Love and Meaning

Chrystelle Robinson-Tiedemann

“You need to burn to learn!” This is a saying I used to hear often from my mother as she struggled with my head strong nature and seemingly insistent desire for learning the hard way in life. Oh, she was absolutely right in more ways than she realized. My greatest lessons often occurred through falling flat on my face, and endless trial and error. One thing has become very clear to me as I’ve grown up… my life lessons are my greatest asset. My trials were a gift! I invite you to join me and select guests on this journey as we discuss all that life has taught us. Welcome to Love & Meaning.

  1. 07/02/2025

    S2: 16 LOVE lesson #6 (Raising The Emotional Bar For Ourselves)

    In this episode, Chrystelle Robinson-Tiedemann explores the complexities of emotional awareness and relationships. She shares a personal experience of waking up grumpy and how it led her to reflect on her reactions and the importance of self-check-ins. The conversation delves into the tendency to seek validation through being right, and how this can hinder deeper connections. Chrystelle emphasizes the need for conscious choices in relationships, moving away from quick fixes, and striving for true success in emotional and relational contexts. Takeaways Waking up on the wrong side of the bed can trigger negative emotions.Self-check-ins are crucial for emotional awareness.Being right can be a cheap way to feel successful.We often find things to match our negative feelings.Consciousness is key to making better choices in relationships.Quick fixes can lead to superficial solutions.True success in relationships requires deeper emotional work.It's important to recognize and appreciate kindness in partners.Choosing to communicate openly can enhance relationships.The journey towards emotional intelligence is ongoing.Chapters 00:00 Waking Up on the Wrong Side 05:40 Navigating Bitterness and Kindness 10:36 The Quest for Success in Relationships 16:36 Choosing Consciousness Over Quick Wins 23:22 The Love Lesson: Moving Beyond Being Right ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠15 Day Rise & Shine Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠All Coaching with Chry offers

  2. 06/27/2025

    S2: 15| LOVE lesson #5 (The Approval We Crave Is Our Own)

    In this episode, Chrystelle Robinson-Tiedemann explores the theme of authenticity and the struggle many face in showing their true selves due to the fear of disapproval and abandonment. She discusses the importance of self-approval and how it can lead to genuine approval from others. Through personal anecdotes, she illustrates the journey of self-discovery, the challenges of seeking approval, and the liberation that comes from choosing oneself. The conversation emphasizes that true love and approval must start from within before it can be reflected in our relationships with others. Takeaways Authenticity is a continuous journey in our lives.Fear of abandonment often hinders our true self-expression.Approval from others can be influenced by our self-approval.Personal integrity leads to genuine love and acceptance.Experiencing disapproval can be a catalyst for growth.Self-love involves making courageous decisions for oneself.The need for approval can entangle our relationships.True approval comes when we are proud of ourselves.Relief is not the same as joy or fulfillment.We must go first in approving ourselves to receive true approval. Chapters 00:00 The Journey to Authenticity 03:03 The Impact of Approval on Relationships 05:57 Personal Growth Through Adversity 08:51 The Liberation of Self-Approval 11:58 The Power of Self-Love 18:08 Going First: The Key to True Approval ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠15 Day Rise & Shine Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠All Coaching with Chry offers

  3. 06/05/2025

    S2: 12| MEANING lesson #5 (Talking To Ourselves Couldn't Be More Sane)

    In this episode, Chrystelle Robinson-Tiedemann explores the concept of self-dialogue and its significance in mental health and personal growth. Drawing from her experience as a mental health occupational therapist, she discusses the importance of internal conversations, the impact of Internal Family Systems (IFS) on self-compassion, and the necessity of listening to ourselves. The conversation challenges societal norms around self-talk and emphasizes the value of self-inquiry in understanding our emotions and behaviors. Ultimately, the episode encourages listeners to engage in meaningful dialogues with themselves to foster self-awareness and emotional well-being. Takeaways Talking to ourselves can be a healthy practice.Internal Family Systems (IFS) can enhance self-compassion.Self-dialogue helps in understanding our emotions.Many people lack conscious internal correspondence.Disconnection can occur on both ends of the self-talk spectrum.Listening to ourselves is crucial for personal growth.Conversations with our parts can lead to insights.Self-inquiry can challenge limiting beliefs.Finding balance in self-talk is essential.Engaging with our highest self can transform our lives. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Self-Dialogue 03:23 Understanding Auditory Hallucinations 06:27 The Power of Internal Family Systems 08:16 Contemplating the Need for Self-Conversation 09:47 Exploring the Spectrum of Self-Talk 12:27 The Role of Parts in Our Behavior 14:37 Conversations with Our Parts 17:26 Finding Balance Through Self-Dialogue 20:07 The Importance of Answering Ourselves 23:02 Conclusion and Call to Action Align your morning with the ⁠⁠15 Day Rise & Shine Challenge⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠All Coaching with Chry offers

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“You need to burn to learn!” This is a saying I used to hear often from my mother as she struggled with my head strong nature and seemingly insistent desire for learning the hard way in life. Oh, she was absolutely right in more ways than she realized. My greatest lessons often occurred through falling flat on my face, and endless trial and error. One thing has become very clear to me as I’ve grown up… my life lessons are my greatest asset. My trials were a gift! I invite you to join me and select guests on this journey as we discuss all that life has taught us. Welcome to Love & Meaning.