Domestic Silence

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Shedding light on relationship dynamics that your abuser doesn’t want you to see. Connecting you with resources you can use to get to safety.

Episodes

  1. 07/28/2024

    S1 E11: All Too Well: Personal Stories of Financial Abuse As a Weapon of The Controller (Part 2 of 2)

    The hosts continue to draw from their personal experiences, shedding light on financial abuse and its impact on survivors and families.

  2. 07/08/2024

    S1 E10: All Too Well: Personal Stories of Financial Abuse As a Weapon of the Controller (Part 1 of 2)

    The co-hosts of the Domestic Silence Podcast delve into the often overlooked but crucial topic of financial abuse. Drawing from their personal experiences and expertise, they shed light on the various forms this type of abuse can take and its profound impact on individuals and families. As their stories unfold, the listener will discover that financial abuse isn't just about controlling money; it's a method of exerting power and control over another person's life and choices. They provide examples ranging from restricting access to funds and employment sabotage to coercive debt accumulation and exploitation of assets. Throughout this and the following episode, the hosts offer practical insights and resources for listeners who may be experiencing financial abuse or know someone who is. They stress the importance of awareness, empowerment, and seeking support from trusted sources. As the episode concludes, the hosts encourage listeners to recognize the signs of financial abuse, break the silence surrounding it, and work towards creating environments where financial autonomy and security are respected and protected.

  3. 07/03/2024

    S1 E9: Tortured Poets Tell Tales of Dating After Divorce (Part 1 o 3)

    You've managed to successfully extricate yourself from an abusive relationship and you're ready to start living your life again on your terms. How do you know when it's time to attempt to connect with another human romantically? Is the idea of dating after divorce daunting? In this and the 2 subsequent episodes, we share our personal thoughts and experiences, from the scary to the downright silly. Can you relate?

  4. 06/12/2024

    S1 E8: Pulling Back the Curtain on Abusers and Revealing Their Flying Monkeys

    Drawing inspiration from "The Wizard of Oz," we explore how abusers often enlist allies, or "flying monkeys," to manipulate, control, and perpetuate abuse within relationships and in the aftermath of a difficult divorce. Through compelling real-life stories and psychological analysis, the podcast sheds light on the insidious nature of abuse and its profound impact on survivors. Furthermore, the episode provides valuable resources and strategies for listeners who may be experiencing or witnessing abuse in their own lives. By unraveling the metaphorical symbolism of flying monkeys, we empower our audience to recognize the signs of abuse, break free from its grip, and seek support for themselves or loved ones.

  5. 05/23/2024

    S1 E7: In the Wake of Conviction: Confronting the Abuser in Family Court

    Confronting an abusive ex in family court is a daunting but necessary step towards justice and healing. It involves facing the perpetrator in a legal setting, where evidence of abuse is presented and decisions are made regarding custody, visitation, and support. This process can be emotionally exhausting and triggering, as survivors recount traumatic experiences and navigate complex legal procedures. However, it also provides an opportunity to reclaim power and hold the abuser accountable for their actions. With the right resources and and support networks, survivors can navigate the challenges of family court and seek the protection and justice they and their children deserve. This episode deals with a personal experience in the US family court system and presents tools and strategies you can use when confronted with a contentious custody court battle.

  6. 04/29/2024

    S1 E6: Communicating with a Contentious Co-Parent

    In this episode, we delve into the intricacies of communication: explore the challenges of dealing with a contentious co-parent, embark on the journey of learning a new language, and explain the nuances of gray versus yellow rock communication strategies. Drawing from psychology and interpersonal communication theories, we examine how subtle shifts in communication styles can influence perceptions both inside and outside the courtroom, aid you in evading conflicts, and protect your mental health. We break down the principles behind these strategies and offer practical advice on implementing them in various contexts. As always, we use examples from our own experiences to reveal the power of strategic communication techniques in an effort to help the listener navigate communicating with their abuser with confidence.

  7. 04/22/2024

    S1 E5 Navigating Custody: Co-Parenting vs. Parallel Parenting

    In this episode, the hosts delve into the complex and often challenging dynamics of navigating custody arrangements within the context of an abusive relationship. They explore the delicate balance between ensuring the safety and well-being of the child while also addressing the legal and emotional aspects of co-parenting. The episode highlights the differences between co-parenting and parallel parenting styles. Co-parenting involves both parents actively participating in decision-making and sharing responsibilities regarding the child's upbringing. This approach requires open communication and cooperation between the parents. On the other hand, parallel parenting acknowledges the limitations of communication and cooperation between parents, particularly in high-conflict or abusive relationships. In parallel parenting, each parent has defined responsibilities and decision-making authority when the child is in their care, with limited interaction or communication between them. Throughout the episode, the hosts discuss various strategies and resources available to individuals navigating custody issues in abusive relationships. They emphasize the importance of prioritizing the safety and well-being of the child above all else and provide guidance on seeking legal assistance, therapy, and support.

  8. 04/15/2024

    S1 E4: Behind Closed Doors: Secrets, Lies and DARVO (Part 2 of 2)

    In this episode, we continue our discussion of DARVO, a defense mechanism used by manipulators to deflect accountability by Denying allegations, Attacking the accuser, and Reversing roles of victim and offender. Using relatable examples from our own experiences, we explore how DARVO plays out in relationships and legal proceedings, highlighting its impact on individuals' sense of self-worth and perceptions of blame. We also challenge the tendency to internalize blame and encourage listeners to question whether they're truly at fault when faced with manipulation tactics. By sharing practical tips and insights, we empower individuals to recognize and resist manipulation while maintaining their self-esteem.

  9. 04/08/2024

    S1 E3: Behind Closed Doors: Secrets, Lies and DARVO (Part 1 of 2)

    In this episode we unravel the toxic effects that an abuser's secrets and lies can have on shared children when those children are caught in the middle, unsure who to trust. We also define and unpack DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim & Offender) with some examples from our own personal experiences.

  10. 04/01/2024

    S1 E2 Breaking the Silence (Part 2 of 2)

    In part 2 of Breaking the Silence, we continue the conversation about the far-ranging and very personal impact of domestic violence.

  11. 03/21/2024

    Intro

    Welcome to the Domestic Silence Podcast.

  12. 03/21/2024

    S1 E1: Breaking the Silence (Part 1 of 2)

    In our inaugural episode, we discuss our personal experiences with recognizing abuse, navigating relationships, and finding support.

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Shedding light on relationship dynamics that your abuser doesn’t want you to see. Connecting you with resources you can use to get to safety.

Information

  • Creator
    DSP Productions
  • Years Active
    2024
  • Episodes
    12
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © DSP Productions
  • Show Website
    Domestic Silence