The Positively Healthy Mom

Laura Ollinger, M.Ed. in Health & Wellness | Teen & Parent Well-Being Coach
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Mastering Parenting Teenagers with Confidence & Connection Stop nagging and start connecting. The Positively Healthy Mom is the essential resource for moms of teens and preteens who want to navigate the "messy middle" of adolescence without losing themselves. Hosted by Teen & Young Adult Well-Being Coach Laura Ollinger, this podcast is built on a singular truth: a healthy, regulated mother is the secret to a thriving home. Do you find yourself asking: How do I connect with my teen without them shutting down or exploding? How do I support my teen’s mental health and anxiety without making it worse? What do I need to know about the teen brain to communicate better?Every Wednesday, Laura brings you deep-dive conversations with neuroscientists, child therapists, coaches and academic strategists to provide real-time answers to the complex issues families face today. What We Solve Together: Teen Mental Health & Resilience: Research-backed strategies for raising resilient teenagers in high-pressure school and sports environments. Neurobiology & Positive Parenting: Understanding the teen brain to move from a relationship of control to one of deep, lasting connection. Maternal Well-Being & Burnout Recovery: Tactical time management and emotional regulation tools (EFT, HeartMath, and breathwork) to help you reclaim your identity. Digital Wellness: Navigating social media boundaries, cell phone contracts, and screen time. College & Academic Strategy: Expert insights on college admissions and academic pressure.About Your Host:Laura Ollinger is a Teen & Parent Well-Being Coach dedicated to helping moms of teens and tweens thrive. She holds a Master’s in Health and Wellness Education, is a National Board Certified Health and Wellness Coach, and maintains multiple certifications—including Elite Certified Neuroencoding Specialist, Functional Medicine Certified Health Coach, Dr. Amen Brain Health Trainer, and certification from the HeartMath Institute in Stress, Anxiety, and Emotional Regulation. As a mom of four (two boys and two girls aged 12–16) and the founder of Positively Healthy Coaching, Laura understands firsthand the challenges and rewards of parenting during the teen and tween years. Through her coaching programs and The Positively Healthy Mom Podcast, she equips parents with the mindset, skillset, and self-awareness needed to cultivate confidence, connection, and emotional mastery. Learn more at www.thepositivelyhealthymom.com. Connect with Laura: Web: Positively Healthy Coaching Instagram: @positivelyhealthycoaching YouTube: The Positively Healthy Mom Channel

  1. How to Support Your Daughter Through Teen Girl Drama Without Taking Over

    6d ago ·  Video

    How to Support Your Daughter Through Teen Girl Drama Without Taking Over

    Is your daughter struggling with friendship drama, and are you finding it hard not to jump in and "fix" it for her? In this episode of The Positively Healthy Mom, we sit down with Sheri Gazitt, a global friendship expert and founder of Teen Wise. Sheri brings over 30 years of experience in counseling psychology to help us deconstruct the "mean girl" narrative and understand the developmental roots of social conflict. This episode is a must-listen for moms of teens and young adults who want to move from being a "White Knight" to a supportive consultant, fostering true independence and resilience in their daughters. Key Conversations in This Episode: The "White Knight" Trap: Understanding how stepping in to solve social problems can inadvertently rob your daughter of her independence and confidence. Deconstructing the "Mean Girl" Myth: Why most hurtful actions are rooted in a lack of social skills or curiosity rather than malice, and how to reframe this for your teen. Managing your "Emotional Backpack": How our own past social traumas can trigger overreactions to our teen’s struggles, and how to stay grounded. Scaffolding vs. Fixing: Practical strategies for supporting your daughter through conflict by setting boundaries and teaching communication skills rather than taking the wheel.Common Question About Moms Of Teen Girls and Social Conflict:Question: How can I tell if I'm helping or "over-parenting" during a friendship dispute? Answer: If you are contacting other parents or school officials before your daughter has tried to handle it herself, you might be in "fixer" mode. Helping means listening, validating her feelings, and brainstorming ways she can address the situation, rather than doing it for her. Meet Our Expert:Sheri Gazitt is a global friendship expert, speaker, and founder of Teen Wise. With a background in counseling psychology, she has supported thousands of girls and their families in navigating friendship struggles, social anxiety, and the emotional world of growing up. She is the author of Girl Drama Decoded, and her work helps parents understand what’s really happening beneath the surface of teen social dynamics. On a personal note, Sheri has been married for over 30 years and has three children in their 20s. Connect with Sheri: Website: Teen Wise Instagram: @beteenwise Facebook: Be Teen Wise YouTube: Teen Wise LinkedIn: Sheri GazittResources From Laura Ollinger Book A Coaching Call: Let’s Work It Out! Instagram: @positivelyhealthycoaching Rate this podcast!

