Females Thriving Over Thirty

Jasmine Foley & Soraya Barrera
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Successful women over thirty discussing everything they’ve learnt to get them where they are today. A celebration of thirties and beyond!

  1. 3d ago

    Welcome to Season 7: IVF Setbacks, Quieting an Overthinking Brain & the Customer Service Crisis

    Season 7 is officially here — and we're kicking off with a completely honest catch-up on everything that's happened since end of April. Soraya opens up about her fourth embryo transfer not working, navigating IVF with endometriosis, doing fertility injections on a Ryanair flight, and the hardest question of all: how do you make peace with the possibility that motherhood might not happen — and protect your mental health while trying? We also get into the customer service crisis (cowboy builders, kitchens that arrive with missing parts, three weeks without Wi-Fi after moving house), and Jasmine's new chapter in her countryside cottage — now officially renamed Raspberry Cottage. Plus: overthinking and how to quiet a busy brain, what it's like to think with aphantasia (no mental images at all), making time for deep friendships in your 30s, and a sneak peek at the Season 7 guest lineup — including investing expert Peter K on whether the OpenAI and Anthropic IPOs are worth your money. Don't forget to Watch Soraya's TEDx talk: https://youtu.be/MkAfq6m8ECw?si=qE1PyTa2NK6A8oa4 In this episode: IVF, endometriosis and egg quality — what Soraya has tried and what's nextCoping with fertility disappointment and protecting your mental healthThe decline of customer service and accountability at workHow to stop overthinking (and why your brain won't shut up)Aphantasia: thinking without mental imagesMoving house, slow living and life in an English villageThe Females Thriving Over 30 Podcast is the weekly catch-up for women navigating their 30s and beyond — careers, fertility, friendships, money, wellbeing and everything in between. If this episode resonates, share it with a woman who needs it. ivf journey, failed embryo transfer, ivf with endometriosis, fertility podcast, embryo transfer failed, endometriosis and fertility, egg quality ivf, trying to conceive over 35, women over 30 podcast, podcast for women, overthinking, how to stop overthinking, aphantasia, quiet your mind, customer service rant, female friendship podcast, fertility journey update, ivf update, females thriving over 30, women's wellbeing

    48 min

  2. Apr 23

    Season 6 Farewell: AI Is Cloning Your Voice, Heart Tests, and Why We're More Excited Than Ever for Season 7

    It's the Season 6 farewell episode of Females Thriving Over 30, and we're going out with a bang. Soraya and Jasmine get real about the AI trends that are genuinely frightening — including how social media platforms may already own your voice, how influencers are faking entire life moments with AI-generated photos, and why filters have become so convincing that a missing girl couldn't be identified from her own photos. Jasmine opens up about her recent visit to the hospital for genetic heart testing after her dad was diagnosed with cardiomyopathy — sharing the emotional reality of facing a family health condition, what it's like to sit in a hospital waiting for results, and why she almost didn't go at all. We also cover: completing a virtual marathon walking challenge, running a 10K in 10-year-old trainers (not recommended), learning chess, Duolingo guilt, phonics vs. the alphabet, and the joy of buying new running shoes just to justify using them. Plus: what's coming in Season 7 — including an investing interview already booked, new guests, and big things ahead. If you have a family history of heart conditions, Jasmine shares how she got referred for genetic testing and why you don't have to wait for a GP to bring it up. And if you're on Meta — go check your voice cloning settings after listening to this. ✨ What You’ll Learn in this episode AI voice cloning on Meta — how to check your settings RIGHT NOW   Influencers using AI to fake entire life moments (Miami Open photo scandal)  Filters so realistic a missing woman couldn't be identified from her own photos  AI deepfakes, fake endorsements, and what happened to Ashley James  Jasmine's emotional experience getting genetic heart testing at Nottingham City Hospital  Understanding cardiomyopathy and how to get referred for genetic testing through the NHS  Running a 10K untrained in 10-year-old trainers (and surviving)  Completing a virtual marathon walking challenge  Endometriosis, exercise, and walking as a wellness tool  Duolingo guilt, chess, new books, and moving house  What's coming in Season 7 — including a special investing interview  💌 Stay Connected Subscribe for more real-life conversations that uplift, inform, and empower women 30+. Follow us on IG & TikTok: @FemalesThrivingOverthirty Business/guest inquiries: fto30podcast@gmail.com Soraya announced part 1 of her secret project and you can now subscribe and read weekly essays on her substack. It’s free!!!  https://lifeunscheduled.substack.com/ AI voice cloning, deepfakes explained, AI and social media, Meta voice cloning settings, cardiomyopathy genetic testing, women's health, NHS genetic testing, how to get genetic heart testing UK, endometriosis and exercise, fitness over 30, running a 10K, AI influencer fake photos, Ashley James AI deepfake,

