R21.5 x Megan J. Robinson

Megan J. Robinson

helping exhausted Christians (and anyones!) make sense of the bewildering forces that shape our desires, decisions, and behaviors. www.r215coaching.com

  1. 01/10/2025

    From Fleas to Feelings: Understanding Communication Through Symbolic Interactionism

    Today we’re taking a look at human communication: what it is, how it’s studied, and the theories that can help us analyze and improve our own practice. Let’s take this as the start of an occasional series of essays that focus on specific communication theories, and use them to explore and analyze other aspects of human life. Communication is so ubiquitous, we probably don’t even realize how much we signal in every conscious second of every day. Not to mention how much we receive. It’s easy to overlook how pervasive, important, and complex the process and fact of human communication is, because it intertwines with all of human life so completely. It’s as much a part of our existence as the air we breathe. This essay introduces Symbolic Interactionism and its key terms and basic concepts. Host: Megan J. Robinson Linked Resources Website: https://www.r215coaching.com/ Podcast: https://www.r215coaching.com/s/people-watching Dr. Sandra Glahn: https://sandraglahn.com/ Communication Theory as a Field: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Communication_Theory_as_a_Field George Herbert Mead: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/George_Herbert_Mead#Pragmatism_and_symbolic_interactionism Personalism: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personalism Theories of Human Communication: https://tinyurl.com/communicationtheories The Age of Surveillance Capitalism: https://tinyurl.com/surveillancecap This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.r215coaching.com

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  2. 09/14/2024

    "It's the Rhetoric, Stupid."

