What if doubt is not a weakness to overcome, but a skill to practice? This week Adam and Stephen are joined by Professor Bobby Parmar from the UVA Darden School of Business, award-winning professor, researcher, and author of Radical Doubt. Bobby studies how leaders make decisions, especially when the path forward is unclear, uncomfortable, or full of competing interpretations. The conversation starts with a simple but surprisingly uncomfortable question: why do smart, high-achieving people know the best decision-making practices and still avoid using them? We rush to the first good option. We skip comparison. We call discomfort “intuition” and move on. Bobby argues that the missing piece is often our relationship with doubt. Instead of treating doubt as a signal that something is wrong, Bobby reframes it as the moment where learning begins. Doubt is the burn on the eighth rep. It is uncomfortable, but it is also where strength gets built. The episode moves from real estate decisions and career pivots to AI, MBAs, meaningful work, and the future of careers. Along the way, Bobby makes the case that a meaningful life is not built by finding certainty, but by skillfully embracing doubt with other people. Takeaways Doubt is the presence of multiple conflicting interpretations. It is not just insecurity or imposter syndrome. Doubt shows up when there are multiple plausible ways to read a situation and no obvious right answer.School and early career success often reward certainty, speed, and correctness. But the most meaningful decisions in life and work usually require becoming better-answer makers instead.Don't sit in uncertainty forever. Identify what you do not know, gather useful data, run small experiments, and build enough confidence to act.Used poorly, AI becomes another shortcut that gives you an answer. Used well, it can help you test assumptions, find weaknesses, explore alternatives, and treat your first instinct as a hypothesis.Big career decisions get easier when you break them into experiments. Instead of asking, “Should I leave healthcare and start over?” ask smaller questions: What part of this work gives me energy? Where do I want more mobility? Can I shadow someone, interview someone, or test a new direction before making the leap?Meaning is created in groups, not by individuals alone. We create it through shared struggle, relationships, and work that matters. Chapters 00:00 - Welcome Professor Bobby Parmar04:55 - Why Doubt Is Hard for High Achievers05:34 - The Definition of Doubt10:27 - Too Little Doubt, Too Much Doubt, and Failure Modes12:41 - Building Confidence by Kicking the Tires15:17 - Can AI Help Us Deal with Doubt?18:16 - A Mini Case Study on Career Change21:44 - Optimal Stopping, House Buying, and Knowing When to Commit24:32 - Why Bobby Did Not Write a “Five Easy Steps” Book29:59 - What MBA Students Are Feeling Right Now33:07 - Career Advice for Bobby’s Daughters36:05 - What Meaningful Alumni Careers Have in Common39:36 - Is Meaning Found or Created?40:47 - Where to Find Bobby Listener Reflection Where in your life are you waiting for certainty before you act, and what small experiment could help you learn your way forward instead?
