Reclaiming Destiny

Power Angel Media

Reclaiming Destiny is a show for all those that know they are destined for more! Hosted by author, entrepreneur, life coach, and motivational speaker, Cici Stephen, each episode will dive deeper into the issues and topics that can impact most of our daily lives and have a lingering effect on our purpose. Come join us on the path to reclaiming our destiny, as we begin to challenge the people, places, and things that dare to stand in our way.

  1. Loving in the Dark: The High Cost of Secret Relationships

    MAR 25

    Loving in the Dark: The High Cost of Secret Relationships

    There is nothing concealed that will not be disclosed, or hidden that will not be made known.  What you have said in the dark will be heard in the daylight, and what you have whispered in the ear in the inner rooms will be proclaimed from the roofs. - (Luke 12:2-3)   Today's episode dives into the reality of "loving in the dark," exploring secret (DL) relationships, why people hide, the emotional toll of secrecy, and how those dynamics affect trust and personal growth. Drawing on personal stories and practical insight, Cici urges listeners to seek openness, self-worth, and healthier expressions of love.   Lyrics to Love In The Dark: By Adele https://genius.com/Adele-love-in-the-dark-lyrics    Resources Mentioned https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-the-name-of-love/202603/why-do-single-women-prefer-affairs-with-married-men  https://www.bbc.com/bbcthree/article/689c930b-f8c6-4bfe-afab-bc0488125f55 https://relationship2021.medium.com/what-single-men-get-when-they-date-married-women-59ec91eb0bbd     Podcasts Referenced In This Episode     https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/the-truth-about-soulmates/      Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times https://linktr.ee/cicistephen    Connect With Us Website: www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com Email: feedback@reclaimingdestinypodcast.com  Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/reclamingdestiny.bsky.social  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@reclaimingdestiny

    20 min
  2. Cultivating Healthy Relationships

    MAR 18

    Cultivating Healthy Relationships

    In this episode, we delve into the essential elements of building and maintaining healthy relationships, whether with family, friends, romantic partners, or colleagues. Our discussion highlights the importance of focusing on ourselves as the foundation for strong connections. We explore how healing from past experiences, setting and respecting boundaries, taking accountability for our actions, practicing honesty, and setting reasonable expectations all play a crucial role in nurturing relationships that are supportive and fulfilling. Self-Focus as the Starting Point: Learn why prioritizing your own growth and well-being positively impacts every relationship in your life. Healing: Discover strategies for acknowledging and addressing past wounds to prevent them from negatively influencing your current connections. Boundaries: Understand how to set healthy limits, communicate them clearly, and respect those of others to create safe and balanced interactions. Accountability: Find out why taking responsibility for your actions and reactions is essential for trust and mutual respect. Honesty: Uncover the power of open and sincere communication in deepening bonds and resolving conflicts. Reasonable Expectations: Learn how to set and communicate realistic expectations to foster understanding and reduce disappointment. Tune in for practical tips and heartfelt insights that will empower you to cultivate relationships that bring joy, support, and growth to your life. Resources Mentioned 3 Ways to Cultivate Healthy Relationships Guide   Podcasts Referenced In This Episode https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/setting-healthy-boundaries/  https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/toxic-friendships/  https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/the-truth-about-soulmates/  https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/surviving-traumatic-childhoods/    Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times https://linktr.ee/cicistephen    Connect With Us Website: www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com Email: feedback@reclaimingdestinypodcast.com  Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/reclamingdestiny.bsky.social  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@reclaimingdestiny

