ENYTinG Gender Podcast

Sharmin Prince

Welcome to the ENYTinG Gender Podcast – your monthly dive into the fluid world of gender. Join us as we unravel the tapestry of gender, from the traditional to the contemporary, and hear voices that challenge and inspire our understanding of the human experience. Why Listen to ENYTinG Gender? Whether you're well-versed in gender studies or just starting to explore these concepts, the ENYTing Gender Podcast is your gateway to understanding how gender shapes our lives, policies, and relationships. Subscribe and join the conversation—transform the way we think about identity, one episode at a time. New episodes drop every Wednesday. Tune in, find clarity, and amplify the discourse on gender.

  1. Becoming the New Shield Against Online Gender Violence” -Tom Mboya Opiyo

    Jan 20 ·  Video

    Becoming the New Shield Against Online Gender Violence” -Tom Mboya Opiyo

    ENYTinG Gender Podcast – Episode # ?* Tech Strategy, AI & Safeguards against Online Gender‑Based Violence 🔹 Episode OverviewIn this special episode Sharmin Prince sits down with Tom Mboya Opiyo (tech‑strategy and AI specialist) to explore how corporations, families, community groups, and individuals can use technology, governance and AI to prevent online gender‑based violence (GBV) rather than just react to it. From corporate email filters to parental‑control apps, from AI‑driven risk alerts to simple “Stop‑Think‑Act” habits, the conversation delivers practical, actionable tools for anyone who wants to stay safe online. ⏰ Show‑Notes & TimestampsTimeSegmentKey Points00:00 – 02:10Intro & FramingCharmaine introduces the topic: leveraging tech‑strategy, security & governance to protect people from cyber‑bullying, hate & digital violence.02:11 – 04:45Corporate Safeguards• Use built‑in advanced threat protection in Office 365 / Google Workspace to block nudity, doxxing, harmful images. • Deploy firewalls to block sites known for gender‑based violence. • Mandatory employee training on recognizing & reporting online GBV.04:46 – 07:30Family & Home‑Computer Protection• Free parental‑control apps (App Store / Play Store) to monitor children’s browsing. • Set age‑appropriate content filters, review activity together. • Teach kids the “Stop‑Think‑Act” decision‑making model.07:31 – 09:20Real‑Time Safety Tools• In‑app “danger” button on ride‑share services (Uber, Bolt) to alert contacts. • Share live trip links with trusted family members. • Home alarm button / quick‑report mechanisms.09:21 – 11:55Future Threats – Deepfakes & AI Impersonation• Educate girls (and all users) to verify identities; voice/video may be fabricated. • Constantly ask “Would my mother really do this?” before sharing info.11:56 – 14:40Turning AI into a Shield• Establish robust governance: clear policies, reporting pathways, consequences for abuse. • Implement responsible‑AI safeguards – bias testing, audit logs, human‑in‑the‑loop review. • AI‑driven risk analytics: geo‑based safety alerts, pattern detection for harassment.14:41 – 17:20Practical AI Applications• Prompt‑engineered ChatGPT or custom bots that flag unsafe locations, suggest safe routes. • AI‑powered “safety assistant” for travelers (e.g., Nairobi, Georgetown, Kingston) – real‑time alerts, recommended safe districts. • Voice‑activated reporting for crisis moments.17:21 – EndWrap‑Up & Call‑to‑ActionCharmaine thanks Tom, emphasizes prevention over cure, and invites listeners to share feedback and request resources.📌 Key TakeawaysPrevention First – Deploy layered tech safeguards (email filters, firewalls, parental controls) before an incident occurs.Education & Training – Regular, age‑appropriate workshops for employees, families, and community members dramatically reduce exposure.Simple Decision Framework – “Stop → Think → Act” helps users pause, assess risk, and respond appropriately in 98 % of cases.Governance is the Backbone – Concrete policies, clear reporting procedures, and accountability mechanisms are essential for any tech solution.Responsible AI – Use AI with built‑in safeguards (bias checks, human oversight) to turn the technology into a protective “shield” rather than a weapon.Real‑World Tools – Encourage adoption of existing parental‑control apps, ride‑share safety buttons, and AI‑driven location‑risk bots for everyday safety.🛠️ Tools & Resources MentionedCategoryTool / ServiceHow to AccessEmail & Threat ProtectionOffice 365 Advanced Threat Protection, Google Workspace Security CenterVia corporate admin consoleWeb FilteringFirewall rule‑sets (e.g., Cisco, Palo Alto)Configure to block known GBV sitesParental ControlsFamily Link (Android), Screen Time (iOS), third‑party apps (e.g., Qustodio, Net Nanny)App Store / Google PlayRide‑Share SafetyUber & Bolt “Emergency Button”In‑app (tap the shield icon)Home SafetySmart home alarm systems (Ring, Nest) – enable “panic” buttonInstall via device appAI Safety AssistantsCustom ChatGPT prompts (e.g., “Give me safety alerts for Nairobi”)OpenAI platform or integrated chatbotTraining MaterialsGBV awareness slides, “Stop‑Think‑Act” worksheetsRequest from host or download from gender‑rights NGOsGovernance FrameworksISO/IEC 27701 (Privacy), NIST CSF (Cybersecurity)Public standards bodies📚 Further Reading & ReferencesUN Women – Online Gender‑Based Violence – https://www.unwomen.org/en/what-we-do/technology-and-innovationNIST Cybersecurity Framework – https://www.nist.gov/cyberframeworkISO/IEC 27701:2022 – Privacy Information Management – https://www.iso.org/standard/82026.html“Stop‑Think‑Act” Decision‑Making Model – https://www.safetysciences.com/stop-think-actAI Ethics Guidelines – EU High‑Level Expert Group – https://ec.europa.eu/digital-single-market/en/high-level-expert-group-artificial-intelligence🎧 How to Get InvolvedSubmit Your Questions – Use the episode’s comment section or email us at anythinggender@podcast.com for future topics.Share Your Story – If you’ve used any of the tools discussed, let us know how it helped you stay safe.Join the Community – Follow us on LinkedIn, Twitter, and Instagram for weekly tips on digital safety and gender equity.Next Episode Teaser: We’ll speak with a leading data‑privacy lawyer about the emerging legal landscape for AI‑generated deepfakes and what it means for survivors of online abuse. Stay tuned! Prepared by the EZNYTinG Gender Podcast team – 15 January 2026 --- ⚠️ Video content requires an upgraded plan. Please contact support@mypodops.com to enable video features.