    29 min
  2. How to Help Your College Student Gain Independence and Executive Function Skills

    May 20 ·  Video

    How to Help Your College Student Gain Independence and Executive Function Skills

    In this episode of The Positively Healthy Mom, we sit down with Shannon Weisblatt, a College Executive Function Coach with over 20 years of experience in education and special education. Shannon specializes in helping students master the "hidden curriculum" of college—time management, organization, and self-advocacy. This episode is essential for moms of high school juniors and seniors who want to prepare their kids for independence, as well as parents of current college students who are struggling to keep their heads above water academically. Key Conversations in This Episode: The Shift from Manager to Consultant: Why parents should begin "putting on the brakes" during junior year of high school to allow teens to practice autonomy before they leave home. Overcoming the Procrastination Loop: Practical strategies for students who are "stuck," including brainstorming sessions to reduce overwhelm and the power of starting an assignment for just five minutes. The Role of Natural Consequences: How to reframe a failed assignment or a poor grade as a "beautiful learning opportunity" rather than a catastrophe. Outsourcing the Prefrontal Cortex: Understanding the balance between supporting a student’s developing brain and accidentally "hovering" too much.Common Questions About Moms Of Young Adults and Executive FunctioningQuestion: When should parents start transitioning their role from "manager" to "consultant"?Answer: Parents should ideally begin this transition during their child's junior year of high school to help them build independence before leaving for college. Question: What are the best ways to help a college student who struggles with procrastination?Answer: Effective strategies include breaking assignments into small steps (like a five-minute start rule), brainstorming paper ideas together to reduce overwhelm, and creating a visible plan for the week. Question: How can parents help their teens learn from failure without being negative?Answer: Instead of making critical statements, parents can ask open-ended questions such as "How does this make you feel?" or "What could you do differently next time?" to allow the teen to find their own solutions. Meet Our Expert:Shannon Weisblatt is a College Executive Function Coach and mom of two teenage boys. For the past eight years, she has worked one-on-one with college students to build the systems—like time management and planning—that allow them to move from academic probation to the dean’s list.Guest Links: efcollegecoach.comFind Shannon On FacebookFind Shannon On LinkedIn Resources From Laura Ollinger Book A Coaching Call: Let’s Work It Out! Instagram: @positivelyhealthycoaching Rate this podcast!

    29 min
  3. From Control to Connection: Rethinking Independence for Your Neurodiverse Teen

