May 27

You Feel It But You Can’t Prove It

One of the most confusing places to be in a relationship isn’t crisis but uncertainty. Nothing is obviously wrong, there’s no clear betrayal or defining moment, but something doesn’t feel right either. Conversations don’t quite land, connection feels inconsistent, and over time, a quiet sense of unease starts to build. You try to explain it, but the words don’t come easily, so you question yourself instead. In this episode of Intimacy Today, we explore what it means when something feels off in a relationship before you have language for it, why people often stay in that space longer than they want to, and how to start trusting what recurring patterns are showing you without rushing to conclusions. What We Explore: The difference between anxiety, intuition, and pattern recognitionWhy people second-guess themselves when nothing dramatic has happenedSubtle signs of emotional disengagement and misalignmentWhat relational ambivalence actually feels like in real lifeWhy loneliness can exist even inside a relationshipHow repair can happen without ever fully resolving anythingWhy people stay while privately grieving the relationshipHow the body often notices what the mind keeps minimizingReframing Relational Unease: Not every relationship problem comes with a clear headline; sometimes the signal is quieter. It shows up as patterns, emotional tone, or a shift in how the relationship feels over time. The question isn’t: “Can I prove something is wrong?” It’s: “What keeps happening that I keep trying to explain away?” Practical Reflection & Repair Tools: Instead of: “I don’t know, something just feels off…” or “Maybe I’m overthinking this…” Try getting more specific: “Do I feel lonely, dismissed, anxious, or unseen here?” “Do repair conversations actually change anything, or just calm things down temporarily?” “Do I feel more like myself in this relationship, or less?” “Is this a stressful season, or is this how things usually feel now?” Clarity doesn’t come from forcing answers, it comes from asking better questions. Patterns to Pay Attention To: You feel lonelier with them than without themYou edit yourself more than you used toYou feel relief when plans get canceledYou stop reaching for connectionYou feel more tired than nourished by the relationshipYou struggle to imagine a future that feels excitingThese aren’t automatic deal-breakers, but they are signals worth paying attention to. If you’ve ever: Felt like something was off but couldn’t explain why Second-guessed your own feelings because nothing “bad enough” happened Felt emotionally alone inside your relationship Wondered if you’re overreacting or missing something This episode is for you. Listen now and explore how to move from confusion and self-doubt to clarity and self-trust. Intimacy starts with you. #IntimacyInProgress #RelationshipClarity #AttachmentTheory #EmotionalIntimacy #RelationshipPsychology Additional Resources: Beyond Good or Bad: The Four Evaluative Quadrants – PMC Attachment and Breakup Distress – PMC We’re Not That Choosy: Emerging Evidence of a Progression Bias in Romantic Relationships – PMC

13 min

May 20

Why Every Fight Feels Exactly the Same

One of the most frustrating parts of conflict in relationships isn’t just the argument itself, it’s the feeling that you’ve had this exact fight before. The topic might change, but the tone, the reactions, and the ending all feel familiar. One partner gets sharper or more intense, the other pulls back or shuts down. One pushes to resolve it immediately, the other needs space. Both people leave the conversation feeling unheard, misunderstood, or exhausted and over time, conflict stops feeling productive and starts feeling predictable. In this episode of Intimacy Today, we break down why conflict styles form, how couples get stuck in repeating patterns, and why most arguments aren’t random – they’re structured cycles shaped by nervous system responses, attachment patterns, and learned behavior. What We Explore: Why conflict styles become predictable over timeThe pursue–withdraw dynamic and how it escalates tensionWhat emotional flooding does to listening, empathy, and communicationWhy some reactions are about protection, not aggressionHow defensiveness often masks shame or fearWhy repair attempts matter more than “winning” an argumentHow family-of-origin patterns show up in adult conflictWhy the content of the fight changes, but the pattern stays the sameReframing Conflict: The goal isn’t to stop fighting, it’s to stop fighting in a way that makes connection impossible. Most couples aren’t dealing with a communication problem, they’re dealing with a pattern problem; and until the pattern is understood, the same fight will keep repeating with different headlines. Practical Repair Conversations & Tools: Instead of: “Why do we always fight like this?” “You never listen.” “You always shut down.” Try shifting toward awareness and structure: “Can we map what just happened between us?” “I think I came in strong and that made it harder to hear me.” “I’m starting to feel overwhelmed – can we pause and come back to this?” “I don’t want this to turn into the same cycle again.” “That came out harsher than I meant – let me try again.” Key Tools to Interrupt the Cycle: Map the pattern: Who raises the issue? Who escalates? Who withdraws? Who tries to repair? Seeing the sequence helps you stop treating each fight like a new problem. Use complaints, not character attacks: “I felt dismissed when you interrupted me” lands very differently than “You never listen.” Normalize flooding: If someone is overwhelmed, communication quality drops fast. Breaks aren’t avoidance if there’s a plan to return. Build a shared repair language: Simple phrases can interrupt escalation when both people trust them. Regulate before resolving: You cannot solve the problem if both nervous systems are still in fight-or-flight. If you’ve ever: Felt like every argument turns into the same fightFelt unheard, even when you’re trying to communicate clearlyShut down or escalated without meaning toWondered why conflict feels so intense or drainingThis episode is for you. Listen now and learn how to shift from reactive conflict patterns to intentional, repair-focused communication. Intimacy starts with you. #IntimacyInProgress #ConflictResolution #AttachmentTheory #CommunicationSkills #RelationshipPsychology Additional Resources: Managing Conflict: Solvable vs. Perpetual Problems – The Gottman Institute Manage Conflict: Repair and De-Escalate – The Gottman Institute

