Finding Family DNA

Birth Parent Finder

Welcome to Finding Family DNA, the show about finding and connecting birth families with Jay Rosenzweig, founder and CEO of BirthParentFinder.com. Every week, we explore a new case shedding light on the investigative tools, genetic genealogy, and DNA technology that make these incredible reunions possible. Join us as we navigate through the complexities of adoption searches and celebrate the profound connections formed along the way.

  1. 1d ago

    Reunited With My Son After I Lost Him For 30 Years

    In this episode of Finding Family DNA, Jay takes the show out of the studio for an in-person reunion story. In 1993, a teenage mother in the Bronx chose an adoptive family for her baby son, received photos for a few years, and then lost all contact. Thirty years later, her daughter called Jay with little more than a first name, hoping to find the brother she had never met. Jay sits down with the birth mother, then with her son, and finally with the two of them together as they talk about the email that changed everything, the photos that proved it was real, forgiveness, and the grandson who now calls her Gigi. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen — your support helps fund our pro bono DNA cases. Also, if you want to support our mission more directly, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/findingfamilydna Watch this podcast right now on YouTube! https://youtu.be/eNY8M3SKsrg Chapters 00:00 Intro 00:11 Welcome and Supporting Pro Bono Cases 07:35 Introducing Today's Story 10:11 Midroll — BirthParentFinder 10:42 Elana's Interview, Placing Her Son in 1993 12:50 Choosing His Family 14:47 The Call That Started the Search 16:30 Reaching Out to Ron 19:43 Jay and Misty React to Elana 20:49 Ron's Interview, the Email 24:19 Why Ron Was Receptive 26:17 Jay and Misty React to Ron 27:50 Elana and Ron Together 31:33 Reflections on the In-Person Interviews 32:49 Dom, Elana, and the Rest of the Story 34:14 Following Up With Clients 35:01 Why We Vet Every Case 36:20 Thanks and Close BirthParentFinder: https://www.birthparentfinder.com/ Follow the show here: https://www.instagram.com/findingfamilydna https://www.instagram.com/lasleuth https://www.instagram.com/birthparentfinder Are you looking to find your birth parents? Get in touch with Jay and his team! https://www.birthparentfinder.com/ https://www.instagram.com/birthparentfinder 🚀 Edited with PodShuttle by CHOBO 👨‍🚀 Want help building your podcast? Start at podshuttle.io, or follow along on Instagram. https://podshuttle.io https://www.instagram.com/podshuttle https://www.instagram.com/chobostudios Finding Family DNA, Adoption, Adoptee, Birth Mother, Adoption Reunion, Closed Adoption, Birth Parents, Family Reunion, DNA Test, Genetic Genealogy, Misty Gillis, Jay Rosenzweig, BirthParentFinder, Bronx Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

