REBUILD with Pamela J | life and love, faith and finance, business and mindset, real estate and retirement, freedom

Pamela J | Mom. GPx7. Rebuilder.
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REBUILD with Pamela J is a 'how-to' podcast designed to help you create a life you love, no matter what. Let's face it, you've spent years building other people's lives and now it's your turn. Your life is exactly what you decide, so let's make it a great one. Pamela J's Story (Mom. GPx7. Rebuilder): In 2015 after losing what felt like everything (a home, a husband, and a business), I said 'ENOUGH is ENOUGH'! Busted and broken, I pulled up my bootstraps, dusted off, and got to work rebuilding my life, this time with a clear plan. I enlisted God as my COB and went from $25k in debt to buying 3 cash-flowing-long-term-rental-properties that now give me freedom options. I'm just getting started and YOU CAN TOO! What's Here: Coaching. Community. Love. Self-Paced, Results-Oriented: • eBooks • Micro Courses (make quick progress in what matters) • Signature Courses (dive deeper when you're Free Goodies: Episodes drop weekly Grab my gift/s: https://pamelajandco.com/decisionguide https://pamelajandco.com/dumpdebt Join my free PJ Insider newsletter: https://pamelajandco.com/pjinsider Sharing life. Doing life. Loving life. xo, PJ

  1. The Estrangement Epidemic: Finding Joy by Rebuilding a Life You Love [3-easy-to-start-steps]! | Ep 30

    10h ago

    The Estrangement Epidemic: Finding Joy by Rebuilding a Life You Love [3-easy-to-start-steps]! | Ep 30

    This is the first of a podcast collection concerning the Estrangement Epidemic. You may know it as cut-off culture, low contact, no contact, or any other new label that gets slapped on to make it 'seem normal' or as a means of adult children 'finding their peace' or 'their safe space' or 'building their own non-bloodline family tree'. Pamela J shares her thoughts, insights, and opinions throughout this podcast collection. Regardless, it is essential for you to rebuild and create a life you love through estrangement. You only have this one life to live so let's not waste it chasing what may never be. Let's trust that God is doing a mighty work and will continue to do so as you grow and expand your capacity. Please be sure to like, subscribe, and share so that others may benefit from this information. Let me know in the comments below what step you are taking next to find joy through estrangement. We shall overcome! xo, PJ ******************** GIFTS From Me to You: Debt Dumping Tracker:  https://pamelajandco.com/dumpdebt   How To Make Decisions That Work For You, Not Against You: https://pamelajandco.com/decisionguide   Become a PJ Insider (my monthly newsletter): https://pamelajandco.com/pjinsider   HIGH YIELD SAVINGS ACCOUNT: WEALTHFRONT: https://www.wealthfront.com/c/affiliates/invited/AFFB-ABLZ-M850-DUM8  Stay Connected: ♥️ Subscribe to my channel for more:: https://www.youtube.com/@pamelajandco?sub_confirmation=1  💛 Follow me on Instagram:  https://instagram.com/pamelajandco  *NOTE: When using these links, Pamela J may earn a small commission via the vendor. The price to you remains unchanged -- it's simply a way for you to help support the channel, buying what you will grow to love as well. Pamela J only shares what she has tried, proven, and loves, too, because she cares about you.

