Renew with Razan

Razan Retiz
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  • Mental Health
  • Updated Weekly

Mental health awareness and education. Tools and resources on how to navigate through life experiences and challenges. Real life tools and strategies are explored. Individuals are motivated, encouraged and guided to improve their lives , relationships and overall wellbeing. Razan’s approach is straightforward and engaged with a real sense of humor. Some topics covered may include addiction, anger, borderline personality, codependency, coping, eating disorders, emotional distress, family conflicts, self esteem, mood disorders, LGBTQ, teen issues, trauma, PTSD, infidelity, grief and stress.

  1. HOW TO STOP HAVING THE SAME ARGUMENTS

    Feb 7

    HOW TO STOP HAVING THE SAME ARGUMENTS

    Summary In this conversation, Razan Fikrat discusses the recurring arguments that couples face, emphasizing the role of unmet emotional needs and attachment styles. He explains how anxious and avoidant partners interact during conflicts and offers strategies for regulating emotions, breaking the cycle of repeated arguments, and repairing relationships after conflicts. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding each other's emotional triggers and creating a safe space for communication. Takeaways Couples often argue over the same issues due to unmet emotional needs. Anxious attachment styles seek validation, while avoidant styles may shut down. Conflict is a natural part of relationships and can be healthy if managed well. Regulating emotions before discussing conflicts is crucial for resolution. Repairing relationships requires acknowledging mistakes and committing to change. Understanding attachment styles can help couples navigate conflicts more effectively. Creating a safe environment for discussions can lead to healthier communication. It's important to pause and regulate emotions during heated arguments. Couples should practice vulnerability and express their needs clearly. Healing takes time and consistent effort from both partners. Titles Breaking the Cycle of Relationship Arguments Understanding Emotional Triggers in Couples Sound bites "We keep going in circles and attacking characters." "The goal isn't to stop having conflict." "You need to regulate before you relate." "You need to pause the conversation to regulate." "Knowing better isn't enough." Chapters 00:00 Understanding the Cycle of Arguments in Couples 05:44 The Role of Attachment Styles in Conflict 11:34 Regulating Emotions During Conflict 17:24 Breaking the Cycle of Repeated Arguments 23:43 Repairing Relationships After Conflict #couples#arguments#emotional needs#attachment styles#conflict resolution#relationship repair#communication#emotional regulation#anxiety#avoidance

    28 min

  2. Feb 6

    WHY DO COUPLES HAVE THE SAME FIGHT REPEATEDLY

    Why Couples Have the Same Fight Over and Over Again Most couples don’t keep fighting because the issue hasn’t been discussed enough — they keep fighting because the real issue hasn’t been addressed. Underneath recurring arguments about chores, money, communication, or time together is usually the same core need: the need to feel safe, seen, valued, and connected. When that need feels threatened, each partner reacts from their own attachment style and nervous system. One partner may pursue, push, or protest for closeness, while the other may withdraw, shut down, or become defensive to protect themselves. Both are trying to feel safe, just in very different ways. Because the emotional need goes unmet, the argument resets. Same trigger. Same reactions. Same pain. Different day. The cycle continues until couples stop arguing about the topic and the pattern. When couples learn to recognize the cycle in each other, real change becomes possible, not by winning the argument, but by repairing the connection. #mentalhealth #kids #teens #youth #school #parents #student #counseling #therapy #foryou #anxiety #mentalhealthmatters #mentalhealthawareness #fyp #stress #stressrelief #fyp#fyp#relationship #paranoia #counseling #counselorsoftiktok #panic #panicattack#mentalhealthawareness#mentalhealthmatters#mentalhealthrecovery#endthestigma#mindfulness#personalgrowth#daringgreatly#selfcarematters#psychology#yourself#stress#mentalillness#trauma#ptsd#mentalwellness#mentalhealthconseling#mentalhealthsupport#mentalhealthcrisis#mentalhealthsupport

    18 min
  3. How attachment styles can ruin a relationship.

    Jan 24

    How attachment styles can ruin a relationship.

