The Things Left Unsaid Podcast

Kolapo Olanrewaju
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The Things Left Unsaid Podcast The Afro-zillennial Experience Podcast Join us every week as we delve into the realm of unexpressed thoughts, emotions, and messages. These aspects often go unspoken due to various reasons, such as fear, uncertainty, or the desire to maintain harmony. However, these unspoken thoughts possess significant meaning and impact on relationships and understanding between individuals. We emphasize the importance of cultivating a safe and open environment where people can comfortably express themselves and address these unspoken matters. Throughout our discussions, we'll engage with your favourite celebrities and intriguing guests who have exceptional stories to share. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. SE02EP19 – The “Things Dey Occur" Episode

    May 5

    SE02EP19 – The “Things Dey Occur" Episode

    This week on The Things Left Unsaid Podcast it’s one of those episodes where everything is happening at once, the good, the stressful, and the kind of moments that make you pause mid thought. We talk new beginnings and quiet wins, new jobs, new spaces, stepping into unfamiliar versions of ourselves. But also the reality behind it, responsibility, independence, and the subtle pressure that comes with growing up. It’s laughter, reflection, and those “wait… is this actually my life now?” moments. Somewhere in between, we get into the chaos of social media, opinions flying everywhere, people speaking on things they barely understand, and how simple conversations somehow turn into full blown debates. Then the dilemmas hit close to home. One listener opens up about growing up in a household where the rules were never quite the same, where one child is held accountable and the other is constantly excused. Do you confront it, or just learn to live with it? And then there’s that situation. The guy who starts off normal, then suddenly becomes “deep”, disappearing, speaking in riddles, talking about being in his “season of becoming.” The real question is, is he evolving or just wasting your time? It’s real life, in motion. A little chaotic, very honest, unmistakably Nigerian, with laughter, sharp takes, and moments that feel a bit too relatable. Unfiltered. Honest. Slightly dramatic. Conversations as they come. Very Things Left Unsaid. 🎙️🖤 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    59 min
  2. SE02EP18 – The “Things Dey Happen” Episode

    Apr 28

    SE02EP18 – The “Things Dey Happen” Episode

    This week on The Things Left Unsaid Podcast, it’s one of those episodes where life just… shows itself. From chaotic weekends, unexpected plans, and “how did I even get here?” moments to real updates about work, money, and trying to stay afloat in Lagos, the conversation moves naturally between laughter, frustration, and everything in between. There’s a bit of good news, a bit of stress, and that familiar feeling of trying to figure things out as you go. Somewhere along the way, the conversation widens from PVC conversations and the reality of voting in Nigeria, to the kind of things happening online that leave you genuinely disturbed. It’s honest, unfiltered reactions to the world around us, with no sugarcoating. Then the dilemma comes in… and hits differently. A relationship strained not by cheating, but by a kind of distance that doesn’t look like distance. When someone’s life starts expanding growth, attention, success and you’re still there, but no longer fully seen. It raises the question: is love still enough when presence starts to disappear? It’s one of those episodes that feels like real life in motion, messy, emotional, and very human. Unfiltered. Honest. Slightly chaotic. Life updates, real opinions, and conversations that don’t try to be perfect. Very Things Left Unsaid. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    52 min
  3. SE02EP17 – The “Big Femado” Episode FT Big Femado himself.

    Apr 21

    SE02EP17 – The “Big Femado” Episode FT Big Femado himself.

    This week on The Things Left Unsaid Podcast, it’s just Kola and a guest and from the very start, you can tell this one is going to be different. No fixed structure. No clear direction. Just one of those conversations where everything unfolds as it comes chaotic, honest, and very in-the-moment. Somewhere between laughter, random thoughts, and dramatic takes, the conversation leans into that quiet urge to step outside expectations to stop overthinking everything and just be, even if it doesn’t make perfect sense. Then the dilemmas come in… and shift the tone. One listener is dealing with a family WhatsApp group that has suddenly turned into a full-time obligation where silence is noticed, engagement is monitored, and even your lack of “amen” becomes a problem. It raises a real question: 👉 How do you set boundaries with family… without becoming the villain? Another listener shares a completely different kind of moment. A simple act of kindness in Balogun market no pressure, no expectations just someone showing up and leaving. But what stays is the feeling. And now the question is: 👉 Was it just a moment… or the beginning of something more? It’s one of those episodes that doesn’t try to force meaning but somehow still leaves you thinking. Chaotic. Honest. Slightly dramatic. No scripts. No perfect structure. Just real conversations as they come. Very Things Left Unsaid. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 1m
  4. SE02EP16 – The “Who Pays?” Episode FT Kelvin