14 min

May 13

What Happens When You Change But Your Relationship Doesn’t

One of the most disorienting experiences inside a relationship isn’t conflict – it’s change. You start thinking differently, communicating differently, needing different things and suddenly, the relationship that once felt natural starts to feel unfamiliar. One partner may feel like they’re evolving, healing, or stepping into a new version of themselves; while the other feels confused, left behind, or like they’re losing the version of the relationship they understood. Both people feel unsettled, and slowly, the tension isn’t about one specific issue – it’s about no longer feeling fully known or fully met. In this episode of Intimacy Today, we unpack what actually happens when identity shifts inside a relationship, why growth can create distance instead of connection, and how couples can either drift apart or learn how to meet each other again in the present. What We Explore: Why couples don’t automatically grow togetherHow identity shifts happen through therapy, parenthood, career changes, and healingWhat it feels like when a partner is relating to who you were, not who you areThe grief of outgrowing old dynamics and familiar versions of each otherWhy growth can trigger insecurity, comparison, or fear in a partnerThe difference between healthy differentiation and emotional disconnectionHow subtle hierarchy (“I’ve grown more than you”) damages connectionWhy relationships need to be updated as people evolveReframing Relationship Growth: Growth doesn’t automatically strengthen a relationship: it changes it. When that change isn’t acknowledged, couples often start operating from outdated versions of each other; which creates confusion, misinterpretation, and emotional distance. The real question isn’t, “Why can’t we go back to how things were?” It’s: “Can we learn who we are now?” Practical Repair Conversations: Instead of: “Why are you so different now?” “Why can’t things just go back to normal?” Try questions like… “I don’t think I’m the same person I was a few years ago, do you feel that too?” “Do you feel like we’re still relating to older versions of each other?” “What feels different for you in this relationship right now?” “What would it look like for us to learn from each other again from here?” Naming the shift creates clarity, and clarity creates the possibility for reconnection. If you’ve ever: Felt like you’ve outgrown parts of your relationshipFelt misunderstood by a partner who knew an older version of youFelt afraid that growth might create distance instead of closenessWondered whether change means incompatibilityThis episode is for you. Listen now and explore how to move from confusion and disconnection to clarity and intentional reconnection. Intimacy starts with you. #IntimacyInProgress #RelationshipGrowth #AttachmentTheory #EmotionalIntimacy #RelationshipPsychology Additional Resources: Romantic Relationships and Mental Health – PMC Thriving Through Relationships – PMC

