MATTers of the Mind: Rise to Your Worth

Matt Gerlach
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I’m Matt Gerlach—high-performance coach, lifestyle entrepreneur, author, speaker, and trauma survivor. Before healing, I was misaligned, numbing my feelings and obsessing about work and money. Now, my life is aligned and fulfilling, and my partner and I just started our surrogacy journey. After healing and growing my business to $1M annually, I coach high-achievers battling shame, anxiety, and burnout to create lives of abundance, fulfillment, and alignment. On this podcast, I'll guide you through self-discovery, healing, and personal growth with practical tools to unlock your full potential.

  1. 12/23/2024

    Here’s How You Can Celebrate Your Progress! Embrace Your Journey

    Let’s take a look at the importance of recognizing and celebrating your achievements, even when the year hasn't gone as planned. In this episode, I reflect on my 2024 and share valuable lessons on personal growth and resilience. 📌 Let’s discuss: - It’s important to reflect on progress and let go of expectations. - Embrace change in a rapidly evolving world to help ease anxiety - Letting go of what you HAD in order to give yourself what you NEED - Why you must learn to have faith when making a big change - Most importantly, celebrate for continuing to show up and do the work Timestamps: 00:00 Celebrate your 2024 progress. 04:31 Empowering others to pursue meaningful career changes. 09:17 Faith and non-attachment unlock true potential. 11:27 Embrace the process, improving writing and physical health. 16:51 Life's journey is to embrace challenges and growth. 17:54 Embrace obstacles confidently with financial planning. 20:59 Keep progressing, enjoy the journey, be kind. Start creating your dream life with my 6-Step Guide. 📅 Join me weekly for more insights and transformative advice. Visit my website, sign up for my blog, or schedule a free one-on-one coaching call! GET HOLD OF ME ⁠Website⁠ ⁠Free coaching call⁠ ⁠Blog⁠ ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠TikTok⁠ ⁠LinkedIn⁠

    20 min

  2. 12/16/2024

    Learn to Love Yourself: 5 Ways To Change Your Life

    How much do you love yourself? Curious about how self-love can transform your life? In this episode, I share actionable insights and practical steps to help you achieve greater fulfillment and alignment in both your personal and professional life. 📌 Let’s discuss: - The significance of self-love in personal and professional success. - Overcoming childhood trauma and limiting beliefs. - The power of introspection and getting to know yourself. - Practical methods for self-exploration, like journaling and talking to yourself. - How vulnerability and authenticity can strengthen relationships and personal growth. Timestamps: 00:00 Overcame burnout and to find fulfillment. 03:58 Writing helps us uncover inner wisdom and identify obstacles. 07:22 Understand personal barriers to self-love and assertiveness. 12:04 Childhood trauma is common; understanding is the key to healing.  17:07 Growth through honesty strengthens bonds in relationships. Start creating your dream life with my 6-Step Guide. 📅 Join me weekly for more insights and transformative advice. Visit my website, sign up for my blog, or schedule a free one-on-one coaching call! GET HOLD OF ME ⁠Website⁠ ⁠Free coaching call⁠ ⁠Blog⁠ ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠TikTok⁠ ⁠LinkedIn⁠

    19 min

  3. 12/09/2024

    The Power of Setting Boundaries: 3 Actionable Steps to Improve Your Life

    In this episode, you'll gain practical tools and actionable steps to start setting boundaries or enhancing your existing skills. By learning how to say no and prioritize your needs, you'll create a more balanced, fulfilling life where you can truly thrive. 📌 Let’s discuss: - The importance of saying no to prioritize yourself - Strategies to start and strengthen boundary-setting skills - The impact of boundary-setting on relationships and personal well-being - Common misconceptions about boundary-setting and how to overcome them - How to practice boundary-setting in a compassionate and effective manner Timestamps: 00:00 Boundary issues affecting self-advocacy skills. 03:56 We prioritize self-care by learning to set boundaries. 07:08 Setting boundaries prioritizes ourselves and impacts our lives positively. 12:34 Setting boundaries should start small but build gradually. 14:38 Setting boundaries energizes pursuing personal goals. 16:44 Healthy relationships consist of balance and compromise. Start creating your dream life with my 6-Step Guide. 📅 Join me weekly for more insights and transformative advice. Visit my website, sign up for my blog, or schedule a free one-on-one coaching call! GET HOLD OF ME ⁠Website⁠ ⁠Free coaching call⁠ ⁠Blog⁠ ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠TikTok⁠ ⁠LinkedIn⁠