    This podcast is for couples who want to better understand why they keep having the same conflicts—and how attachment styles play a powerful role in relationship dynamics. Through a compassionate and down-to-earth lens, we explore attachment styles, how they develop, and how different attachment needs can collide in relationships. You’ll learn why certain patterns can create distance, anxiety, resentment, and emotional disconnection, even when both partners care deeply about each other. Whether you identify as anxious, avoidant, or somewhere in between, this podcast helps couples make sense of their reactions, improve communication, and move toward greater emotional safety and connection—without blame or shame. This space is about understanding, healing, and growing together. #CouplesTherapy#RelationshipGrowth#EmotionalIntimacy#ConflictToConnection#HealingTogether #AttachmentStyles#CouplesPodcast#RelationshipHealing#AttachmentTheory#HealthyRelationships

    16 min
  4. LETTING GO

    11/07/2025

    LETTING GO

    Letting go isn’t about forgetting or pretending something didn’t matter — it’s about releasing what no longer serves your peace. Our brains often resist letting go because the familiar feels safe, even when it hurts. We hold on to relationships, guilt, expectations, and versions of ourselves out of fear or habit, but that emotional weight can drain our minds and bodies. The process begins with awareness and compassion: acknowledge the pain, understand your fears, and redefine closure on your own terms. Forgiveness and self-kindness help create emotional space for healing. Letting go takes time, but it allows you to reclaim your energy, restore peace, and move forward with clarity and grace. #MentalHealthAwareness #EmotionalHealing #LettingGoJourney #HealingIsPossible #MindfulnessMatters #TherapyWorks #HealingTakesTime #EmotionalWellness #SelfCompassion #InnerPeace #TherapistThoughts #LMFTLife #RazanTherapeuticServices #TherapyWithHeart #CaliforniaTherapist #MindfulTherapy #HolisticHealing #TherapistTips #AnxietySupport #StressReliefTools #YouAreNotAlone #ItsOkayToLetGo #HealingStartsHere #BreatheAndRelease #FindYourCalm #MentalHealthSupport #TherapyIsForEveryone #GrowThroughWhatYouGoThrough #ReleaseAndHeal #NewBeginnings #PodcastForHealing #MentalHealthPodcast #WellnessJourney #PeaceOverPerfection #EmotionalGrowth #HealingEnergy

    15 min
  5. Mother Wounds. When The Little Boy Becomes A Father

    06/27/2025

    Mother Wounds. When The Little Boy Becomes A Father

    Mother wounds—emotional injuries resulting from a strained, neglectful, critical, or emotionally unavailable relationship with one’s mother—can significantly impact how a person parents their own children. These wounds often stem from unmet needs in childhood and can show up in subtle or overt ways in the parenting role.

    18 min
  6. Mother wounds. How they impacts parenting.

    06/26/2025

    Mother wounds. How they impacts parenting.

    Mother wounds—emotional injuries resulting from a strained, neglectful, critical, or emotionally unavailable relationship with one’s mother—can significantly impact how a person parents their own children. These wounds often stem from unmet needs in childhood and can show up in subtle or overt ways in the parenting role.

    15 min
  7. Mother Wounds

    06/21/2025

    Mother Wounds

    MOTHER WOUNDS Mother wounds refer to the emotional, psychological, and sometimes physical pain or unmet needs resulting from a strained or dysfunctional relationship with one’s mother or primary maternal figure. These wounds often develop in childhood but can continue to affect a person’s relationships, self-esteem, and emotional regulation well into adulthood. Many people carry shame around their feelings about their mothers. A podcast gives listeners language for their pain and helps them realize they’re not alone. It de-stigmatizes complex mother-child dynamics.

    16 min
  8. PARENTS AND TEENS COMMUNICATION PART TWO

    01/31/2025

    PARENTS AND TEENS COMMUNICATION PART TWO

    Teen-parent conflict is a common and often challenging part of adolescence, stemming from the developmental changes that teens experience as they strive for independence and establish their own identity. This conflict often arises when parents struggle to balance their protective instincts and authority with the teen's desire for autonomy, leading to disagreements over issues such as rules, curfews, social activities, and personal values. Teens may feel misunderstood or restricted, while parents may feel frustrated or worried about their child's behavior and decisions. Effective communication and mutual understanding are key in resolving these conflicts, with both parties needing to navigate the delicate balance between guidance and freedom.

    16 min
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About

Mental health awareness and education. Tools and resources on how to navigate through life experiences and challenges. Real life tools and strategies are explored. Individuals are motivated, encouraged and guided to improve their lives , relationships and overall wellbeing. Razan’s approach is straightforward and engaged with a real sense of humor. Some topics covered may include addiction, anger, borderline personality, codependency, coping, eating disorders, emotional distress, family conflicts, self esteem, mood disorders, LGBTQ, teen issues, trauma, PTSD, infidelity, grief and stress.

Information

  • Creator
    Razan Retiz
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    36
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Razan Retiz
  • Show Website
    Renew with Razan