  2. Oct 20

    14 Years of DNA Silence Then a Half Brother Appeared

    In this episode of Finding Family DNA, Jay and Misty sit down with an adoptee who grew up in Texas feeling like the black sheep of her adoptive family, carrying hurtful stories about the birth mother she never knew. After asking to search and being told no, she quietly turned to DNA, only to wait 14 years for a meaningful match. Then a half sibling appeared overnight. Misty explains how she built the family trees on both sides, and our guest shares what it has been like reaching out to new siblings, the side-by-side photo that stopped her in her tracks, and a discovery about how close her birth family may have been all along. Jay and Misty also open with the Michael McDonald adoption story and why 23andMe is surfacing family secrets. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen — your support helps fund our pro bono DNA cases. Also, if you want to support our mission more directly, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/findingfamilydna Watch this podcast right now on YouTube! https://youtu.be/cA7SNjtHLvo Chapters 00:00 Intro 00:11 Welcome and the Michael McDonald Story 03:18 Introducing Denise 04:12 Growing Up the Black Sheep 07:33 Asking to Search and Testing DNA 09:02 A Half Brother Match After 14 Years 10:59 Finding BirthParentFinder 12:59 Midroll — RootsTech 2027 and BirthParentFinder 14:09 How Misty Connected Both Sides 15:35 The Half Brother Who Said Yes 17:17 Connecting With Her Father's Side 18:56 The Side-by-Side Photo 20:43 Same Town, Same High School 22:04 Wanting Her Mother's Story 23:11 Defending Her Birth Mother 24:51 Plans to Meet Her Siblings 25:42 Working With BirthParentFinder 28:24 Thanks and Close BirthParentFinder: https://www.birthparentfinder.com/ RootsTech 2027: https://www.rootstech.org/ Michael McDonald story (CNN): https://www.cnn.com/2026/10/02/entertainment/michael-mcdonald-son-michael-goessling Follow the show here: https://www.instagram.com/findingfamilydna https://www.instagram.com/lasleuth https://www.instagram.com/birthparentfinder Are you looking to find your birth parents? Get in touch with Jay and his team! https://www.birthparentfinder.com/ https://www.instagram.com/birthparentfinder 🚀 Edited with PodShuttle by CHOBO 👨‍🚀 Want help building your podcast? Start at podshuttle.io, or follow along on Instagram. https://podshuttle.io https://www.instagram.com/podshuttle https://www.instagram.com/chobostudios Finding Family DNA, Adoption, Adoptee, DNA Test, AncestryDNA, 23andMe, Birth Parents, Half Sibling, Genetic Genealogy, Closed Adoption, Family Reunion, Misty Gillis, Jay Rosenzweig, BirthParentFinder, Michael McDonald, RootsTech, Texas Adoption Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

  3. Oct 6

    The Montana Records That Led Misty to a Killer

    In this episode of Finding Family DNA, Jay and Misty step away from adoption reunions to revisit a 47-year-old Montana cold case Misty worked during her time at Parabon NanoLabs. In December 1978, 16-year-old Corina Lydia Contreraz was sexually assaulted and murdered outside Billings, and her case sat unsolved for decades. Misty walks through how genetic genealogy opened a path investigators hadn’t had before. Jay also shares how a high school photo signed “Love, Bill” cracked a birth father case, the two talk RootsTech 2027, and Misty explains why families get release rather than closure, and how everyday GEDmatch users can help. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen — your support helps fund our pro bono DNA cases. Also, if you want to support our mission more directly, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/findingfamilydna Watch this podcast right now on YouTube! https://youtu.be/rI-ahuutLaY Chapters 00:00 Intro 00:11 Welcome and RootsTech 2027 03:29 A "Love, Bill" Photo and Two Reunions 07:07 The Corina Lydia Contreraz Cold Case 08:36 Working the DNA at Parabon 10:05 Building the Trees Toward Montana 12:27 Midroll — RootsTech 2027 and BirthParentFinder 13:37 Landing on Angelo Stallsmith Sr. 16:07 DNA From a 1982 Fingerprint Card 17:33 Confirmation and a Criminal History 19:26 Remembering Corina 20:16 CeCe Moore at the Press Conference 22:25 Misty at the Press Conference 23:36 Boy in the Box and Where This Case Ranks 24:19 How GEDmatch Users Can Help 25:09 What Investigators Can and Cannot Access 26:13 Birth Parent Privacy and Cooperation 27:15 Could an Amateur Have Solved It 27:59 Release, Not Closure 28:46 Thanks and Close Yellowstone County Cold Case Unit: https://www.yellowstonecoldcase.com/ Parabon NanoLabs: https://parabon-nanolabs.com/ GEDmatch: https://www.gedmatch.com/ RootsTech 2027: https://www.rootstech.org/ Follow the show here: https://www.instagram.com/findingfamilydna https://www.instagram.com/lasleuth https://www.instagram.com/birthparentfinder Are you looking to find your birth parents? Get in touch with Jay and his team! https://www.birthparentfinder.com/ https://www.instagram.com/birthparentfinder 🚀 Edited with PodShuttle by CHOBO 👨‍🚀 Want help building your podcast? Start at podshuttle.io, or follow along on Instagram. https://podshuttle.io https://www.instagram.com/podshuttle https://www.instagram.com/chobostudios Finding Family DNA, Cold Case, Genetic Genealogy, Investigative Genetic Genealogy, Corina Lydia Contreraz, Misty Gillis, CeCe Moore, Parabon NanoLabs, GEDmatch, Family Tree DNA, BirthParentFinder, True Crime, Yellowstone County, RootsTech Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