    49 min

  3. Apr 16

    Self-Love Isn't Bubble Baths: The Uncomfortable Truth About Choosing Yourself in Your 30s — with Lisa Bennett

    What if everything you've been told about self-love is wrong? We're taught self-love means bubble baths, face masks, and affirmations in the mirror. But real self-love in your 30s often looks uncomfortable — letting friendships go, setting boundaries that disappoint people, and choosing a life that doesn't match the timeline society handed you. This week, Jasmine and Soraya are joined by Lisa Bennett — emergency responder, open-heart surgery survivor, and the reigning Ms Universal Petite Australia 2026 — for an honest conversation about what self-love really means when you've had a brush with death and decided to live differently. Whether you're feeling stuck, behind, or just ready to stop people-pleasing, this episode is a permission slip to start choosing yourself. ✨ What You’ll Learn in this episode Why self-love is uncomfortable (and why that's the point)  Lisa's three pillars of self-love: physical, emotional, and environmental  How to set boundaries with friends without guilt • The "love / not love" list exercise that can change your life in one afternoon  Why your timeline doesn't have to match anyone else's  How to stop comparing yourself to social media  Doing things alone — and learning to enjoy your own company  Why dressing well (even at home) genuinely changes your mood  Trusting your gut when something in your life isn't right Connect with Lisa:  📲 Instagram: @MissLisaBennett and @SheDaredToLoveHerself 💌 Stay Connected Subscribe for more real-life conversations that uplift, inform, and empower women 30+. Follow us on IG & TikTok: @FemalesThrivingOverthirty Business/guest inquiries: fto30podcast@gmail.com Soraya announced part 1 of her secret project and you can now subscribe and read weekly essays on her substack. It’s free!!!  https://lifeunscheduled.substack.com/ self love, self love journey, boundaries, women in your 30s, personal growth, female empowerment, mental health, people pleasing, comparison, social media, friendships, female friendships, mindset, women's wellness podcast, growth in your 30s, life advice for women, choosing yourself, self care that works.

    47 min

  4. Apr 9

    Make-up over 30: Why the make-up routine from your twenties is sabotaging you! ft. MUA Helena Walker

    If your foundation is creasing, your eyeliner is disappearing into your lid, and your "signature look" suddenly feels off — it's not you. It's that the makeup rules for skin over 30 are completely different, and nobody tells you when they change. In this episode, Soraya and Jasmine sit down with professional makeup artist Helena Walker to break down exactly why the products and techniques that worked in our 20s stop working after 30, 35, and 40 — and what to do instead. Soraya also announces part 1 of her secret project and you can now subscribe and read weekly essays on her substack. It’s free!!!  https://lifeunscheduled.substack.com/ ✨ What You’ll Learn in this episode Why winged eyeliner stops working on hooded eyes (and the 10-second fix)  The under-eye powder mistake that's setting fine lines INTO your face Why cream products beat powders on mature skin The £6 drugstore foundation Helena secretly uses on her clients  Why black eyeliner is aging you and what to swap it for How often you ACTUALLY need to clean your beauty blender (you're not going to like the answer)  The "outside-in" foundation technique pros use to avoid cakey skin Why your old makeup palette is literally going off like food Whether you're in your 30s, 40s, or 50s, this is the mature makeup masterclass you didn't know you needed.  Honest, funny, and full of drugstore-friendly tips you can actually use tomorrow morning. Connect with Helena:  📲 Instagram, Youtube & TikTok: @ohhelmakeupartist 💌 Stay Connected Subscribe for more real-life conversations that uplift, inform, and empower women 30+. Follow us on IG & TikTok: @FemalesThrivingOverthirty Business/guest inquiries: fto30podcast@gmail.com makeup over 40, makeup over 30, mature skin makeup, makeup tips for fine lines, hooded eyes makeup. women over 30 podcast, drugstore makeup, makeup artist interview