    Greetings, my dear ghosts and ghouls!! We approach my absolute favorite season of the year: the most mysterious and kooky, the spookiest, the creepiest, the Nightmare Before Christmas! Because Halloween is my Christmas, and I will walk in its darklight as long I’m able. But we’re not here to discuss the happ-happiest season of all. On with the show! Writers love having written AND being read. Who else needs to read this today? The Economic Rhetoric of Desire I’ve been thinking a lot recently about economics, a great surprise, seeing as I legit used to have panic attacks at the thought of interacting with numbers at all. But, as I continue to think about what personal formation looks like in contemporary Western society, I’m realizing that it’s not enough to look at psycho-emotional aspects of growth. I also need to understand the socio-cultural, political, and economic conditions in which we grow as well, those things that comprise our habitus. Not to mention, “the economy” looms large in our collective psyche and public discourse right now. Everyone feels that the “rent is too damn high,” that the rich grow richer, and the poor grow forgotten. The sense looms over us that the promises of the Western experiment no longer apply. When you see #Capitalism attached to a justifiable critique of our current structures, it sounds like a call to try something different. And yet, when I see that (or any other) social hashtag, I frequently feel unsettled. It’s not from the acknowledgment of the very real exploitative effects of these systems. And Lord knows we’ve lived with the capitalist experiment long enough to see how it works when pushed to its fullest neoliberal, de-regulated expression. I’ve finally figured out that my discomfort arises from the sense that such hashtags are used as the whole argument, period, full stop. Saying “Hashtag Fact” does little else but shut down the conversation, blaming the system without exploring the roots of the system in the first place. So, I’d like to explore how human systems come into being, using the lens of economies and markets, and consider what this communicates about our self-understanding. You may have gathered by now that I hold Christian commitments, which means that I see human nature in certain ways. Since this isn’t a biblical exegesis account, I’ll spare you the details, but here’s the short version: I understand that humanity was designed to delight in God and reflect his glory by being in relationship with him. We are created to seek out, to desire the abundant good that is God himself. I also understand that this good, beautiful impulse of human desire is corrupted, warped: we pursue anything and everything but God, and find glory in the reflection, not the source. This twisted desire impedes our ability to befriend God and to be in vulnerable relationship with others. Consequently, we make sure that our systems and structures reinforce that corruption and obstruction. Every single human system, whether political, social, or economic, rests, as Daniel Bell suggests, on a foundation of “philosophical convictions, presuppositions about the nature of reality, about what is real, about what people are, and how they relate to one another.” These systems are fundamentally “powered by human desire.” And economic systems especially are “about the labor of human desire and how it makes use” of the world around us, how it produces (often in excess) the goods and services that we need to survive and relate to each other. Bell’s book The Economy of Desire explores the role that economic systems play in ordering our convictions and presuppositions, our ultimate desires. He suggests that, rather than asking “does capitalism work?” (which is the question implied by #Capitalism), we should ask “what work does capitalism do?” Economic systems train us to want these things and not those things, to accept specific relationships between specific people and ignore other options. These systems shape our behaviors to pursue goods and services in such socially-defined and acceptable ways as to reinforce and perpetuate all of the above. This may seem like a lot of pressure to put on an economy. Yet I’ve come to believe that desire is the organizing principle, the motivating factor, of human life. If, as Foucault and Deleuze suggest, desire is a “restless, productive, and creative” force in the world, and if the Christian scriptures accurately describe the whole of human life as one of seeking and desiring, then… How we understand reality, how we structure the discipline of desire, and how we attend to the formation of our selves—in short, how we come to love and want the things we do…this means every single system that humans establish functions to communicate and propel these assumptions forward. I am slowly (so very slowly) reading through Christopher Watkin’s Biblical Critical Theory, in which he offers a short discussion