Ask A Boudoir Photographer.

Mike Cassidy

Finding a boudoir photographer is a lot like navigating a minefield! One wrong step and BOOM — disappointment. 'Ask A Boudoir Photographer' is your guide to the often-misleading world of boudoir photography. Hosted by NJ boudoir photographer Mike Cassidy, this podcast helps women make smart choices when selecting a photographer. Each episode tackles topics like spotting red flags, ensuring your privacy, and feeling confident during sessions. With honesty and humor, Mike ensures your boudoir experience is everything you hope for. Don’t book without listening first!

  1. 06/22/2025

    Ep. 63 | Is is weird if I want to do a boudoir session for myself?

    In this episode, Mike Cassidy discusses the busy summer ahead and the importance of boudoir photography as a personal experience. He emphasizes that women can and should do boudoir sessions for themselves, without needing a partner or a specific occasion. The conversation highlights the empowerment and joy that comes from celebrating oneself through photography, encouraging listeners to embrace the experience without hesitation. Keywords boudoir photography, self-love, personal experience, photography tips, summer plans, self-empowerment, women's experiences, photography sessions, personal growth, creative expression Takeaways ​It's going to be a busy summer.​Many women do boudoir sessions just for themselves.​You do not need an excuse to do a boudoir session.​The boudoir experience itself is a gift.​You can choose any style you want for your session.​Women often feel empowered after their boudoir sessions.​It's okay to keep your photos private.​You don't need anyone's permission to do something for yourself.​Solo sessions can be a lot of fun.​Enjoy your summer and take time for yourself. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Summer Plans 02:54 The Boudoir Experience for Yourself 10:49 Conclusion and Future Plans Where You Can Find Me Listen/Watch on Spotify - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/askaboudoirphotographer Watch This Episode on Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/@MikeCassidyPhotography Visit my website- https://www.mikecassidyphotography.com/ Follow on Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/michaelcassidy/

    12 min
  2. 06/01/2025

    Ep. 62 | Boudoir Quiz!

    In this episode, Mike Cassidy discusses his unexpected journey into beach photography, the nuances of boudoir photography, and the importance of being informed when hiring a photographer. He emphasizes the need for vigilance against scams and red flags in the industry, particularly when it comes to pricing and privacy. The episode also features a fun quiz to test listeners' knowledge about boudoir photography, highlighting key aspects to consider when choosing a photographer. Keywords beach photography, boudoir photography, photography tips, family photos, photography inquiries, red flags, photography scams, women's photography, photography advice, boudoir quiz Takeaways ​Beach photography inquiries ramp up as summer approaches.​Boudoir photography is defined by its setting, not just lingerie.​Beware of photographers who require full prepayment before consultations.​Not all photographers who call themselves 'pro' are qualified.​Always ask for full pricing details before committing to a free offer. Chapters 00:00 The Journey into Beach Photography 04:10 Understanding Boudoir Photography 08:12 The Boudoir Quiz Begins 18:53 Red Flags in Boudoir Photography 31:08 Navigating Free Offers and Scams Where You Can Find Me Listen/Watch on Spotify - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/askaboudoirphotographer Watch This Episode on Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/@MikeCassidyPhotography Visit my website- https://www.mcboudoir.com/ Follow on Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/michaelcassidy/

    41 min
  3. 05/25/2025

    Ep. 61 | Does a boudoir photographer have to go through training?

    In this episode, Mike Cassidy discusses the complexities and challenges of women's photography, particularly boudoir photography. He emphasizes the lack of regulation in the industry, the importance of asking the right questions when selecting a photographer, and the need for clients to be vigilant in their choices. The conversation covers the qualifications of photographers, the significance of experience, and the necessity of understanding privacy policies to ensure a safe and satisfactory experience for clients. Blog Post Link Vital Questions to Ask Any Boudoir Photographer Keywords women's photography, boudoir photography, photographer qualifications, client experience, photography tips, photography questions, choosing a photographer, photography industry, client safety Takeaways Boudoir photography is not a regulated profession.Many photographers lack formal training or qualifications.Clients should ask specific questions before hiring a photographer.Experience is crucial in women's photography.Privacy policies are essential for securing personal images.Outsourcing editing can compromise client privacy.Not all photographers are equally skilled or experienced.Research and referrals are important in choosing a photographer.Beware of flashy marketing and low prices.Clients deserve to know what to expect from their photographer. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Women's Photography Challenges 03:58 The Importance of Photographer Qualifications 12:15 Navigating the Boudoir Photography Landscape 19:58 Key Questions to Ask Your Photographer 27:56 Final Thoughts and Recommendations Where You Can Find Me Listen/Watch on Spotify - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/askaboudoirphotographer Watch This Episode on Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/@MikeCassidyPhotography Visit my website- https://www.mikecassidyphotography.com/ Follow on Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/michaelcassidy/

    35 min
  4. 05/18/2025

    Ep. 60 | Do I have to be nude for a boudoir session?

