Modern Day Bae

ELLE The Druggg
  • 5.0 (3)
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Modern Day Bae is an award winning live-stream podcast exploring self-love and healthy modern-day relationships. Hosted by Elle the Druggg, the visual podcast dives into love, dating, growth, and healing, all in front of a live stream audience. Each week features raw, unfiltered conversation with ELLE and the dynamic Boss Bae Panel, bringing diverse perspectives, laughter, and truth. Modern Day Bae is recorded live every #TuesBae at 8PM EST on TikTok, available to watch on YouTube, and wherever you listen to your podcasts.

  1. 2d ago

    Cultivating Intimacy

    On this episode of Modern Day Bae, we’re going beyond sex and exploring what intimacy really means, why it’s essential to a healthy connection, and why it doesn’t always happen naturally. From emotional vulnerability and physical affection to communication, quality time, trust, and feeling truly seen—we’re talking about the many ways intimacy shows up in relationships.And because men and women don’t always experience or express intimacy in the same way, we’re unpacking those differences too.What is intimacy? Why is it so important? How do we intentionally create it? And what does it take to keep it alive once the relationship gets comfortable?Because chemistry might get you together…but intimacy is what helps you truly connect.

  2. Aug 4

    What Does it Mean to be Emotionally Secure?

    Are you emotionally secure...or just hoping nothing goes wrong? In this episode of Modern Day Bae, we're unpacking one of the most overlooked qualities of a healthy relationship: emotional security. We discuss why security isn't about having all the answers or guarantees—it's about trusting yourself enough to handle whatever comes your way. Join us as we explore anxious attachment, overthinking, reassurance, self-trust, and why the healthiest relationships are built on confidence, not control.

  3. Jul 28

    Do You Believe in Second Chances?

    Do People Deserve Second Chances? Everyone makes mistakes. But does everyone deserve another chance? In this episode of Modern Day Bae, we explore one of life's most complicated questions: Do people deserve second chances—and if so, where do we draw the line? Forgiveness can be freeing, but repeated disappointment can be costly. We examine the tension between believing people can grow and protecting ourselves from patterns that never seem to change. Is there a point where another chance becomes permission? And when does grace begin to communicate what we're willing to tolerate? Through the lens of self-love, boundaries, and accountability, we challenge the idea that forgiveness and reconciliation are always the same thing. Sometimes loving someone means believing in their potential. Other times, loving yourself means believing their actions. In this episode, we discuss: Does everyone deserve a second chance? Should second chances ever become third, fourth, or fifth chances? The difference between a mistake and a pattern How to recognize genuine growth versus temporary change Whether forgiveness requires giving someone access to you again How self-love influences who gets another opportunity in your life Because giving someone another chance isn't just a decision about them—it's also a reflection of what you've learned about yourself. Whether you're wrestling with a broken friendship, a family relationship, or a romantic partner, this conversation will challenge you to think beyond forgiveness and ask the harder question: Has this person truly changed... or have I simply become more comfortable hoping they will?

  4. Jul 21

    Has Healing Become Performative?

    Has Healing Become Performative? Everyone's talking about healing. Everyone's setting boundaries. Everyone's "protecting their peace." But are we actually becoming healthier—or have we just gotten better at speaking the language of therapy? In this episode of Modern Day Bae, we dive into one of the most thought-provoking conversations of our time: Has healing become performative? From social media affirmations and therapy buzzwords to the pressure to present yourself as endlessly evolved, we explore whether healing has become something we perform instead of something we practice. Is growth about becoming a better person, or has it become another way to curate our image? We also wrestle with a difficult question: Can someone be emotionally intelligent and still be emotionally unavailable? Knowing the right words isn't the same as doing the hard work. In this episode, we discuss: When healing becomes an identity instead of a destination The difference between practicing self-awareness and performing emotional intelligence Whether therapy language is helping us communicate—or helping us avoid accountability Can someone know all the "right" things to say and still struggle with genuine intimacy? How social media has changed the way we define personal growth What authentic healing actually looks like when no one is watching Because healing isn't measured by how well you can explain your wounds—it's revealed by how differently you love, communicate, forgive, and show up in your everyday life. This conversation invites us to move beyond curated growth and ask a more honest question: Are we healing... or are we just getting better at looking healed?

  5. Jul 20

    Should Women Make the First Move?