  2.  “When the Digital World Becomes a Battlefield”

    Jan 16 ·  Video

     “When the Digital World Becomes a Battlefield”

    ENYTinG Gender Podcast – Episode “When the Digital World Becomes a Battlefield” Host: Sharmin Prince – Certified genderequality changemaker Guest: Tom Mbopa – Award‑winning technology leader (30 + years), former CIO of the Year, Lean Six Sigma Black Belt, and dad of five daughters 🎙️ Quick Take‑AwayThe internet can empower — but it can also become a weapon of gender‑based violence. Tom and Charmin break down the shocking statistics, the newest forms of digital abuse (deep‑fakes, doxxing, cyber‑stalking, etc.), and practical steps parents, educators, and tech‑leaders can take to protect girls (and boys) online. 📚 Show‑Notes & Timestamp Guide Time (approx.) Segment What You’ll Hear 00:00 – 02:00 Intro & Host Set‑up Charmin welcomes listeners and introduces the mission of the Anything Gender podcast. 02:00 – 04:30 Guest Intro Tom’s background: 30 years in tech, work with Kenya Airways & Unilever, CIO of the Year, Lean Six Sigma Black Belt, father of five daughters. 04:30 – 07:45 Why This Topic Matters to Tom Personal connection – protecting his daughters from gender‑based violence that now occurs online. 07:45 – 11:30 Global Violence Stats • 736 million women worldwide have experienced some form of violence. • 35‑45 % of women (15‑49) face gender‑based violence (UN Women). • In Kenya: “one in three” reported, but Tom estimates 50‑56 % when accounting for under‑reporting. 11:30 – 14:20 From Physical to Digital Abuse Transition from traditional domestic & sexual violence to “digital violence”: cyber‑bullying, cyber‑stalking, deep‑fakes, doxxing. 14:20 – 18:45 Tech‑Enabled Gender‑Based Violence (TGBV) • Most common TGBV: unwanted sexual content sent to women. • Doxxing: sharing intimate images to shame or extort. • COVID‑19 surge in internet access → spike in online abuse. 18:45 – 22:10 Kids & The Internet Young girls now have smartphones & social‑media access; risk of meeting predators on Instagram, dating apps, etc. 22:10 – 26:00 Real‑World Tragedy Story of a 12‑year‑old Kenyan girl lured online, abused, and killed – illustrates the deadly stakes. 26:00 – 30:15 Parent & Educator Playbook • Re‑teach “don’t talk to strangers” for the digital age. • Teach “online discipline”: privacy settings, skepticism of unknown contacts, safe‑search habits. • Open communication: encourage kids to report anything uncomfortable. 30:15 – 33:45 Practical Measures to Prevent Grooming • Set up parental controls & device monitoring. • Create family internet‑use agreements (time limits, approved apps). • Role‑play scenarios: “What would you do if a stranger asks for a video?” • Use age‑appropriate digital‑literacy curricula (e.g., Be Internet Awesome, Safer Internet Day resources). 33:45 – 36:00 Key Take‑aways & Call‑to‑Action • Allies must push for stronger legal frameworks & tech‑company accountability. • Listeners encouraged to share the episode, support local gender‑safety NGOs, and demand better online‑safety policies. 36:00 – End Wrap‑Up & Thank‑You Sharmin thanks Tom, teases the next episode, and signs off. 📊 Highlighted Statistics- 736 million women have faced violence (Global estimate by Tom). - 35-45% of women aged 15-49 experience gender-based violence (UN Women data). - 1 in 3 women worldwide suffer from gender-based violence (common statistic). - 50-56% of Kenyan women and girls are likely to face gender-based violence (estimate by Tom). - Unwanted sexual content is the leading type of tech-based gender-based violence (Tom’s observation during COVID-19). 