21 min

Apr 22

Why Some Arguments Never Go Away

If you’ve ever thought, “Why are we fighting about this again? You are not alone. Some arguments don’t disappear; and not because your relationship is broken, but because two people are different – and difference doesn’t need elimination, it needs understanding. In this episode of Intimacy Today, we explore why certain conflicts repeat, how the brain and nervous system fuel escalation, and why the goal of conflict isn’t resolution every time but learning how to navigate differences without destroying connection. The healthiest couples don’t avoid conflict, they get better at having it. What We Explore: Why personality differences create ongoing conflict patternsThe concept of “different operating systems” in relationshipsThe pursue–withdraw escalation cycleWhat happens in the brain during arguments (and why logic disappears)Emotional flooding and how it blocks productive communicationWhy repeated arguments often signal meaning, not malfunctionHow to shift from eliminating conflict to managing itThe Core Reframe: Repeated conflict means that you’re bumping into a permanent difference; and research often shows that many long-term conflicts aren’t solvable problems – they’re ongoing negotiations between two valid perspectives. It’s less like solving a math equation, and more like learning how to dance with someone who moves differently than you do. Understanding the Brain in Conflict: When arguments escalate, the brain shifts into threat mode – think of it like a smoke alarm going off while you’re trying to cook dinner. Even if nothing is actually on fire, the noise makes it nearly impossible to think clearly. During this state: you talk louderyou listen lessyou react fasterThe conversation stops being productive because your nervous system is trying to protect you, not connect with your partner. Practical Shift: Instead of asking: “How do we fix this argument?” Ask: “How do we handle this difference without hurting each other?” Not all conflict is meant to be solved, some of it is meant to be understood. If you’ve ever: Had the same argument on repeatFelt like nothing ever truly gets resolvedWondered if compatibility means never fightingThis episode is for you. Listen now and explore how to move from repetitive conflict to relational resilience. Intimacy starts with you. https://intimacyinprogress.com/ #IntimacyInProgress #ConflictResolution #RelationshipPsychology #AttachmentTheory #CouplesTherapy Additional Resources: Your Brain During Arguments Why You Keep Having the Same Argument

6 min

Apr 15

Why Couples Fight About Money

Many couples assume financial conflict only happens when money is tight, but money fights show up in wealthy relationships too. No one is exempt from these types of challenges because money arguments are rarely about money. They’re about what money represents. SecurityFreedomControlSafetyIn this episode of Intimacy Today, we unpack why financial conflict is one of the most emotionally charged dynamics in relationships; and why couples often argue about spending when they’re actually arguing about fear – because when money gets emotional, logic quietly leaves the room. What We Explore: Why money activates core fears around survival and controlHow financial arguments often mask deeper emotional concernsThe role of hidden financial narratives in relationship conflictWhy savers and spenders misinterpret each other’s behaviorHow financial avoidance creates long-term relational damageThe impact of power dynamics and income differencesWhy financial secrecy erodes trust faster than overspending The Core Truth: You’re not arguing about the purchase, you’re arguing about what the purchase means. To one partner, spending may feel like freedom and too the other, it may feel like danger – and without context, both people assume the worst. Practical Repair Conversations: Instead of: “You’re irresponsible with money.” Try: “What did money feel like growing up for you?” “What helps you feel financially safe?” “What are we trying to build together long-term?”Shared meaning reduces conflict, and criticism amplifies it. If you’ve ever: Had the same argument about spending over and overFelt anxious or controlled in financial conversationsAvoided money talks altogether just to keep the peaceThis episode is for you. Listen now and explore how to shift from financial tension to financial teamwork. Intimacy starts with you. https://intimacyinprogress.com/ #IntimacyInProgress #MoneyAndRelationships #FinancialIntimacy #RelationshipPsychology #CouplesTherapy Additional Resources: Liberty University – The Impact of Economic Stress on Marital Satisfaction American Psychological Association – Money and Relationship Conflict The Gottman Institute – Financial Infidelity Can Put Your Relationship At Risk

8 min

Apr 8

Why Couples Stop Having Sex (And What It Actually Means)

