The Patros Podcast

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Why are younger men confused more than ever about how to be a man? Statistics on fatherlessness suggest it’s because for decades men were completely absent from their children’s lives. Join Man Up CEO, Jeff Ford, and Allan Pereira, alongside a panel of guests, as they wrestle with questions aimed at helping guys develop a healthy view of masculinity and live as godly men. If you are looking for a version of masculinity that doesn’t include the words “toxic” or “soft”, or if you simply need some encouragement and a laugh, join us . . . we’ll help you become a better man.

  1. 2d ago

    Why Is It So Hard to Apologize?

    Why is it so hard to apologize, even when we know we're wrong? Whether it's pride, embarrassment, fear of vulnerability, or the desire to protect our ego, admitting our mistakes can be one of the most difficult things we do.In this episode of the Patros Podcast, we explore why people struggle to say they're sorry and why learning to apologize is essential for healthy relationships, marriage, fatherhood, and personal growth. We discuss the difference between genuine apologies and empty words, how defensiveness can damage trust, and why taking responsibility for our actions is a sign of emotional maturity rather than weakness.Being a healthy man doesn't mean never making mistakes. It means having the humility to acknowledge them, repair the damage when possible, and grow from the experience.

  2. 6d ago

    Why So Many Men Struggle With Identity | Tim Couet

    What really defines a man? Is it his career, income, accomplishments, relationships, or something deeper? In this special episode of the Patros Podcast, we sit down with author Tim Couet to explore the challenges men face when building their identity around success, status, and the expectations of others. Tim joins us to discuss his book, Identity Assignment, which challenges men to rediscover their God-given identity and live with greater purpose, faith, and responsibility. We explore biblical masculinity, personal growth, spiritual leadership, and why understanding who you are can transform the way you approach marriage, fatherhood, work, and relationships. 📖 Get Identity Assignment by Tim Couet: https://www.booksamillion.com/p/Identity-Assignment/Tim-Couet/9798243990851

  3. Oct 26

    How Should Men Handle Conflict?

    How should men handle conflict in a healthy way? Whether it's disagreements in marriage, tension with family, problems at work, or difficult conversations with friends, conflict is an unavoidable part of life. But how we respond can either strengthen our relationships or cause lasting damage.In this episode of the Patros Podcast, we explore healthy conflict resolution, emotional intelligence, communication, anger management, and the difference between confronting problems and creating unnecessary arguments. We discuss why avoiding conflict isn't always the answer, how to disagree respectfully, when to establish boundaries, and why self-control is essential to healthy masculinity and leadership. Learning to handle conflict well isn't about winning every argument—it's about approaching difficult situations with wisdom, humility, and maturity.

  4. Oct 19

    Is Conflict Always a Bad Thing?

    Is conflict always a bad thing, or can it actually be healthy? Whether it's disagreements in marriage, tension between friends, family disputes, or challenges at work, conflict is an unavoidable part of life. Yet many people view conflict as something to fear, avoid, or win.In this episode of the Patros Podcast, we explore why conflict happens, how different personalities respond to disagreements, and the role conflict plays in relationships, leadership, and personal growth. We discuss the difference between healthy and unhealthy conflict, why avoiding difficult conversations can sometimes make problems worse, and how our attitudes toward disagreement shape the people we become. Before learning how to handle conflict, we first need to understand what conflict really is.#Conflict #HealthyRelationships #EmotionalIntelligence #HealthyMasculinity #PatrosPodcast

  5. Oct 12

    Why Do We Give Our Families Our Worst?

    Why do the people we love most sometimes get the worst version of us? After long days at work, stressful responsibilities, and the demands of everyday life, it's easy to come home exhausted, impatient, and emotionally unavailable. Unfortunately, our spouses, children, and families can end up receiving whatever energy and attention we have left. In this episode of the Patros Podcast, we explore why stress, burnout, and exhaustion can negatively affect our closest relationships and how to make family a genuine priority. We discuss work-life balance, emotional regulation, intentional parenting, marriage, setting healthy boundaries, and practical ways to be more present at home. Being a healthy man doesn't mean never feeling tired or frustrated. It means recognizing when those feelings affect the people we love and making intentional choices to show up with patience, kindness, and consistency.

  6. Oct 5

    How Do You Move Forward After Church Hurt?

    What happens after you've experienced church hurt? In Part 2 of our conversation on church hurt, we go deeper into what it looks like to actually move forward after broken trust, disappointment, unhealthy leadership, or painful experiences within the church. We discuss forgiveness, boundaries, rebuilding trust, finding healthy community, and the difficult question of whether reconciliation is always necessary. Healing doesn't mean pretending nothing happened, and forgiveness doesn't automatically mean giving someone the same access to your life again. This conversation is about learning from what happened, recognizing healthy versus unhealthy church environments, and finding a path forward without allowing past experiences to define your faith or your future.

  7. Sep 28

    How Do You Heal From Church Hurt?

    What do you do when the place that was supposed to provide community, support, and spiritual growth becomes a source of pain? In this episode of the Patros Podcast, we have an honest conversation about church hurt, broken trust, unhealthy leadership, disappointment, and the lasting impact negative church experiences can have on people's lives and faith.We discuss what healthy healing can look like, the importance of forgiveness and boundaries, and why forgiveness doesn't require ignoring what happened or immediately restoring trust. We also explore how to distinguish one harmful church experience from the church as a whole, what healthy church community can look like, and how someone can begin moving forward without allowing past hurt to control their future.#ChurchHurt #Healing #Faith #Forgiveness #PatrosPodcast

  8. Sep 24

    How Should Men Lead Their Families? | Matthew Michini

    What does it take to build a healthy home and lead your family well? In this special episode of the Patros Podcast, we sit down with author Matthew Michini to discuss fatherhood, marriage, leadership, respect, and the responsibility men have to create healthy environments for their families.Matthew is the author of DAD: The Original Hero: Answering The Call with Tools & Frameworks for Respect & Leadership at Home. Together, we explore what healthy leadership at home actually looks like, how fathers can earn respect rather than demand it, and the practical habits that help build stronger relationships with spouses and children. This conversation is about becoming the kind of husband, father, and leader who helps the people around him thrive.DAD: The Original Hero: Answering The Call with Tools & Frameworks for Respect & Leadership at Home: https://a.co/d/03WwXbmg

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Why are younger men confused more than ever about how to be a man? Statistics on fatherlessness suggest it’s because for decades men were completely absent from their children’s lives. Join Man Up CEO, Jeff Ford, and Allan Pereira, alongside a panel of guests, as they wrestle with questions aimed at helping guys develop a healthy view of masculinity and live as godly men. If you are looking for a version of masculinity that doesn’t include the words “toxic” or “soft”, or if you simply need some encouragement and a laugh, join us . . . we’ll help you become a better man.

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  • Creator
    everymanpatros@gmail.com
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    145
  • Rating
    Clean
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