    1h 1m

  5. Apr 3

    Love, Money & Red Flags: Protecting Your Finances in Relationships with Peta-Kay

    We've been taught to chase love — but nobody teaches us how to protect ourselves inside it. In this episode, Soraya and Jasmine are joined by financial advisor and coach Peta-Kay, known as Your Finance PT, for an honest, no-filter conversation about what really happens when love and money collide. Whether you're newly dating, in a long-term relationship, or rebuilding after a breakup — this episode is full of practical advice and real talk you won't hear anywhere else. ✨ What You’ll Learn The money red flags to look out for when dating (hint: it's not just about job titles) Why financial independence is the most important form of self-love How to protect your assets if you own property before getting married The truth about the 50/50 split — and why it often fails women What to do if you take time out of work to raise children Should you take out credit in your partner's name? (Spoiler: think twice) How to handle a partner with a gambling addiction or hidden debt Practical steps to start building your own financial safety net today Budgeting as a couple: date nights, savings pots, and money conversations that actually work Peta-Kay also shares her personal experience managing finances in a 7-year marriage, and the one thing every woman should have — no matter how much you trust your partner. Connect with Peta-Kay:  🌐 www.pearlsandperils.com  📲 Instagram & TikTok: @yourfinancept 💌 Stay Connected Subscribe for more real-life conversations that uplift, inform, and empower women 30+. Follow us on IG & TikTok: @FemalesThrivingOverthirty Business/guest inquiries: fto30podcast@gmail.com financial independence, women and money, love and finances, money in relationships, financial red flags, budgeting for couples, women over 30, financial advisor, personal finance for women, relationship money advice

    56 min

  6. Mar 26

    The 4R Blueprint: Why You Feel Exhausted, Hormonally Off & Bloated Even When You're 'Doing Everything Right' ft. Sarah Law

    Have you been doing everything "right" — eating clean, exercising, taking supplements — and still feeling exhausted, inflamed, foggy or just not yourself? You're not imagining it. And it's not your fault. In this episode, Soraya and Jasmine sit down with nutritionist and functional health coach Sarah Law, who spent three years and thousands of pounds trying to fix her health after long COVID left her gaining 10kg overnight, unable to exercise, and struggling with severe brain fog. Nothing worked — until she found the root cause approach that changed everything. Sarah shares the 4R Blueprint — her four-phase framework (Reduce, Rebalance, Revive, Renew) that is helping women understand what their bodies actually need, in the right order, to finally feel like themselves again. ✨ What You’ll Learn What the 4R Blueprint is and why the ORDER of healing matters Why inflammation causes weight loss resistance (and has nothing to do with willpower) The real reason your hormones are out of balance — and why hormones are rarely the root cause How gut health, liver detoxification, bile flow and the estrobolome drive hormonal imbalances Why fasting might be the wrong tool at the wrong time for you How circadian rhythm affects your mitochondria, hormones and metabolism The truth about GLP weight loss injections What deep functional lab testing reveals that standard NHS blood panels miss Why electrolytes (not just water) matter every single day The very first step to take if you're starting from scratch — even on a budget Resources Mentioned Sarah’s instagram: @sarahlawuk Sarah's Membership 5 days free access - https://whop.com/optimisedhealthhub/5dayaccesspass/ Endometriosis Masterclass - https://sarah-law.uk/endo-decoded  The Dirty Dozen and Clean 15 List 💌 Stay Connected Subscribe for more real-life conversations that uplift, inform, and empower women 30+. Follow us on IG & TikTok: @FemalesThrivingOverthirty Business/guest inquiries: fto30podcast@gmail.com women's health, hormone balance, gut health, 4R blueprint, functional nutrition, weight loss resistance, perimenopause, estrogen dominance, metabolic health, circadian rhythm, long COVID, fatigue, bloating, brain fog, liver detox, mitochondria, GLP injections, fasting for women, endometriosis, women's health podcast