    In this episode, Mike Cassidy discusses the nuances of boudoir photography, particularly focusing on the common misconception that nudity is a requirement. He emphasizes that boudoir is about comfort, beauty, and personal expression, allowing clients to choose their level of nudity based on their comfort. The conversation explores the importance of communication between clients and photographers, the adaptability of boudoir sessions, and the significance of feeling good during the shoot. Mike encourages women to bring a variety of outfits and props to ensure they feel confident and happy with their photos, ultimately reinforcing that the experience should be enjoyable and empowering. Keywords boudoir photography, nudity, women's photography, comfort, beauty, client preferences, photographer boundaries, session experience, women's empowerment, photography tips Takeaways Nudity is never required in boudoir photography.Boudoir is very adaptable and can vary for each individual.Comfort is key in boudoir sessions; clients should feel at ease.The vibe and feeling of the session are more important than nudity.Clients can choose what photos to include in their album.It's essential to communicate preferences with the photographer.Women should bring a variety of outfits to their session.Boudoir photography is about beauty, not explicit imagery.Clients may change their minds about nudity during the session.The experience should be enjoyable and empowering for women. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Overview of Boudoir Photography 04:52 Understanding Nudity in Boudoir Sessions 10:12 Comfort and Personal Choice in Photography 15:18 The Artistic Approach to Boudoir Photography 20:12 Navigating Expectations and Realities 25:05 Final Thoughts on Boudoir Photography Where You Can Find Me Listen/Watch on Spotify - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/askaboudoirphotographer Watch This Episode on Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/@MikeCassidyPhotography Visit my website- https://www.mikecassidyphotography.com/ Follow on Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/michaelcassidy/

    32 min
  5. 05/11/2025

    Ep. 59 | Does your boudoir photographer need a personality? (Spoiler: YES!)

    In this episode, Mike Cassidy delves into the often controversial world of boudoir photography, discussing the misconceptions surrounding women's empowerment and the importance of personality in photographers. He emphasizes the need for a comfortable atmosphere during shoots and provides insights on identifying red flags when selecting a photographer. Ultimately, he highlights that amazing boudoir photos stem from a positive experience and connection between the client and photographer. Keywords boudoir photography, women's photography, photographer personality, client comfort, red flags, photography tips, women's empowerment, photography experience, client experience, photography consultation Takeaways Boudoir photography has evolved with a narrative that women are broken, which is a misconception.Success in boudoir photography can lead to backlash from peers.A photographer's personality is crucial for client comfort and experience.Women often feel vulnerable during boudoir shoots, making the photographer's role vital.Great photography is not just about technical skills but also about creating a relaxed atmosphere.Photographers should guide clients through the session like a game show host.Red flags in photographers include lack of engagement and poor communication.Consultations are essential for building rapport with potential clients.Client reviews should highlight comfort and fun experiences with the photographer.Amazing photos result from a positive and enjoyable session. Chapters 00:00 The Boudoir Photography Controversy 06:11 The Importance of Personality in Photography 12:05 Building Comfort and Connection 18:14 Identifying Red Flags in Photographers 22:16 The Full Package: Technical Skills and Personality Where You Can Find Me Listen/Watch on Spotify - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/askaboudoirphotographer Watch This Episode on Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/@MikeCassidyPhotography Visit my website- https://www.mikecassidyphotography.com/ Follow on Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/michaelcassidy/

    24 min
  6. 05/04/2025

    Ep. 58 | Can I bring a friend to film behind-the-scenes at my boudoir shoot?

    In this episode, Mike Cassidy discusses the complexities of boudoir photography, particularly focusing on the role of friends during sessions and the impact of social media. He shares personal experiences and insights on how filming behind-the-scenes content can disrupt the flow of a boudoir shoot, while also addressing the evolving nature of privacy and content creation in the photography world. The conversation emphasizes the importance of communication between clients and photographers to ensure a positive experience. Keywords boudoir photography, behind-the-scenes, social media, photography tips, women's photography, content creation, photography experience, influencer culture, client comfort, photography sessions Takeaways Boudoir photography is more complex than it seems.Friends can provide moral support but may also distract.Social media has changed how boudoir sessions are perceived.Filming behind-the-scenes can disrupt the session's flow.It's important to balance content creation with the boudoir experience.Communication with the photographer is key for a successful session.Not all photographers are comfortable with filming during sessions.Privacy concerns are still relevant in boudoir photography.The nature of boudoir has evolved over the years.Creating a structured approach to filming can help. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Overview of Boudoir Photography 03:17 The Role of Friends in Boudoir Sessions 06:46 Social Media Influence on Boudoir Photography 10:14 Challenges of Filming Behind-the-Scenes Content 15:20 Balancing Content Creation and the Boudoir Experience 20:26 Personal Experiences with Behind-the-Scenes Requests 24:41 Final Thoughts on Content Creation in Boudoir Photography Where You Can Find Me Listen/Watch on Spotify - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/askaboudoirphotographer Watch This Episode on Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/@MikeCassidyPhotography Visit my website- https://www.mikecassidyphotography.com/ Follow on Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/michaelcassidy/

