On The Contrary

Onsite! Global Media
  • 4.5 (12)
  • Relationships
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ON THE CONTRARY, presented by Onsite! ON THE CONTRARY is the podcast presented by Onsite! that explores love, dating, sex, marriage, divorce, city girls, f@#$ boys, and everything in between. Each episode, our hosts pull up a seat for honest, unfiltered conversations about relationships, boundaries, friendship, and the messy in-between moments everyone's lived through but few talk about out loud. Equal parts funny, real, and a little chaotic; this is the group chat you wish you were in. Available on YouTube and wherever you listen to podcasts.

  1. 18h ago

    Are You Too Old For The Club?

    Season 2, Episode 7: How Do You Define Fun at Different Ages? At some point, the club stops feeling like a release and starts feeling like a chore. Especially when you need acid reflux medication just to get through the night. 💊 Kash the Sexologist, Luis, Rico, Taz, and the full panel are back at the table. This episode, they're getting into something that sounds lighthearted but actually hits a lot differently the older you get: how do you define fun? And does that definition have an expiration date? Please visit our website for more https://www.onsiteglobalmedia.us/ Rico says there's absolutely an age limit to the club, and he has the numbers to prove it. Luis says it's less about age and more about what you're looking for. Kash flips the whole conversation: the real question isn't whether you're too old for it, it's whether doing it is funding your growth or funding your regression. And if you come home relieved that the night is over? That's your answer. 🗣️ Then, a caller drops a situation the panel could not stop talking about: she has two friend groups—one that still goes out hard and one that has fully settled into lounge mode. She doesn't know which version of herself is the real one anymore. The panel goes deep. Somewhere between the club age debate, the bottle section conversation, and what fun actually looks like in your 30s and 40s, the answer isn't what you think. Stop living to work. Start working to live. And figure out what actually makes you feel good while you're at it. We're not letting anybody off the hook. On the contrary.

    Are You Too Old For The Club?

  2. 3d ago

    Does Long Term Mean Low Desire

    Nobody wants to admit it. But after years with the same person the desire shifts. Is that normal? Is it a problem? Or is it just what long term actually looks like? Kash, Luis, Rico, Taz and the full panel are back at the table and this episode they are going somewhere most people don't want to go what really happens to intimacy in a long term relationship. Does desire naturally decline over time? If you find yourself curious about something different, does that make you a bad partner or just an honest human being? Kash comes in with a perspective and breaks down the difference between sexual chemistry and sexual alignment and why alignment is actually what keeps couples together long after the chemistry fades. Rico says boredom is real and the same moves after ten years is a conversation worth having. Taz gets honest about what she actually values in a relationship versus what the world tells her she should. And Luis?  Luis draws the line between looking, liking, and acting and says longevity depends on which side of that line you stay on. Then a caller drops a situation that stops the whole panel. Nine years in, and her man has gone from every day to once a month. Nobody fully agrees on what's causing it. Everybody has an opinion on what she should do next. Sex can get boring without connection. The question is do you even want the longevity? We're not letting anybody off the hook. On the contrary.

    Does Long Term Mean Low Desire

  3. 3d ago

    Women Don’t Lose Friends, They Outgrow Them

    The narrative that women can’t keep friends, that we’re catty, competitive, and disloyal? We’re flipping all of it today. Rah Ali, Luis, Kash the Sexologist, Rico, and Taz are at the table and this episode they’re getting into one of the most layered conversations the panel has had all season female friendships. Who benefits from women believing they can’t trust each other? What does it actually take to build a friendship between women that lasts? And is it really that women lose friends or that they outgrow them? Rico comes in immediately with zero female friends and zero apologies about it. The women at the table are not letting that slide. Kash breaks down the tiers of friendship and why not every friend is meant for every room. Rah gets real about the friends you love but can’t bring everywhere and why that’s not a betrayal, it’s just knowing your people. And Taz brings the perspective that stops the whole conversation sometimes the friendship doesn’t end, it just changes shape. And we have to get comfortable with that. Then a caller drops a situation that hits different her best friend of 12 years has gone cold and won’t say why. The panel is divided on what to do next. Women don’t lose friends. They outgrow them. And that’s not something to apologize for. We’re not letting anybody off the hook. On the contrary. Please visit our website for more http://www.onsiteglobalmedia.us/