    May 13 ·  Video

    From Control to Connection: Rethinking Independence for Your Neurodiverse Teen

    How can Relationship Development Intervention (RDI) help neurodiverse young adults become more independent?In this episode of The Healthy Mom, we sit down with Brooke Wagner. As the host of the Finding Hope on the Spectrum podcast, Brooke specializes in helping families navigate the complexities of autism and neurodiversity. This episode dives deep into Relationship Development Intervention (RDI) and how shifting from "static" rules to "dynamic" thinking can transform a teen's ability to navigate the real world. This conversation is essential for moms of neurodiverse teens and young adults who feel like they are "tiptoeing" around their child and are ready to rebuild a connection based on guided participation rather than constant power struggles. Key Conversations in This Episode: The Shift to Dynamic Intelligence: Why teaching neurodiverse teens to manage uncertainty is more important than teaching them to follow rigid rules. Restoring the Parent-Guide Role: How to move away from a "controlling" household dynamic and back into a healthy leadership position as a parent. Declarative Communication: The power of using "I notice" or "I wonder" statements to invite your teen into the thinking process instead of just giving commands. Redefining Success: Shifting the focus from behavioral compliance to long-term quality-of-life markers like meaningful employment and self-regulation.Common Questions About Moms Of Teens and Autism/Independence: Question: Why does my neurodiverse teen struggle so much with changes in their routine? Answer: Most traditional approaches teach "static" thinking—if X happens, do Y. However, the real world is "dynamic" and messy. By focusing on dynamic intelligence, we help teens learn to process uncertainty and non-verbal cues so they can adjust to changes in real-time rather than feeling overwhelmed by them. Question: How do I stop my teen from "ruling the roost" without causing a total meltdown? Answer: It starts with "righting the ship" of the parent-child relationship. Through guided participation, you move away from being a "manager" who dictates every move and toward being a "guide." This helps the teen feel safe and competent, which naturally reduces their need to use controlling behaviors as a defense mechanism. Meet Our Expert, Brooke Wagner:Brooke Wagner is an RDI® Program Certified Consultant, the founder and owner of Therapeutic Approach to Growth (TAG), and the host of the podcast Finding Hope on the Spectrum. With over 20 years of experience, Brooke is dedicated to empowering parents of individuals with autism and other neurodevelopmental challenges. Her approach focuses on the Relationship Development Intervention (RDI) model, which emphasizes building the foundation of a guided relationship to foster emotional connection, flexible thinking, and long-term independence. Connect with Brooke on Instagram: @jessturner.coaching And on Facebook: Therapeutic Approach To Growth www.findinghopeonthespectrum.com www.tagforgrowth.comResources From Laura Ollinger Coaching: Let’s Work It Out! Connect On Instagram: @positivelyhealthycoaching Rate This Podcast!

    30 min
  4. The Most Courageous Question You Can Ask Your Teenager Today

    May 6 ·  Video

    The Most Courageous Question You Can Ask Your Teenager Today

    How can I be closer to my high-achieving teenager and improve our connection? In this episode of The Positively Healthy Mom, we sit down with Jess Turner, a burnout and sustainable performance coach who helps high-achieving women stop running on pressure and start building sustainable lives. This conversation is essential for moms of high-achieving teens who want to break generational burnout loops and foster a deeper, more vulnerable connection with their children through radical self-awareness. Key Conversations in This Episode: The Subconscious Parenting Audit: Learn how to ask your teen the "courageous question"—"How would you describe my beliefs?"—to uncover the hidden stories you may be accidentally passing down. Lighthouse vs. Tugboat Parenting: Discover why forcing your teen toward "shore" drains your battery and how standing stable as a "lighthouse" naturally attracts them to your regulated energy. The "Open Spaces" Mindset: A powerful metaphor for stress management for busy parents, shifting focus from the "poles" (problems) to the "open spaces" (solutions) to change your neurological results. Escaping the Time Scarcity Loop: How replacing "I have no time" with "I have an abundance of time" regulates your nervous system and stops energy-draining "doom scrolling".Common Questions About Moms Of Teens and Connection:What is the best way to have a difficult conversation with my teenager?The most effective way to handle intense topics is to talk while walking side-by-side. This "shared pack mentality" removes the ego-clash of face-to-face confrontation, and being in nature scientifically helps both the parent and teen feel calmer and more open-minded. How do I manage the pressure of parenting high-achieving teenagers without burning out?Burnout often stems from a dysregulated nervous system that burns through energy twice as fast. By practicing "sustainable performance" and viewing time as "luxurious" or "abundant," you maintain the calm needed to be present when your teen actually wants to talk. Meet Our Expert, Jess Turner:Jess Turner is a high-performance and burnout coach who helps high-achieving women stop running on pressure and start building lives that actually feel sustainable. Her work focuses on changing the way people relate to success—shifting away from constant “doing” and toward clarity, energy, and systems that support real life. Originally from the UK and now based in the US, Jess is passionate about helping women model healthier definitions of success for the people watching them. Connect with Jess on Instagram: @jessturner.coaching Resources From Your Host, Laura Ollinger: Coaching: Let’s Work It Out! Instagram: @positivelyhealthycoaching Rate this podcast!