    Who should make the first move—and why are we still debating it? In this episode of Modern Day Bae, we tackle one of dating's most polarizing questions: Should women make the first move, or does that change the dynamic from the very beginning? Some believe confidence is attractive regardless of gender. Others argue that how a relationship starts can influence how it unfolds. We unpack the expectations, double standards, and dating rules we've inherited, while asking whether they're still serving us in 2026. More importantly, we explore how self-love shapes the way we pursue connection. Is making the first move a sign of confidence—or could it sometimes come from a fear of not being chosen? And is waiting to be approached always about standards, or can it be rooted in fear of rejection? In this episode, we discuss: Whether traditional dating roles still have a place today The difference between confidence and chasing How self-worth influences dating decisions Are men intimidated by women who shoot their shot? Does making the first move set the tone for the relationship? Can both people pursue each other without creating a power imbalance? Whether you're bold enough to send the first text or believe some things should unfold naturally, this conversation challenges the assumptions behind modern dating. Because the real question isn't just who should make the first move—it's whether you're moving from confidence, clarity, and self-love... or from the fear of missing your chance.

  6. Jul 19

    Where is the Balance Between Grace vs Enabling?

    Grace vs. Enabling: Where's the Line? When does understanding someone's pain become an excuse for accepting their behavior? In this episode of Modern Day Bae, we're unpacking one of the most difficult relationship questions: What's the difference between extending grace and enabling harmful patterns? Whether it's a romantic partner, a friend, a family member—or even ourselves—we've all struggled with knowing when compassion becomes self-sacrifice. Is offering another chance an act of love, or are we simply teaching people what we'll tolerate? Together, we explore the fine line between empathy and accountability, the danger of confusing potential with reality, and why self-love sometimes means letting go instead of holding on. Because grace should never require abandoning yourself. In this episode, we discuss: How to recognize when grace has turned into enabling Why understanding someone's trauma doesn't erase the impact of their choices The difference between patience and self-betrayal Why boundaries and compassion can exist at the same time How self-love changes the way we decide who gets access to us If you've ever wondered whether you're being kind—or simply avoiding a difficult truth—this conversation is for you. Sometimes the most loving thing you can do for someone else is stop rescuing them. And sometimes the greatest act of grace is finally extending it to yourself.

  7. Jul 19

    Modern Day Freedom

    Juneteenth Special: What Does Freedom Mean in 2026? What does freedom really look like when no one is physically holding you back—but fear, shame, people-pleasing, and self-doubt still are? In this Juneteenth special, Modern Day Bae explores the evolving meaning of freedom in 2026. We honor the legacy of those who fought for our liberation while asking the harder question: What are we still carrying that no longer belongs to us? From generational expectations and relationship patterns to body image, survival mode, and the pressure to constantly prove our worth, this conversation challenges us to examine the invisible burdens we continue to bear long after the chains have been broken. Because freedom isn't only about what you've been released from—it's also about what you're willing to finally put down. Join us for a powerful conversation on self-love, healing, identity, and the courage to live as your fullest, most authentic self. This episode asks: What does freedom mean in today's world? Which emotional burdens have we mistaken for responsibility? Can we truly love ourselves while carrying stories that no longer serve us? What would your life look like if you finally gave yourself permission to be free? This isn't just a Juneteenth conversation. It's an invitation to reclaim yourself.

    Modern Day Freedom

  8. 10/29/2024

    Battle of the Sacrifice ft King MVP

    This week on Modern Day Bae, Join ELLE, the Boss Bae Panel, and special guest co-hostKing MVP, as they discuss the ins and outs of sacrifice and who sacrifices most in relationships. Modern Day Bae w ELLE is the only live streamed podcast exploring self-love and healthy modern day relationships and is recorded in front of a live stream audience every Tuesday at 11 PM EST, exclusively on the Tagged app. Host: ELLE The Druggg Boss Bae Panel: Ms. Sassy Red Naj Top Badge Double El Production: Aquarian Soul Berry Brûlée Top Badge Vetty Theme Song: Vocals - Thuddy Ocho Produced by Ova TV Visuals: Tawag Visuals Editing: ATA Virtual Marketing and Media Sponsors: Tawag Visuals DJ Richbeats Modern Day Bae is a Scoutz🔰 production.

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Modern Day Bae is an award winning live-stream podcast exploring self-love and healthy modern-day relationships. Hosted by Elle the Druggg, the visual podcast dives into love, dating, growth, and healing, all in front of a live stream audience. Each week features raw, unfiltered conversation with ELLE and the dynamic Boss Bae Panel, bringing diverse perspectives, laughter, and truth. Modern Day Bae is recorded live every #TuesBae at 8PM EST on TikTok, available to watch on YouTube, and wherever you listen to your podcasts.

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  • Creator
    ELLE The Druggg
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    15
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © ELLE The Druggg
  • Show Website
    Modern Day Bae