  4. Sep 23

    CeCe Moore Gets Canded: DNA, Friendship & the Stories Behind the Cases

    When we recorded this episode of Finding Family DNA, we had no idea that CeCe Moore was about to be announced as a RootsTech 2027 keynote speaker. Now, with that announcement official, the timing of this conversation couldn’t be better. Internationally renowned genetic genealogist CeCe Moore joins host Jay Rosenzweig, licensed private investigator and founder of BirthParentFinder.com, and co-host Misty Gillis, genetic genealogist and CeCe’s longtime friend and colleague, for a candid and personal conversation that goes far beyond the usual Q&A. CeCe takes us through the unexpected path that led her to genetic genealogy — including how a Michael Jackson video shoot at USC and a career in the music world helped prepare her for life in front of the camera. She explains how DNA kept pulling her back until the early days of public testing at FamilyTreeDNA gave her a path into what would eventually become a groundbreaking career. CeCe and Misty also dig into the investigative side of genetic genealogy and the difficult “brute-force” cases where distant DNA matches, unusual ancestry and incomplete family trees require creativity and persistence. CeCe discusses the nearly 50-year-old Nancy Anderson murder case in Honolulu, where researching city directories and Romanian and Italian surnames eventually led her to Tudor Chirila, as well as the Lindy Sue Biechler case in Lancaster, where an ancestral migration pattern from Gasperina, Italy, helped point the investigation in the right direction. The conversation also goes beyond the cases. CeCe talks about discovering the connection between Madison Hemings, Thomas Jefferson and DNA while researching her brother-in-law’s family tree, answers some fun rapid-fire questions — from coffee to late-night casework — and shares her thoughts on Misty as both a genealogist and a friend, including why she describes Misty’s work as “magic.” CeCe Moore has become one of the most recognizable figures in genetic genealogy through her groundbreaking work solving unknown-parentage and law-enforcement cases and through television appearances including Finding Your Roots and The Genetic Detective. And now, CeCe will take the stage as a keynote speaker at RootsTech 2027, taking place March 4–6, 2027, at the Salt Palace Convention Center in Salt Lake City, Utah. RootsTech is the world’s largest family history and genealogy conference, bringing together genealogy enthusiasts, industry experts, technology innovators and people from around the world who share a passion for discovering their heritage and connecting with their family history. Episode 52 of Finding Family DNA is sponsored by FamilyTreeDNA. We’d be grateful if you subscribe to Finding Family DNA. Every subscription helps us grow the show and supports our ability to take on more pro bono DNA and family-search cases. Watch this podcast right now on YouTube! https://youtu.be/8yFKt23IJs8 Chapters 00:00 Intro 00:11 Welcome, Sponsor, and a Guatemalan Father Case 03:05 Introducing CeCe Moore 03:37 Michael Jackson, USC, and a Music-World Sister 07:32 How CeCe Moved From Music Into DNA 11:23 Alternate Careers and Brute-Force Genealogy 16:14 Celebrity Cases and Growing Up Hip Hop 19:03 Broadway Dreams and Coming Full Circle on Camera 22:02 Midroll — Family Tree DNA and BirthParentFinder 23:37 Nancy Anderson and Tudor Chirila 28:23 Distant Matches, Gasperina, and Lindy Sue Biechler 29:58 Madison Hemings and Jefferson DNA 32:24 Jay's Spingarn Cousin and a Poland Trip 35:09 What If Not Genetic Genealogy 37:04 RootsTech and Southern California Genealogy Jamboree 39:44 Rapid Fire 45:14 Thanks and Close Family Tree DNA: https://www.findingfamilydna.com/?utm_source=redcircle&utm_medium=social&utm_content=com+des&utm_campaign=finding+family+dna+ep+52 CeCe Moore: https://www.cecemoore.com/ Finding Your Roots (PBS): https://www.pbs.org/show/finding-your-roots/ RootsTech: https://www.rootstech.org Follow the show here: https://www.instagram.com/findingfamilydna https://www.instagram.com/lasleuth https://www.instagram.com/birthparentfinder Are you looking to find your birth parents? Get in touch with Jay and his team! https://www.birthparentfinder.com/ https://www.instagram.com/birthparentfinder 🚀 Edited with PodShuttle by CHOBO 👨‍🚀 Want help building your podcast? Start at podshuttle.io, or follow along on Instagram. https://podshuttle.io https://www.instagram.com/podshuttle https://www.instagram.com/chobostudios Finding Family DNA, CeCe Moore, Genetic Genealogy, Cold Case DNA, Family Tree DNA, BirthParentFinder, Finding Your Roots, DNA Detective, Brute Force Genealogy, RootsTech Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