    29 min
  7. 04/27/2025

    Ep. 57 | Can you ask for custom photoshop edits after a boudoir shoot?

    In this episode, Mike Cassidy discusses the intricacies of women's photography, particularly boudoir photography, and the importance of communication between clients and photographers. He delves into the editing process, the role of Photoshop, and the impact of AI on photography, especially regarding women's bodies. The conversation emphasizes that while editing is a normal part of the process, clients should be aware of the limitations posed by AI tools in boudoir photography. Ultimately, the episode encourages open dialogue about expectations and the editing process to ensure a satisfying experience for clients. Keywords women's photography, boudoir photography, Photoshop, editing, AI in photography, communication, photography tips, client-photographer relationship, photo editing, women's empowerment Takeaways Finding a photographer can be challenging and requires careful consideration.Communication is key in boudoir photography to ensure client satisfaction.Photoshop is a vital tool in editing, but it requires skill and time.AI tools have limitations, especially when it comes to editing women's bodies.Clients should feel comfortable asking for specific edits after their sessions.Editing should enhance the subject while maintaining their natural appearance.Not all requests for edits can be fulfilled due to the nature of AI restrictions.Photographers should be transparent about what edits are possible and what are not.The editing process is a collaborative effort between the photographer and the client.Understanding the technology behind photography can help clients set realistic expectations. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Overview of Women's Photography 02:59 The Importance of Choosing the Right Photographer 06:20 Understanding Photoshop in Boudoir Photography 08:53 Common Requests for Edits and Customization 11:57 The Evolution of Photoshop and AI in Photography 15:11 Navigating Client Expectations and Communication 17:52 The Challenges of AI in Boudoir Photography 21:12 Conclusion and Final Thoughts on Editing Where You Can Find Me Listen/Watch on Spotify - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/askaboudoirphotographer Watch This Episode on Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/@MikeCassidyPhotography Visit my website- https://www.mikecassidyphotography.com/ Follow on Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/michaelcassidy/

    39 min
  8. 04/20/2025

    Ep. 56 | What are two things I should watch out for when choosing a boudoir photographer?

    In this episode, Mike Cassidy discusses the intricacies of women's photography, particularly boudoir photography. He shares personal anecdotes, including a humorous Easter candy shopping experience, and emphasizes the importance of being informed when choosing a photographer. Key topics include recognizing inconsistent portfolios, the risks associated with outsourcing photo editing, and the necessity for clients to ask questions to ensure a positive photography experience. Keywords women's photography, boudoir photography, photography inquiries, choosing a photographer, photo editing, Easter candy, pricing shock, portfolio consistency, outsourcing editing, client education Takeaways The audio issues from the previous show were unexpected.Women's photography can be a minefield; knowledge is key.Easter candy prices can be shockingly high.Spring brings an influx of photography inquiries.Choosing a boudoir photographer requires careful consideration.Inconsistent portfolios can indicate a lack of skill.Outsourcing photo editing poses privacy risks.Clients should ask about editing practices upfront.It's essential to do homework before selecting a photographer.Educating clients about women's photography is crucial. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Technical Issues 02:10 The Importance of Women's Photography 14:08 Choosing a Boudoir Photographer: Key Considerations 30:04 Final Thoughts and Audience Engagement Where You Can Find Me Listen/Watch on Spotify - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/askaboudoirphotographer Watch This Episode on Youtube- https://www.youtube.com/@MikeCassidyPhotography Visit my website- https://www.mikecassidyphotography.com/ Follow on Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/michaelcassidy/

    35 min

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Finding a boudoir photographer is a lot like navigating a minefield! One wrong step and BOOM — disappointment. 'Ask A Boudoir Photographer' is your guide to the often-misleading world of boudoir photography. Hosted by NJ boudoir photographer Mike Cassidy, this podcast helps women make smart choices when selecting a photographer. Each episode tackles topics like spotting red flags, ensuring your privacy, and feeling confident during sessions. With honesty and humor, Mike ensures your boudoir experience is everything you hope for. Don’t book without listening first!