    12 min
  2. You Say You Want Your Freedom [but what exactly IS freedom?] | Ep 29

    Apr 2

    You Say You Want Your Freedom [but what exactly IS freedom?] | Ep 29

    A Freedom-Filled Life is definitely a life worth living and striving for, but I'm pretty sure it's not quite what you are thinking! Jump in and take a listen -- I can hardly wait to hear your biggest takeaways and what steps you will take next.  Here's to your Future Freedom-Filled Life! xo, PJ Mentioned in this episode: Debt Dumping Tracker: https://pamelajandco.com/dumpdebt Watch These Next: https://youtu.be/Cs7pq4oW_4I?si=LJFwLSGKuRQgrDvG https://youtu.be/6cHjlwzZXNE?si=6WzCeptOrdcCniOO  *************** *Pamela J's Recommended Reading List:  PJ's Favorite Bible: https://amzn.to/4c8wbJc  Inspire Bible NLT (The Bible for Coloring and Creative Journaling): https://amzn.to/4s3PHLG  Outwitting the Devil by Napoleon Hill  https://amzn.to/3Lnn9Nl   or try audible: https://amzn.to/3XabTGu  The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron: https://amzn.to/4bHC9kl  or try audible: https://amzn.to/3ZPYULz  As A Man Thinketh by James Allen: https://amzn.to/49Zzlhc  or try audible: https://amzn.to/3ZQ9wtP  The Millionaire Fastlane by MJ DeMarco: https://amzn.to/3ZiQsnR  or try audible: https://amzn.to/4qnXsuN  Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill: https://amzn.to/4r2Mg87  or try audible: https://amzn.to/4ti6zQd  The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho: https://amzn.to/3ZeuPVR  (audible not available) The 80/20 Principle by Richard Koch: https://amzn.to/4rq9HI6  (audible not available) Awaken the Giant Within by Tony Robbins: https://amzn.to/3NVbCpK  or try audible: https://amzn.to/4qt8YFq  One Rental At A Time by Michael Zuber: https://amzn.to/3LV2Vex  or try audible: https://amzn.to/3ZV2HqQ  Atomic Habits by James Clear: https://amzn.to/3LUPyem  or try audible: https://amzn.to/3ZQaWEF  GIFTS From Me to You: Debt Dumping Tracker:  https://pamelajandco.com/dumpdebt   How To Make Decisions That Work For You, Not Against You: https://pamelajandco.com/decisionguide   Become a PJ Insider (my monthly newsletter): https://pamelajandco.com/pjinsider   *PJ's Favorite Things XLEAR Nasal Spray: https://amzn.to/46OCIFy   PJ's Favorite Bible: https://amzn.to/4c8wbJc  Inspire Bible NLT (The Bible for Coloring and Creative Journaling): https://amzn.to/4s3PHLG  Jockey Women's Cotton Leggings (only 5% Spandex and so comfy!): https://amzn.to/3O5h09K  Momentous Creatine Monohydrate Powder: https://amzn.to/4tnsnu0  Smooth Wood Hangers, 30 Pack: https://amzn.to/4kk5MKK  BAGSMART Travel Toiletry Bag: https://amzn.to/3ZQ32Lz HIGH YIELD SAVINGS ACCOUNT: WEALTHFRONT: https://www.wealthfront.com/c/affiliates/invited/AFFB-ABLZ-M850-DUM8  ♡ Stay Connected: ♥️ Subscribe to my channel for more:: https://www.youtube.com/@pamelajandco?sub_confirmation=1  💛 Follow me on Instagram:  https://instagram.com/pamelajandco  *NOTE: When using these links, Pamela J may earn a small commission via the vendor. The price to you remains unchanged -- it's simply a way for you to help support the channel, buying what you will grow to love as well. Pamela J only shares what she has tried, proven, and loves, too, because she cares about you.

