I Did It with Gary

GaryTheTrainer

This will be an opportunity to tell the stories of the people who have achieved genuine life changing success working with me. In their own words

Episodes

  1. Oct 18

    Episode #6 : Becs Bowness Smith

    In episode six of I Did It With Gary, Gary catches up with Rebecca "Bex" Bowness Smith, a client and friend he first met roughly 25 years ago at Thamesmead Leisure Centre, where he encouraged her to move from swimming into weight training. The pair trace their history together: an early stint of boot camp and boxing sessions, a falling-out over Bex going vegan, and reconnecting years later through Instagram before Bex eventually became Gary's online coaching client. Much of the conversation centers on Bex's long history with disordered eating, which began in her teens and shaped her relationship with exercise for decades — training as a way to "earn" or "burn off" food rather than for its own sake. She describes only properly beginning recovery in the last few years, and how that shift changed why she trains: not for aesthetics, but for longevity, strength, and the ability to move well into old age. They discuss the mechanics of her coaching with Gary over the past two years — the value of structure and accountability, her competitive streak in the app's monthly challenges (432 workouts in 639 days), and why she's committed to a third year of training with him. The conversation broadens into a wider critique of diet culture, the limitations of the BMI scale, and why body weight is a poor proxy for health or self-worth. Bex reflects candidly on body image struggles that persist even after years of progress, and both she and Gary land on a shared philosophy: training should feel like a privilege, not an obligation, and real success is building a body and habits that serve you decades down the line.

  2. 05/02/2025

    Episode #3 : Sam Bearfoot

    Sam's fitness journey and challenges Sam discusses her fitness journey, including a period of 2-3 years where she was unable to work out due to health issues like frozen shoulder and gallbladder surgery. She then experienced a decline in her mental health and confidence as her hormones fluctuated during perimenopause. Working with Gary has helped her regain her strength, confidence, and control over her body. Importance of strength training for perimenopause Sam and Gary discuss the importance of strength training for women going through perimenopause, as it helps maintain bone density, muscle mass, and overall health. They note that perimenopause can also cause weight gain and metabolic changes, making exercise even more crucial during this time. Customized training program and accountability Gary explains how he designed a customized training program for Sam that includes both gym and home workouts to accommodate her busy schedule as a single parent. He emphasizes the importance of accountability and communication in helping Sam stay consistent with the program, even when she felt unmotivated at times. Sam's social media impact and feedback Sam shares that her recent social media post about her fitness journey has generated a lot of interest and questions from her followers, including how much it cost her to achieve her results. Gary discusses the value of his services and how he aims to empower clients to become self-sufficient within a year of working together.

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This will be an opportunity to tell the stories of the people who have achieved genuine life changing success working with me. In their own words