Does being ‘school ready’ mean writing your name, counting to 20 or knowing your alphabet? Or are we focusing on the wrong things? In today's episode, I’m joined by Gemma Kirby, an experienced early years educator, consultant and writer with expertise spanning early years practice, leadership, higher education, curriculum development, mental health and wellbeing. Gemma is Early Years Education Content Lead for nurseries and childminders at Twinkl Educational Publishing and Director of Little Learners Early Years. Together, we explore what children actually need during their earliest years and why we may need to rethink what we mean by ‘school readiness’. 💡 In this episode, we discuss: ✨ What really gives children the best possible start in life✨ Why feeling safe, valued and understood needs to come before academic learning✨ What ‘school readiness’ should actually mean✨ Why writing their name or counting to 20 isn't the priority before Reception✨ Independence, communication, confidence and emotional wellbeing✨ Why four-year-olds are still incredibly young✨ Supporting neurodivergent children without expecting every child to reach milestones in the same way✨ Why behaviour is a form of communication✨ Following children's interests and recognising that learning looks different for every child✨ How play, movement and everyday experiences build important skills✨ Why young children's mental health and wellbeing matters✨ Attachment, responsive caregiving and nurturing relationships✨ The stress young children can experience during separation and transitions✨ The pressures facing early years practitioners, settings and childminders✨ Why early years education is about far more than ‘childcare’ ❤️ Why this matters There can be enormous pressure on parents to make sure their child is ‘ready’ for school. But Gemma reminds us that children don't need to arrive in Reception already knowing everything they're going there to learn. Talking together, playing, climbing, exploring, building relationships, learning to communicate their needs and gradually developing independence are all part of learning too. What parents and practitioners do every day - those conversations, relationships, interactions and ordinary experiences - can make an enormous difference. 🎧 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube and all major podcast platforms. 👉 Subscribe to RECAP The Podcast so you don't miss an episode. 🔗 Connect & follow RECAPInstagram: @recap.ltdWebsite: https://www.recapinfo.co.uk/Newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/recapinfo/newsletter Gemma KirbyTwinkl: Primary Resources - KS2, KS1, Early Years (EYFS) KS3, KS4, Twinkl💬 Join the conversation What does ‘school ready’ mean to you? Have you ever felt pressure for your child to reach certain milestones before starting school? 🔍 Keywords: school readiness, starting school, starting Reception, preparing for Reception, early years education, EYFS, child development, early childhood, children’s mental health, children’s wellbeing, emotional development, PSED, learning through play, early years learning, child-led learning, attachment, communication and language, independence, SEND, neurodivergent children, behaviour as communication, early years practitioners, nursery, childminders, Gemma Kirby, RECAP The Podcast 🔖 Hashtags: #schoolreadiness #earlyyears #eyfs #startingSchool #childdevelopment #childrenswellbeing #childrensmentalhealth #learningthroughplay #send #neurodiversity #earlychildhood #parentinguk #earlyyearseducation #educationpodcast #recapthepodcast Series 7, Episode 3