Make More Love

Ellen Dorian
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Are you a male business leader who wants a hot and healthy marriage but feels consumed by the relentless demands of growing your company? Welcome! Make More Love is the podcast for high-performing male business leaders who want to achieve the business of their dreams—without losing the love of their life. Join host Ellen Dorian, veteran relationship expert and business coach, as she reveals practical strategies to maintain connection and intimate intensity in committed relationships. The show is a space for straight-up, judgment-free conversations about how listeners can be extraordinary in every way that matters—from handling the complexities of business to creating a deeply passionate relationship with their life partner without losing sight of what makes them uniquely themselves. Ellen brings her extensive expertise to challenge obsolete notions of masculinity, transactional thinking, false hierarchies, and the “work-life balance” myth—all of which can get in the way of building passionate, fulfilling life partnerships. This isn’t therapy. Traditional marriage counseling doesn’t resonate with everyone, so this show delivers practical, relatable advice that leverages the skills business leaders have already mastered in their work to strengthen their relationships. Tune in weekly for actionable ideas tailored to the unique relationship challenges male business leaders face. The segments are short, so you can listen whenever you have a few minutes—in the car, at the gym, or on the john. Ellen's insights and guest conversations with men who’ve been where you are will resonate and inspire. Plus, with captioned episodes, you can engage anytime, anywhere, with or without sound. Make More Love gives you a strategic advantage in cultivating a partnership built on mutual respect, appreciation, and true intimacy. Prepare to hear transformative ideas that deliver fast and lasting results. It’s time to focus on what matters most and Make More Love—in Your Life and With Your Wife. Notes: Intended for Adult Audiences: The Make More Love podcast is intended for adult audiences age 18+ only and contains content related to adult life issues. Some material may be considered "not safe for work." Please exercise discretion about where and with whom you listen to the show. Disclaimer: The Make More Love podcast is for informational purposes only. None of the information provided by the host or guests should be interpreted as a substitute for professional legal, financial, medical, or therapeutic advice or care. Always seek the guidance of a qualified professional with any questions or concerns about your specific situation. Rights and Permissions: By accessing this podcast, you acknowledge that the entire contents are the property of the Ellen Dorian Group/Passionate Partners Project (Ellen Dorian) or used by Ellen Dorian with permission and are protected under U.S. and international copyright laws.