of two kinds of desire: consumption and intimacy. Consumption, Watkin says, obeys the laws of scarcity, merit, and performance; it is motivated by debt. In contrast, intimacy is motivated by thankfulness, and characterized by abundance, bounty, gift, and grace. Watkin suggests that consumption and intimacy signal different paradigms of excess, of more-than, which appear differently depending on the paradigm. The gift economy flows from divine generosity and gratuitous abundance. The market economy arises from a surplus of overproduction, overconsumption, and the limitless drive for profit. One results in more-than-enough; the other results in never-enough. If we make choices based on the assumption that reality is a generous gift that we receive and share, we can begin to create virtuous cycles, systems of care for the other and concern for the common good that connect us in community. If we make choices based on the assumption that reality is comprised of limited resources to meet unlimited wants, we begin to create conglomerates of self-interested individuals constantly competing for scarce goods and scarcer relationships. There are only ever these two economies: the gift economy and the market economy. And within those economies, we create either immortal horrors or everlasting splendors, as C.S. Lewis once wrote. I’ve begun to realize that this is part of what we miss in using #Capitalism or #Socialism. All human economic systems and structures are exploitative and dehumanizing. We cannot exchange one such system for another and expect any better outcomes. What we rightly protest, though, when we use #Capitalism is the divorce, the uncoupling (conscious or otherwise) of economic systems from any sense of morality or virtue. And what the gift economy does, among other things, is to give us language to challenge “a market that is untethered from virtue, from the common good,” a market that values persons by the same “criteria as commodities—marketability, profitability, and consumability.” When we see the depletion, destitution, and destruction of entire regions and ways of living, we protest an economy that has shaped us to think that there exists only one solution: to rationally maximize self-interest, to rip up the roots of our affections and relations, to live and work within the machines and systems of production that actively strive against our divinely-created and oriented desires. In our current hashtag moment, we find ourselves caught in the riptide of choices established centuries ago. In some respects, we are at the mercy of invisible forces and powers against which we can hardly contend. But in other ways, we have the opportunity to imagine different futures, to illuminate deeper realities than we’ve trained ourselves to see, to communicate new ways of being than we’ve so far formed ourselves to want. For, as Bell points out, the victory that capitalism claims is “always unstable, tenuous, contested,” because desire is a restless and creative force. “At any time and in any space, alternative and oppositional forms can be at work.” And if that’s the case, we have before us always the invitation to set aside ceaseless consumption and to receive abundant intimacy. Who knew economics could say so much? The Stages of Rhetoric I didn’t watch the Harris-Trump debate, but I have caught some commentary and clips in the days since. I thought I’d dust off my communication hat and evaluate what I’ve been seeing since Harris entered the presidential race. To be clear, I am looking at the rhetorical strategies and styles of the candidates, not the substance or merits of their communication. But, first a little theory…just a smidge… Sociologist Erving Goffmann proposed a theory of communication called impression management, which suggests that in any given situation, we perform or put on a presentation. Depending on the circumstances, we have to decide how we position ourselves, what we want to say, and how we want to act. We define those circumstances based on our “frame analysis,” i.e., our framework, which is how we identify and understand the context of the events in which we participate. Goffman’s theory also includes the idea of front stage performance and back stage construction. The front stage is what others see; the backstage is what only you see. And part of performing effectively on the front stage is also knowing which stage you’re on, that is, which frame you’re using to make sense of things. Got it? Kewl. On to the candidates! Ever since Trump entered the political spotlight, his interlocutors have tried to figure out how to rumble with him. Some sought to out-play the player: mimicking his style, tone, and vocabulary, trying to trade punch for punch. Some tried to stay on message, either attacking his weaknesses or emphasizing their policies or suitability for office. Others tried to shout louder and break through the noise, brin