    Apr 14

    SE02EP16 – The “Who Pays?” Episode FT Kelvin

    This week on The Things Left Unsaid Podcast, Kola and Yetunde are joined by a guest, Kelvin, for one of those conversations that starts light… and quickly gets real. What begins as a simple catch-up moves into a question that always divides opinions: If someone invites you out on a date, who should actually pay? From first dates to full “date night” expectations, we unpack the reality behind dating in today’s world especially in a Nigerian context. Do men really have to cover everything, including glam? Is the 50/50 narrative realistic… or just something people say? And at what point does expectation become entitlement? As the conversation unfolds, so do the layers. Moving from opinions to lived experiences, and the subtle pressures that come with dating, money, and perception. Somewhere in the middle, the dilemmas hit. A woman comes face-to-face with a past she thought she had buried, when a former school bully offers an unexpected apology years later. What do you do when you came prepared for war… and you’re met with peace? Another listener shares the quiet tension of navigating marriage between old money and new money, where respect is subtle, status is unspoken, and one sentence can carry more weight than it should. Do you address it, or protect the peace? It’s one of those episodes where everything flows; opinions, laughter, tension, and honesty, all in real time. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 18m
  5. SE02EP15 – The “NYSC Lover” Episode

    Apr 7

    SE02EP15 – The “NYSC Lover” Episode

    This episode is one of those real-life catch-ups where everything just comes out as it is. From a slow, dragging week to the small frustrations that come with trying to get things done especially in typical Nigerian fashion, the conversation moves through personal experiences, random observations, and honest reactions to everyday situations. There’s a bit of everything: work energy, expectations vs reality, and those moments that just make you pause and question how things really work. We also share an important update about the podcast going forward, and somewhere along the way, the conversation drifts into NYSC life including the idea of love in camp and how those connections even happen. Unstructured. Honest. Very in-the-moment. Just life, as it is. The Very Things Left Unsaid. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 4m
  6. SE02EP14 – The “Very Kola” Episode

    Apr 3

    SE02EP14 – The “Very Kola” Episode

    This is a solo episode. No guest. No co-host. Just Kola, reflecting. In this episode, he opens up about regrets. The things that could have been done differently, the choices that didn’t go as planned, and the people who, in hindsight, maybe should never have been there. It’s not a perfect reflection. It’s honest. A conversation about looking back without pretending it didn’t matter. About accepting that some decisions stay with you, not to weigh you down, but to shape how you move forward. Because regret doesn’t always disappear. Sometimes, it teaches. Sometimes, it redirects. And sometimes, it simply reminds you to do better. Quiet. Personal. Reflective. Very Things Left Unsaid. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    24 min
  7. SE02EP13 – The “Just Gist” Episode

    Mar 27

    SE02EP13 – The “Just Gist” Episode

    This episode is what happens when you sit down with your people and just talk. No agenda. No pressure. Just gist. We catch up on the week, share random moments, laugh through the little things, and somehow move from one topic to another without even realizing it. From banter to the small things that make us happy, to those unexpected “green flags” we quietly agree matter in relationships, everything comes up naturally. It’s light, it’s funny, and it feels like being in the room with friends where nothing is forced and everything flows. One topic led to another. And somehow, it all makes sense. Fun. Easy. Unfiltered. Very Things Left Unsaid. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 17m
  8. SE02EP12 – The “Welcome to 30s” Episode FT Penzer

    Mar 20

    SE02EP12 – The “Welcome to 30s” Episode FT Penzer

    This episode is a celebration. Recorded on Kola’s birthday, it marks the beginning of a new decade and all the reflection, excitement, and honesty that comes with stepping into your 30s. We’re joined by a guest, Penzer, and together the conversation flows through life updates, shared perspectives, and the kind of honest opinions that come up when people are simply being real with each other. As always, we get into a few dilemmas from figuring out whether to choose what you truly want or what feels expected, to navigating life decisions with more intention and self-awareness. But beyond the conversations, this episode carries a different energy. It’s lighter. Fuller. More grounded. A moment of growth, gratitude, and stepping into what’s next, surrounded by good people, laughter, and real conversation. Because sometimes, a new age is not just a number. It’s a reset. Joyful. Reflective. Alive. Very Things Left Unsaid. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 20m
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The Things Left Unsaid Podcast The Afro-zillennial Experience Podcast Join us every week as we delve into the realm of unexpressed thoughts, emotions, and messages. These aspects often go unspoken due to various reasons, such as fear, uncertainty, or the desire to maintain harmony. However, these unspoken thoughts possess significant meaning and impact on relationships and understanding between individuals. We emphasize the importance of cultivating a safe and open environment where people can comfortably express themselves and address these unspoken matters. Throughout our discussions, we'll engage with your favourite celebrities and intriguing guests who have exceptional stories to share. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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