UR Mom Podcast

UR Mom Rachel

Leave your jerky judgments at the door, because we don't care what you think. Get outta here with your mean girl mom sh*t. We've all had enough of that - you aren't original with your old school ur mom jokes. We're here to pump you up, let you vent, and learn from your kick ass journey. Buckle up, this ain't your mama's podcast, but I am UR Mom. *Tequila not included.

  1. Grace & Grief: How a mom of four navigated the loss of her husband to suicide

    01/20/2025

    Grace & Grief: How a mom of four navigated the loss of her husband to suicide

    In this deeply moving episode of host Rachel Anne sits down with Cerissa Hocker for a profound conversation about love, loss, and resilience. Cerissa shares her journey through the heartbreak of losing her husband Dave to suicide and the immense challenges and growth that followed. They delve into the complexities of grief, mental illness, and the strength it takes to rebuild life after immense loss. Rachel and Cerissa also discuss the impactful intersections between faith, personal healing, and the enduring power of storytelling. Join us for a testament to resilience and the importance of finding light even in the darkest moments. If you or someone you know is struggling with thoughts of suicide, please know that you are not alone. Help is available. You can call the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline at 988—it's simple, free, and available 24/7. If you're more comfortable texting, reach out to the Crisis Text Line by texting HOME to 741741. Whether you're in the U.S., Canada, or the U.K., they're there to listen and support you. For those of you who have experienced the heartbreak of losing a loved one to suicide, I encourage you to explore resources like the Alliance of Hope for Suicide Loss Survivors at www.allianceofhope.org. Their community and support can be a beacon during incredibly challenging times. Healing isn't linear, and grief doesn't come with a timeline. But recovery is possible. Therapy can be a powerful tool to navigate pain and rediscover hope. Platforms like BetterHelp (www.betterhelp.com) offer accessible, online therapy to help you take that first step.

    1h 30m
  2. Menopausal Dog Moms: Navigating loss, change, and love in midlife with Victoria Conner

    11/11/2024

    Menopausal Dog Moms: Navigating loss, change, and love in midlife with Victoria Conner

    In this episode, Rachel sits down with her longtime friend, Victoria Conner, who made a life-changing leap from music marketing at MTV to running a charming boutique in Bar Harbor, Maine. Victoria opens up about embracing dramatic shifts in her career and personal life, navigating the ups and downs of change, and finding new anchors when old ones slip away. The conversation touches on a range of deeply personal topics, including: Dog Moms Unite: Rachel and Victoria share heartwarming, and often tear-jerking, stories of their beloved pets. From the unconditional love of dogs to the difficult decisions all pet owners face, their bond as dog moms is both emotional and relatable. Losing Loved Ones: Victoria shares the poignant story of her dog, Boris, and the intimate, dignified choice of in-home euthanasia. This touching moment offers a window into how we cope with loss and the importance of honoring those we love. Menopause & Midlife: The conversation shifts to the challenges of midlife, touching on mental health, burnout, and the delicate balance of maintaining independence within relationships. Love & Relationships: Rachel and Victoria open up about navigating love and finding a safe, supportive partner. They discuss the importance of generosity, acceptance, and leaning on loved ones during tough times. Reflections on the Past: Looking back on their time at MTV and the twists of early adulthood, the two reflect on the lessons learned, emphasizing kindness, connection, and the unpredictable journey of life. Join Rachel and Victoria for a candid, heartfelt conversation filled with laughter, tears, and valuable life insights. This episode is a reminder that none of us have it all figured out, but we're all in it together. Show mentions: Victoria's store: https://www.mydarlingmaine.com/  Old dogs, new digs: https://www.olddogsnewdigs.com/  Dr. Pooler, Veterinarian: https://www.islandveterinary.care/  Border Tails Rescue (where I got my dogs!): https://www.bordertailsrescue.org/  Great Lakes Bernedoodles (where I got my big girl!): https://www.greatlakesbernedoodles.com/ The Gap and the Gain: https://www.amazon.com/Gap-Gain-Achievers-Happiness-Confidence/dp/1401964362

    1h 18m
  3. Just Wing It: Navigating careers, chaos, and life changes with Chrissi Sperduto

    10/14/2024

    Just Wing It: Navigating careers, chaos, and life changes with Chrissi Sperduto

    Join Rachel as she welcomes the dynamic Chrissi Sperduto, a coach for small business owners, a certified life coach, and a full-time air traffic controller. Chrissi shares her insights on managing multiple roles, turning negativity into empowerment, and encouraging action. With a focus on 'doing the dang thing', Chrissi offers practical advice on starting new ventures, tackling fear, and asking for help. Listen in for motivation, whether you're launching a business or making life changes. Don't miss Chrissi's podcast, 'Do the Dang Thing', for business and life inspiration. Find Chrissy on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chrissisperduto Website: https://www.chrissisperduto.com Become an Air Traffic Controller! https://www.faa.gov/be-atc   00:00 Welcome and Introduction to Chrissy 01:04 Understanding Aviation Terminology 02:19 Chrissy's Career and Coaching Philosophy 04:30 The Realities of Air Traffic Control 12:36 Overcoming Rejection and Taking Action 18:30 Balancing Personal and Professional Life 34:51 Balancing Responsibilities in Relationships 35:08 Creative Ways to Ask for Help 35:54 Building Community Support 36:57 Accepting Help from Others 37:39 Overcoming Self-Judgment 39:07 Sharing Responsibilities at Home 41:08 Reevaluating Standards and Expectations 43:11 Outsourcing Tasks for Efficiency 46:18 Prioritizing Personal Choices 48:48 The Value of Coaching and Support 01:01:21 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