    32 min
  5. Stop the Overwhelm: Practical Strategies for Busy Moms to Reclaim Calm

    Apr 29 ·  Video

    Stop the Overwhelm: Practical Strategies for Busy Moms to Reclaim Calm

    How can busy moms of teens manage stress and stop feeling overwhelmed?In this episode of The Positively Healthy Mom, we sit down with Michelle Gauthier, a professional life coach and host of the Overwhelmed Working Woman podcast who helps women transition from chaos to intentional living. This episode is a must-listen for high-achieving moms who feel buried by the "mental load" of managing careers, households, and the unique demands of raising teenagers. Key Conversations in This Episode: Stress vs. Overwhelm: Understanding why you lose the ability to think clearly when stressors become unmanageable. The "Recovering People Pleaser": Why high-achieving women struggle to say no and how to begin setting essential boundaries. Over-Functioning for Teens: How stepping back from managing your teenager's life builds their adult competence and restores your identity. The Love and Fit Test: A simple two-question framework to decide what earns a spot on your calendar and what stays off.Common Questions About Moms Of Teens and Overwhelm:Why do I feel like I've lost my own identity now that my kids are older? Many moms tie their "enoughness" to helping their children function, often adopting their kids' hobbies and friends’ parents as their own friends. Reclaiming your identity starts with small, daily neuroplasticity exercises—focusing on things you enjoy (a smell, a song, a color) regardless of whether your family likes them. How do I find "White Space" when my schedule is already packed? Creating white space isn't about finding extra hours; it's about shifting from "doing more" to intentional outsourcing and automation. By automating finances or hiring help for chores like laundry, you create the calm necessary to be truly present when your teen finally steps out of their room to talk at 10:00 PM. Meet Our Expert:Michelle Gauthier is a professional life coach who helps busy, overwhelmed women create a more calm and intentional life. A former corporate executive and current single mom of two, she walked away from a 20-year career to help hundreds of women navigate home and work life with ease. In her spare time, she enjoys the gym, reading self-improvement books, and watching her kids' sporting events. Guest Links: Website: michellegauthier.com Instagram: @michellegauthiercoaching Podcast: Overwhelmed Working Woman Free Resource: What's Causing Your Overwhelm? QuizResources From Your Host, Laura OllingerConnect with Laura: Free Webinar: Get Through May Without Losing Your Joy, Your Mind, Or Yourself Instagram: @positivelyhealthycoaching Rate this podcast!

    24 min
  6. Raising Teens in a Digital World: Body Image and Self-Esteem

    Apr 22 ·  Video

    Raising Teens in a Digital World: Body Image and Self-Esteem

    How do we help our high-achieving teens navigate the relentless pressure and beauty standards of a digital world? Between academic demands, athletic performance, and the curated perfection of social media, today’s teenagers face unprecedented challenges regarding their body image and self-esteem. In this episode of The Positively Healthy Mom, we sit down with Leslie Rose-Dethloff, a master-certified health, life, and nutrition coach specializing in the transition from adolescence to adulthood. Leslie shares her expert insights on how parents can support their teens and college students in building a foundation of confidence and sustainable health. Key Conversations in This Episode: The Impact of Technology and Social Media: Explore how a highly technical world and constant exposure to screens affect teen body image, self-esteem, and confidence. Identifying Disordered Eating: Learn to recognize abnormal behaviors like restrictive dieting, binging, or cutting out entire food groups to control weight. The Shift from Manager to Mentor: Discover how to transition your parenting style from managing your teen's life to walking side-by-side with them as they gain independence. The Freshman Formula: Essential preparation for high school seniors to manage lifestyle factors like stress, sleep, and dining hall options before launching into college.Common Questions About Teens and Body Image:How do I know if my teen's sugar consumption is a problem? It becomes a concern when the behavior is frequent, consistent, and begins replacing normal, healthy meals. Rather than strictly taking sugar away, parents should focus on shifting a teen's mindset to see food as nourishment and fuel. What should I say if I notice my teen is dieting or cutting out food? Step in early and create a safe, non-judgmental space by using curious language. You might say, "I noticed you’ve been eating differently lately and cutting out carbohydrates; I’m curious what’s going on and how I can support you?" Meet Our Expert: Leslie Rose-Dethloff is a master-certified health, life, and nutrition coach who helps teens, college students, and parents overcome challenges related to weight, eating, and negative body image. Through approachable mindset shifts and sustainable lifestyle practices, she empowers the next generation to launch into adulthood with confidence. Website: LeslieRoseCoaching Instagram: @leslierosecoaching Freshman Formula: Healthy Lifestyle Habits To Thrive At CollegeResources From Your Host, Laura OllingerConnect with Laura: Free Webinar: Get Through May Without Losing Your Joy, Your Mind, Or Yourself Instagram: @positivelyhealthycoaching Rate this podcast!