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  3. 07/20/2024

    Visions of Creaturely Vulnerability

    Hello, hello! It feels like we have lived decades in the last few days, and up is down, and life is weird, and I hardly know whether to scratch my watch or wind my butt. Yet I have two essays for your consideration, and I hope you’ll find something interesting or helpful in these reflections. Apple Wants to Get Under Your Skin, by John Fechtel What is this about? Fechtel uses the recent launch of Apple’s Vision Pro virtual reality goggles to explore how devices enter our material culture. He asks us to consider what such devices both say about our past and reveal about our present. Fechtel explores how designers keep trying to reduce or eliminate the “interface problem,” i.e., the friction experienced between “the user’s intent and the device’s function.” The Apple Vision Pro, with its reading of sensory organs, aims to increase the closeness of our devices to our physical bodies. This “interface solution” in turn highlights how the (often surgical) body modification trend pulls us ever closer to devices implanted within our bodies. Fechtel observes that we’ll never fully transcend the limits of the human body. We’ll always experience some inconvenient friction in using our devices. But more importantly, he notes that this laser-focus on solving the “interface problem” suggests that we have solved for the wrong variable. Rather than interrogating the expectations we place on our devices, we have concluded that our bodies are the real problem and must be eliminated. Fechtel concludes by calling for a recovery of our sense of the “indispensability of the human body,” which is unavoidably “fragile, aging, and imperfect, constantly in need of care, maintenance, resources, and rest.” What can we learn? As someone who has worn adaptive/assistive technology since the age of five, and would find it difficult and uncomfortable to be without it, I find the notion of adding yet more mediating hardware to my body…unwelcome. When my adaptive device works, I navigate life with, if not confidence, at least some measure of assurance that I can do what I need to do. When my device doesn’t work, I am exhausted by the stress and anxiety of not knowing what will happen from moment to moment. Let’s be honest: when any of my devices don’t work as I expect them to, I am exhausted (usually from frothing at the mouth in incoherent rage). The sense of a fragile, imperfect body is never far from me. Such creaturely limits ought and should invite us to humility, to the recognition of ourselves as finite and dependent. That we constantly take this invitation as an insult is perhaps one of the great tragedies to shape our time. Writers love having written AND being read. Who else needs to read this today? Vision Con, by Mike Sacasas What is this about? Because it’s hardly a newsletter entry if I don’t reference Mike Sacasas in some way, his essay on the Apple Vision Pro pairs nicely with Fechtel’s. Sacasas observes that these entries into our material culture present new “fronts” in our culture wars: between those who sense that we ought retain our creatureliness, and those who run toward our self-machining with open arms. Sacasas references the quote by Wendell Berry that I riffed on last week—about choosing to live as creatures or machines—expanding on that thought by emphasizing the scale, pace, and ubiquity of our technologies. Whether it’s instantaneous communication, project management software to increase efficiency, or 24/7 global news, many of our technologies ask us to move faster, produce more, and be elsewhere—no matter what. Though it’s the amazing ingenuity of the human mind and skill that created these technologies, somehow we have also created our current dominant (and dominating) socio-cultural systems. These systems train us all to feel that “the limitations inherent in our embodiment are merely obstacles to be overcome.” And yet, in a (probably reluctant) nod to, ooh I don’t know our humanity, the Apple goggles can project a simulacrum of the wearer’s eyes onto the screen. What can we learn? While both essays focus on the new VR goggles, the point in both is really less about the goggles, and more about the zeitgeist represented therein. If each of us continually and consistently withdraws into our own private virtual world, what common world do we—can we—make with one another? If we cannot gaze into the other’s eyes because we move too fast, how can we ever come to know that person? How can we, as both Sacasas and Fechtel encourage, embrace and appreciate our creaturely limitations if we continually create and reinforce a hatred of them? The Unbearable Vulnerability of Being The word that keeps coming to mind as I read these essays is “vulnerability.” Sometimes, when I think I know what a word means, I like to go to the dictionary to find out if I’m right. I’ve been surprised more often than I care to admit. I’m glad I got it right this time. Anyway, Merriam-Webster’s defines vulnerability as that which is “capable of being physically or emotionally wounded, or open to attack or damage.” I am, as mentioned earlier, intimately familiar with bodily limits and imperfections. For all its inconveniences, struggles, and outright wrongness, this is the singular gift of disability: it keeps our vulnerability, our dependency, front and center. This is, of course, why disability makes us so uncomfortable. We cannot overcome the obstacle of our finitude. We cannot control it. We cannot control ourselves. Vulnerability equals uncontrollability. A friend with a pre-teen daughter recently told me about the protocols of interacting on SnapChat. I don’t remember all the details, but it involves incremental levels of self-presentation, in which viewers rarely, if ever, see the full face of the person on the screen. To see even half the face constitutes a significant connection, signaling that the viewer is welcomed into a quasi-intimate relationship (that yet remains bounded within the communication tool). Setting aside how old this made me feel, it strikes me how we create technologies that enable us to buffer ourselves from wounding, from attacks and damages. We create systems that keep us from fully acknowledging our vulnerabilities, from creating a common world together, from loving each other through our dependence on each other. We have come to see our bodies as just one more “point of aggression” in the world, to use Hartmut Rosa’s phrase, and our late-modern response is to conquer, master, or exploit them somehow. On the individual, cultural, institutional, and structural levels, we create the message that we can obtain power without practice, connection without persons, and growth without limits. Then we create the tools that help us do so. We’re very good at this. If we didn’t have VR goggles, we’d use sunglasses. If we lacked smartphones, we’d use the television. If we could only use the postal service to send letters, we simply wouldn’t write them. And on, and on, until the beginning of history, when some man, some woman, hid their faces within a dark wood, refusing to come out and be seen, known, loved in all their vulnerability. C.S. Lewis said it well, in his book The Four Loves: “Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket, safe, dark, motionless, airless, it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. To love is to be vulnerable.” I’d like to extend an invitation to all of us. The next time we’re tempted to focus on our screen while waiting in line at the coffee shop or bank, pause and look up. Make the effort to look one person in the face, in the eyes, and smile. Genuinely, fully, and honestly. Maybe it’ll make a difference to them; maybe it won’t. But it’s a practice that will definitely change us. Let’s be hopeful, creative, and wise—together. Shalom, Support Want to leave a tip? You can do that here. You can also support my work through annual or monthly patronage subscriptions. You can also subscribe so you don’t miss an issue. Let’s work together! I offer practice-based workshops, designed to empower participants to improve their mastery of the chosen topic and skill beyond our time together. My goal is to help individuals and groups cultivate priorities, practices, and structures that are purpose-focused, replicable, and sustainable over a lifetime. Visit me online to learn more! This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.r215coaching.com

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  4. 08/21/2023

    May I Have Your Attention, Please?