  5. Sep 8

    A Tragic Discovery About My Birth Father Led Me to My Sister | Ep. 51

    In this episode of Finding Family DNA, we follow the story of a woman who set out to find the birth father she never knew, hoping for closure but bracing herself for anything. Using DNA and genetic genealogy, our investigator uncovers his identity in just 48 hours — only to reveal a devastating truth about his past. Despite the shock, the search doesn't end there: newly discovered siblings step forward, offering unexpected connection and healing. From heartbreaking revelations to the surprising bonds that follow, this episode explores how identity is shaped by more than biology alone. It's a raw, honest conversation about resilience, family, and choosing connection even after the hardest news imaginable. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen — your support helps fund our pro bono DNA cases. Also, if you want to support our mission more directly, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/findingfamilydna Watch this podcast right now on YouTube! https://youtu.be/6LHGd6FPuHw 00:00 Intro 00:51 Misty's reunion story 02:05 Introducing Kayley's case 03:23 Meeting the guest 04:07 Searching for her birth father 05:09 The DNA discovery revealed 07:06 Processing the shocking news 10:33 Ad break 11:18 Learning about her birth father's family 12:49 Meeting her sister in person 14:00 Meeting other siblings 16:20 The victim and circumstances 19:01 What defines her 20:00 Her birth mother's reaction 21:20 Reflecting on therapy and closure 26:13 Advice for others 27:46 Teaser for episode 52 28:10 Closing Follow the show here: https://www.instagram.com/findingfamilydna/ https://www.instagram.com/lasleuth https://www.instagram.com/birthparentfinder/ Are you looking to find your birth parents? Get in touch with Jay and his team! https://www.birthparentfinder.com https://www.instagram.com/birthparentfinder This podcast was edited using PodShuttle, the fully-remote podcast editing and management service owned and operated by CHOBO Studios. For more info, visit podshuttle.io and follow us on Instagram to see more shows we've helped bring to life. https://www.instagram.com/chobostudios https://www.instagram.com/podshuttle Finding Family DNA, Adoption Reunion, DNA Genealogy, Birth Father Search, Adoptee Story, Emotional Reunion, Closed Adoption Search, Family Discovery, BirthParentFinder, Genetic Genealogy Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