    16 min
  3. Is Your House in Order? [A Tribute to a Life Well-Lived] | Ep 28

    Mar 31

    Is Your House in Order? [A Tribute to a Life Well-Lived] | Ep 28

    This video is intended for you, even though it is a tribute to my brother's brief life here on earth. I hope you are able to take the actions I recommend and prepare your heart, and house, for your appointed time. I want you to live a joy-filled life while you are here and have peace. Be sure to let me know what impacted you most! xo, PJ ****************** *Pamela J's Recommended Reading List:  PJ's Favorite Bible: https://amzn.to/4c8wbJc  Inspire Bible NLT (The Bible for Coloring and Creative Journaling): https://amzn.to/4s3PHLG  Outwitting the Devil by Napoleon Hill  https://amzn.to/3Lnn9Nl   or try audible: https://amzn.to/3XabTGu  The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron: https://amzn.to/4bHC9kl  or try audible: https://amzn.to/3ZPYULz  As A Man Thinketh by James Allen: https://amzn.to/49Zzlhc  or try audible: https://amzn.to/3ZQ9wtP  The Millionaire Fastlane by MJ DeMarco: https://amzn.to/3ZiQsnR  or try audible: https://amzn.to/4qnXsuN  Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill: https://amzn.to/4r2Mg87  or try audible: https://amzn.to/4ti6zQd  The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho: https://amzn.to/3ZeuPVR  (audible not available) The 80/20 Principle by Richard Koch: https://amzn.to/4rq9HI6  (audible not available) Awaken the Giant Within by Tony Robbins: https://amzn.to/3NVbCpK  or try audible: https://amzn.to/4qt8YFq  One Rental At A Time by Michael Zuber: https://amzn.to/3LV2Vex  or try audible: https://amzn.to/3ZV2HqQ  Atomic Habits by James Clear: https://amzn.to/3LUPyem  or try audible: https://amzn.to/3ZQaWEF  GIFTS From Me to You: Debt Dumping Tracker:  https://pamelajandco.com/dumpdebt   How To Make Decisions That Work For You, Not Against You: https://pamelajandco.com/decisionguide   Become a PJ Insider (my monthly newsletter): https://pamelajandco.com/pjinsider   *PJ's Favorite Things XLEAR Nasal Spray: https://amzn.to/46OCIFy   PJ's Favorite Bible: https://amzn.to/4c8wbJc  Inspire Bible NLT (The Bible for Coloring and Creative Journaling): https://amzn.to/4s3PHLG  Jockey Women's Cotton Leggings (only 5% Spandex and so comfy!): https://amzn.to/3O5h09K  Momentous Creatine Monohydrate Powder: https://amzn.to/4tnsnu0  Smooth Wood Hangers, 30 Pack: https://amzn.to/4kk5MKK  BAGSMART Travel Toiletry Bag: https://amzn.to/3ZQ32Lz HIGH YIELD SAVINGS ACCOUNT: WEALTHFRONT: https://www.wealthfront.com/c/affiliates/invited/AFFB-ABLZ-M850-DUM8  ♡ Stay Connected: ♥️ Subscribe to my channel for more:: https://www.youtube.com/@pamelajandco?sub_confirmation=1  💛 Follow me on Instagram:  https://instagram.com/pamelajandco  *NOTE: When using these links, Pamela J may earn a small commission via the vendor. The price to you remains unchanged -- it's simply a way for you to help support the channel, buying what you will grow to love as well. Pamela J only shares what she has tried, proven, and loves, too, because she cares about you.

    15 min
  4. REBUILD YOUR LIFE and STOP sabotaging your goals and dreams with this ONE simple question (it really works!) | Part 4 of 4: Get Your Mind'Set' Right Series | Ep 27

    Feb 23

    REBUILD YOUR LIFE and STOP sabotaging your goals and dreams with this ONE simple question (it really works!) | Part 4 of 4: Get Your Mind'Set' Right Series | Ep 27