  1. 82: Why Being Faithful Doesn’t Buy Trust in Your Relationship

    6d ago

    82: Why Being Faithful Doesn’t Buy Trust in Your Relationship

    In this episode of Make More Love, Ellen takes on one of the most misunderstood issues in long-term relationships: trust. Most people think about trust in terms of the obvious violations — betrayal, secrets, lies, and affairs. But trust can also erode through the repeated daily letdowns that make a partner feel unsafe, uninformed, dismissed, unsupported, or unable to rely on the relationship. Ellen breaks trust down into seven practical domains: Safety, Security, Caring, Integrity, Fidelity, Reliability, and Repair. Because if you want to rebuild trust, you first have to know where it is breaking down. Part 1: The Trust Deficit In the Big Picture Ellen opens by looking at the larger “trust deficit” we see in society and connects it to what happens inside many business-owner marriages. A trust deficit is not always caused by one major betrayal. It can also build slowly when one partner’s need to feel safe, connected, informed, and secure is not consistently being met. She also explains why many business owners feel confused when their partner does not experience them as trustworthy, especially when they have avoided what Ellen calls the Fatal Four: betrayal, secrets, lies, and affairs. Part 2: The Seven Domains of Trust Trust is not one vague feeling, and it is not an all-or-nothing question. Ellen breaks it into seven domains that help couples identify exactly where trust is strong, where it is strained, and what needs attention. The seven domains are: Safety — Can I trust that I will not be physically harmed, threatened, or deprived of basic needs? Security — Can I trust that I am informed about money, financial risk, and the decisions that affect our shared life? Caring — Can I trust that my feelings, concerns, and reality will be treated with basic respect? Integrity — Can I trust you to be honest when it is not easy to be honest? Fidelity — Can I trust you to honor the sexual, romantic, and emotional agreements of the relationship? Reliability — Can I trust that you will do what you say you will do? Repair — Can I trust that when something breaks, we will come back together, take accountability, and work the problem? Part 3: Why Fidelity Alone Does Not Create Trust Ellen shares a real-life example of a client who chose her husband partly because she knew he would never cheat. But over time, she realized that sexual fidelity did not mean the relationship was broadly trustworthy. There were trust deficits in safety, security, integrity, reliability, and repair. The marriage looked intact from the outside, but the actual connection was weak because trust was weak in so many places. The point is clear: you can be sexually faithful and still have a serious trust problem if you are failing at honesty, reliability, repair, financial transparency, or emotional care. Key Takeaways:Trust is not binary. It is not as simple as “you trust me or you don’t.” Being faithful matters, but fidelity is only one domain of trust. The seven domains of trust give couples a more practical way to identify what is actually breaking down. Repeated small letdowns can create real damage when they stack up without repair. Apologies do not rebuild trust if they are not accompanied by changed behavior. Business owners need to understand that business decisions can affect their spouse’s sense of safety, security, and trust. Call to Action:Now here’s something for you to think about: Which domain of trust is strongest in your relationship right now, and how do you know? Which one is weakest, and why do you think it is weak? Which one, if repaired, would change the whole tone of your relationship? And what is one step you could take to start repairing that one? If you are struggling with this, set up a free Relationship Reset Call with Ellen, and work through the issue together. The call is quick, private, and designed to give you a single tangible next step you can take to sort out a relationship problem. Go to relationshipresetcall.com to set up a time. Closing Thoughts:Trust is not a yes or no question. It is about whether the relationship consistently helps both partners feel safe, connected, informed, secure, respected, and able to rely on each other. When you can name where trust is breaking down, you have a much better chance of repairing the right thing. Next Time on Make More Love:Ellen will take this topic one step further and introduce the seven Trust Archetypes. These archetypes will help you identify your natural trust tendencies, where you already show up as trustworthy, and where you may need to build additional skills to create a more balanced trust profile. Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community on Facebook or directly with her via email. Or, for one-on-one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call. Or, for immediate insights, take the Relationship Dynamics Scorecard: a fast, free quiz to pinpoint relationship strengths and stressors, and identify priorities that need your attention. Find it at: MakeMoreLove.show/quiz Share the Love:If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who might benefit. All links can be found below. Mentioned in this episode:The National Domestic Violence Hotline Free, confidential support available 24/7. Call: 1-800-799-SAFE / 1-800-799-7233 Text: START to 88788 Chat: thehotline.org Make More Love Season 1, Interview with Justin William Wiseman https://www.makemorelove.show/14-transformative-relationships-from-addiction-to-triumph-with-justin-wiseman/ https://www.makemorelove.show/15-finding-your-inner-voice-in-relationships-and-beyond/ Leave a Review for Make More Love:https://www.makemorelove.show/reviews/new/ About the Host:Ellen Dorian is a relationship and business coach dedicated to helping high-performing business leaders truly create the business, relationship, and life that most entrepreneurs only dream of. Disclaimer:The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations. "Love isn't something you find. You have to make it. And that's my mission — to help you Make More Love, with Your Wife and In Your Life." - Ellen Dorian

    18 min
  2. 81: Emotional Fitness in Practice: How to Find Yourself Again with Shaun Zetlin