  6. Aug 25

    50 Episodes of Finding Family DNA: A Look Back

    In this episode of Finding Family DNA, we're celebrating a major milestone with a special look back at the journey so far. Host Jay Rosenzweig sits down with longtime co-host Misty, plus the studio team behind the scenes, to reflect on how far the show has come and the moments that made it unforgettable. Along the way, we revisit three past reunion stories, hearing directly from former guests about where their journeys have led since their episodes first aired — from relationships that healed beautifully to ones still finding their footing. We also share heartfelt congratulations from friends of the show along the way. It's an emotional, behind-the-scenes celebration of the reunions, the heartbreak, and the hope that have defined this show from the very beginning. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen — your support helps fund our pro bono DNA cases. Also, if you want to support our mission more directly, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/findingfamilydna Watch this podcast right now on YouTube! https://youtu.be/Xt4M4mOd74k 00:00 Intro 00:11 Celebrating 50 episodes with Misty 01:18 Indy and Tori join the celebration 02:44 Reflecting on the show's evolution 06:06 Favorite episodes and memorable moments 10:13 What it's like working with Jay 11:23 The story behind the pro bono program 15:57 Congratulations from Linda Pevac 17:44 Update: Lakita Green's story 35:39 Update: Bethany Innocenti's story 51:03 Congratulations from Linda Rasmussen 52:02 Update: Kim Carrington's story 58:34 Teasing upcoming episodes 1:00:24 Congratulations from CeCe Moore and Chris Schauble 1:01:34 Closing thoughts Follow the show here: https://www.instagram.com/findingfamilydna/ https://www.instagram.com/lasleuth https://www.instagram.com/birthparentfinder/ Are you looking to find your birth parents? Get in touch with Jay and his team! https://www.birthparentfinder.com https://www.instagram.com/birthparentfinder This podcast was edited using PodShuttle, the fully-remote podcast editing and management service owned and operated by CHOBO Studios. For more info, visit podshuttle.io and follow us on Instagram to see more shows we've helped bring to life. https://www.instagram.com/chobostudios https://www.instagram.com/podshuttle Finding Family DNA, 50th Episode Celebration, Adoption Reunion, Birth Parent Search, DNA Genealogy, Adoptee Story, Family Discovery, BirthParentFinder, Adoption Podcast, Emotional Reunion Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

  7. Aug 11

    From the Primal Wound to the Paternal Wound

    In this episode of Finding Family DNA, filmmaker Rebecca Autumn Sansom joins Jay to share the story behind her acclaimed documentary, Reckoning with the Primal Wound, and the winding path that led her back to both of her birth parents. Rebecca opens up about the years-long process of earning renowned author Nancy Verrier's trust for the film, the emotional risk of reconnecting with her birth father after a chance discovery sent her searching, and the complicated, sometimes fragile nature of reunion relationships. She also shares an early look at her upcoming sequel, Reckoning with the Paternal Wound, and the real-life tension around what to include when someone else's story becomes part of yours. The conversation turns candid as Rebecca and Jay dig into the recent Hulu documentary My Grandfather Charles Manson, weighing what belongs in a documentary and what doesn't. Along the way, Jay shares a moving pro bono case that reveals just how personal the choice to reconnect with a birth parent can be. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen — your support helps fund our pro bono DNA cases. Also, if you want to support our mission more directly, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/findingfamilydna Watch this podcast right now on YouTube! https://youtu.be/fj5oQcp9WxM 00:00 Intro 00:38 Welcoming Rebecca Autumn Sansom 02:06 Why base the film on The Primal Wound 04:25 Reconnecting with her birth mother 06:12 Earning Nancy Verrier's trust 09:14 Her relationship with her birth mother today 11:02 Birth mom vs. "first mother" 15:36 Documentary trailer 16:47 Deciding to search for her birth father 19:28 The obituary that sparked urgency 20:50 The KTLA clip: finding Perry 23:14 Waiting to hear back from Perry 24:07 Her relationship with Perry now 26:36 Reunion success rates 28:12 A pro bono case and a hard recommendation 30:27 Segue to the Charles Manson documentary 31:47 Rebecca's take on My Grandfather Charles Manson 37:08 The father's untold story 37:34 The Manson estate lawsuit twist 40:27 What belongs in a family documentary 41:44 Announcing the sequel's title 43:30 Where the pushback is coming from 44:12 Where to watch the documentary 45:48 Wrap-up 🎬 Rebecca's documentary — Reckoning with the Primal Wound Official site: https://www.reckoningwiththeprimalwound.com/ Watch on YouTube (official channel): https://www.youtube.com/@RWTPW/videos Follow the show here: https://www.instagram.com/findingfamilydna/ https://www.instagram.com/lasleuth https://www.instagram.com/birthparentfinder/ Are you looking to find your birth parents? Get in touch with Jay and his team! https://www.birthparentfinder.com https://www.instagram.com/birthparentfinder This podcast was edited using PodShuttle, the fully-remote podcast editing and management service owned and operated by CHOBO Studios. For more info, visit podshuttle.io and follow us on Instagram to see more shows we've helped bring to life. https://www.instagram.com/chobostudios https://www.instagram.com/podshuttle Adoption Reunion, Birth Father Search, Adoptee Story, Primal Wound, DNA Genealogy, Finding Birth Family, Adoption Podcast, Documentary Filmmaker, BirthParentFinder, Family Discovery Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

