The Valiant Forge

Mark Osborne

A podcast for men who refuse to stay stuck.   The Valiant Forge is where Christian men come to be shaped — not by the patterns of this world, but by the renewing work of God. Hosted by Mark Osborne — husband, father, grandfather, and servant‑leader — this podcast speaks to men who are tired of drifting and ready to live with clarity, conviction, and purpose. Every episode is a steady, honest conversation about faith, fatherhood, failure, and the formation God works in the fire. No hype. No perfection. No pretending. Just real stories, biblical truth, and the kind of wisdom that sharpens iron. If you’re a man who wants to think differently, live differently, and lead differently — this is your forge. Step in. Be renewed. Walk away transformed! 

  1. 17h ago

    You Know Jesus Loves You. But Do You Believe It? | Tony Stoltzfus

    Can you know Jesus loves you and still feel you have to prove your worth? Coach and author Tony Stoltzfus shares how devastating loss changed his relationship with God, then guides Mark through a personal coaching conversation about ministry, significance, and bringing the desires of the heart to Jesus. You can know Jesus loves you and still feel like you have to prove you're worth something. In this episode of The Valiant Forge Podcast, Mark Osborne sits down with Christian leadership coach and author Tony Stoltzfus to explore faith, loss, and the pressure to find your value in what you do for God. Tony shares the painful seasons that reshaped his life: a church collapse, the loss of his home in a fire, and family crises that pushed him beyond his ability to cope. He describes how those experiences changed his relationship with Jesus and loosened his need to perform. The conversation becomes deeply personal when Mark asks Tony to coach him through his own desire to reach more men and leave a meaningful legacy. Together, they explore the needs beneath those ambitions and what it looks like to bring those needs to Jesus. IN THIS EPISODE Trusting God when life does not work out as expectedBuilding deeper relationships through vulnerabilityFaith in seasons of loss and limited productivityMoving from transactional prayer toward relationship with JesusWorth, significance, ministry, and the desire to leave a legacyTony's Questions for Jesus approach and a live coaching demonstration TONY'S RESOURCES Questions for Jesus app — listed in the app stores as Qs 4 Jesus: iPhone/iPad: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/qs-4-jesus/id1080235784 Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?hl=en_US&id=com.zqquestionsforjesus MetaFormation: https://meta-formation.com/ The Valiant Forge Podcast Hosted by Mark Osborne Where God shapes ordinary men into faithful men. Want to be a guest on The Valiant Forge Podcast? Send Mark Osborne a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/17432638464878159623a121d

  2. 4d ago

    Love Yourself? Jesus Said Deny Yourself.

    We're constantly told to love ourselves, choose ourselves, and put ourselves first. But Jesus said to deny ourselves, take up our cross daily, and follow Him. So does following Jesus mean we're supposed to hate ourselves? Not at all. In this Valiant Monday, Mark shares how putting himself on the throne nearly destroyed his marriage—and why there's a crucial difference between caring for yourself and living for yourself. “Some of the worst decisions I've made in my life started with one thought: What about me?” We live in a culture saturated with self-development advice: love yourself, choose yourself, become the person you want to be, and build the life you want. Some of that advice can be genuinely helpful. But what happens when caring for ourselves turns into living for ourselves? In this episode of Valiant Monday, Mark opens a new series examining popular self-development ideas through the lens of Scripture. He begins with one of the biggest: love yourself. Jesus' words sound very different: “If anyone wishes to come after Me, he must deny himself, and take up his cross daily and follow Me.” — Luke 9:23Drawing from a season that nearly destroyed his marriage, Mark explores the difference between self-care and self-rule, why denying yourself doesn't mean hating yourself, and the question underneath it all: Who's sitting on the throne of your life? Scriptures discussed: Luke 9:23, Matthew 22:39, 2 Timothy 3 The Valiant Forge Podcast Where God shapes ordinary men into faithful men.

  3. Sep 18

    What’s Really Driving You? Fear, Lust, Anger & Pride | Dr. Dave Jones

    Fear, lust, anger, and pride can disguise themselves as ambition, strength, and success. Dr. Dave Jones explains how Christian men can identify these toxic motivators, build guardrails, develop genuine mental toughness, and pursue a vision grounded in God. What’s really driving you? Fear, lust, anger, and pride can look like ambition, strength, discipline, or success from the outside. But when these toxic motivators remain unrecognized, they can distort a man’s vision and keep him from becoming who God has called him to be. Mark sits down with Dr. Dave Jones—former professional hockey player, performance psychologist, author, and founder of M Is Good—to discuss success, fulfillment, identity, vision, temptation, and mental toughness. Dave shares why mental toughness isn’t ignoring your problems, how performance can become intertwined with identity, and why awareness is essential for managing the desires and behaviors that quietly control us. You’ll hear: • The difference between worldly success and genuine fulfillment • Why a man without vision loses motivation • How fear, lust, anger, and pride affect our decisions • Why guardrails are part of planning to win • How to identify pride in your own behavior • The difference between toughness and ignorance • How to define success across the different areas of your life • Why ministry events should lead to ongoing discipleship Resources: Take the free toxic-motivator and healthy-identity assessments and learn more about Plan to Win: https://plantowintoday.com Learn more about M Is Good: https://misgood.com Connect with The Valiant Forge: https://www.skool.com/the-cave-of-adullum-1668/about

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A podcast for men who refuse to stay stuck.   The Valiant Forge is where Christian men come to be shaped — not by the patterns of this world, but by the renewing work of God. Hosted by Mark Osborne — husband, father, grandfather, and servant‑leader — this podcast speaks to men who are tired of drifting and ready to live with clarity, conviction, and purpose. Every episode is a steady, honest conversation about faith, fatherhood, failure, and the formation God works in the fire. No hype. No perfection. No pretending. Just real stories, biblical truth, and the kind of wisdom that sharpens iron. If you’re a man who wants to think differently, live differently, and lead differently — this is your forge. Step in. Be renewed. Walk away transformed!