    I'm so glad you're here for Part 4 of 4: Get Your Mindset Right Series. In this episode, Pamela J, host of The Rebuild Project shares how garbage in equals garbage out and why inputs equal outputs and how to use them to hit your 2026 goals and targets. Watch this Next: (you can skip forward to the episodes you may have missed -- or rewatch the series as it can only help :)) Happy New Year 2026: Let's Get Your Mind'Set' Right (a series you don't want to miss)! Mentioned in this episode:  XLEAR Nasal Spray: https://amzn.to/46OCIFy  WEALTHFRONT High Yield Savings Account: https://www.wealthfront.com/c/affiliates/invited/AFFB-ABLZ-M850-DUM8  *Pamela J's Recommended Reading List:  PJ's Favorite Bible: https://amzn.to/4c8wbJc  Inspire Bible NLT (The Bible for Coloring and Creative Journaling): https://amzn.to/4s3PHLG  Outwitting the Devil by Napoleon Hill  https://amzn.to/3Lnn9Nl   or try audible: https://amzn.to/3XabTGu  The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron: https://amzn.to/4bHC9kl  or try audible: https://amzn.to/3ZPYULz  As A Man Thinketh by James Allen: https://amzn.to/49Zzlhc  or try audible: https://amzn.to/3ZQ9wtP  The Millionaire Fastlane by MJ DeMarco: https://amzn.to/3ZiQsnR  or try audible: https://amzn.to/4qnXsuN  Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill: https://amzn.to/4r2Mg87  or try audible: https://amzn.to/4ti6zQd  The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho: https://amzn.to/3ZeuPVR  (audible not available) The 80/20 Principle by Richard Koch: https://amzn.to/4rq9HI6  (audible not available) Awaken the Giant Within by Tony Robbins: https://amzn.to/3NVbCpK  or try audible: https://amzn.to/4qt8YFq  One Rental At A Time by Michael Zuber: https://amzn.to/3LV2Vex  or try audible: https://amzn.to/3ZV2HqQ  Atomic Habits by James Clear: https://amzn.to/3LUPyem  or try audible: https://amzn.to/3ZQaWEF  GIFTS From Me to You: Debt Dumping Tracker:  https://pamelajandco.com/dumpdebt   How To Make Decisions That Work For You, Not Against You: https://pamelajandco.com/decisionguide   Become a PJ Insider (my monthly newsletter): https://pamelajandco.com/pjinsider   *PJ's Favorite Things XLEAR Nasal Spray: https://amzn.to/46OCIFy   PJ's Favorite Bible: https://amzn.to/4c8wbJc  Inspire Bible NLT (The Bible for Coloring and Creative Journaling): https://amzn.to/4s3PHLG  Jockey Women's Cotton Leggings (only 5% Spandex and so comfy!): https://amzn.to/3O5h09K  Momentous Creatine Monohydrate Powder: https://amzn.to/4tnsnu0  Smooth Wood Hangers, 30 Pack: https://amzn.to/4kk5MKK  BAGSMART Travel Toiletry Bag: https://amzn.to/3ZQ32Lz HIGH YIELD SAVINGS ACCOUNT: WEALTHFRONT: https://www.wealthfront.com/c/affiliates/invited/AFFB-ABLZ-M850-DUM8  ♡ Stay Connected: ♥️ Subscribe to my channel for more:: https://www.youtube.com/@pamelajandco?sub_confirmation=1  💛 Follow me on Instagram:  https://instagram.com/pamelajandco  *NOTE: When using these links, Pamela J may earn a small commission via the vendor. The price to you remains unchanged -- it's simply a way for you to help support the channel, buying what you will grow to love as well. Pamela J only shares what she has tried, proven, and loves, too, because she cares about you.

    25 min
  5. I Tried to Control Everyone and Everything (until I learned how to do this instead)! | Part 3 of 4: Get Your Mind'Set' Right Series | Ep 26

    Feb 5

    I Tried to Control Everyone and Everything (until I learned how to do this instead)! | Part 3 of 4: Get Your Mind'Set' Right Series | Ep 26

    I'm so glad you're here for Part 3 of 4: Get Your Mindset Right Series. In this episode, Pamela J of The Rebuild Project explains how to eliminate chaos and take control of your life by filtering your thoughts, words, and actions. Success leaves clues (see if you can find those easter eggs!) as you step into rebuilding your life and legacy after loss and creating that life of your dreams. Listen now so you can take action and level up your mindset today! ♡ Watch this Next: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hGCuYhQ7Txs&list=PL0c-u5G75KM3UpPtXtFWro7QxT7DY-Lh4&index=5  PJ's Favorite Bible: https://amzn.to/4c8wbJc Inspire Bible NLT (The Bible for Coloring and Creative Journaling)  The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron: https://amzn.to/4bHC9kl or try audible: https://amzn.to/3ZPYULz    ♡ GIFTS From Me to You: Debt Dumping Tracker: pamelajandco.com/dumpdebt  How To Make Decisions That Work For You, Not Against You: pamelajandco.com/decisionguide  Become a PJ Insider (my monthly newsletter): pamelajandco.com/pjinsider ♡ PJ's Favorite Things PJ's Favorite Bible: https://amzn.to/4c8wbJc Inspire Bible NLT (The Bible for Coloring and Creative Journaling) Jockey Women's Cotton Leggings (only 5% Spandex and so comfy!): https://amzn.to/3O5h09K  Momentous Creatine Monohydrate Powder: https://amzn.to/4tnsnu0  Smooth Wood Hangers, 30 Pack: https://amzn.to/4kk5MKK  BAGSMART Travel Toiletry Bag: https://amzn.to/3ZQ32Lz  ♡ Stay Connected: ♥️ Subscribe to my channel for more:: https://www.youtube.com/@pamelajandco?sub_confirmation=1 💛 Follow me on Instagram: httjps://instagram.com/pamelajandco