    16 min
  3. Setting Healthy Boundaries

    MAR 11

    Setting Healthy Boundaries

    Welcome to today’s episode, where we dive deep into the topic of setting healthy boundaries, one of the most essential yet misunderstood self-care skills. If you’ve ever struggled to say “no” or felt overwhelmed trying to protect your time and energy, this episode is for you. Episode Highlights Understanding Boundaries vs. Rules: We recap a thought-provoking episode of Checking In with Michelle Williams, featuring Dr. Raquel Martin. Dr. Martin explains the crucial differences between “rules”—which often feel rigid and controlling—and “boundaries,” which are about personal clarity and self-respect. She shares how boundaries can foster genuine connections without leading to resentment or burnout. Common Misconceptions: We discuss why the word “boundary” can bring up feelings of guilt or fear of conflict, and how reframing boundaries as tools for connection (not separation) can empower us in all our relationships. 5 Ways to Set Healthy Boundaries: Drawing from PositivePsychology.com, we also break down five practical steps anyone can do to set clear boundaries. Takeaways Boundaries aren’t about shutting others out, they’re about showing up authentically and protecting what matters most to you. Learning the difference between rules and boundaries can transform your relationships with others and yourself. Implementing clear, healthy boundaries is a form of self-care that allows you to be more present, kind, and fulfilled. Resources Mentioned Checking In with Michelle Williams featuring Dr. Raquel Martin PositivePsychology.com: How to Set Healthy Boundaries Tune in now to learn how you can start setting boundaries that honor your needs, nurture your relationships, and support your well-being! Podcasts Referenced In This Episode https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/where-healing-meets-liberation/id1539709262?i=1000746047648  https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/leaving-abusive-relationships/   https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/radiating-self-love/  https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/toxic-friendships/  https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/what-are-karmic-relationships/  https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/in-sickness-and-in-health/  https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/loving-ourselves-through-adversity/  Additional Resources  https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/boundaries    Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times https://linktr.ee/cicistephen    Connect With Us Website: www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com Email: feedback@reclaimingdestinypodcast.com  Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/reclamingdestiny.bsky.social  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@reclaimingdestiny

    18 min
  4. Leaving Abusive Relationships

    MAR 8

    Leaving Abusive Relationships

    Content warning: This episode includes discussion of emotional, verbal, psychological, and physical abuse, coercive control, trauma responses, and family estrangement. Important note: This episode is educational and not a substitute for professional medical, mental health, or legal advice. If you are in immediate danger, call local emergency services. If it’s safe to do so, consider contacting a local domestic violence hotline/shelter for confidential safety planning.   In this episode, we talk about what it can look like to leave abusive relationships —moments, cycles, or patterns that keep repeating in a relationship—and how to create safer distance when a relationship shows abusive or toxic tendencies. We focus on practical tools (planning, documentation, boundaries, support networks, and nervous-system regulation) while acknowledging that leaving can be complex, non-linear, and different for every person. We also discuss The Oprah Podcast episode “Oprah Explores the Rising Trend of Going No Contact with Your Family,” and we break down the five trauma responses: Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn, and Flop. Cici also discusses the concept of “spiritually vetting” our most important relationships.   National Domestic Violence Hotline  800-799-7233 or text BEGIN to 88788   Resources/Articles Referenced In This Episode: https://www.thehotline.org/  https://www.apa.org/topics/stress/body  https://www.virtualpsychiatriccare.com/understanding-the-five-fs-of-trauma-fight-flight-freeze-fawn-and-flop  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abuse    Podcasts Referenced In This Episode:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/oprah-explores-the-rising-trend-of-going-no-contact/id1782960381?i=1000738306637  https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/the-truth-about-soulmates/  https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/toxic-friendships/    Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times https://linktr.ee/cicistephen    Connect With Us Website: www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com   Email: feedback@reclaimingdestinypodcast.com  Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/reclamingdestiny.bsky.social  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@reclaimingdestiny

    31 min
  5. Toxic Friendships

    FEB 18

    Toxic Friendships

    "Faithful are the wounds of a friend; profuse are the kisses of an enemy" (Proverbs 27:6) ESV   "Real friendship isn't about fun. It's about depth. It's about the people who stay when life isn't easy to show up for. That kind of friendship is rare." - Robert Dial Jr.   In this episode, we dive deep into the topic of toxic friendships, what they are, how to recognize them, and why breaking free can be so challenging. Our host shares candid personal stories about past toxic friendships, offering insight into the emotional impact and the lessons learned along the way. We discuss common behaviors that signal toxicity, the importance of setting boundaries, and practical strategies for moving forward.   Podcasts Referenced In this Episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mindset-mentor/id1033048640  https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/surviving-traumatic-childhoods/  https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/loving-ourselves-through-adversity/  https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/in-sickness-and-in-health/    Resources: https://www.verywellmind.com/signs-of-a-toxic-friend-8430982  https://lifehopeandtruth.com/relationships/friendship/toxic-friendships/  https://www.businessinsider.com/ended-ghosted-toxic-friendships-feel-happier-2025-2      Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly https://linktr.ee/cicistephen    Connect With Us Website: www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com   Email: feedback@reclaimingdestinypodcast.com  Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/reclamingdestiny.bsky.social  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@reclaimingdestiny

    26 min

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Reclaiming Destiny is a show for all those that know they are destined for more! Hosted by author, entrepreneur, life coach, and motivational speaker, Cici Stephen, each episode will dive deeper into the issues and topics that can impact most of our daily lives and have a lingering effect on our purpose. Come join us on the path to reclaiming our destiny, as we begin to challenge the people, places, and things that dare to stand in our way.