    Administrative Note After August 2023, current subscribers will be migrated to a new email service provider, and all future emails will be sent via ConvertKit. Current and new subscribers will continue to receive two emails per month, but for the time being, they’ll focus on curations more than explorations. (Explorations aren’t going anywhere: they’ll just be published on a “when they’re done” schedule. Expect the unexpected!) Future subscribers (join the fun!) can sign up at https://r215coaching.com/. Background Reading * 8 Curations & 2 Videos for July 2023 * The Assimilating Database: Is Resistance Futile? * 7 Curations, 2 Videos & a Mind Map for August 2023 * Our Technologies of Attention: Narrative & Database in Tension New Video! ASSUMED AUDIENCE those seeking to pay attention to life, the universe, and what matters Supporting This Work This newsletter free to all and is sustained by the patronage of those who value the work and have the means to support it on a monthly or annual basis. If that’s you, check out the page to become a patron. If you just liked this issue and want to leave a tip, you can do so here. Intro Welcome back to our exploration of identity, authenticity, and technologies of attention and meaning-making. We’ve been wandering through fields of story and algorithm, of attention, uniqueness, and what it means to develop an authentic identity in the midst of the Database-ification of contemporary life. The core claim of this meandering series is that narratives are the foundation of human identity: a coherent, reliable character sustained over time. The connection of sequential, significant moments into a temporal chain of meaning—a story—is a universal skill and experience of being human, and of becoming ourselves. The question of authenticity that motivated these explorations—what motivates our intense drive toward defining ourselves as authentically unique and uniquely authentic—spawned the framing of Narrative and Database as ways of making sense of life, and for extending who we are into the world. The Borg also appeared as an analogy that helps us understand what happens to narrative sequence when we can no longer cultivate meaningful connections between significant (to us) points of data. Last month, we explored how the Database fractures and subsumes Narrative. We started to question how this affects our capacity for paying attention, and how this sets us up to form and sustain our identities. We further refined our understanding of Narrative and Database as technologies of attention, where: Narrative is a technology that forms our attention toward coherence, reliability, and fidelity. Database is a technology that forms our attention toward instability, fracturing, and contingency. If Narrative is our key technology for attending to and making meaning out of what’s happening around us, for defining and extending who we are into the world, then trying to do this within the predominant environment of the proliferating Database requires us to create ourselves almost ex nihilo. It forces us to cobble together whatever bits of data happen to snag our awareness at the moment so that we can improvise tentative, contingent, and temporary narratives that carry us to the next moment, where we do it all over again with whatever data happens to be in our field of awareness. It requires us to seek out—pay attention to—the unique and the singular (what escapes the Database) as a marker of an authentic identity. This month, I’d like to begin exploring attention. Let’s start with trying to understand what it is. A Glossary Note I’ve decided that, rather than using “data” or “events” or “objects,” I’m going with the word “significance” or “significances” to describe those things that stand out in our minds as worthy of remembering and mentioning. Significances are those objects (whatever their form) that we consciously or subconsciously decide become the anchors upon which we build our narratives (or string our connections and linkages). What is Attention? Let’s begin with a working understanding of attention. I don’t want to be accused of pulling a Humpty Dumpty, so what exactly do we mean when we use this word? Merriam-Webster offers the following definitions: * the act or state of applying the mind to something * a condition of readiness for such attention involving especially a selective narrowing or focusing of consciousness and receptivity So far, I think this is what most of us would say if we got stopped to give a “person on the street” answer. But let’s keep going. In The Wandering Mind, her fascinating survey of how early Christian monks dealt with the problem of distraction, or the lack of attention, Jamie Kreiner observes that they often described it as a mental detour that could sometimes be a good thing. But usually those men and women saw a lack of attention as something you “didn’t want to do, and