    May 28

    81: Emotional Fitness in Practice: How to Find Yourself Again with Shaun Zetlin

    Ellen continues her conversation with Shaun Zetlin, founder of Zetlin Fitness and author of Emotional Fitness. In Part 1, Ellen and Shaun focused on the philosophy and psychology of emotional fitness. In Part 2, they move into the practical side: choosing the right support, using Shaun’s five mantras, and understanding how emotional fitness shows up inside a relationship. Part 1: Choosing the Right Support Ellen shares her own experience with personal training and what she learned from working with trainers who were both helpful and imperfect. Shaun explains why a good trainer needs more than knowledge of anatomy or motivation. The right trainer listens, adapts, understands the whole person, and helps clients keep going for the long run. Part 2: Shaun’s Five Mantras for Emotional Fitness Shaun walks through the five master mantras from his book Emotional Fitness: accepting your path, knowing you are worthy, knowing you are empowered, lowering the volume, and being your biggest fan. Ellen and Shaun discuss how old pain, shame, fear, and inherited beliefs can shape the way people think, feel, move, and connect. Part 3: 80 Boxes and Finding Your Way Back Shaun shares the story of “80 boxes,” a phrase he and his wife Adrienne use to remind each other that they can get through hard moments together. Ellen connects this to the private language long-term couples build over time, and how inside jokes, memories, rituals, and shared physical experiences can help partners reconnect. Key Takeaways:Cultivate allies who value you as a whole person. Whether it’s a trainer, therapist, coach, or any other expert, don’t just settle. Take the time to talk to a few people and find the one who really gets you. These are people who will be pushing you, challenging you, and helping you see things you may not see on your own, so you need to be able to trust them. Shaun’s five mantras give you a clear starting point for letting go of old patterns. A lot of us carry perceptions from our past about who we are and what we deserve. Old anger, fear, or shame can anchor you and steal your vitality if you don’t deal with them. There may be more value than you realize in revisiting what you and your partner have shared over the years. Inside jokes, memories, and little rituals can help you find your way back to each other. Those past connections can sometimes cut through the resentments that led to the disconnect and bring the good times back into the present. Call to Action:If this conversation made you think about your own vitality, emotional patterns, or relationship, Ellen invites you to book a free Relationship Reset Call. It is a private working call designed to help you get a clearer read on what is draining you, where you are disconnected, and what kind of support could help. Book your call at: relationshipresetcall.com Closing Thoughts:Ellen shares resources from the conversation, including Shaun’s book Emotional Fitness, Shaun’s coordinates for anyone interested in working with him directly, and Boston Personal Training for listeners in the Boston MetroWest area who are looking for in-person training with someone who checks all the boxes. Support & Resources: Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call. For immediate insights, take the Relationship Dynamics Scorecard: A fast free quiz to pinpoint relationship strengths and stressors, and identify priorities that need your attention. Find it at: MakeMoreLove.show/quiz All links can be found below. Guest Resources: Shaun’s book, Emotional Fitness, expands on several of the ideas we discuss in this episode. Get the book here: https://amzn.to/4tu7JXR As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases. To reach Shaun directly: Phone: 302-740-2422 Email: info@zetlinfitness.com Additional Resources:For listeners in the Boston MetroWest area looking for in-person training with someone who checks all the boxes, Ellen shares her own personal trainer's info: Boston Personal Training https://www.bostonpersonaltraining.com/ Share the Love: If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who might benefit. Leave a Review for Make More Love: https://www.makemorelove.show/reviews/new/ About the Host:Ellen Dorian is a relationship and business coach dedicated to helping high-performing business leaders truly create the business, relationship, and life that most entrepreneurs only dream of. Disclaimer:The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations. "Love isn't something you find. You have to make it. And that's my mission, to help you Make More Love, with Your Wife and In Your Life." - Ellen Dorian Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.show Parent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.com Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105 Contact Me Directly: Email: ellen@passionatepartnersproject.com Or direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/ LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/ Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quiz Set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

    23 min
  3. 80: Is Your Body Trying to Tell You Something? What to Watch Out For with Shaun Zetlin-Pt 1

    May 14

    80: Is Your Body Trying to Tell You Something? What to Watch Out For with Shaun Zetlin-Pt 1