  8. Jul 28

    I Broke Into an Adoption Agency to Find My Name

    In this episode of Finding Family DNA, we sit down with an author and adoptee who turned a decades-long search for her birth family into three deeply personal books. Adopted in Denver in the early 1960s, she spent years chasing fragments of her past before taking a daring, real-life risk to uncover her birth mother's identity. What followed was a reunion that didn't unfold the way she'd imagined, a startling twist involving the man she thought was her birth father, and a DNA confirmation that didn't arrive until decades later. Along the way, she discovered how trauma can freeze a birth parent in time, and how healing often means letting your story become your strength instead of your wound. Her journey took her from a broken lock and a library microfiche machine to a small-town diner phone call that changed everything. Now she's using her voice to help other adoptees find their own truth — and their own community. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen — your support helps fund our pro bono DNA cases. Also, if you want to support our mission more directly, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/findingfamilydna Watch this podcast right now on YouTube! https://youtu.be/1uaZ6wvlo0o 00:00 Intro 00:45 Case Update: A Birth Father Reconnects After Decades 01:35 Meet Linda Pevac, Author of Three Adoption Memoirs 02:45 Growing Up Knowing She Was Adopted 04:00 Deciding to Search for Her Birth Mother 04:45 Starting the Search in Secret, 1987 06:00 Non-Identifying Information from the Agency 07:00 Planning to Break Into the Adoption Agency 07:45 The Break-In 09:15 Racing the Library's Closing Time 10:20 Returning the Records Undetected 11:30 Her Brother's Very Different Reaction 12:45 No Two Adoption Stories Are the Same 14:00 A Blurry Signature and a Handwriting Analyst 15:20 Searching Before the Internet Existed 16:00 A Small-Town Diner Leads to Her Aunt 17:45 Mug Giveaway and Show Updates 18:30 Calling Her Birth Mother for the First Time 19:45 Flying to California to Meet Her 21:30 The Reality Behind Her Mother's Story 23:00 Chasing a Name on Her Birth Certificate 25:30 Meeting the Man Who Denied Being Her Father 27:00 A DNA Test Confirms the Truth, Years Later 28:45 Writing The Gathering Place 29:45 Writing A Fire is Coming 30:40 Writing Choosing to Breathe 31:50 Misty's Reflection on Linda's Journey 32:30 Quickfire Questions with Linda 33:55 A Message for Struggling Adoptees 34:45 Where to Find Linda's Books and Social Media Follow the show here: https://www.instagram.com/findingfamilydna/ https://www.instagram.com/lasleuth https://www.instagram.com/birthparentfinder/ Are you looking to find your birth parents? Get in touch with Jay and his team! https://www.birthparentfinder.com https://www.instagram.com/birthparentfinder This podcast was edited using PodShuttle, the fully-remote podcast editing and management service owned and operated by CHOBO Studios. For more info, visit podshuttle.io and follow us on Instagram to see more shows we've helped bring to life. https://www.instagram.com/chobostudios https://www.instagram.com/podshuttle Adoption Reunion, Closed Adoption Search, Adoptee Story, Birth Mother Found, DNA Genealogy, Finding Birth Family, Adoption Podcast, Emotional Reunion, BirthParentFinder, Family Discovery Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

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Welcome to Finding Family DNA, the show about finding and connecting birth families with Jay Rosenzweig, founder and CEO of BirthParentFinder.com. Every week, we explore a new case shedding light on the investigative tools, genetic genealogy, and DNA technology that make these incredible reunions possible. Join us as we navigate through the complexities of adoption searches and celebrate the profound connections formed along the way.

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