Hello & Welcome to the Feng Shui Money Couch where I talk about Feng Shui and other Woo. My name is Laura Carrillo aka The Feng Shui Lady!Today I want to talk about how to Feng Shui Your Way Through Venus & Mercury Retrogrades! There are actually very productive ways to navigate this time period! Instead of getting all doom and gloom about it, I’m going to share some Feng Shui hacks to actually make this fun and fruitful.First let me explain the Astrology of it all. We have an extended period of reflection and revision in the areas of Love & Communication happening until mid December. Yes you heard me correctly. That’s pretty much the rest of the year. And where Venus is concerned it’s been going on since August 31st when Venus entered its pre-shadow retrograde phase.I have personally been leaning into it and am here to help you lean into it too!We officially enter the Venus & Mercury Retrograde on October 3d when Mercury enters its Shadow Retrograde period at the same time that Venus officially goes retrograde.Venus is the planet of Love, beauty, luxury, and aesthetics. So relationships, beauty, and decor undergo an auditing period.Adjacent to Venus being in a state of flux, Mercury the planet of communication and tech also retrogrades. Mercury’s pre-shadow begins on October 4th and officially retrogrades October 24 to November 13 but not out of the post shadow until November 30th. Venus has a longer post retrograde that continues through December 15thWe will all have reasons to reflect on how we are expressing ourselves and communication will require careful consideration all the while our romantic lives and aesthetics will be in flux.Let’s make the most of this time shall we? When Venus is in this state of flux it’s not the time to make permanent decisions about love, or aesthetics. For example not a great time to get married or buy expensive clothing or furniture or get a new hairstyle or cosmetic procedure.Where it comes to fashion, beauty, and decor. This is when we can revisit our fashion past, shop our closets, rotate our art and throw pillows. For example I just rotated my art right before filming replacing my Sun art with My Love is all in honor of Venus and to be on theme with this episode. I also rotated a few of my throw pillows. This zhuzhing was with art and pillows I already own. The idea is to try and work with what you already have or have tried instead of heavily investing in anything brand new.That said, one of the most productive activities you could focus on is auditing your closet. This allows you to focus on the pieces that look best on you and to curate wardrobe capsules for specific occasions and themes.If you do this systematically, you will find and curate your most flattering and elevated wardrobe looks for your best life. Seriously let’s Marie Kondo it! You will also be channeling the energies of Venus in the most positive and aligned way. It’s a big project but a fun one! Listen you have several months to get in there and categorize what needs to be styled, taken to the seamstress, donated, sold, gifted and capsuled.I have been going through my own clothes and trying everything single article on to see what is still working for me. I pulled 4 large bags of clothes from my wardrobe so far! I sold and traded at least one bag full and gifted 2. I have one more to go!My work around for shopping during Venus Retrograde is Selling for Trade! Returns & Exchanges also come in handy through December 15th.The clothes I sold and traded at Crossroad’s since August 31st to now ended up garnering me some amazing new additions to my closet without making any big financial investments. Among the standouts that I acquired through trade were a sexy red dress and power skirt with a cute top that I love. Red is a very new revelation to my wardrobe! It is this year’s power color because it’s the year of The Fire Horse and fire element and colors are a great way to channel this energy. I also found the prettiest most cheerful Tiffany blue floral dress. Venus Retrograde can sometimes lead to finding stand out pieces in unusual or low stakes ways. Sometimes you can experiment during this time and later change your mind which is why low stakes is the name of the game. You can also use Poshmark to sell and purchase clothes which is another great work around for Venus Retrograde! The idea is to avoid spending a lot of money on anything. My favorite part of my closet audit so far was the gifting part! I invited a couple girlfriends over, served wine, and let them basically shop my closet edits that hadn’t sold or been traded.One of my friends said she only had like five outfits to her name so it was heartwarming to see her pull an entirely new wardrobe from my left overs. Both of my friends rocked those clothes and it made a real impact for them. They both ended up with clothes they could wear for work and business as well as pieces they could apply to their social