Talk Deathy to Me

Talk Deathy to Me Podcast
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Birthed from the loss of a loved one and feeling a lack of honest, easy-to-digest, and accessible resources for people living with grief, “Talk Deathy to Me” aims to give listeners a place to be real and curious about grief, death, and dying that encourages people to not fear death, dying, and those harder conversations by bringing them to your ears with authenticity and even humor. Join Host Death Doula Sheila Burke with Co-Hosts Kelsey Jae and Kaylee Green every week as they break the stigmas associated with decidedly darker topics by bringing light to these moments.

  1. Feb 18

    Episode 83 — What Was Your First Big Loss Like?

    Most of us remember our first big loss — the moment grief became personal and permanent. In this episode, Kaylee and Sheila reflect on first losses and how they shape the way we experience grief moving forward. They talk about how early encounters with death or loss quietly influence our expectations, coping, and understanding of mortality for the rest of our lives. Please consider leaving us a review on iTunes and Spotify and following us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! Email your stories, questions, and musings to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠talkdeathytome@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.   This episode was produced and edited by Sheila M. Burke.

    23 min

  2. Feb 11

    Episode 82 — Returning to Work After Loss

    Returning to work after a loss can feel disorienting and surreal. In this episode, Kaylee and Sheila talk about the shock of stepping back into routines, expectations, and productivity while grief is still raw. They explore the pressure to perform, the quiet ways grief shows up at work, and why it’s okay if loss changes how you move through your professional life. Please consider leaving us a review on iTunes and Spotify and following us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! Email your stories, questions, and musings to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠talkdeathytome@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.   This episode was produced and edited by Sheila M. Burke.

    21 min

  3. Feb 4

    Episode 81 — The Surprisingly Petty, Random, and Completely Human Things People Worry About at the End

    At the end of life, people don’t only wrestle with big existential questions. They worry about unfinished chores, awkward conversations, pets, plants, and small loose ends that still matter deeply. In this episode, Kaylee and Sheila explore the everyday concerns that show up near death, and why paying attention to these “small” worries can be one of the most meaningful ways to care for someone at the end of life. Please consider leaving us a review on iTunes and Spotify and following us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! Email your stories, questions, and musings to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠talkdeathytome@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.   This episode was produced and edited by Sheila M. Burke.

    17 min

  4. Jan 30

    Episode 80 — What Does Dying Actually Feel Like?

    What does dying really feel like in the body? In this episode, Kaylee and Sheila talk about the physical and emotional changes that often happen near the end of life — the slowing down, the turning inward, the gradual letting go. Drawing from lived experience and end-of-life work, they explore how death is often gentler than we’re taught to expect, and why it can be harder on the people watching than on the person who is dying. Please consider leaving us a review on iTunes and Spotify and following us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! Email your stories, questions, and musings to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠talkdeathytome@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.   This episode was produced and edited by Sheila M. Burke

    31 min

  5. Jan 16

    Episode 79 — Before the Choice is Made For You

    This episode is for the adult kids quietly worrying — and the aging parents who still feel capable, even as living alone gets more complicated. Kaylee, Sheila, and Kelsey talk about the moment families realize home may no longer be the safest option, and why waiting for a crisis takes choice away from everyone. Drawing from Kaylee’s experience in nursing homes, they share real tools, honest stories, and practical language for starting conversations about downsizing, 55+ communities, and safer living before decisions are forced. How do we acknowledge mortality while holding onto independence? Please consider leaving us a review on iTunes and Spotify and following us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! Email your stories, questions, and musings to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠talkdeathytome@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.   This episode was produced and edited by Kelsey Jae.

    25 min

  6. Jan 8

    Episode 78 — Grief & Gray Areas: AITA Listener Stories

    Today, Kaylee, Sheila, and Kelsey dive into listener-submitted stories about grief, loss, and the complicated emotions that follow. Together, they unpack real situations where mourning intersects with messy human behavior — and help determine whether the storyteller is the a**hole. Our hosts offer gentle guidance, tough love when needed, and a safe space for listeners to reflect on their own grief-driven choices. Tune in for meaningful conversation, tough questions, and the kind of community wisdom only Talk Deathy To Me can bring. Please consider leaving us a review on iTunes and Spotify and following us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! Email your stories, questions, and musings to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠talkdeathytome@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.   This episode was produced and edited by Kelsey Jae.

    31 min

  7. 12/17/2025

    Episode 77 — Dating Again: Yes, No, or Hell No

    Dating after loss is… complicated. Some people feel ready. Some people swear they’ll never date again. And some of us are just trying to figure out why the apps look like a yard sale of red flags. In Dating Again: Yes, No, or Hell No, Sheila opens up the real conversation about what it means to tiptoe, leap, or run-screaming back into the world of dating after losing a spouse. With humor, honesty, and a whole lot of “you can’t make this shit up,” she explores the fears, the awkward moments, the guilt, the surprising joy, and the absolute hell-no situations we all encounter. This episode features listener stories that cover a wide spectrum. Please consider leaving us a review on iTunes and Spotify and following us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! Email your stories, questions, and musings to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠talkdeathytome@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.   This episode was produced and edited by Kelsey Jae.

    35 min

  8. 12/10/2025

    Episode 76 — Opening the Door for Grief

    In Opening the Door for Grief, we explore how to gently help others open up about their pain. This episode offers simple, compassionate ways to create space for honest conversation—because sometimes, being present and willing to listen is the most healing thing we can do. If you've enjoyed this episode please leave us a review on iTunes or Spotify. And if you think someone you know will enjoy it, please share it with them.

    18 min
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Birthed from the loss of a loved one and feeling a lack of honest, easy-to-digest, and accessible resources for people living with grief, “Talk Deathy to Me” aims to give listeners a place to be real and curious about grief, death, and dying that encourages people to not fear death, dying, and those harder conversations by bringing them to your ears with authenticity and even humor. Join Host Death Doula Sheila Burke with Co-Hosts Kelsey Jae and Kaylee Green every week as they break the stigmas associated with decidedly darker topics by bringing light to these moments.

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  • Creator
    Talk Deathy to Me Podcast
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    83
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © Talk Deathy to Me Podcast