Jun 7

Episode 58 - Thomas Carchidi: The Good, Bad & Corrupt

Send us Fan Mail Most people only meet police on their worst day, then assume they understand the job. We don’t and that gap is where judgement, stigma and burnout grow. I’m joined by Tom for a blunt, grounded conversation about what law enforcement really demands. We talk about why people join, why “get a steady job” isn’t enough and why a service-connected medical retirement doesn’t make anyone less of a real cop. Tom shares how a career can be packed with incidents that stack up quietly, plus what it’s like to carry both pride and grief for the work. We also get into first responder mental health, PTSD, anxiety and the trap many officers face when seeking help. Speak up and risk being labelled unfit for duty or stay silent and let it fester. We unpack why truly external counselling matters, how camaraderie has changed and how body-worn cameras can protect you one moment and be used against you the next. Along the way we touch on trust and integrity inside policing, corruption, cop-involved domestics and the fine line between necessary force and avoidable harm. We finish with what keeps us steady, what we’re grateful for, and Tom’s memoir, The Life in Law Enforcement: The Good, the Bad, The Corrupt. Connect with Tom here Purchase Tom's book here If this conversation hits home, subscribe, share it with someone who needs a clearer view of policing, and leave a review so more everyday warriors can find these stories. What part of the job do you think the public most misunderstands? Support the show Thanks for listening in! Contact me directly at https://everydaywarriorspodcast.com.au or head to Instagram Personal or Podcast Facebook https://www.facebook.com/trudie.dwyer Subscribe to Everyday Warrior Moments here Support the Podcast - Buy me a Coffee Buy my Book here Apply to be a guest at everydaywarriorspodcast@gmail.com Music Credit: Cody Martin - Sunrise (first 26 episodes) then custom made for me. Disclaimer: The views, opinions, experiences and stories shared by guests on the Everyday Warriors Podcast are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the host, Trudie Marie, or the Everyday Warriors Podcast. Guests are responsible for the accuracy of the information they choose to share and speak from their own personal experiences and perspectives. While every effort is made to provide a respectful and supportive platform for open conversation, the host accepts no responsibility or liability for the statements, opinions, advice, claims or recollections expressed by guests during a...

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May 24

Episode 57 - Helen Ayling: Choosing Sobriety over Addiction

Send us Fan Mail She thought the answer to her problems was another man, another night out, another bottle hidden just well enough to get through the day. Helen takes us back to 2013, when alcohol addiction and chaotic thinking collided with motherhood, marriage and crushing shame, until one blunt truth cut through the fog. Her kids loved her, but they were scared of her. That moment leads to rehab and a 12-step recovery path that transforms how she lives, parents and asks for help. We go deep on what sobriety really looks like after the detox glow fades. From losing friends and being judged by other mums to making amends without guarantees and learning how to be “sober me” rather than only a wife or a mother. Helen also shares the reality of raising her daughter with Prader-Willi syndrome, including the medical and behavioural challenges, the constant food management and the emotional weight carers carry. If you’re searching for honest conversations about addiction recovery, relapse prevention, parenting in recover, and disability caregiving, this one is packed with lived experience. The story takes another sharp turn when Helen’s second husband, also an addict, stops working his program and spirals into gambling and infidelity before disappearing overseas and leaving debts behind. Helen describes reaching a terrifying point where she doesn’t want to drink, but she does want to die and how sponsorship, meetings, online community and dropping her pride helps her survive and rebuild. Listener discretion advised, and if you need immediate support in Australia, contact Lifeline on 13 11 14. If Helen’s story lands with you, please subscribe, share it with someone who needs hope, and leave a review so more people can find Everyday Warriors. What’s one thing that has helped you ask for help sooner? Connect with Helen on Facebook here Connect with Helen on Instagram here Support the show Thanks for listening in! Contact me directly at https://everydaywarriorspodcast.com.au or head to Instagram Personal or Podcast Facebook https://www.facebook.com/trudie.dwyer Subscribe to Everyday Warrior Moments here Support the Podcast - Buy me a Coffee Buy my Book here Apply to be a guest at everydaywarriorspodcast@gmail.com Music Credit: Cody Martin - Sunrise (first 26 episodes) then custom made for me. Disclaimer: The views, opinions, experiences and stories shared by guests on the Everyday Warriors Podcast are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the host, Trudie Marie, or the Everyday Warriors Podcast. Guests are responsible for the accuracy of the information they choose to share and speak from their own personal experiences and perspectives. While every effort is made to provide a respectful and supportive platform for open conversation, the host accepts no responsibility or liability for the statements, opinions, advice, claims or recollections expressed by guests during a...

