Stop Shrinking, Start Living with Christina Aaliyah

Christina Aaliyah
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  1. 4d ago

    I tried speed dating for the 5th time

    check out Comu Action Pro!use code：CHRISTINA66 for an early bird discount!Amazon：https://amzn.to/4gwWqJXWebsite：https://bit.ly/4A6U0urUK：https://amzn.to/4hV0mGVso i've been using comu action pro for a while now and honestly it's changed how i work.i used to spend so much time transcribing videos, writing summaries, organizing everything manually.it was draining.i'd finish editing and think "oh god now i have to do all the admin work."comu action pro literally does that for you.unlimited live transcription, ai summaries, everything organized. and you only pay once. that's it. lifetime access.➜ get $10 off right now (only $169.99 at checkout, up to £11 off in the uk) ➜ lifetime value → you literally pay once! ➜ 100% privacy compliant (gdpr, hipaa, soc 2) ➜ 12 month warranty + lifetime supportI have genuinely had enough rejection to last me until 2028.The past month has humbled me. Dating rejection. Work rejection. Getting left on read. Speed dating and somehow leaving with zero matches. At one point, I genuinely started questioning my makeup, hair, clothes… everything.That’s the thing about rejection. When the “no’s” start piling up, it becomes really easy to make them mean something about you.I’m 25 and I’ve never had a proper relationship. For a long time, I thought having a boyfriend would finally prove that I was attractive or desirable. But honestly, I’ve realised I didn’t always want the relationship itself. I wanted the reassurance I thought it would give me.Your relationship status is just your relationship status. Someone rejecting you doesn’t change your value.Real talk, putting yourself out there means sometimes getting hurt. But avoiding rejection completely might cost you even more.Maybe you don’t need to become immune to rejection. Maybe you just need enough evidence that you can survive it.TIMESTAMPS:00:00 — Intro01:03 — Sponsor03:01 — The DM Saga04:47 — The Rejection Spiral06:05 — Client Challenges08:09 — Speed Dating14:53 — Thoughts on RejectionAre you afraid of rejection… or what you’ll make it mean about you?Cozy Meet Ups w/ our communityLondon → https://christina-aaliyah.myflodesk.c...Manchester → https://christina-aaliyah.myflodesk.c...🌱 sign up to my newsletterhttps://christina-aaliyah.myflodesk.c...💌 contact: info@christinaa-aaliyah.com

  2. Sep 7

    It’s time to disappoint your parents

    🎟️ Become a LinkedIn Baddie (Join the waitlist) https://christina-aaliyah.myflodesk.com/linkedinwaitlist?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=description If you’re constantly choosing between disappointing other people and disappointing yourself, honestly, this video is for you. I’ve been thinking about this a lot recently because I’m 25, I’m planning to move to London, five hours away from my mum, and for probably the first time in my life, I’ve really felt that tug between what I want and what the people I love might prefer for me. And lowkey, I think learning how to disappoint people might be one of the most important parts of growing up. I’ve done it with my career too. I went to medical school because I wanted to. Then I eventually quit being a doctor, even though I knew my dad didn’t necessarily understand the decision. I spent so long weighing the pros and cons, and I genuinely reached the point where I knew my life would be worse if I stayed in medicine. That sounds dramatic, but it was true for me. This isn’t about becoming selfish or ignoring everyone’s advice. Real talk, sometimes your parents are right. Sometimes you genuinely do not know as much as you think you do. But there’s a difference between listening to people who love you and building your entire life around the fear of disappointing them. Especially if you’re trying to figure out how to stop people pleasing, how to set boundaries with family, how to stop caring what your parents think about your career, or how to choose yourself without feeling guilty. Working in healthcare also changed how I see all of this. Seeing young people suddenly become seriously unwell made me realise how unbelievably short and unpredictable life can be. It made me question why I was playing small just to keep everyone comfortable. Now I keep coming back to one question: Can I keep living like this? I asked it when I wanted to leave medicine. I’m asking it again while moving out of my small hometown and starting a new chapter. Honestly, every time I answer it truthfully, my life moves a little closer to something that actually feels like mine. So maybe the question isn’t, “Who will I disappoint if I choose myself?”Maybe it’s: How long are you willing to disappoint yourself instead? Cozy Meet Ups w/ our communityLondon → https://christina-aaliyah.myflodesk.com/meetManchester → https://christina-aaliyah.myflodesk.com/manchester 🌱 sign up to my newsletterhttps://christina-aaliyah.myflodesk.com/newsletter 💌 contact: info@christinaa-aaliyah.com

