Legally Speaking The Podcast with Tom Torr

Thomas Torr

Attorney Thomas Torr is a founding partner of Cocheco Elder Law Associates, PLLC, and a native of the New Hampshire seacoast area. His practice is dedicated to helping his clients enhance and preserve their wealth, protect their loved ones and legacies, and manage their affairs during times of crisis. Tom’s priority is building strong, long-lasting relationships with his clients to help them achieve their personal, professional, and estate goals. Start protecting your family and legacy today! 

  1. 07/29/2025

    Caring for the Caregiver: Preventing Burnout While Supporting a Loved One with Dementia

    Caring for a loved one with dementia is emotionally taxing and physically demanding. In this episode, we explore the ongoing stress caregivers face and why prioritizing their own health is non-negotiable. From nutrition and sleep to exercise and personal hobbies, we share practical strategies to help caregivers maintain balance and prevent burnout—because you can't pour from an empty cup.

  2. 06/11/2025

    Caring for Them, Caring for You: Healthy Living for Dementia Caregivers

    In this episode we explore practical ways for caregivers of loved ones with dementia to maintain their own physical, mental, and emotional well-being. From managing stress and setting boundaries to simple habits that support long-term health, this conversation is all about helping you care for yourself—so you can continue caring for others. Whether you're a spouse, adult child, or close friend, you'll find encouragement and actionable tips to support a healthier, more balanced lifestyle.

  3. 05/29/2025

    Navigating Dementia Care: Legal Strategies and the Role of Caregivers

    In this episode, attorney Tom Torr explores the complex legal challenges faced by individuals living with dementia, from protecting assets to establishing powers of attorney and advance healthcare directives. He emphasizes the importance of early planning—not just for legal and financial security, but for peace of mind. Tom also highlights the essential role caregivers play in providing daily support and navigating difficult decisions, offering insights into both the emotional and practical realities of caregiving. This is a compassionate and informative conversation about how thoughtful legal planning can support dignity, autonomy, and family stability in the face of dementia.

  4. 04/14/2025

    Estate Planning & Taxes: Best Strategies for Passing Down Property

    Understanding capital gains taxes, Medicaid implications, and estate tax considerations is crucial when transferring property to your children. In this episode, we break down the pros and cons of gifting, selling, and using trusts to ensure the best financial outcome. We also discuss why estate planning should start early, ideally by age 50, to secure your legacy and protect your assets. Tune in for expert insights on making the right choice for your family's future.

  5. 03/14/2025

    Wills vs. Trusts: Which One is Right for You?

    Estate planning can feel overwhelming, but understanding the key differences between wills and trusts is crucial for protecting your family and legacy. In this episode of Legally Speaking, attorney Tom Torr breaks down how each option works, its advantages and disadvantages, and why having both may be the best solution. Learn how to minimize probate, safeguard your loved ones, and ensure your wishes are honored—both during your lifetime and after.

  6. 02/14/2025

    The Power of Planning: Why Everyone Needs an Estate Plan

    In this episode, we dive into the crucial importance of estate planning for everyone—whether you're 18 or 80. From durable financial powers of attorney to advanced healthcare directives, we discuss the essential documents that ensure your wishes are honored and your loved ones are prepared in times of need. Hear a real-life story about how proper planning made all the difference during a family health emergency, and learn how to take control of your future with a well-structured estate plan. Don't leave your loved ones guessing—start the conversation today.

  7. 01/17/2025

    Navigating the Cost of Long-Term Care: Protecting Your Family and Legacy

    In this episode of Legally Speaking, attorney Tom Torr explores the financial and emotional challenges of long-term care. Learn about the staggering costs of nursing homes, the impact on caregivers, and essential strategies for protecting your assets and qualifying for Medicaid. Tom shares practical advice on preserving your wealth while ensuring quality care for your loved ones. Tune in to gain valuable insights and start securing your family’s future today.

  8. 12/09/2024

    The 6 D's of Estate Planning: Key Life Events to Review Your Plan

    Join attorney Tom Torr, founding partner of Cocheco Elder Law Associates, as he delves into the essential triggers that call for revisiting your estate plan. From diamonds (marriage) to diapers (children), divorce, downsizing, diversification, and death, Tom explains how these milestones impact your financial and legal arrangements. Discover why estate planning is an ongoing process, the importance of asset alignment, and how to ensure your wishes are always honored.

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Attorney Thomas Torr is a founding partner of Cocheco Elder Law Associates, PLLC, and a native of the New Hampshire seacoast area. His practice is dedicated to helping his clients enhance and preserve their wealth, protect their loved ones and legacies, and manage their affairs during times of crisis. Tom’s priority is building strong, long-lasting relationships with his clients to help them achieve their personal, professional, and estate goals. Start protecting your family and legacy today! 

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