    Ellen speaks with Shaun Zetlin, founder of Zetlin Fitness and author of Emotional Fitness and Push-Up Progression. Shaun shares how being born with club feet, struggling with gross motor skills, and being picked last in gym class shaped his relationship with fitness, confidence, and resilience. What began as a desire to feel capable in his own body eventually became Shaun’s work as a personal trainer and emotional fitness advocate. In Part 1 of this conversation, Ellen and Shaun explore how the body holds emotion, how early pain can shape adult behavior, and why strength is about more than muscle. They also talk about how old emotional patterns can show up in leadership, marriage, parenting, intimacy, and the way men handle vulnerability. Part 1: Shaun’s Story, Strength, and Emotional Fitness Shaun talks about his childhood struggles with physical ability, the first time he experienced joy through fitness, and how personal training became a way to help others feel good in their own bodies. He also explains why his philosophy is not about how fitness makes you look, but how fitness helps you feel. Part 2: Childhood Patterns, Leadership, and the Body Ellen and Shaun discuss the difference between trauma and tragedy, the concept of the inner child, and how unresolved emotional wounds can show up later as perfectionism, people-pleasing, aggression, intimidation, or fear-based leadership. Part 3: Vulnerability, Marriage, Parenting, and Passion Shaun shares how he treats his wife as a model for his daughters. They also discuss the connection between authenticity, passion, intimacy, physical affection, and emotional trust in long-term relationships. Key Takeaways:Fitness is not just about appearance. Shaun’s approach centers on how fitness helps people feel, move through life, and reconnect with physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual health. The body may be carrying more than you realize. Stress, anger, anxiety, depression, and old emotional patterns can live in the body and affect health, leadership, and relationships. Early pain can become adult behavior. Childhood wounds can show up as perfectionism, people-pleasing, aggression, emotional shutdown, or a need to be feared instead of respected. Vulnerability is not weakness. Shaun makes the case that vulnerability can become a source of strength, especially for men who were taught to suppress emotion or protect themselves through control. Authenticity matters for passion. Ellen connects emotional access to intimacy, sex, physical affection, and the ability to be truly loved and connected with in a long-term relationship. Call to Action:If this conversation made you think about your own vitality, relationship, or emotional patterns, Ellen invites you to book a free Relationship Reset Call. It is a private working call designed to help you get a clearer read on what is draining you, where you are disconnected, and what kind of support could help. Book your call at: relationshipresetcall.com Closing Thoughts:One of the pillars of Ellen’s model is vitality, which includes physical, mental, and emotional health. This conversation with Shaun touches all three. Vitality is the foundation for a passionate relationship with real intimate intensity because keeping up that kind of connection requires substantial personal energy. If you are physically depleted, mentally overloaded, or emotionally shut down, it will show up in your relationship and in your sex life. This is Part 1 of Ellen’s conversation with Shaun Zetlin. In Part 2, Shaun will share his five mantras for emotional fitness, and Ellen and Shaun will talk about how to choose a personal trainer who can truly add value to your life, not just hang out while you lift weights. Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call. For immediate insights, take the Relationship Dynamics Scorecard: A fast free quiz to pinpoint relationship strengths and stressors, and identify priorities that need your attention. Find it at: MakeMoreLove.show/quiz All links can be found below. Guest Resources:Shaun’s book, Emotional Fitness, expands on several of the ideas we discuss in this episode. Get the book here: https://amzn.to/4tu7JXR As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases. To reach Shaun directly: Phone: 302-740-2422 Email: info@zetlinfitness.com Share the Love: If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who might benefit. Leave a Review for Make More Love: https://www.makemorelove.show/reviews/new/ About the Host: Ellen Dorian is a relationship and business coach dedicated to helping high-performing business leaders truly create the business, relationship, and life that most entrepreneurs only dream of. Disclaimer: The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations. "Love isn't something you find. You have to make it. And that's my mission, to help you Make More Love, with Your Wife and In Your Life." - Ellen Dorian Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.show Parent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.com Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105 Contact Me Directly: Email: ellen@passionatepartnersproject.com Or direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/ LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/ Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quiz Set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