One of the most emotionally painful conflicts couples face is sexual disconnection, but the story most people tell themselves about that disconnection is often wrong. One partner believes: “They’re not attracted to me anymore.” The other believes: “Something must be wrong with me because I can’t want sex the way they do.” Both people feel rejected, both people feel pressure, and slowly, sex stops being a place of connection and starts becoming a scoreboard of hurt feelings. In this episode of Intimacy Today, we unpack why loss of desire rarely means loss of love; and how most couples are actually caught in a stress cycle, not a compatibility issue – because the problem usually isn’t attraction but the environment in which attraction is trying to exist. What We Explore: Why sexual disconnection feels deeply personal (even when it isn’t)The Pursuer–Withdrawer cycle and how it quietly escalates pressureWhy emotional disconnection often shows up as sexual disconnectionThe difference between spontaneous desire and responsive desireHow stress, resentment, and nervous system overload suppress attractionWhy avoidance is often protective, not rejectingHow couples accidentally argue about the symptom instead of the rootReframing Sexual Disconnection: Sexual conflict is rarely about sex. It’s about emotional safety, stress levels, unspoken resentment, and feeling valued vs feeling pressured. When the relationship environment feels tense, the body doesn’t lean toward desire, it leans toward protection. Practical Repair Conversations: Instead of: “Why don’t you want me anymore?” try questions like… “What helps you feel relaxed and safe with me?”“Do you feel pressure when this comes up?”“What kind of closeness helps your desire come online?”Curiosity creates connection, and pressure shuts it down. If you’ve ever: Felt rejected when your partner’s desire changedFelt pressure to want sex you didn’t feel ready forWondered if your relationship was broken because your sex life changedThis episode is for you. Listen now and explore how to move from pressure and misinterpretation to understanding and reconnection. Intimacy starts with you. https://intimacyinprogress.com/ #IntimacyInProgress #DesireMismatch #RelationshipPsychology #AttachmentTheory #EmotionalIntimacy Additional Resources: The Gottman Institute – Desire in Longterm Relationships Adult Attachment, Stress, and Romantic Relationships

8 min

Mar 25

Parenting Together or Parenting Alone? How Parenting Dynamics Quietly Kill Intimacy

You think you are just tired. You blame stress. Busy schedules. Modern life. But often, underneath the exhaustion, the real fracture is in how you parent together. In this episode of Intimacy Today, we explore the hidden connection between parenting dynamics and sexual desire, and why resentment in the living room often shows up as distance in the bedroom. Because intimacy rarely disappears from fatigue alone. It disappears when partnership stops feeling fair. What We Explore The psychological link between parenting stress and sexual satisfactionScarcity Theory and the “energy bank account” problemWhy one partner’s stress can quietly predict relationship declineThe myth that “this is just a busy season”How perceived unfairness erodes attraction more than exhaustionThe Default Parent vs. Assistant Parent dynamicWhy caretaking your partner disrupts erotic energyHow enmeshment with a child can crowd out adult intimacyThe Core Truth Romantic intimacy depends on perceived partnership. When one partner becomes the project manager of the family and the other becomes the intern, the emotional impact goes beyond irritation. It creates loneliness. When your nervous system begins to experience your partner as another dependent instead of a teammate, desire naturally shuts down. You cannot be in manager mode and lover mode at the same time. The Repair Framework Before scheduling more date nights, repair the alliance. At Intimacy in Progress, two structured tools help couples realign. Parenting Alignment Index (PAI) A structured check-in designed to realign discipline strategies, values, and the mental load of parenting. The goal is to move from a Manager and Intern dynamic to true Co-Captains. Relationship Alignment Index (RAI) A relational assessment that evaluates emotional safety, communication, and trust. It helps restore closeness once fairness in the system has been repaired. Because romance cannot thrive inside an unfair system. Parenting alignment restores fairness. Relationship alignment restores closeness. If you have ever: Felt alone managing the householdLost attraction to a partner who feels more like another childTold yourself this is just a phaseThis episode is for you. Listen now to explore why saving your sex life may begin with fixing how you row the boat together. Intimacy starts with you. #IntimacyInProgress #ParentingAndMarriage #MentalLoad #RelationshipPsychology #IntimacyMatters #ModernParenthood Additional Resources: Parenting Stress and Sexual Satisfaction Among First-time Parents: A Dyadic Approach Coparenting and Relationship Satisfaction in Mothers: The Moderating Role of Sociosexuality When Parents Become Too Close to Their Kids Does Parenthood Have to Kill a Couple's Romance? Are You Parenting Your Partner?

9 min

Mar 18

Open Relationship or Escape Hatch? When “Ethical Non-Monogamy” Is Used to Avoid Hard Relationship Work