🛡️ Actionable Tips for Parents & GuardiansansRe‑teach “Don’t Talk to Strangers” for the Digital WorldExplain the difference between a “stranger” online and offline, and why privacy matters.Set Up Robust Parental ControlsUse built‑in OS controls, reputable third‑ apps, and limit app installations to verified stores.Create a Family Digital‑Use AgreementAgree on permissible sites, screen‑time limits, and a rule that any request for images/video must be discussed first.Teach “Online Discipline”Strong passwords, two‑factor authentication, never share location, and verify identities before meeting anyone in person.Open‑Door CommunicationEncourage kids to report any uncomfortable messages; respond without blame or over‑reaction.Educate About Deep‑Fakes & Image‑ManipulationShow examples, explain how easy it is to create fake media, and stress “If it looks too good to be true, it probably is.”Use Trusted Educational ResourcesGoogle’s Be Internet Awesome, Common Sense Media’s Digital Citizenship curriculum, and UNICEF’s Online Safety guides. 📚 Resources & Further Reading**Resources on Gender-Based Violence (GBV)** - **Global GBV Statistics**: UN Women – [Statistics on Violence against Women](https://www.unwomen.org/en) - **Digital Violence Toolkit**: International Telecommunication Union (ITU) – [Cyber Violence against Women](https://www.itu.int/en/ITU‑D/Pages/Cyber‑Violence.aspx) - **Parental Controls Guide**: Net Nanny – [Comprehensive Guide](https://www.netnanny.com/parental‑control‑guide) - **Online Safety for Kids**: Common Sense Media – [Online Safety](https://www.commonsense.org/education/digital‑citizenship) - **Deep-Fake Awareness**: Deeptrace (now Sensity) – [Deepfake Detection](https://www.sensity.ai/) **Kenya-Specific GBV Data**: The Kenya National Bureau of Statistics' [Gender-Based Violence Survey](https://www.knbs.or.ke/) shows significant insights into the prevalence and impact of gender-based violence in the country. As the voice behind Anything Gender, Charmin curates conversations that inspire action and policy change. 👤 About the GuestTom Mbopa, whose transcript offers an impressive three decades of experience in technology leadership. A former CIO of the Year and Lean Six Sigma Black Belt, Tom has transformed global brands like Kenya Airways and Unilever. As a father of five daughters, he leverages his expertise to protect the next generation from both physical and digital gender‑based violence. 📣 Call‑to‑ActionShare this episode with anyone who works with youth, education, or tech policy.Donate to organizations combating online gender‑based violence (e.g., Women’s Media Center, Digital Defenders Partnership).Comment on our website with your own safety tips or stories—your voice could help shape future episodes.Subscribe to Anything Gender on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favorite platform so you never miss an episode.Thank you for listening! Together we can turn the internet from a battlefield into a safe space for all genders. Host: Sharmin Prince  Transformational Coach, Entrepreneur, Consultant, Trainer, Content Creator.  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SharminVanPrince                    https://www.facebook.com/eaglessoarN413805Y                    https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100088212  X:              https://twitter.com/SharminPrince  LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/sharminprince/                    https://www.linkedin.com/company/eagles-empowered-to-soar-inc-eets   Website:   https://www.sharminprince.utobo.com                    https://www.sharminprince.com                    https://www.thequiltofcourage.org/                   https:www.eaglessoar.org  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eagles_soar_inc/                             https://www.instagram.com/sharmin_vp/  Z8Srj0Cggefv9HPherTY --- ⚠️ Video content requires an upgraded plan. 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  3. 12/04/2025 ·  Video