    17 min
  4. 79: Relationships Can't Run on Autopilot: How to Avoid a Crash

    Apr 30

    79: Relationships Can't Run on Autopilot: How to Avoid a Crash

    Ellen introduces the Five-Point Relationship Operating System — a practical, structured framework built from the same tools high-performing business owners already use every day. This isn't therapy. This isn't communication tips. It's a system. And you already know how to run one. When your business takes off, it demands everything you have. And while you're navigating that chaos, everything else in your life starts running on autopilot — including your relationship. The problem is that autopilot isn't a strategy. It's a slow drift toward a crash. Point 1: Strategic Planning: Ellen walks you through a SWOT analysis for your relationship — strengths, weaknesses, opportunities, and threats — and explains how to use it to create a short, medium, and long range plan for your future together. Point 2: Resources and Logistics Logistics are the silent killer of intimacy. Over time, they crowd out every other conversation. Ellen introduces a weekly planning meeting format that gives logistics a home so they stop showing up uninvited everywhere else. Point 3: Best Practices Ten minutes a day. Uninterrupted. Undistracted. Sharing. Listening. Cuddling. No logistics. Just connection. Ellen makes the case that if you do this every day, you'll almost certainly be spending more intentional one-on-one time together than you do right now. Point 4: Innovation & Reinvention Consistency doesn't mean stagnation. Two planned date nights a month — not spontaneous, not routine, not family night. Just the two of you, doing something intentional. Effort matters more than perfection. When your partner sees you making the effort, they feel seen and appreciated, and they return that energy to you. Point 5: Incremental Improvement Every business that runs well has a feedback loop. Your relationship needs one too. Ellen gives you three questions for your weekly check-in and four questions for your quarterly or six-month strategic review — so the system stays alive, keeps improving, and doesn't go stale. Key Takeaways:Your relationship runs on a system or habit. It wasn't designed for thriving.You already know how to do this. The same tools you use to run your business can be applied to your relationship.Logistics need a home. Give them one, and every other conversation gets better.Small consistent efforts beat grand gestures every time. Call to Action:If you want to go deeper and actually implement this system, Ellen has created a short online course that walks you through the Relationship Operating System step by step — with full lessons and planning tools to help you work through the process. The course is currently in pilot mode and available to the first group for just seven dollars. After that, the price goes up. Get on the pilot list now and you'll be first to know when it launches. Closing Thoughts:A lot of people think putting systems in place make life boring and predictable, but Ellen challenges that way of thinking. The systems are there to keep the boring predictable stuff from taking over your life. That's what gives you the freedom to live the good life, go on adventures, and connect on the deepest levels. Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call. For immediate insights, take the Relationship Dynamics Scorecard: A fast free quiz to pinpoint relationship strengths and stressors, and identify priorities that need your attention. find it at: MakeMoreLove.show/quiz All links can be found below. Share the Love:If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who might benefit. Leave a Review for Make More Love: https://www.makemorelove.show/reviews/new/ About the Host:Ellen Dorian is a relationship and business coach dedicated to helping high-performing business leaders truly create the business, relationship, and life that most entrepreneurs only dream of. Disclaimer:The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations. "Love isn't something you find. You have to make it. And that's my mission-- to help you Make More Love, with Your Wife and In Your Life.'" - Ellen Dorian 5-Point Relationship Operating System Mini Course:Apply now for the pilot program and be the first to get access: https://passionatepartnersproject.com/relationship-operating-system/ Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.show Parent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.com Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105 Contact Me Directly: Email: ellen@passionatepartnersproject.com Or direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/ LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/ Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quiz Set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

    16 min
  5. 78: Blame, Judgment, and Avoidance — The Hidden Cost of Staying Stuck