    28 min
  7. The Importance of Mental Health Literacy for Today's Teenagers

    Apr 15 ·  Video

    The Importance of Mental Health Literacy for Today's Teenagers

    In this episode of The Positively Healthy Mom podcast, host Laura Ollinger explores the critical need for mental health literacy to support the emotional well-being of today's teenagers. You will learn how to distinguish between normal adolescent stress and clinical symptoms, providing a roadmap for parents and educators to foster resilience and grit in their children. Discover actionable strategies for breaking the silence around suicide prevention and removing the stigma of asking for help. We also introduce the MindMap app, a free tool thanks to the generosity of Engage and Heal, designed to give teens and parents immediate access to evidence-based mental health resources and local professional support. In This Episode, We Discuss: Defining Mental Health Literacy: Understanding the difference between a temporary feeling, like test anxiety, and a clinical diagnosis. The Power of Resilience: Why moving away from "lawnmower parenting" helps teenagers learn from mistakes and build essential life skills. Identifying Red Flags: How to spot "triggers" in high-achieving teens, such as sudden changes in athletic status or academic performance. Effective Communication: Techniques for active listening that ensure your teenager actually feels heard. The MindMap App: How this digital platform provides free, evidence-based modules on coping and thriving for teens.Common Questions About Teens and Mental Health Literacy We Answer In This Episode What is the difference between a teen being "anxious" and having an anxiety disorder?  How should a parent respond when a teenager starts sharing their feelings? Does talking about suicide "give" a teenager the idea? About Our GuestsAmelia Floyd is the Co-Founder and President of the Engage and Heal Foundation. Moved to action by the tragic loss of her daughter's best friend, Erik Hanson, she works to establish community partnerships that save lives and provide essential resources to students and parents.Kathleen Hassenfratz is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) and co-founder of Engage and Heal. She is a leading advocate for mental health literacy in Texas, serving on the Mental Health Literacy Collaborative’s Interstate Workgroup to integrate these vital concepts into schools and communities. Website: engageandheal.org Instagram: @engageandheal App: Download the MindMap App for free mental health modules and resources.Resources From Laura Ollinger Free Webinar: Get Through May Without Losing Your Joy, Your Mind, Or Yourself Instagram: @positivelyhealthycoaching Rate this podcast!

    28 min
  8. Why Teenagers Take Sides in Divorce: Understanding Parental Alienation