    20 min

  4. 12/02/2024

    Why It’s Okay to Be Imperfect: 5 Ways to Forgive Yourself and Break Free from Your Past

    Ever wondered about the role of forgiveness in your own healing? It plays a powerful part in overcoming trauma and your personal growth. If you’ve ever felt held back by your past or struggled with the pressure to be perfect, this episode is tailored for you. You’ll find out how embracing your imperfections can alleviate the emotional and physical burdens from your past and lead you to a more fulfilling and authentic life. 📌 Let’s discuss: - The imperfect effect on adulthood - Understanding and acknowledging past trauma - The health consequences linked to unresolved traumas - The significance of forgiving others and oneself - How embracing imperfections fuels authentic life fulfillment Timestamps: 00:00 Forgiveness's power can heal past trauma for growth. 05:36 Childhood trauma can lead to self-blame and perfectionism. 08:16 Forgiving oneself is crucial for self-acceptance. 10:39 Forgiving others can help us forgive ourselves. 14:57 Embracing forgiveness and change in life's journey. Start creating your dream life with my 6-Step Workbook. 📅 Join me weekly for more insights and transformative advice. Visit my website, sign up for my blog, or schedule a free one-on-one coaching call! GET HOLD OF ME ⁠Website⁠ ⁠Free coaching call⁠ ⁠Blog⁠ ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠TikTok⁠ ⁠LinkedIn⁠

    17 min

  5. 11/25/2024

    How to Heal from Childhood Trauma and Create a Life You Love

    Ever looked at your life and wondered why, despite your success, something still feels off? For many of us, that weight comes from unresolved trauma. It’s not your fault—but it is your responsibility to heal. Here’s how trauma can have a lasting impact on your life and learn about healing and transformation. 📌 Let’s discuss: - The long-lasting effects of childhood trauma on mental health. - Realizing self-worth and the journey of self-love. - Methods of healing and gaining compassion for oneself. - Establishing boundaries and self-forgiveness. - Cultivating resilience and embracing vulnerability. Timestamps: 00:00 Overcoming past scarcity. 05:13 Choose courage and empathy to heal pain. 09:05 Expressing needs leads to punishment; we're trying to express ourselves but don’t know how. 11:42 Resilience, detachment, and enduring life's challenges. 15:41 Therapy revealed childhood memories, overcoming self-worth issues. 19:15 Building a fulfilling life through coaching and sharing. Start creating your dream life with my 6-Step Workbook. 📅 Join me weekly for more insights and transformative advice. Visit my website, sign up for my blog, or schedule a free one-on-one coaching call! GET HOLD OF ME ⁠Website⁠ ⁠Free coaching call⁠ ⁠Blog⁠ ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠TikTok⁠ ⁠LinkedIn⁠

    23 min

  6. 11/18/2024

    Be Honest With Yourself - Where Are You Right Now? 6 Ways to Take Back Control In Life

    In this episode, I'm sharing some invaluable insights on how to handle life's rapid changes and find your inner balance. I'll walk you through strategies that have not only helped me but can also help you create a more fulfilling and grounded life. 📌 Let’s discuss:  - The importance of being honest with yourself about your feelings  - Victor Frankl's insights on controlling our reactions  - My personal journey through career change and fatherhood  - Techniques for managing overstimulation and staying grounded  - The power of journaling and self-reflection for personal growth Timestamps: 00:00 Holocaust survivor teaches managing grief through reaction in situations. 06:33 Career change for personal growth and fulfillment. 07:13 Embrace growth and overcome limitations to succeed. 10:14 Six-step framework focuses on honest self-assessment. 14:37 Seek relief by avoiding provocation, ending discomfort. Start creating your dream life with my 6-Step Guide. 📅 Join me weekly for more insights and transformative advice. Visit my website, sign up for my blog, or schedule a free one-on-one coaching call! GET HOLD OF ME ⁠Website⁠ ⁠Free coaching call⁠ ⁠Blog⁠ ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠TikTok⁠ ⁠LinkedIn⁠