and romantic lives. It was really fun and rewarding to watch them play dress up. You can re-home your former clothes by selling, donating or gifting them. Gifting allows you to know who will be living with and loving your former clothes!I highly recommend this type of exchange. It’s good Karma for your wardrobe in a pay it forward kind of way! The universe will reward you. It has certainly rewarded me with optimal replacements and energetic space.You truly can use this time to refine your wardrobe without breaking the bank. Even if you end up technically with less clothes, you will have a way better wardrobe!Without all the clutter of clothes that don’t suit you, your best looks can now get the attention they deserve! I found this dress in the back of my closet sadly being ignored and now she’s front and center! This is also a Feng Shui Relationship Hack. If you are single like myself and your closet is overflowing with clothes like mine was, then there’s no room energetically for a partner. If you edit about 25% of your closet to make some space this will help magnetize and invite a new lover into your life. Sometimes less is more.Let me tell you it’s a worthwhile task and something you can sink your teeth into these next couple months while Venus retrogrades for an extended period of time.While dating anyone new is a little tricky right now with Venus in Scorpio and Retrograde. It’s advisable to focus instead on feathering your nest to make space for love for when the time is right. For those already in a relationship, it’s a good time to cultivate it and work on any relationship kinks so to speak.Venus in Scorpio is kinda like channeling Glenn Close’s character in Fatal Attraction. No bueno… If you do meet someone new during this time, just pace yourself and the relationship. Allow it to unfold with greater clarity in December.My advice to my single ladies; invest in some adult toys to keep your sanity in tact until December 15th when Venus finally gets her mojo back. A healing form of tantra in the meantime would be to harness the sexual energy you experience when you play with your “toys” as you envision your future partner. Venus retrograde asks us to take stock of our relationship patterns and release the ones that no longer serve us through some form of therapy, or perhaps journaling. Your bedroom is where the Magic Happens in your relationships so another productive use of this time is to Feng Shui it to uncover any energetic blocks to love. My Bedroom Feng Shui course is perfect for that and I will include a link in the show notes for you.Listen, I’m actually considering doing some past life regression with a therapist during this time to explore my relationship patterns across previous lives… I’ll circle back here on that of course.Ok, let’s talk wardrobe capsules! You can curate a dating wardrobe and build a capsule for love and all your other activities. I actually just built and photographed capsules for dating, networking, holiday parties, and an exotic vacation etc. I’m not kidding! This takes time and energy but it’s a lot of fun and a very productive use of this time. Having curated picture albums of your wardrobe allows you to pick out an outfit from your wardrobe capsules based on what you have going on that day! No more staring at your closet in a daze and wondering what to wear. This creates a system of dressing with intention that feels like online shopping from your closet that you can do from your phone. You can pick out your outfit while you’re doing your hair and make up from your vanity or while still in bed planning your day ahead. I now have all my clothes styled, pictured and stored in capsule albums on my phone. Whenever I purchase something new it gets styled, photographed and added to a capsule. I’m considering offering this as a service where I assist women and I either come over or FaceTime with you to systematically audit your closet and apply the aforementioned systems so you can shop your own closet as I just described. I will also teach you the energetics of your clothes and how they can serve you as a manifesting tool. I’d love any feedback you guys have on this. I’m currently in the beta testing phase…The Creation of certain capsules for future activities like a Dating or Vacation capsule actually serves as a manifesting ritual. You can create a wardrobe for the life you are calling in. When it arrives you are now dressed for the part that you have been preparing for and cultivating through your intentions, actions and projections! That’s really all that manifesting is. Aligning yourself with your desires.Clothes are how you advertise yourself and the role you want to play. You can genuinely use them as a manifesting tool! In pragmatic terms think of your wardrobe as your biggest sales and marketing tool. You are the billboard! If you want to explore the energetics of clothes further, check out my new Dress To Manifest downloadable