Consensual Non-Monogamy is more visible than ever. The apps. The language. The “poly-saturated” bios. The culture is shifting. But visibility is not the same thing as readiness. In this episode of Intimacy Today, we explore a question that comes up frequently in relationship therapy: Are you opening your relationship as a structural renovation, or as an escape hatch from conflict, boredom, or incompatibility? Because adding partners does not automatically reduce pressure. In many cases, it introduces more emotional and logistical complexity into a relationship system that is already strained. If your relationship feels like a bicycle that is wobbling, adding a sidecar will not stabilize it. It simply adds more weight. What We Explore Why the rise in CNM visibility does not equal relational preparednessThe myth that opening a relationship will “take pressure off”The difference between expansion-driven ENM and distress-driven ENMResearch showing no consistent happiness gap between monogamous and CNM couplesThe “positive spillover” effect and when it actually worksWhy jealousy functions more like a signal than a flawThe emotional and logistical realities that rarely appear in social media narrativesTwo Very Different Starting Points Healthy ENM Begins from relational stability and emotional securityMotivated by curiosity, expansion, and shared explorationSupported by strong communication and mutual trustDistress-Driven ENM Begins from unresolved conflict or unmet needsMotivated by fear of breakup, avoidance of repair, or dissatisfactionOften used as a workaround instead of direct relational workOpening a relationship does not remove needs. It multiplies them. If you are hoping a new partner will fix what is broken, you are not expanding. You are outsourcing. Before You Open a Relationship Motivation Audit Am I expanding something that is already healthy?Or am I trying to escape discomfort or unresolved conflict?Reality Audit Do we have the time, energy, and emotional bandwidth?Are we prepared for jealousy, comparison, and increased visibility?Is our foundation strong enough to carry more complexity?Because jealousy is not something people simply evolve past. It is information. And ethical non-monogamy is not a slow-motion breakup plan. Expansion adds. Escape replaces. If you have ever wondered whether opening your relationship would solve your problems or quietly magnify them, this episode is for you. Listen now and explore whether you are building a bigger house or trying to leave the one you are already in. Intimacy starts with you. #IntimacyInProgress #EthicalNonMonogamy #Polyamory #AttachmentTheory #ModernRelationships #RelationshipPsychology Additional Resources: New Insights for Navigating Jealousy I Found the One, and We’re in an Open Marriage Consensual Non-Monogamy: A Year of Sex Research in Review

9 min

Mar 11

One Partner Is Kinky, One Is Vanilla — Now What? Sexual Style Mismatch in Poly & Non-Monogamous Relationships

What happens when you deeply love your partner but your sexual styles feel worlds apart? One partner finds comfort in slow, familiar intimacy. The other feels most alive through power dynamics, sensation play, or taboo exploration. And then the relationship opens. Many people believe non-monogamy solves desire mismatch. If something is missing in one relationship, the thinking goes, you can find it elsewhere. But Ethical Non-Monogamy removes exclusivity. It does not remove insecurity. In many cases, it amplifies it. In this episode of Intimacy Today, we explore what happens when erotic styles diverge inside polyamorous and non-monogamous relationships. We unpack how kink identity, trauma, shame, and comparison shape the way partners experience desire. Because most couples do not actually have a libido problem. They have a meaning problem. What We Explore The difference between libido mismatch and erotic style mismatchWhy desire is tied to identity, not just frequencyThe five factors of erotic identity and the Kink Orientation ScaleWhy desire cannot be negotiated into existenceThe “comparison monster” that often emerges in ENM structuresThe complex relationship between kink, trauma, and nervous system safetyWhy supporting a partner’s sexuality does not require participating in everythingA Framework for Navigating Sexual Style Mismatch Instead of trying to fix each other, this episode introduces a framework built on differentiation, consent, and no-coercion intimacy. You’ll learn: Practice vs. Identity How to separate a sexual act from a sexual identity so declining an activity does not become rejecting the person. Desire Ownership Language that protects autonomy: “This is my desire, not your obligation.” Comparison Aftercare How to manage insecurity and comparison when partners have other sexual experiences. Safety and Responsive Desire Why many people need nervous system safety, not pressure, for desire to emerge. Intimacy is not about identical wiring. It is about respecting each other’s nervous systems. If you’ve ever wondered: Am I the boring partner?What if they enjoy sex with someone else more?Are we sexually incompatible?This episode is for you. Listen now and learn how couples move from shame and silent comparison toward clarity, consent, and emotional security. Intimacy starts with you. #IntimacyInProgress #Polyamory #EthicalNonMonogamy #KinkIdentity #DesireMismatch #ModernRelationships Additional Resources: The Kink Orientation Scale: Developing and Validating a Measure of Kink Desire, Practice, and Identity The Quiet Distance: Desire Discrepancy and the Fragility of Modern Intimacy