45 min

May 10

Episode 56 - Shaun Free: Man on Fire

Send us Fan Mail A propane truck, a failed valve, a cloud of freezing fuel and a fireball that wiped out a whole workshop and changed Sean’s life in an instant. Calling in from Idaho, Shaun walks us through the day in March 2018 when he was burned across 46% of his body and made a decision that still stuns me, he sprinted for a snowbank and lay there to cool down. Doctors later told him that one instinctive move likely helped save his face from skin grafts as well as his life. We talk candidly about what severe burns really mean, the percentage numbers, third-degree damage and the relentless reality of skin grafts and daily wound care. Shaun shares how he kept his head straight through pain, fear and setbacks like pneumonia, MRSA, hearing loss and even a near-death experience. He also explains the long-term challenges burn survivors live with, including grafted skin that doesn’t sweat, overheating risk, hydration habits, sun protection and the extra planning it takes to live fully again. The conversation goes deeper into PTSD and triggers that linger years later, like the “whoof” sound of gas appliances, plus the mental loops that can take hold when your body has been through trauma. Shaun’s approach is simple and hard-earned, take back control, find the good where you can and keep chipping away. We also get into how he uses tattoos over skin grafts, humour, motorcycle instruction and knife making as practical therapy and as a way to turn scars into meaning. If you care about resilience, trauma recovery, burn injury rehabilitation or honest conversations about mental health, this one will stay with you. Subscribe, share with someone who needs a steady dose of hope, and leave a review with the line that hit you the hardest. Connect with Shaun on Instagram here or check out his page to see his incredible knives and photos of his tattoo's. Support the show Thanks for listening in! Contact me directly at https://everydaywarriorspodcast.com.au or head to Instagram Personal or Podcast Facebook https://www.facebook.com/trudie.dwyer Subscribe to Everyday Warrior Moments here Support the Podcast - Buy me a Coffee Buy my Book here Apply to be a guest at everydaywarriorspodcast@gmail.com Music Credit: Cody Martin - Sunrise (first 26 episodes) then custom made for me. Disclaimer: The views, opinions, experiences and stories shared by guests on the Everyday Warriors Podcast are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the host, Trudie Marie, or the Everyday Warriors Podcast. Guests are responsible for the accuracy of the information they choose to share and speak from their own personal experiences and perspectives. While every effort is made to provide a respectful and supportive platform for open conversation, the host accepts no responsibility or liability for the statements, opinions, advice, claims or recollections expressed by guests during a...