    Apr 9

    78: Blame, Judgment, and Avoidance — The Hidden Cost of Staying Stuck

    Ellen continues her conversation with Bill Storm — Peak Performance Strategist and veteran of both the Tony Robbins organization and the John Maxwell Leadership Team — diving into three things that keep high-performing business owners from having the conversations that matter most. Part 1: Blame Blame isn't one thing — it's three. Ellen breaks down fair blame, unfair blame, and self-blame, and gives you a practical strategy for handling each one. The goal isn't to avoid blame altogether. It's to stop letting it run your life. Part 2: Judgment Judgment hits differently than blame because it goes after your identity — not what you did, but who you are. Ellen and Bill talk about why high-performing men are particularly vulnerable to this, and why the best strategy is simpler than you think. Part 3: Avoidance If blame and judgment are the stimulus, avoidance is the response. Ellen makes the case that most of us undersell ourselves when it comes to dealing with hard situations — and that the skills you need to have this conversation are skills you already have. You just haven't applied them here yet. Key Takeaways:Blame has three forms — fair, unfair, and self-blame — and each one has a strategyYou can't control whether people judge you. You can control whether you let it drive your behaviorThe skills you need to have the hard conversation are skills you already use every day in your businessYou don't have to solve the problem. You just have to identify it. That's where it starts. Call to Action: If you take the advice in this episode and it goes sideways — or if you just want a second pair of eyes on your specific situation — book a free Relationship Reset Call at relationshipresetcall.com. It's quick, private, and free. Closing Thoughts: Quote from Tony Robbins: "The quality of your life is the quality of your relationships." That's the reason this work matters. Next episode we're getting into the five-step Relationship Operating System — the same key strategies that drive success in business, applied to your relationship. Support & Resources: Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. For one-on-one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call. For immediate insights, take the Relationship Dynamics Scorecard: A fast, free quiz to pinpoint relationship strengths and stressors, and identify priorities that need your attention. Find it at: MakeMoreLove.show/quiz All links can be found below. Share the Love: If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who might benefit. Leave a Review for Make More Love: https://www.makemorelove.show/reviews/new/ About the Host: Ellen Dorian is a relationship and business coach dedicated to helping high-performing business leaders truly create the business, relationship, and life that most entrepreneurs only dream of. Disclaimer: The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations. "Love isn't something you just find. You have to make it. And that's my mission — to help you Make More Love, with Your Wife and In Your Life." — Ellen Dorian Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.show Parent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.com Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105 Contact Me Directly: Email: ellen@passionatepartnersproject.com Or direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/ LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/ Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quiz Set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

    16 min
  6. 77: Wake-Up Call--A No-BS Conversation with Bill Storm About Business and Marriage

    Mar 27

    77: Wake-Up Call--A No-BS Conversation with Bill Storm About Business and Marriage

    In this season opener, Ellen sits down with Bill Storm — Peak Performance Strategist and veteran of both the Tony Robbins organization and the John Maxwell Leadership Team — for a candid conversation about what really happens to your relationship when you're deep in the work of building a company. Bill opens up about his own 25-year marriage, and the conversation gets real—fast! Part 1: The Blind Spot Business owners are wired for optimism. It's what makes us great at building companies — and it's exactly what makes us miss the warning signs in our relationships. Ellen and Bill talk about the pattern they both see constantly: the erosion that happens while you're heads-down in the business, right up until it's not okay anymore. Part 2: How Do I Even Start? One question Ellen hears a lot from married business owners is not "how do I fix my relationship" — it's "how do I even begin that conversation?" Bill asks it too. Ellen walks him through a simple, business-minded approach to opening that dialogue with your spouse — without it turning into a fight. Part 3: The Relationship SWOT Ellen introduces the first step of the 5-Step Relationship Operating System — a SWOT analysis for your relationship. Strengths, weaknesses, opportunities and threats. Bill uses his own marriage as the live example, and the result is one of the most honest and relatable conversations you'll hear about what it's really like to be married and building a business at the same time. Key Takeaways:You can't just hang in and hope things work out — relationships need a plan just like your business doesThe ego hit of a struggling relationship is real, but it's only useful if it leads to actionYou and your partner showed up with completely different rule books — and nobody told either of you that going inYour spouse is probably hoping you'll start this conversation — it won't be met with the resistance you're expecting Call to Action: Ready to take stock of where your relationship stands? Book a free Relationship Reset Call at relationshipresetcall.com — it's quick, private and free. Closing Thoughts: If this episode hit close to home, you're exactly who this show is for. The good news is that the same skills that make you great at business can make you great at your relationship too. That's what this season is all about — and we're just getting started. Support & Resources: Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call. For immediate insights, take the Relationship Dynamics Scorecard: A fast free quiz to pinpoint relationship strengths and stressors, and identify priorities that need your attention. Find it at: MakeMoreLove.show/quiz All links can be found below. Share the Love: If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who might benefit. Leave a Review for Make More Love: https://www.makemorelove.show/reviews/new/ About the Host: Ellen Dorian is a relationship and business coach dedicated to helping high-performing business leaders truly create the business, relationship, and life that most entrepreneurs only dream of. Disclaimer: The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations. "Love isn't something you just find. You have to make it. And that's my mission — to help you Make More Love, with Your Wife and In Your Life." — Ellen Dorian Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.show Parent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.com Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105 Contact Me Directly: Email: ellen@passionatepartnersproject.com Or direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/ LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/ Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quiz Set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

