The Self Love Model

cindy

A podcast for the girl's girls. Sharing with you my journey of finding myself and falling in love with my life. All things self love & women empowerment. WELCOME TO YOUR GIRL TRIBE.

  1. 12/19/2025

    attachment styles: what is it? and how it impacts our relationships

    Ever wonder why you show up the way you do in relationships?Why certain patterns keep repeating even when you want something different? In today’s episode, we’re diving into attachment styles — what they are, where they come from, and how they shape the way we connect in our relationships. This conversation was inspired by a recent girls night where I realized that some of my friends had never even heard of attachment styles before. So if this is new to you, don’t worry — class is in session, besties 📚✨ In this episode, we talk about: What attachment is (and the difference between attachment vs. connection) Where attachment theory comes from The four attachment styles: secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized My personal experience going from anxious to secure through therapy Why understanding your attachment style can improve the quality of your relationships Steps you can take to move toward a more secure attachment Understanding your attachment style isn’t about labeling yourself — it’s about gaining awareness, healing at the root, and creating healthier, more fulfilling relationships. ✨ Disclaimer: I am not a licensed therapist or mental health professional. I’m simply sharing what I’ve learned through my own healing journey, therapy, and personal research. 📚 Resources Mentioned in This Episode 🎧 Podcast: On Purpose with Jay ShettyEpisode:https://open.spotify.com/episode/3w5q3VQQaygJ2dV3EWttNm?si=Xqeql0ZXRw2pqdJmrhXAEA 📖 Book: Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find — and Keep — Loveby Amir Levine & Rachel Hellerhttps://www.amazon.com/Attached-Science-Adult-Attachment-YouFind/dp/1585429139

    44 min

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A podcast for the girl's girls. Sharing with you my journey of finding myself and falling in love with my life. All things self love & women empowerment. WELCOME TO YOUR GIRL TRIBE.

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