Dear Primas

Dear Primas

Growing up as actual primas and now GOING through life's various milestones and challenges! Nothing is off limits! Think of us as your primas, having a catch up sesh mixed with a little therapia. We share the highs and lows, and everything in between, all while of course not taking ourselves too seriously in this thing we call life! You are basically now a prima.. Sooo let the CHISME / therapia.. START

  1. Jun 2

    Dear Quarterly Check-In

    🎙️ Dear Quarterly Check-In 💌 Primas… consider this your official quarterly life update. 😅☕ In this episode, Kristi and Clari are catching up on all the things the good, the messy, and the very real. From unexpected illnesses and trying to survive the never-ending germs that come with kids, to fitness goals, family life, and figuring out how to take care of ourselves while taking care of everyone else. We're sharing what's been working, what's not, and the little things currently getting us through this season. Of course, we also dive into what we're watching, reading, and obsessing over lately because you know the group chat always ends up there. 📚📺 Think of this episode as grabbing a coffee with your primas and saying, "Okay, what's been going on with you lately?" Because sometimes life doesn't need a big theme or a perfectly wrapped lesson. Sometimes you just need a check-in. So grab your cafecito ☕ and come catch up with us. 💕 If you don't have a prima to send a life update to, we're your primas. 💌 Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Life Updates 01:44 Dealing with Illness and Family Sickness 06:45 Fitness Goals and Motivation Challenges 13:46 Self-Care, Routines, and Personal Growth 19:40 Entertainment Picks: Shows, Books, and More 29:22 Balancing Motherhood and Personal Time 38:59 Reflections on Life, Sleep, and Self-Improvement 48:39 Closing Remarks and Future Plans    Resources Libby App for free books and audiobooks - https://libbyapp.com Kalahari Resort in Round Rock - https://www.kalahariresorts.com Ellen Hildebrand's books - https://www.ellenhildebrand.com Schitt's Creek on Netflix - https://www.netflix.com/title/80044950 Handmaid's Tale on Hulu - https://www.hulu.com/series/the-handmaids-tale-3f4f7b4f-4f4f-4f4f-8f4f-4f4f4f4f4f4f Vibration Plate on Amazon - https://www.amazon.com/s?k=vibration+plate Raven Hood series by Kristi Delafuente - https://www.amazon.com/s?k=Raven+Hood+series

    42 min
  2. Apr 9

    Dear Chat, How Does One Make Friends...As An Adult?

    🎙 Dear Chat, How Does One Make Friends…As An Adult? Primas… why does making friends as an adult feel harder than dating?? 😅 In this episode, Kristi and Clari are getting real about something we don't talk about enough: how to actually make friends in this season of life. Between motherhood, busy schedules, and just being a little more… aware (and maybe a little more tired), putting yourself out there can feel awkward, intimidating, and honestly, a little vulnerable. We're sharing our own experiences the good, the awkward, and the "should I text her or is that weird?" moments along with practical ways to meet people, build genuine connections, and find your people in a world that doesn't make it as easy as it used to be! Because friendships don't just happen like they did when we were younger! They take intention, effort, and sometimes a little courage. If you've ever thought: "Why is this so hard?" "Where do I even meet people?" "Is it too late to make new friends?" Primas… this one is for you. 💕 If you don't have a group chat like this yet, we're your primas 💌 Grab your cafecito ☕ and let's figure it out together. Follow us: Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Currently Reading: Kristi: #acotar : #acourtofthornsandroses #acourtoffrostandstarlight Clari: #remindersofhim Currently watching: Clari: Paradise Kristi: Summer House

