 15:5).To live out this word in 2026, I am focusing less on "trying to be joyful" and more on "staying connected to the Source of Joy." When the connection is strong, the fruit of joy appears automatically. Nehemiah 8:10 declares, "The joy of the Lord is your strength." In the original context, the people were weeping over their past failures. Nehemiah corrected them, essentially saying that their strength for the future was found in celebrating God’s goodness. So in 2026, I choose to use joy as a defensive tool: I use joy against Anxiety: Joy reminds us that the battle is already won.I use joy Against Bitterness: Joy shifts focus from what we lack to what we have been given.And I use joy against Exhaustion: Joy provides a "second wind" that physical rest cannot provide.And friends, a "Word of the Year" only changes your life if it changes your days. Three practices I have put in place for this year are: Gratitude Audits: At the end of each day, I name three "God-glimmers"—moments where His joy was visible.Sacrifice of Praise: On the days when joy feels furthest away, I offer a "sacrifice of praise" (Hebrews 13:15). Worship is often the doorway to the joy you can't yet feel.Joyful Service: Joy is one of the few things that increases as it is given away. I will intentionally look for opportunities to be the "overflow" mentioned in Romans 15:13.As I navigate 2026, I choose to let "Joy" be my compass. It isn't a naive optimism; it is a profound theological statement that God is good, He is here, and He is enough. May my life reflect the "indescribable and glorious joy" (1 Peter 1:8) that comes from a life hidden in Christ. Friends, I have attached episode 25, “A New Year, A New Word”.  There is something special about starting a New Year with God-centered prayer and having a dedicated word that intentionally stirs the heart for God’s purpose and plans.  In 2024, my Word was “Gather, in 2025, the word was Harvest and this year, in 2026, my word is Joy. I encourage you to choose a spiritual word for 2026 focused on intimacy with God.  Be intentional about integrating this word into your daily life through prayer, meditation, and journaling.

    14 min
  7. Feb 22

    Boldly to the Throne: A Prayer for Salvation for Family and Friends

    Send us Fan Mail Heavenly Father, Almighty God, Creator of all things seen and unseen, I come before Your throne of grace today with a heart burdened not for myself, but for those I cherish deeply. You know each of my loved ones by name. You know their paths, their struggles, and the condition of their hearts. I lift them up to You now, with all the love and longing within me, desperately praying for the salvation of their souls. Lord, Your Word declares that You are not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance and everlasting life. I cling to that promise now. I pray that the scales would fall from their eyes and the veil would be lifted from their understanding. Break through the deception, the pride, the apathy, and the distractions of this world that keep them from recognizing their need for a Savior. I ask that You send Your Holy Spirit to move mightily in their lives. Create a holy dissatisfaction within them with their current circumstances and worldly pursuits. Stir a hunger and a thirst for righteousness that only You can satisfy. Soften their hearts, Lord, which may be hardened by hurt, skepticism, or sin.  Soften the heart for a receptive soil for the seed of Your Gospel. Dispatch Your angels to surround them and orchestrate divine appointments. Bring faithful, loving witnesses into their lives who can clearly share the good news of Jesus Christ in a way that resonates with them. Remove any false beliefs, misconceptions about who You are, or any past hurt with the church that are acting as stumbling blocks to their faith. I pray specifically for a moment of profound revelation for my loved ones and friends—may there be a personal encounter with Your undeniable love and truth. Whether through a crisis that reveals their need, a gentle whisper in the quietness of their heart, or the undeniable evidence of Your creation, draw them relentlessly toward Yourself. Lord Jesus, You are the Way, the Truth, and the Life. I pray that they would see You not just as a historical figure, but as the living God who died for their sins and rose again. Instill in them the faith to confess with their mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in their heart that You raised Him from the dead, so that they might be saved. Grant me patience and wisdom as I interact with those who are not saved. Help me to live a life that reflects Your light, being a testimony of Your saving grace without judgment or condemnation. Give me the right words to speak and, more importantly, the wisdom to know when to simply pray and trust You to work. I trust my loved ones into Your capable hands, knowing that Your love for them is even greater than my own. I believe that You hear this prayer and that You are working behind the scenes for their eternal destiny. I thank You in advance for their salvation and for the day when we will all stand together before You in glory. In the mighty, saving name of Jesus Christ, I pray, Amen.

    6 min
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Welcome to The Gathering: Daughters of the Living King, where women seek to know and experience the love of Christ.  Here, in the messiness of our daily struggles we are a gathering of women who strive to live daily with Jesus. If you are an imperfect woman seeking to maximize your spiritual growth and desire to experience a transformed life with the beauty of God's love, then The Gathering is the podcast for you.