    Empowering Girls Through Education and Health Access to Break Cycles of Gender Violence

    Welcome to this episode of the ENYTinG Gender podcast, part of the 16 Days of Activism Against Gender‑Based Violence. Dr. Nwadinobi discusses her experience combating harmful practices like widow abuse, early marriage, and cyber violence, and presents a plan for a global treaty. In this episode you’ll learn: Educational disparities, early marriage, and forced childbirth significantly impact Nigerian girls' lives. Additionally, widowhood customs such as shaving, imprisonment, disinheritance, and levirate marriage contribute to severe gender-based violence. The alarming rise of cyber‑violence, with 58 % of women affected and 90‑95 % of deep‑fake sexual content targeting women. A step-by-step advocacy model: community outreach, engaging leaders, documenting abuse, and influencing legislation. This includes a global treaty to eliminate violence against women and girls, emphasizing international advocacy's role in policy change. --- ⚠️ Video content requires an upgraded plan. Please contact support@mypodops.com to enable video features.

    41 min

  4. 11/27/2025

    Digital Violence – The New Frontier of Gender‑Based Abuse**

    Welcome to a special edition of our “16 Days of Activism Against Gender‑Based Violence” podcast series. In today’s episode, hosts Charmaine Prince and her guest Linda from Nairobi dive deep into the evolving landscape of violence against women and girls—especially the rapid surge of digital abuse that followed the pandemic’s “shadow” wave of domestic harm. We’ll explore how traditional forms of GBV—intimate‑partner violence, workplace discrimination, community bias—are now spilling into the online world. From cyberbullying, doxxing, and AI‑generated deep‑fakes to catfishing, trolling, and misogynistic “manosphere” networks, our conversation maps out this unsettling digital minefield. The hosts also discuss the urgent need for education: why many still don’t recognize online harassment as violence, how we can empower women to become “sister‑keepers,” and what role schools, families, and policymakers must play. A recurring theme is the future of the next generation. As kids grow up with iPads, Alexa, and AI assistants, the line between protection and exposure blurs. Charmaine and Linda argue for critical thinking over blind reliance on technology, urging us to teach digital literacy before digital victimhood takes root. In a hopeful turn, the hosts propose practical steps—weekly “courage” spotlights, blogs, and safe‑space online forums—to spread knowledge, spark community dialogue, and build resilient networks that can push back against both old‑school and new‑school abuse. Stay tuned as we unpack the realities of digital violence, share stories of resilience, and chart a path toward safer, more informed online spaces for women, girls, and the generations to come. --- ⚠️ Video content requires an upgraded plan. Please contact support@mypodops.com to enable video features.

    26 min

  5. 05/21/2025

    Breaking Tradition: The Journey to Married Name Gender Equality Part 1

    Welcome to the ENYTinG Gender podcast, where we explore the nuances of gender equality in various aspects of life. I'm your host, Sharmin Prince, and today we have a fascinating discussion with Melania Murphy, a writer, speaker, and soon-to-be author. Melania's expertise lies in empowering women through the topic of married name choices, a subject she delves into in her upcoming book, "Bound by Love, Not Tradition: Empowering Women Through Married Name Choices." In this episode, Melania shares her personal journey and insights into the tradition of women taking their husband's last name, the unconscious biases and stereotypes that accompany it, and the importance of achieving married name gender equality. We also explore how same-sex couples approach this decision and the evolving trends in name choices among men and women. Join us as we uncover the significance of names, identity, and equality in marriage.