    55 min

  7. Mar 19

    Millennials vs Gen Z: Things They’ll NEVER Understand 😂📱

    The generational debate is ON! In this episode we dive into all the things that Gen Z will never truly understand — and honestly… we had a LOT to say 😅 From burning CDs and texting with one thumb, to dialing up the internet and handing in CVs in person — this episode is packed with nostalgia, laughs, and a few “wow, we really lived through that” moments. We also share how this episode was inspired by a viral Reddit thread that sparked thousands of responses 👀 and took us right back to simpler (and sometimes harder!) times. If you’ve ever said “kids these days have it easy”… this one’s for you. 💬 Join the Conversation What’s one thing Gen Z will NEVER understand?Do you think life was better before smartphones?What’s something you miss from your childhood or teenage years? ✨ What You’ll Learn The biggest differences between Millennial and Gen Z life experiencesWhy “call me after 9pm” used to be a real thing 📞How technology has changed effort, patience, and attention spansThe nostalgia of pre-streaming, pre-smartphone lifeWhy convenience today might come at a hidden cost 💌 Stay Connected Subscribe for more real-life conversations that uplift, inform, and empower women 30+. Follow us on IG & TikTok: @FemalesThrivingOverthirty Business/guest inquiries: fto30podcast@gmail.com Reddit, millennials vs genz, things genz don’t understand, millennial nostalgia, 90s and 2000s childhood, life before smartphones, old technology memories, females thriving over 30 podcast, generational differences, reddit stories millennials, growing up before internet

    1h 4m

  8. Mar 13

    From Rock Bottom to Thriving in 365 Days 💔➡️✨ How One Breakup Changed Everything

    What if the worst breakup of your life became the best thing that ever happened to you? In this powerful episode we sit down with author and content creator Amy Rebecca, who shares the raw story of how a broken engagement, a global pandemic, and losing her job all happened at once — sending her to what she calls the “basement of rock bottom.” But instead of staying there, Amy decided to try something simple yet life-changing: one small positive action every day for 365 days. The result? Within just three months, her mindset began to shift, her life transformed, and she discovered a level of contentment she had never experienced before. In this episode, we explore how tiny daily actions can create massive change, how to heal after a breakup, and why your biggest setback might actually be your greatest opportunity for growth. If you’re going through a breakup, a life reset, or feeling stuck in any area of your life, this episode might be the blueprint you need. (Based on the podcast conversation featured in this episode.) 💬 Join the Conversation ​Have you ever experienced a breakup that completely changed your life?​What’s one small action you could take today to improve your life?​Do you believe difficult moments can lead to better opportunities? ✨ What You’ll Learn ​Why some breakups hurt deeper than others and how to start healing​The “This Time Next Year” challenge and how it can transform your life​Why focusing on one small action a day is more powerful than drastic change​The difference between external validation and true personal contentment​How to rebuild confidence after a breakup or major life change​Why joy is just as important as productivity when improving your life​Practical tips for moving on, including boundaries and social media detox Stay Connected Subscribe for more real-life conversations that uplift, inform, and empower women 30+. Follow us on IG & TikTok: @FemalesThrivingOverthirty Business/guest inquiries: fto30podcast@gmail.com Resources & Support Mentioned ​Book: Just As I Am by Amy Rebecca​Amy’s “This Time Next Year” Challenge​Instagram and Tiktok: @its_aimeerebecca breakup healing, life after breakup, personal growth, how to rebuild your life, breakup advice for women, self improvement after breakup, one small change every day, this time next year challenge, healing journey after heartbreak, breakup transformation story, women empowerment, finding happiness after breakup, starting over in life

    51 min
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Successful women over thirty discussing everything they’ve learnt to get them where they are today. A celebration of thirties and beyond!

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  • Creator
    Jasmine Foley & Soraya Barrera
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    83
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © Jasmine Foley & Soraya Barrera
  • Show Website
    Females Thriving Over Thirty