13 min

Mar 4

Dating App Trap: Romantic Resumes vs Real Connection

What happens when you search for a partner based on an internal “ideal person” blueprint instead of engaging with the real, imperfect human sitting across from you? Your brain stops bonding and starts shopping. We live in an era of romantic abundance. Dating apps and social media reinforce the belief that love is always one swipe away. While options can feel empowering, they often push us into constant comparison. Instead of asking, How do I feel with this person? we start asking, Do they match my checklist? In this episode of Intimacy Today, we explore how fantasy, dopamine, trauma, and modern dating culture keep people attached to potential instead of presence. Ironically, the pursuit of the “dream partner” can be the very thing preventing real connection. What We Explore Why idealizing a future partner activates dopamine reward circuitsThe psychology behind cognitive filtering and checklist datingWhy what you say you want rarely predicts who you are actually drawn toThe difference between fireworks (dopamine) and fireplaces (attachment)How trauma can make emotional safety feel boringThe myth of “right person, wrong time”The paradox of romantic abundance and the fear of settlingTools to Shift from Shopping to Bonding Target-Specific Data Stop asking, “Do they match the blueprint?” Start asking, “Do I feel seen, safe, and connected with this person?” The Rule of Four Choose four true dealbreakers. Let everything else be discovered in real time. The Tuesday Test Can you imagine an ordinary Tuesday together? Love lives on Tuesdays. Lust lives on Saturdays. Audit Your List Keep relational behaviors. Drop aesthetic fantasies. Translate traits into lived experiences. The goal is not to find someone who requires zero work. The goal is to find someone you are willing to work with. If you’ve ever: Lost interest in someone kind because the spark was not intense enoughTreated dating like a spec comparison instead of an emotional experienceWondered if someone better was one swipe awayThis episode is for you. Listen now and learn how to retrain your brain for real connection. Intimacy starts with you. #IntimacyInProgress #DatingPsychology #AttachmentStyles #ModernDating #RelationshipGrowth Additional Resources: The Crisis of Romantic Knowledge: The Role of Information and Ignorance in Times of Romantic Abundance Predicting romantic interest during early relationship development: A preregistered investigation using machine learning Why There’s No Such thing As the Right Person at the Wrong Time & Why Your Ex Was Never The One 10 Common Patterns Seen in Unresolved Relational Trauma

13 min

05/20/2024

Redefining Marriage after Deconstructing Religion

Dr. Sheena Glover and therapist Lisa Brennan discuss the impact of religious trauma on marriages, highlighting shame and fear perpetuated by high controlled religions. They emphasize the lack of sexual education and societal pressures contributing to difficulties in intimacy. The importance of reconnecting with pleasure and identity, addressing obligatory sex dynamics, and healing within relationships affected by religious trauma is emphasized. The speakers discuss the challenges faced by couples from high control religions in navigating intimacy, emphasizing honesty, vulnerability, and self-discovery in creating safe spaces for communication. They also touch on the impact of shame, sexual abuse, and the need for therapy to address issues and rebuild healthy relationships and sexual identities.

1h 8m

04/27/2024

Dating Someone Who is Polyamory

Dr. Sheena Glover and Dr. Katherine Redd discuss navigating open relationships and polyamory, emphasizing self-awareness and setting boundaries. They differentiate between polyamory and polygamy, highlighting the importance of mutual respect and consent. The impact of exposure to polygamy through media is explored, emphasizing honesty and communication in polyamorous relationships. The importance of boundaries, emotional intimacy, and managing jealousy is discussed, along with the challenges of societal norms. Recommendations for further reading and professional support in exploring Consensual Non Monogamy are provided.

43 min

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You Feel It But You Can’t Prove It

Why Every Fight Feels Exactly the Same

What Happens When You Change But Your Relationship Doesn’t

Why Some Arguments Never Go Away

Why Couples Fight About Money

Why Couples Stop Having Sex (And What It Actually Means)

Parenting Together or Parenting Alone? How Parenting Dynamics Quietly Kill Intimacy

Open Relationship or Escape Hatch? When “Ethical Non-Monogamy” Is Used to Avoid Hard Relationship Work

One Partner Is Kinky, One Is Vanilla — Now What? Sexual Style Mismatch in Poly & Non-Monogamous Relationships

Dating App Trap: Romantic Resumes vs Real Connection

Redefining Marriage after Deconstructing Religion

Dating Someone Who is Polyamory

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