    Women Don’t Lose Friends, They Outgrow Them

  4. 3d ago

    Bonnets & Durags Outside: Comfort or Careless? | On the Contrary

    Season 2, Episode 4: "Bonnets & Durags Outside: Yes or No" It sounds like a small conversation. It is not a small conversation. Rah Ali, Luis, Kash the Sexologist, Taz, and the full panel are back at the table, and this episode starts a debate that had everybody in their feelings before the first commercial break. Bonnets and durags outside—where do we draw the line? Is it a style choice, a cultural norm, a comfort thing, or has it become an excuse to stop caring about how we show up in public? Please visit our website for more https://www.onsiteglobalmedia.us/ Luis comes in immediately with his position and he is not backing down. He wears his durag on the way to the function, takes it off when he gets there, and sees nothing wrong with that. The panel is not fully convinced. Kash draws the line at bonnets specifically and makes the case for the silk scarf instead. She breaks it all the way down: it's not really about the bonnet or the durag, it's about perception, image, and the version of yourself you're putting out into the world. Rah Ali even admits to being a bit of a hypocrite, confessing she loves a comfortable mumu and bonnet but will still pass judgment on others who step outside in them! Then the conversation takes a sharp left turn into men getting their nails painted, proper hookah posture, and whether any of it is a dealbreaker in a relationship. It goes exactly where you think it's going to go and somehow goes further. There's a time and a place for everything. The question is do you know the difference?  We're not letting anybody off the hook. On the contrary.

    Bonnets & Durags Outside: Comfort or Careless? | On the Contrary

  5. 3d ago

    Why Is It So Hard For Men To Tell The Truth? | On the Contrary

    Season 2, Episode 3: Why is it so hard for men to tell the truth? Lies have ended more relationships than cheating ever has. And nobody on this panel is pretending otherwise. 🛑  Kash the Sexologist, Luis, Rico, and Taz are back at the table, and this episode they are going all the way in on the one conversation most people avoid: why is it so hard for men to just tell the truth? Is it avoidance? Is it conditioning? Or have some women actually created an environment where lying feels safer than honesty?  Please visit our website for more https://www.onsiteglobalmedia.us/ Rico comes in immediately with a take that divides the whole room: some women need to be lied to in order to function in a relationship. Kash is not letting that slide, Luis is somewhere in the middle trying to reason his way through it, and Taz brings a personal story that stops the entire conversation cold.  Then the panel goes somewhere nobody expected. What happens when the lie isn’t about a relationship, but about identity? When a child grows up not knowing who their real father is? The table gets real, it gets personal, and it gets heavy. And the question underneath all of it is the same one it’s always been: who does the lie actually protect? Because when you actively lie to someone, you are robbing them of the time it would take them to heal. Rip the Band-Aid off. The truth will set you free.  We’re not letting anybody off the hook. On the contrary.

    Why Is It So Hard For Men To Tell The Truth? | On the Contrary

  6. 3d ago

    Did Independent Women Anthems Ruin Modern Relationships? | On The Contrary

    Did music fuel a generation of single women, or did it just push back against unequal standards? On this episode of On The Contrary, we tackle how female empowerment anthems and the "I don't need a man" mindset shaped modern dating. We're breaking down whether popular culture built genuine female independence or accidentally created a barrier to intimacy, hypergamy expectations, and mutual respect in relationships. Tune in for an unfiltered conversation on ego, romance, and where modern connection goes from here.

    Did Independent Women Anthems Ruin Modern Relationships? | On The Contrary

  7. 3d ago

    Do Men Really Like Women Who Don't Got Sh*t? | On The Contrary

    Does financial independence actually matter to men, or is social media lying to you? On this episode of On The Contrary, we unpack the controversial debate around modern dating, money, and power dynamics in relationships. From the myth that men prefer women who "don't got sh*t" to what really creates genuine partnership, we’re challenging the online narratives and getting real about what men actually look for in a partner. Tune in as we separate reality from internet hype and dive deep into the truths no one else wants to talk about.

    Do Men Really Like Women Who Don't Got Sh*t? | On The Contrary

  8. 04/08/2025

    Is OnlyFans Ruining Relationships or Redefining Power?

    OnlyFans: Empowerment or betrayal?
In this explosive episode of On The Contrary, we dive deep into the blurred lines between independence, intimacy, and insecurity.We’re asking the real questions:•Is starting an OnlyFans without your partner’s approval a form of cheating?•Can a man really handle dating a woman who makes more money from OF than he does?•Is society ready to respect creators the same way we respect CEOs and doctors?From finance to feelings, this convo gets RAW. Expect bold takes, heated debates, and some serious truth bombs.Would YOU be okay with your partner on OnlyFans?
Sound off in the comments.
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    Is OnlyFans Ruining Relationships or Redefining Power?
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ON THE CONTRARY, presented by Onsite! ON THE CONTRARY is the podcast presented by Onsite! that explores love, dating, sex, marriage, divorce, city girls, f@#$ boys, and everything in between. Each episode, our hosts pull up a seat for honest, unfiltered conversations about relationships, boundaries, friendship, and the messy in-between moments everyone's lived through but few talk about out loud. Equal parts funny, real, and a little chaotic; this is the group chat you wish you were in. Available on YouTube and wherever you listen to podcasts.

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  • Creator
    Onsite! Global Media
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    60
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Copyright Onsite! Global Media
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