    1h 4m
  4. Ep 7: Divorce: The Ultimate 'You Do You' Breakup and Contract Ending Guide

    08/12/2024

    Ep 7: Divorce: The Ultimate 'You Do You' Breakup and Contract Ending Guide

    In this episode, host Rachel Anne shares her personal journey through divorce, offering insights and guidance for those going through it, contemplating it, or supporting someone else. Rachel recounts her experience of realizing, deciding, and navigating the aftermath of divorce, and touches on the emotional, logistic, and legal challenges involved. The discussion includes the importance of support systems, dating after divorce, and legal considerations, providing listeners with practical advice and valuable lessons for managing this difficult period. The episode aims to foster understanding and empathy, encouraging listeners to support themselves and their loved ones through the complex process of divorce. Resources Mentioned: - Divorce Care (https://www.divorcecare.org/): Support groups and resources for those going through divorce. - Financial Planning for Divorce (https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/financial-planning-divorce.html): A guide to financial planning during a divorce. - Co-Parenting Tips (https://www.helpguide.org/articles/parenting-family/co-parenting-tips-for-divorced-parents.htm): Advice for co-parenting effectively after separation. -Parenting Plan Checklist: https://www.custodyxchange.com/topics/plans/overview/parenting-plan-checklist.php -Lilac Tree Divorce Support: https://thelilactree.org/    Articles:   - How to Start Over After Divorce (https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/stronger-the-broken-places/201905/how-start-over-after-divorce): Tips for rebuilding your life post-divorce.   - Coping with Divorce: A Self-Care Guide (https://www.verywellmind.com/coping-with-divorce-4176936): Strategies for managing the emotional toll of divorce.   Connect With Me: http://instagram.com/urmomonapodcast https://www.tiktok.com/@ur.mom.podcast rachel@urmompod.com   Support the Podcast: - Leave a Review: If you enjoyed this episode, please consider leaving a review on your favorite podcast platform. Your feedback helps us reach more people and create better content. - Subscribe Don't miss out on future episodes—subscribe wherever you get your podcasts. - Share: Know someone who might benefit from this episode? Share it with them!   00:00 Introduction to the Journey of Divorce 01:47 My Personal Story: Becoming an Accidental Expert 03:37 The Breaking Point: Deciding to Divorce 06:11 Navigating the Emotional and Social Fallout 10:14 Preparing for the Legal Battle 14:43 Dating After Divorce: A New Adventure 19:39 Legal Considerations and Finding the Right Lawyer 23:34 Creating a Parenting Plan 26:43 Conclusion: Embracing a New Chapter

    29 min
  5. Burning Red Hot Swifties - How a college instructor became the lead singer of the best Taylor Swift Tribute Band

    07/27/2024

    Burning Red Hot Swifties - How a college instructor became the lead singer of the best Taylor Swift Tribute Band

    In this compelling episode, join us as the lead singer of "Burning Red: Tribute to Taylor" opens up about her extraordinary journey. From overcoming childhood homelessness to performing alongside Courtney Love, she reveals the transformative moments that shaped her life. Discover her experiences with autism and her impactful work as a reproductive health advocate. The conversation takes a deep dive into Taylor Swift's cultural impact, exploring how music can shape perceptions, the challenges of public scrutiny, and the pressures from fans. Listen in as we discuss feminist viewpoints, the art of handling criticism, and the inspiring transition from creating original music and navigating suburban life to leading a local band with sold-out shows. This episode is a rich tapestry of personal anecdotes and industry insights, celebrating themes of passion, resilience, and the complex realities of creative life. Check Burning Red! https://burningredband.com/ Go to a Burning Red show! https://burningredband.com/events   00:00 Introduction and Today's Episode Overview 00:54 The Eras Tour and Tribute Show Experience 01:33 Interview with Gina: A Fearless Wonder Woman 02:15 Celebratory Moments and Personal Achievements 04:01 Running Adventures and Unexpected Challenges 06:23 Health Struggles and Performance Anxiety 12:45 Balancing Professional Life and Passion for Music 23:02 Gina's Musical Journey and Personal Life 39:12 The Joy of Performing Live 39:55 Connecting with Fans of All Ages 40:56 The Power of Live Music 42:23 The Ticket Scalping Problem 45:16 Taylor Swift and the Challenges of Fame 51:04 Autism and Personal Growth 01:16:20 The Journey of a Tribute Band 01:22:39 Support Systems and Overcoming Challenges 01:25:38 Closing Thoughts and Gratitude

    1h 27m
5
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4 Ratings

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Leave your jerky judgments at the door, because we don't care what you think. Get outta here with your mean girl mom sh*t. We've all had enough of that - you aren't original with your old school ur mom jokes. We're here to pump you up, let you vent, and learn from your kick ass journey. Buckle up, this ain't your mama's podcast, but I am UR Mom. *Tequila not included.