Cold coffee Холодна кава - the Ukrainian podcast from Petersfield

Petersfield's Shine Radio

Iva Lomas is a Ukrainian journalist living in Petersfield. Iva brings the sound of home to her countryfolk displaced by Russia's war with Ukraine. Working with Shine Radio volunteers Iva produces this podcast for Ukrainians who want to hear their native language and talk about the problems that interest them right here. The programme is also designed to appeal to British people who want to learn about Ukrainian culture.

  1. Sep 5

    Cold Coffee Podcast - Life in the UK Dating, Marriage, and Cultural Shocks

    Is finding true love in a foreign land a matter of luck, or is it about the values we carry within us? In this soul-searching Episode 5 of the Cold Coffee Podcast, Iva Lomas explores the profound journey of a Ukrainian woman navigating the heart of Britain. #ColdCoffee #Podcast #IvaLomas From the picturesque, tradition-steeped streets of Petersfield to the complexities of modern dating, we ask the questions that truly matter: How do you bridge the gap between two different worlds without losing yourself? What are the relationship red flags that speak louder than words? And most importantly, can a connection built on sincerity survive the "politeness code" of the UK? I never thought four years ago that I would be able to believe in love and get married. Today I will talk to Mira Brinkley, a Ukrainian who married a British man, and she will share the secret of a successful marriage and relationship between different nationalities. ‘Although our meeting is called "How to Marry a Briton?", the main thing is to remember that you are not marrying a foreigner, but simply a person. Yes, there are cultural and language differences, but love can only come to the person who will then share life with you, and not to a foreigner (British and other nationality), - says Mira Brinkley. In this episode, we dive deep into: The Quest for Sincerity: How do the family-oriented values of a town like Petersfield mirror the expectations of a Ukrainian heart? Cultural Mirrors: What do Brits really expect from Ukrainians, and why is our resilience often the biggest "green flag" of all? Decoding the Red Flags: How to spot a lack of cultural empathy or emotional unavailability before it’s too late. Marriage Abroad: Preparing for the legal and emotional journey of starting a family in the UK. What Brits Expect from Ukrainians: Why sincerity, family values, and resilience are so highly regarded. The Unspoken Questions: What are the most common relationship hurdles when marrying a foreigner, and how do you navigate them with grace? Join us for a conversation that is as warm and stimulating as a cup of coffee. Whether you are looking for life in the UK tips or seeking a soulmate, this guide is your roadmap to a relationship built on mutual respect and shared dreams. Is it realistic to marry a British man and build a happy life in the UK? In this episode of the Cold Coffee Podcast, I share my personal journey and dive into the nuances of dating, the British mentality, and the legal aspects of marrying a foreigner. Whether you're looking for love or already navigating a cross-cultural relationship, this video provides a roadmap for finding a partner who truly understands and respects you. A marriage between a Ukrainian woman and a British man is a beautiful intercultural union, which, however, faces a number of specific challenges. The main problems of such couples can be divided into bureaucratic, mental (cultural) and socio-domestic. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Cold Coffee Podcast - Life in the UK Dating, Marriage, and Cultural Shocks

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Iva Lomas is a Ukrainian journalist living in Petersfield. Iva brings the sound of home to her countryfolk displaced by Russia's war with Ukraine. Working with Shine Radio volunteers Iva produces this podcast for Ukrainians who want to hear their native language and talk about the problems that interest them right here. The programme is also designed to appeal to British people who want to learn about Ukrainian culture.