    34 min
  3. Mar 16

    Dear Millennial Mom Behavior

    Primas… can we talk about the fact that we're señoras now?? 😅 Like… we grew up in the 90s with dial-up internet, LimeWire downloads, and parents yelling "get off the house phone," and somehow now we're the ones packing lunch boxes, scheduling dentist appointments, and reminding our kids to drink water. In this episode, Kristi and Clari unpack the very specific species that is the millennial mom. The moms who grew up riding bikes until the streetlights came on… but now track their kids' location, Google/ChatGPT every symptom, and send calendar invites for playdates months in advance. We talk about how technology shaped our generation, the social media habits we swore we wouldn't have (but somehow do), and the parenting styles that make millennial moms… well, millennial moms. From nostalgia about our childhood to the way we're raising our kids today, this episode is a funny, honest look at the behaviors that define this era of motherhood. Because let's be honest, we're still youthful, still figuring it out, and just trying to raise good humans while remembering where we put our caffeine. ☕ If you're a 90's baby turned señora, this one is for you. 💅Share this with a 90's baby who is now someone's mom 😅 Grab your cafecito and come laugh with your Primas. Follow us: Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Currently Reading: Kristi: #acotar : #2 #acourtofthornsandroses #acourtofmistandfury Clari: #remindersofhim Currently watching: Clari: Paradise Kristi: A Love Story Chapters: 00:00 Welcome to Dear Primas 04:41 Beverage Choices and Spring Break Vibes 09:35 Audiobook Adventures 14:21 TV Show Obsessions 19:17 Millennial Reflections and Responsibilities 20:03 The Evolution of Technology and Its Impact on Millennials 22:07 Gentle Parenting: The Millennial Mom's Dilemma 33:06 Navigating Personal Devices and Screen Time 37:42 Fostering Social Skills in a Digital Age 42:26 Navigating Screen Time and Outdoor Play 45:13 The Debate on Technology and Kids 46:46 Fast Food Culture and Parenting Challenges 49:04 Millennial Parenting and Independence 52:09 Balancing Freedom and Responsibility in Parenting 55:55 Nostalgia and the Millennial Experience

    1 hr
  4. Mar 2

    Dear Family, Are We Complete

    🎙 Dear Family, Are We Complete Primas… this one is tender. 🥹💌 In this episode, Kristi and Clari open up about a question that quietly sits in so many moms' hearts: Are we complete? From planning Santi's first birthday without family nearby, to the emotional weight of those early wake-ups and sleepless nights, we talk honestly about the newborn bubble, how beautiful it is, how fleeting it feels, and how exhausting it can be when you're in it. We unpack the realities of having kids close in age, the physical toll of motherhood that no one fully prepares you for, and how deeply personal the decision to grow your family really is. Is there a "right" age gap? Is there a perfect number? Or are we all just figuring it out as we go? We also talk about the differences in raising boys and girls, the importance of partner support, and why open communication matters more than ever when you're navigating these life-changing decisions together. If you've ever wondered whether your family is complete… or whether your heart still wants more… this conversation is for you. 💕 No pressure. No judgment. Just real talk from two Primas learning as they go. Grab your cafecito ☕ and come sit with us! Let's get into it Primas! Currently Watching: Clari- Paradise Currently Reading: Kristi- Everyone is lying to you Jo Piazza Clari- Listen for the lie Let's get into it Primas! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Dear Primas - YouTube

    59 min
  5. Jan 25

    Dear Soft Launching The New Year

    Primas… if January has you easing in instead of going all in, this one's for you. 💅✨ In this episode, Kristi and Clari are reconnecting after the New Year and pressing pause on the pressure. We're talking motherhood, growth, and what it really looks like to balance family life when you're doing it from different states and different seasons of life. This conversation feels like a journal entry read out loud. We reflect on why Dear Primas has always been about honesty over perfection, why community matters more than ever for moms, and why it's okay to not have everything figured out right now. January isn't about reinventing yourself, it's a soft launch into the year, and we're learning to take it one day at a time. If you don't have a prima to text, we're your Primas. 💌 So grab your cafecito ☕, settle in, and come chat with us because you're not behind, you're right where you're supposed to be! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Currently Reading: Kristi: The Girl Who Was Taken Currently watching: Clari:  Kristi: Steal Chapters 00:00 Welcome Back and New Year Greetings 02:32 What is Dear Prima? 04:44 The Evolution of the Podcast 08:38 Building a Community of Moms 10:15 New Year Reflections and Family Goals 12:44 The Pressure of New Year's Resolutions 18:40 Finding Balance and Being Active 21:02 Miami's Vibrant Sports Culture 24:50 Navigating Parenting and Sports 29:32 The Realities of Kids in Sports 38:43 Engaging with Our Community

    40 min
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Growing up as actual primas and now GOING through life's various milestones and challenges! Nothing is off limits! Think of us as your primas, having a catch up sesh mixed with a little therapia. We share the highs and lows, and everything in between, all while of course not taking ourselves too seriously in this thing we call life! You are basically now a prima.. Sooo let the CHISME / therapia.. START

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