    15 min

  7. 11/11/2024

    How To Create Your Dream Life: What If You Just Do What You Want?

    If you've ever felt stuck in a job or life that doesn't bring you joy or wondered if there's more out there for you, this episode is for you. Today we look at the concept of doing what I truly want with my life and career. I open up about my own experience, career pivots, anxiety, and the journey to finding true fulfillment. Get inspired and learn that you can take action to start living a life that feels right for you. 📌 Let’s discuss: - The impact of setting boundaries and advocating for myself. - How a traumatic childhood can shape my journey and self-worth. - The importance of discovering and pursuing personal interests and hobbies. - Career pivots and the value of seeking fulfillment over financial gain. - Building self-confidence and trust to overcome anxiety and embrace a fulfilling life. Timestamps: 00:00 I realized my worth and negotiated $1 million 04:34 Living fully by helping entrepreneurs find fulfillment 06:11 Starting a surrogacy with the embryo transfer in six weeks 10:18 I align changes with what feels right internally 14:43 Learning to write has been exciting and fulfilling for me 16:27 Building this business my way, aligned with my passion and the fulfilling life I envision 18:36 Let the journey unfold naturally, finding peace in that Start creating your dream life with my 6-Step Guide. 📅 Join me weekly for more insights and transformative advice. Visit my website, sign up for my blog, or schedule a free one-on-one coaching call! GET HOLD OF ME ⁠Website⁠ ⁠Free coaching call⁠ ⁠Blog⁠ ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠TikTok⁠ ⁠LinkedIn⁠

    17 min

  8. 11/05/2024

    What to Do When You're Burnt Out

    Feeling overwhelmed and burnt out from trying to juggle too many priorities? In this episode of MATTers of the Mind, I open up about my own struggles with burnout and offer actionable insights from Cal Newport's book, "Slow Productivity." Tune in to discover valuable strategies and get inspired to slow down, focus on quality, and create a more balanced, fulfilling life. 📌 Let us discuss: - The reality and causes of burnout. - Introduction to Cal Newport's principles from "Slow Productivity." - The importance of doing fewer things for higher quality work. - Moving at a natural pace and creating space for spontaneity. - Personal anecdotes and strategies for achieving a balanced, fulfilling life. Timestamps: 00:00 I learned to prioritize fewer things. 03:26 Moving with nature means walking, meaningful connections, and quality work. 09:25 We all need guidance to effectively apply knowledge. 11:06 I cleared my schedule, changed scenery, and gained perspective. 15:00 I aligned schedules, slowed down, and achieved impactful accomplishments. Download my ⁠6-Step Guide to Creating Your Dream Life⁠ https://mattgerlach.com/dream-life/ 📅 Join me weekly for more insights and transformative advice. Visit my website, sign up for my blog, or schedule a free one-on-one coaching call! GET HOLD OF ME ⁠Website⁠ ⁠Free coaching call⁠ ⁠Blog⁠ ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠TikTok⁠ ⁠LinkedIn⁠

    15 min
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I’m Matt Gerlach—high-performance coach, lifestyle entrepreneur, author, speaker, and trauma survivor. Before healing, I was misaligned, numbing my feelings and obsessing about work and money. Now, my life is aligned and fulfilling, and my partner and I just started our surrogacy journey. After healing and growing my business to $1M annually, I coach high-achievers battling shame, anxiety, and burnout to create lives of abundance, fulfillment, and alignment. On this podcast, I'll guide you through self-discovery, healing, and personal growth with practical tools to unlock your full potential.

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