    16 min
  6. Change Your Mindset and Your Life (when you stop relying on these)! | Pt 2 of 4: 'Get Your Mind'Set' Right Series | Ep 25

    Jan 29

    Change Your Mindset and Your Life (when you stop relying on these)! | Pt 2 of 4: 'Get Your Mind'Set' Right Series | Ep 25

    Part 2 of 4: Get Your Mind'Set' Right Series In this episode we explore Facts or Feelings, Discernment or Deception: how to tell the difference and why it even matters. Pamela J walks you through storytelling, personal experience, and challenges you to not be led by your feelings, emotions, or deceiption and to, instead, be led by facts, discernment and reason so you can take every thought, action, and reaction captive. Be sure to subscribe so you get notified when future episodes drop. This series will be life changing for you, in a good way! Thank you for being here, xo, PJ Become a PJ Insider: https://pamelajandco.com/pjinsider

    16 min
  7. Victim Mentality vs Victor Mindset, which will you choose? [Part 1 of 4: Get Your Mind'Set' Right Series] | Ep 24

    Jan 8

    Victim Mentality vs Victor Mindset, which will you choose? [Part 1 of 4: Get Your Mind'Set' Right Series] | Ep 24

    Part 1 of 4: Get Your Mind'Set' Right Series In this episode we explore Victim Mentality vs Victor Mindset. Pamela J walks you through storytelling, personal experience, and challenges you to lay down labels and trauma bags so you can stop wallowing in your victim past and, instead, wade confidently into your victorious future. Be sure to subscribe so you get notified when future episodes drop. This series will be life changing for you, in a good way! Thank you for being here, xo, PJ Here is the link I referenced to become a PJ Insider: https://pamelajandco.com/pjinsider

    24 min
  8. Happy New Year 2026: Let's Get Your Mind'Set' Right (a series you don't want to miss)! | Ep 23

    Jan 1

    Happy New Year 2026: Let's Get Your Mind'Set' Right (a series you don't want to miss)! | Ep 23

    Happy New Year 2026! To help you start the year off right, Pamela J is releasing a series of episodes during the month of January all around mindset mastery. You definitely don't want to miss this so be sure to subscribe or give a follow so you don't miss a single episode.  If youre on YouTube, be sure to drop your Word of the Year in the comments. Pamela J is responding to every one so she can cheer you on! Here's to your best year yet :) xo, PJ

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REBUILD with Pamela J is a 'how-to' podcast designed to help you create a life you love, no matter what. Let's face it, you've spent years building other people's lives and now it's your turn. Your life is exactly what you decide, so let's make it a great one. Pamela J's Story (Mom. GPx7. Rebuilder): In 2015 after losing what felt like everything (a home, a husband, and a business), I said 'ENOUGH is ENOUGH'! Busted and broken, I pulled up my bootstraps, dusted off, and got to work rebuilding my life, this time with a clear plan. I enlisted God as my COB and went from $25k in debt to buying 3 cash-flowing-long-term-rental-properties that now give me freedom options. I'm just getting started and YOU CAN TOO! What's Here: Coaching. Community. Love. Self-Paced, Results-Oriented: • eBooks • Micro Courses (make quick progress in what matters) • Signature Courses (dive deeper when you're Free Goodies: Episodes drop weekly Grab my gift/s: https://pamelajandco.com/decisionguide https://pamelajandco.com/dumpdebt Join my free PJ Insider newsletter: https://pamelajandco.com/pjinsider Sharing life. Doing life. Loving life. xo, PJ

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