49 min

Apr 26

Episode 55 - Cass Barrie: Widowed & Pregnant

Send us Fan Mail One moment you’re building a future, the next you’re learning how to breathe through the ruins. I’m joined by Cass from Queensland for a raw conversation about grief in its many forms, and how it can show up not just after death, but after a business closes, a career ends or your body finally says “enough”. Cass shares what happened when she launched a brick and mortar venue in Ipswich with a genuine goal of supporting local small businesses, only to realise the work was draining her mental health, her relationships and her sense of alignment. We talk about stress and the body, including a frightening diabetes diagnosis that later proved false and why it matters to listen to your inner knowing alongside the black-and-white of test results. If you’ve ever felt like your nervous system is stuck in overdrive, you’ll recognise a lot of yourself here. The heart of Cass’s story is her husband Glenn’s sudden death in 2015 while she was 30 weeks pregnant and the long, complicated road of parenting a child through grief when that child never had the chance to meet his dad. We explore survival mode, delayed grief, unexpected triggers and the powerful idea that joy and grief can coexist. Cass also explains how breathwork, somatic therapy, and holistic counselling helped her process emotion as “energy in motion”, plus how a later bike accident and career-ending injury added another layer of identity loss and healing. If you’re looking for an honest episode on grief support, trauma healing, breathwork, somatics, emotional regulation and solo parenting after loss, press play. Subscribe, share this with someone who needs it, and leave a review to help more people find these stories. Connect with Cass on Instagram here Cass's website can be found here Support the show Thanks for listening in! Contact me directly at https://everydaywarriorspodcast.com.au or head to Instagram Personal or Podcast Facebook https://www.facebook.com/trudie.dwyer Subscribe to Everyday Warrior Moments here Support the Podcast - Buy me a Coffee Buy my Book here Apply to be a guest at everydaywarriorspodcast@gmail.com Music Credit: Cody Martin - Sunrise (first 26 episodes) then custom made for me. Disclaimer: The views, opinions, experiences and stories shared by guests on the Everyday Warriors Podcast are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the host, Trudie Marie, or the Everyday Warriors Podcast. Guests are responsible for the accuracy of the information they choose to share and speak from their own personal experiences and perspectives. While every effort is made to provide a respectful and supportive platform for open conversation, the host accepts no responsibility or liability for the statements, opinions, advice, claims or recollections expressed by guests during a...

47 min

Apr 12

Episode 54 - Shalina Lodhia: Surviving Sexual Assault

Send us Fan Mail “My body is the crime scene.” When Shalina says that, everything about trauma clicks into place, because you can’t walk away from the place it happened when the place is you. Shalina talks about sexual assault, online safety and the brutal confusion that follows when harm comes from someone you trusted. She shares what life was like as a teenager facing bullying and racism, how online connection became an escape and how quickly that escape turned dangerous. We talk about the aftermath survivors rarely get space to explain, the shock, numbness, self-blame and the exhausting question of why perpetrators do what they do. We also unpack what it means to live with distrust, triggers and a nervous system trained to “expect the worst” just to feel prepared. The conversation moves into another topic that often sits in silence, abortion. Shalina describes the panic, loneliness, lack of guidance and how abortion grief can live alongside certainty about your decision. From there we focus on trauma recovery tools that actually help, including therapy, journalling, creativity and music as a way to turn pain into purpose, plus movement and exercise as a way to shift emotion through the body. If this story resonates, please subscribe, share the episode with someone who needs it, and leave a review so more people can find these conversations. What part of Shalina’s journey stayed with you most? Connect with Shalina on Instagram here For abortion support contact Birthline in Australia For sexual assault support contact SASS in Australia Support the show Thanks for listening in! Contact me directly at https://everydaywarriorspodcast.com.au or head to Instagram Personal or Podcast Facebook https://www.facebook.com/trudie.dwyer Subscribe to Everyday Warrior Moments here Support the Podcast - Buy me a Coffee Buy my Book here Apply to be a guest at everydaywarriorspodcast@gmail.com Music Credit: Cody Martin - Sunrise (first 26 episodes) then custom made for me. Disclaimer: The views, opinions, experiences and stories shared by guests on the Everyday Warriors Podcast are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the host, Trudie Marie, or the Everyday Warriors Podcast. Guests are responsible for the accuracy of the information they choose to share and speak from their own personal experiences and perspectives. While every effort is made to provide a respectful and supportive platform for open conversation, the host accepts no responsibility or liability for the statements, opinions, advice, claims or recollections expressed by guests during a...