  3. Sep 2

    Why Purpose Is So Hard For Gen Z

    🎟️ Become a LinkedIn Baddie (Join the waitlist) https://christina-aaliyah.myflodesk.com/linkedinwaitlist?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=description i spent years chasing this concept called ikigai. that concept where the four circles that overlap - something that pays you - something you're good at - something the world needs - something you love. i was convinced that if i could just find where all four circles met, my life would be perfect. so naturally as a type A, overahieving girlie i became a doctor. i checked all the boxes. i had my ikigai. but i very quickly realised, this was NOT my life's purpose because finding your purpose doesn't actually fix everything like everyone says it does. just because you do what you love doesn't mean the rest of your life is going to be perfect. you can be good at your job, get paid well, help people who need you, and still hate it. because there's always going to be deadlines you don't like, colleagues that drain you, pressure that weighs you down, and sacrifice that costs more than you expected. this video is about how we're thinking about purpose completely wrong. we're told to find our ikigai and everything will fall into place. i think what we actually need is meaning. purpose is what so manny people chase but meaning is the small moments that give you a real sense of fulfillment. a conversation with someone that actually mattered. helping someone when they needed it. connecting with a friend. those tiny ingredients that make life feel worth living. that's what gave me the idea for The Kitchen Theory i didn't realize until i quit: life is always going to be stressful. there's always going to be something to worry about. you're always going to have ups and downs. so instead of waiting for the stress to end, instead of waiting for the perfect job to fix everything, maybe the answer is learning how to find joy in the midst of the chaos. i spent so many years counting down. counting down to sixth form, to university, to graduation, to becoming a doctor, to quitting my job. always waiting for the next thing to finally make me feel relieved. and it took me quitting to realize i was missing my actual life while i was waiting for it to start.but what do you think do you have a purpose?or are you just finding ways to make life feel more meaningful? 0:00 Intro 2:08 Your Job =/= Ikigai 7:22 The Kitchen Theory 11:07 My Purpose Cozy Meet Ups w/ our community London → https://christina-aaliyah.myflodesk.com/meet Manchester → https://christina-aaliyah.myflodesk.com/manchester 🌱 sign up to my newsletter https://christina-aaliyah.myflodesk.com/newsletter 💌 contact: info@christinaa-aaliyah.com

  4. Aug 16

    I quit my job as a doctor 6 months ago (update)

    🎟️ Become a LinkedIn Baddie (Join the waitlist) https://presellstudio.short.gy/ytdescription ⭐️ Cozy Meet Ups w/ our community London → https://christina-aaliyah.myflodesk.com/meet Manchester → https://christina-aaliyah.myflodesk.com/manchester 🌱 sign up to my newsletter https://christina-aaliyah.myflodesk.com/newsletter 0:00 intro 3:14 work life balance 4:43 social life 8:24 earnings 13:12 purpose 21:20 what’s next 💌 contact: info@christinaa-aaliyah.com

  5. Jul 29

    i'm done playing it safe in dating

    ⭐️FREE Quarter Life Clarity WorkbookGrab yours here → https://christina-aaliyah.myflodesk.com/qlc🌱 sign up to my newsletterhttps://christina-aaliyah.myflodesk.com/newsletter💌 contact: info@christinaa-aaliyah.com

  6. Jun 15

    The Art of Wasting Money In Your 20s

    ⭐️FREE Money Print Workbook Grab yours here → https://christina-aaliyah.myflodesk.com/moneyprint 0:00 intro 2:51 what is wasting money? 08:08 - What I'm planning to 'waste' money on 💌 contact: christinaa@makrwatch.com

  7. May 27

    i’m retiring from dating

    Cozy Corner Events in London: https://christina-aaliyah.myflodesk.com/meet 0:00 intro 3:14- men are leftover 4:28 - soulmates 7:00 - the more you need a guy in your life the more you will end up settling 8:13 - changing for men 10:30 - taking a step back 12:07 - spent so much time inside 14:43 - no one is willing to settle 16:06 - improve your social life 💌 contact: christinaa@makrwatch.com

  8. Apr 1

    Before You Quit Your Job, Watch This

    Should you quit your job? If you are wondering should I quit my job without a backup plan or feeling stuck in a job you hate, this video breaks down exactly what you need to consider before quitting your job. This is especially relevant if you are burnt out, unhappy at work, or going through a quarter-life crisis.In this video, I share the 6 most important things to consider before quitting your job, based on my experience leaving a stable career to build a life that actually aligns with my values. The truth is, just because you are unhappy at work does not always mean it is time to quit.We talk about career clarity, job dissatisfaction, burnout, and how to know if you are in the wrong job or just going through a difficult season. The goal is to help you make a decision you will not regret.If you have been searching for:how to know when to quit your jobshould I leave my job if I am unhappycareer change advice in your 20sthis video will give you clarity.👯 discordjoin here → https://discord.gg/CuZrjBR4Dn⭐️ free 'Cringe to Confident' workbook grab yours here https://christina-aaliyah.myflodesk.com/ctc📖 my ebookGrab 'Stop Shrinking Start Living' here → https://christina-aaliyah.com/🌱 sign up to my newsletterhttps://christina-aaliyah.myflodesk.com/newsletter💌 contact: christinaa@makrwatch.com

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