    Apr 8 ·  Video

    Why Teenagers Take Sides in Divorce: Understanding Parental Alienation

    Is your high-conflict divorce taking a toll on your relationship with your child? It is heartbreaking for any parent of a teen to feel like they are being pushed out of their child's life, especially when it feels like the other parent is pulling the strings. In this episode of The Positively Healthy Mom, host Laura Olinger—a dedicated teen and parent well-being coach—interviews groundbreaking expert Ginger Gentile to uncover the painful reality of child estrangement and how to find a path back to connection. Laura knows that the teen years are already a whirlwind of identity seeking and social pressure. When a difficult split adds emotional triangulation to the mix, the results can be devastating. She sits down with Ginger to provide parents with a toolkit for navigating these "resist and refuse" dynamics and breaking the cycle of family conflict.In this episode of The Positively Healthy Mom, we discuss: The Alienation Spectrum: Identifying parental alienation, emotional triangulation, and the subtle "micro-actions" that cause a teen to pull away. The Victim Trap: How the "spiral of instability" can make a rejected parent look "unstable" in the eyes of the court and professionals. The "Unbothered" Strategy: Why processing your pain in private and staying calm in public is the most effective way to protect your parental rights. Why Teenagers Take Sides: The specific reasons older children are often easier to alienate, including the "reward" of a lack of rules or the material item they’ve been wanting.Common Questions About High-Conflict Divorce & AlienationWhy do teenagers take sides in divorce? Teenagers often take sides due to a combination of social pressure and a search for autonomy. In high-conflict situations, a teen may align with one parent to simplify a complex emotional environment or because they receive "rewards," such as fewer boundaries or more freedom. What are the signs of parental alienation? Parental alienation often manifests through "micro-actions" rather than one single event. Signs include a teen calling a parent by their first name instead of "Mom" or "Dad," a parent hiding gifts or letters from the other side, or one parent constantly pointing out the other’s flaws to the teen. How can I stop my teenager from pulling away after a divorce? To stop a teen from pulling away, a parent must pivot from a "fix-it" or "victim" mindset to an "unbothered" approach. This involves regulating your own emotional pain response so that you remain a calm, safe harbor for your child. About Our Guest Ginger GentileGinger Gentile is a groundbreaking expert and the director of the documentary Erasing Family. Her mission is to provide proven strategies and compassionate guidance to help parents heal and reconnect with their children. Learn more about about Ginger Gentile at: https://reversingparentalalienation.comConnect with Ginger on Instagram @erasingfamilyWatch Ginger on YouTube at: https://www.youtube.com/@erasingfamily Connect with Laura: Free Webinar: Get Through May Without Losing Your Joy, Your Mind, Or Yourself Instagram: @positivelyhealthycoaching Rate This Podcast!

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Mastering Parenting Teenagers with Confidence & Connection Stop nagging and start connecting. The Positively Healthy Mom is the essential resource for moms of teens and preteens who want to navigate the "messy middle" of adolescence without losing themselves. Hosted by Teen & Young Adult Well-Being Coach Laura Ollinger, this podcast is built on a singular truth: a healthy, regulated mother is the secret to a thriving home. Do you find yourself asking: How do I connect with my teen without them shutting down or exploding? How do I support my teen’s mental health and anxiety without making it worse? What do I need to know about the teen brain to communicate better?Every Wednesday, Laura brings you deep-dive conversations with neuroscientists, child therapists, coaches and academic strategists to provide real-time answers to the complex issues families face today. What We Solve Together: Teen Mental Health & Resilience: Research-backed strategies for raising resilient teenagers in high-pressure school and sports environments. Neurobiology & Positive Parenting: Understanding the teen brain to move from a relationship of control to one of deep, lasting connection. Maternal Well-Being & Burnout Recovery: Tactical time management and emotional regulation tools (EFT, HeartMath, and breathwork) to help you reclaim your identity. Digital Wellness: Navigating social media boundaries, cell phone contracts, and screen time. College & Academic Strategy: Expert insights on college admissions and academic pressure.About Your Host:Laura Ollinger is a Teen & Parent Well-Being Coach dedicated to helping moms of teens and tweens thrive. She holds a Master’s in Health and Wellness Education, is a National Board Certified Health and Wellness Coach, and maintains multiple certifications—including Elite Certified Neuroencoding Specialist, Functional Medicine Certified Health Coach, Dr. Amen Brain Health Trainer, and certification from the HeartMath Institute in Stress, Anxiety, and Emotional Regulation. As a mom of four (two boys and two girls aged 12–16) and the founder of Positively Healthy Coaching, Laura understands firsthand the challenges and rewards of parenting during the teen and tween years. Through her coaching programs and The Positively Healthy Mom Podcast, she equips parents with the mindset, skillset, and self-awareness needed to cultivate confidence, connection, and emotional mastery. Learn more at www.thepositivelyhealthymom.com. Connect with Laura: Web: Positively Healthy Coaching Instagram: @positivelyhealthycoaching YouTube: The Positively Healthy Mom Channel

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    Laura Ollinger, M.Ed. in Health & Wellness | Teen & Parent Well-Being Coach
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    106
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