45 min

Mar 31 · Bonus

BONUS - 2nd Birthday Episode

Send us Fan Mail Two years ago I hit record without a perfect plan, just a voice and a steady belief that honest stories can make someone feel less alone. Today, the Everyday Warriors Podcast turns two, and this bonus episode is my pause to acknowledge what we’ve built together. A quiet, human space for resilience, healing and hope. I share what the last two years have looked like behind the scenes, including the slow, organic growth that I’m genuinely proud of. The show has now been listened to on every continent, across more than 50 countries and 250 cities, with nearly 5,000 downloads. Those numbers aren’t about status, they’re about moments of connection, someone pressing play at the exact time they need to feel seen and heard. I also thank the more than 30 courageous guests who’ve trusted this space with real, unpolished stories shaped by adversity, growth and rebuilding. Then I introduce what’s next, Everyday Warrior Moments. These are short subscriber-only bonus episodes released fortnightly between guest conversations, designed as gentle 5 to 10 minute reflections and reminders. They’re not about fixing you or pushing you harder. They’re about slowing down, honouring your pace and remembering that strength doesn’t have to look loud to be real. If this podcast has supported you, please subscribe, share it with someone who might need it, and leave a review so more everyday warriors can find these stories. Where in the world are you listening from, and what do you want more of in this next chapter? Subscribe to Everyday Warrior Moments here Support the show Thanks for listening in! Contact me directly at https://everydaywarriorspodcast.com.au or head to Instagram Personal or Podcast Facebook https://www.facebook.com/trudie.dwyer Subscribe to Everyday Warrior Moments here Support the Podcast - Buy me a Coffee Buy my Book here Apply to be a guest at everydaywarriorspodcast@gmail.com Music Credit: Cody Martin - Sunrise (first 26 episodes) then custom made for me. Disclaimer: The views, opinions, experiences and stories shared by guests on the Everyday Warriors Podcast are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the host, Trudie Marie, or the Everyday Warriors Podcast. Guests are responsible for the accuracy of the information they choose to share and speak from their own personal experiences and perspectives. While every effort is made to provide a respectful and supportive platform for open conversation, the host accepts no responsibility or liability for the statements, opinions, advice, claims or recollections expressed by guests during a...

7 min

Mar 29

Episode 53 - Gavin Hyde: Single Dad Reset

Send us Fan Mail A relationship ends, the coping spirals start, and then a knock at the door changes everything. Gav takes us back to New Year’s Eve 1995 and the years that follow, when anger, anxiety, partying and marijuana are masking a deeper fear of failure. Then his boys’ mum makes a decision that flips the script, the kids come to live with him and he’s no longer a “weekend dad”. He has to become the parent in every sense of the word, with his children seeing him exactly as he is. We talk honestly about single father custody, the cultural bias that assumes kids belong with their mum and what happens to children when adults stay together “for the kids” inside a home full of tension. Gav shares the hard parts many people don’t say out loud, the shame, tough love, burnout, leaving shift work, surviving on a single parent’s pension and the financial strain of raising kids without meaningful support. There’s also heart in the details, from school projects and homework panic to the long-term impact of simply being there. Years later, one line from his son still lands “I’m glad that you took us in.” The conversation comes full circle into healing and purpose. Gav explains how personal development, kinesiology and a deep dive into mindset and emotional intelligence helped him rebuild his inner world, strengthen his relationship with his boys and eventually shape a career helping coaches and helpers communicate their story with integrity. If you’re navigating separation, co-parenting, recovery or rebuilding your life after trauma, you’ll find practical insight and real hope here. Connect with Gavin on Facebook here Connect with Gavin via his website here If this story resonates, subscribe to Everyday Warriors, share it with someone who needs it, and leave a review so more people can find these raw, honest conversations. Support the show Thanks for listening in! Contact me directly at https://everydaywarriorspodcast.com.au or head to Instagram Personal or Podcast Facebook https://www.facebook.com/trudie.dwyer Subscribe to Everyday Warrior Moments here Support the Podcast - Buy me a Coffee Buy my Book here Apply to be a guest at everydaywarriorspodcast@gmail.com Music Credit: Cody Martin - Sunrise (first 26 episodes) then custom made for me. Disclaimer: The views, opinions, experiences and stories shared by guests on the Everyday Warriors Podcast are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the host, Trudie Marie, or the Everyday Warriors Podcast. Guests are responsible for the accuracy of the information they choose to share and speak from their own personal experiences and perspectives. While every effort is made to provide a respectful and supportive platform for open conversation, the host accepts no responsibility or liability for the statements, opinions, advice, claims or recollections expressed by guests during a...