    20 min

  6. 04/02/2025

    Breaking Barriers: Lisbeth Salifu on Supporting Women with Disabilities in Africa

    Welcome to the ENYTinG Gender podcast, hosted by Sharmin Prince. In this episode, we celebrate International Women's Month by featuring an inspiring guest, Lisbeth A. Salifu from Ghana. Lisbeth is a seasoned professional with over a decade of experience in program development, project coordination, and office management. She is the co-founder of Access Afgana, an organization dedicated to empowering individuals with disabilities, particularly women. Lisbeth shares her journey as a woman with a disability and discusses the challenges and stereotypes faced by women with disabilities in Africa. She highlights the importance of capacity building, skills development, and job placement in boosting confidence and overcoming societal biases. Join us as we delve into Lisbeth's impactful work and her vision for a more inclusive future.

    21 min

  7. 03/13/2025

    Empowering Male Allyship: A Conversation with Rachel Cottom

    00:04 - 10:10 Sharmin Prince interviews Rachel Cottam, a gender allyship speaker and writer Rachel believes in men and women working together to create gender equity She created the Allies at work playbook and is collaborating with the Utah Women and Leadership Project to close the gender pay gap Rachel shares her journey from being a high school English teacher to working in tech and the importance of male allyship in the workplace She discusses the "tiara syndrome" and the need for women to advocate for themselves Sharmin shares her experience in the nonprofit sector and the difficulties of advocating for herself in a predominantly female environment 09:45 - 19:50 The speaker has had to advocate for herself in a female-dominated space due to microaggressions and difficulties in the dynamics. She left her career to start a nonprofit due to the challenges she faced. Her understanding of feminism has evolved, especially after moving to a state with low gender equality rankings. She believes feminism should be intersectional and inclusive of all individuals, not just women. She recommends the book "We Should All Be Feminists" and emphasizes the importance of male allies in achieving gender equality. She believes that male allies may have misconceptions about the role of allyship and the need to take on all responsibilities. 19:43 - 29:49 Male allies can make a difference by taking on more responsibilities at home and talking about their parenting duties at work They can counteract the motherhood penalty by normalizing their parenting responsibilities in the workplace Men in leadership positions can foster inclusivity by amplifying the voices of those who may not have the mic as often They can also address gender stereotypes in the workplace and share non-promotable tasks with women to free up their mental space for leadership opportunities 29:38 - 39:43 Men can be allies to women by taking on non-promotable tasks, allowing women to lead Male allyship extends to other underrepresented groups Intersectionality involves creating a safe space for all unprotected groups to bring themselves to work Men can use their privilege to advocate for policy change that supports gender equality Building bridges and amplifying voices is key in using privilege to help those less privileged Acknowledging privilege and counting by identity can help build awareness and bridge gaps "Calling in" involves having respectful conversations, which is important in male allyship. 39:38 - 48:31 Rachel Cottam discusses the importance of male allyship and the need for men to call out discriminatory behavior She envisions a future where men and women work together for gender equality She shares a personal experience of realizing the lack of diversity in a community meeting and the need to be more conscious of where she invests her time and resources The conversation emphasizes the importance of acknowledging privilege and the ongoing effort to be a better ally Rachel Cottam can be contacted through LinkedIn and her website for further discussions and resources

    49 min

  8. 12/17/2024

    2024 16 Days of Activism EP 4: Men As Allies: Join The Fight For Equality - Chris Otieno

    In this episode of the 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence podcast series, host Sharmin Prince welcomes Chris, a passionate mentor, life coach, and senior consultant in risk security and safety management. Together, they discuss the generational differences in communication, the importance of mentorship, and the societal structures that influence gender-based violence.

    31 min
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Welcome to the ENYTinG Gender Podcast – your monthly dive into the fluid world of gender. Join us as we unravel the tapestry of gender, from the traditional to the contemporary, and hear voices that challenge and inspire our understanding of the human experience. Why Listen to ENYTinG Gender? Whether you're well-versed in gender studies or just starting to explore these concepts, the ENYTing Gender Podcast is your gateway to understanding how gender shapes our lives, policies, and relationships. Subscribe and join the conversation—transform the way we think about identity, one episode at a time. New episodes drop every Wednesday. Tune in, find clarity, and amplify the discourse on gender.

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