    17 min
  7. 76: Annual Special: Valentine’s Day—Hallmark Holiday or Passionate Power Play

    Feb 5

    76: Annual Special: Valentine’s Day—Hallmark Holiday or Passionate Power Play

    In this Valentine’s Day special episode, Ellen Dorian dives into the history, meaning, and modern-day pressures of the holiday. Whether listeners are diehard romantics or Valentine’s Day cynics, Ellen provides practical advice and creative ideas to help them plan a day that fits their relationship. From understanding their partner’s expectations to avoiding last-minute stress, this episode is packed with insights to make Valentine's Day a meaningful and stress-free experience. Part 1: Understanding Valentine's Day A look at the origins of the holiday, including its rebellious roots in ancient Rome.Why Valentine’s Day can feel commercialized and how shifting perspectives can help.The significance of aligning with or acknowledging a partner's attachment to the day. Part 2: Meeting Relationship Expectations The importance of understanding a partner’s expectations for Valentine's Day.The consequences of ignoring the holiday if it's important to one partner.Two options: setting clear boundaries or using the holiday to strengthen the relationship. Part 3: Planning a Personalized Valentine’s Day Strategies for different types of relationships: Partners who are indifferent to the holiday.Partners who want something special but aren’t tied to traditions.Traditionalists who expect classic Valentine’s Day elements (roses, chocolates, fancy dinner). Key Takeaways:Understanding how a partner feels about romantic gestures can prevent miscommunication and disappointment.Thoughtful, personalized efforts go a long way in building a stronger, more affectionate relationship.Planning ahead ensures less stress, fewer mistakes, and a better overall experience. Call to Action:Listeners can download the Ultimate Valentine’s Day Planning Kit to get a head start on their planning. The kit includes a timeline, curated gift ideas, and a planner to keep everything organized. Get our Ultimate Valentine's Day Planning Kit:Download it now Closing Thoughts:Ellen encourages listeners to take one small step to elevate their next Valentine’s Day, whether this year’s celebration is a hit or a lesson learned. Showing a partner that they are understood and appreciated strengthens intimacy, affection, and resilience in the relationship. Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call. All links can be found below. "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love with Your Wife and In Your Life.'" - Ellen DorianDisclaimer:The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.show Parent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.com Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105 Contact Me Directly: Email: ellen@passionatepartnersproject.com Or direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/ LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/ Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quiz Set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

    16 min
  8. 75: Annual Christmas Episode: The Spirit of Generosity in Relationships