51 min

Mar 15

Episode 52 - Claire Atkin-Smith: Living with Hypermobility

Send us Fan Mail Some bodies don’t give you a clear “stop” signal. They just keep going, past normal range, past safe, and you only find out when something hurts. I’m joined by Claire, a UK-trained physiotherapist now living on New Zealand’s South Island, to talk about hypermobility and Ehlers-Danlos syndrome from the inside out, not as a trend, but as a lifelong reality that shapes how you move, think and trust. Claire shares the moment at university when practical assessments made it obvious her joints worked differently, plus the hidden risks that come with “party trick” flexibility. We trace it back to childhood, where breath holding and constant self-monitoring were early signs of a nervous system searching for stability. That vigilance can protect you, but it can also steal spontaneity, connection and play, unless you learn how to rebuild safety on your own terms. From there, we get into the turning point of strength and endurance as a form of self-trust. Claire explains how progressive training helped her feel secure in her body and eventually led to ultramarathon mountain races, even with a vulnerable physical baseline. We also talk about what her condition gave her professionally, the empathy and precision it built and why burnout and weak boundaries can hit harder when your body needs ongoing stability. The conversation lands on her whole-person coaching approach, blending movement, breathing, lifestyle and identity so people stop guessing and start choosing what actually fits. If this story sparks something in you, subscribe, share it with someone who needs hope and leave a five-star review so more everyday warriors can find these conversations. Connect with Claire on Instagram here Work with Claire here Support the show Thanks for listening in! Contact me directly at https://everydaywarriorspodcast.com.au or head to Instagram Personal or Podcast Facebook https://www.facebook.com/trudie.dwyer Subscribe to Everyday Warrior Moments here Support the Podcast - Buy me a Coffee Buy my Book here Apply to be a guest at everydaywarriorspodcast@gmail.com Music Credit: Cody Martin - Sunrise (first 26 episodes) then custom made for me. Disclaimer: The views, opinions, experiences and stories shared by guests on the Everyday Warriors Podcast are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of the host, Trudie Marie, or the Everyday Warriors Podcast. Guests are responsible for the accuracy of the information they choose to share and speak from their own personal experiences and perspectives. While every effort is made to provide a respectful and supportive platform for open conversation, the host accepts no responsibility or liability for the statements, opinions, advice, claims or recollections expressed by guests during a...

45 min

Everyday Warriors Podcast

Episode 58 - Thomas Carchidi: The Good, Bad & Corrupt

Episode 57 - Helen Ayling: Choosing Sobriety over Addiction

Episode 56 - Shaun Free: Man on Fire

Episode 55 - Cass Barrie: Widowed & Pregnant

Episode 54 - Shalina Lodhia: Surviving Sexual Assault

BONUS - 2nd Birthday Episode

Episode 53 - Gavin Hyde: Single Dad Reset

Episode 52 - Claire Atkin-Smith: Living with Hypermobility

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Episode 58 - Thomas Carchidi: The Good, Bad & Corrupt

Episode 57 - Helen Ayling: Choosing Sobriety over Addiction

Episode 56 - Shaun Free: Man on Fire

Episode 55 - Cass Barrie: Widowed & Pregnant

Episode 54 - Shalina Lodhia: Surviving Sexual Assault

BONUS - 2nd Birthday Episode

Episode 53 - Gavin Hyde: Single Dad Reset

Episode 52 - Claire Atkin-Smith: Living with Hypermobility

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