    12/23/2025

    75: Annual Christmas Episode: The Spirit of Generosity in Relationships

    In this special holiday episode, Ellen Dorian reflects on the Spirit of Generosity, a concept she learned from her father and continues to embody in her coaching. Through heartfelt storytelling, she introduces the five aspects of generosity—emotional, relational, philosophical, action-oriented, and legacy-focused—and shares actionable ways to bring these into your relationships. This episode is a guide to creating deeper connections, fostering trust, and leaving a meaningful legacy for your loved ones. Part 1: A Holiday Story About GenerosityEllen shares a moving story about her father’s approach to Christmas and the lessons he imparted through the concept of Santa Claus as the embodiment of generosity.She recounts her dad’s final gift to her, The Gift of the Magi by O. Henry, and how it symbolizes selflessness, love, and sacrifice in relationships. Part 2: The Five Aspects of GenerosityEmotional Generosity: Giving time, attention, and love freely without expecting anything in return. Includes practical tips like using a “root cause analysis” approach to stay present during emotional conversations.Relational Generosity: Paying attention to your partner’s needs and stepping in to share the mental load. Features the “By The Clock” exercise to anticipate and address tasks proactively.Philosophical Generosity: Cultivating a mindset of abundance by focusing on gratitude and appreciation rather than scarcity or criticism.Action-Oriented Generosity: Doing what you say you’ll do, being reliable, and supporting your partner when it matters most, even when it’s inconvenient.Legacy of Generosity: Building a lasting impact through selflessness in relationships, modeled after her father’s example. Part 3: Holiday ReflectionsEllen encourages listeners to embrace the Spirit of Generosity during the holiday season and to pass it forward in their own lives.She reminds listeners that the greatest gift they can give their children is the example of a passionate and connected partnership. Key Takeaways:Generosity is More Than Money. True generosity lies in how you give your time, attention, and care to those you love. It’s about showing up fully and selflessly in ways that matter most.Emotional and Relational Generosity Build Connection.Trust and connection grow when you’re emotionally present and proactive in supporting your partner’s needs—whether by sharing the mental load or simply listening with focus and care.Your Legacy Begins in Your Relationships.The most impactful legacy you leave isn’t material; it’s the example you set in your relationships. Cultivating a passionate and connected partnership shapes how your children and loved ones approach their own connections. Call to Action:Feeling stuck in your relationship? Schedule a free 15-minute Relationship Reset Call with Ellen to identify key challenges and create a plan to move forward. Visit relationshipresetcall.com to book your spot. Closing Thoughts:Ellen closes with a heartfelt wish for joy, peace, and love during the holiday season. She invites listeners to embrace the Spirit of Generosity and leave a legacy their loved ones will treasure. Support & Resources:Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call. All links can be found below. "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love With Your Wife and in Your Life.'" - Ellen DorianDisclaimer:The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional. Make More Love Show Website: www.makemorelove.show Parent Company - The Passionate Partners Project: www.passionatepartnersproject.com Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105 Contact Me Directly: Email: ellen@passionatepartnersproject.com Or direct message me via social media:Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/ LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/ Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz: http://makemorelove.show/quiz Set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:http://relationshipresetcall.com

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Are you a male business leader who wants a hot and healthy marriage but feels consumed by the relentless demands of growing your company? Welcome! Make More Love is the podcast for high-performing male business leaders who want to achieve the business of their dreams—without losing the love of their life. Join host Ellen Dorian, veteran relationship expert and business coach, as she reveals practical strategies to maintain connection and intimate intensity in committed relationships. The show is a space for straight-up, judgment-free conversations about how listeners can be extraordinary in every way that matters—from handling the complexities of business to creating a deeply passionate relationship with their life partner without losing sight of what makes them uniquely themselves. Ellen brings her extensive expertise to challenge obsolete notions of masculinity, transactional thinking, false hierarchies, and the “work-life balance” myth—all of which can get in the way of building passionate, fulfilling life partnerships. This isn’t therapy. Traditional marriage counseling doesn’t resonate with everyone, so this show delivers practical, relatable advice that leverages the skills business leaders have already mastered in their work to strengthen their relationships. Tune in weekly for actionable ideas tailored to the unique relationship challenges male business leaders face. The segments are short, so you can listen whenever you have a few minutes—in the car, at the gym, or on the john. Ellen's insights and guest conversations with men who’ve been where you are will resonate and inspire. Plus, with captioned episodes, you can engage anytime, anywhere, with or without sound. Make More Love gives you a strategic advantage in cultivating a partnership built on mutual respect, appreciation, and true intimacy. Prepare to hear transformative ideas that deliver fast and lasting results. It’s time to focus on what matters most and Make More Love—in Your Life and With Your Wife. Notes: Intended for Adult Audiences: The Make More Love podcast is intended for adult audiences age 18+ only and contains content related to adult life issues. Some material may be considered "not safe for work." Please exercise discretion about where and with whom you listen to the show. Disclaimer: The Make More Love podcast is for informational purposes only. None of the information provided by the host or guests should be interpreted as a substitute for professional legal, financial, medical, or therapeutic advice or care. Always seek the guidance of a qualified professional with any questions or concerns about your specific situation. Rights and Permissions: By accessing this podcast, you acknowledge that the entire contents are the property of the Ellen Dorian Group/Passionate Partners Project (Ellen Dorian) or used by Ellen Dorian with permission and are protected under U.S. and international copyright laws.

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  • Creator
    Ellen Dorian
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    82
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © Copyright 2026 Ellen Dorian
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    Make More Love