being drawn into thoughts you didn’t want to have.” Their contemporaries the Stoics called distraction perispasmos (which is just hella fun to say), and located it externally, in the demands, obligations, and administration of daily life. So the problem of attention, or the lack thereof, is an old one, no matter what devices or distractions we have at hand. Leap-frogging ahead a few centuries, nineteenth-century psychologist William James defined attention as “the taking possession by the mind, in clear and vivid form, of one out of what seem several simultaneously possible objects or trains of thought […]. [Attention] implies withdrawal from some things in order to deal effectively with others.” He further observes that, though there exist millions of objects that our senses could potentially perceive, they “never properly enter into [our] experience. Why? Because they have no interest for [us]. [Our] experience is what [we] agree to attend to.” Commenting further on James’ observations, ethicist James Williams and artist-educator Jenny Odell each highlight this emphasis on the human will: the ability to hold the object of our attention in mind by consistently toggling between wandering from and returning to it. Odell suggests that attention also implies alignment, where our minds and even bodies act “in concert and oriented toward the same thing.” In this, James, Odell, and Williams echo those early Christian monks, some of whom thought that the will, though it could be a motivating force for attention, more often fell back on “what was most appealing or expedient or comfortable, rather than what was most beneficial.” If we don’t exert some effort, our attention simply fills up with stuff, following whatever stimuli ping our awareness. We might understand attention being as much like a weather-vane as it is a spotlight. In his conversation with Sean Illing on The Gray Area podcast, Mike Sacasas points out that attention can be thought of in a couple of ways: as (possibly) a spotlight on some object (whether external or internal); or, as an openness to experience, a willing receptivity of potential significances. Sacasas and also Odell highlight the etymology of attention/attending and its roots in the Latin word attendere, which is often translated as “stretching toward” something. This understanding of attention sees it as a form of curiosity, as a means of engagement with or caring for others and the world around us. But there are also different types of attention, because not everything requires the same heightened level or duration of awareness. We can have transitory attention that is “quick, superficial, and often involuntarily provoked,” the “weather-vane” kind (which is a great deal of what we encounter in the world, and what most social media and advertising relies on these days). Or we can also have sustained attention that is “deep, long-lasting, and voluntary,” the “spotlight” kind. Professor Sönke Ahrens has also described focused and floating attention. We engage the former when we’re deeply engaged in analysis or execution, the latter when we’re seeking solutions or experimenting with ideas. We often complain of being distracted because we want to concentrate: on an assignment, a task, a person or event. Here we can see attention as also a matter of desire as much as will: how much do we want to give time and awareness to that object? Distraction can serve as a signal of importance. It’s a good thing to notice cries for help in your immediate environment. Attention begins with awareness, with the sensory or mental impingement of one thing out of a field of possible things. But it’s more than simple awareness. Attention also involves perception and judgement, which serve as filters for agreeing to the experience, for engaging one significance over another. Perception is shaped by who we ourselves are, our interests, preoccupations, and desires - we’ll notice what we’re already predisposed to notice. Then judgement ranks or prioritizes the worth or value of elevating objects of awareness to the level of significances. Attention requires a level of participation from us just as much as it operates on us. So what can we take away from this whirlwind, not at all exhaustive, survey of attention? I think the key insight is that there’s not just one kind or quality of attention, but rather, attention is a multifaceted capacity that helps us engage the world in different ways. It can serve as a spotlight of sustained and focused concentration. We can cultivate it as a posture of alignment, an orientation toward a single goal or activity. It can be an attitude of openness and curiosity toward the world. And it can be a passive field of awareness running in the background, constantly scanning our environment for potential objects. Introducing The Problem of Exploited Attention Tim Wu, in The Attention Merchants, observes that when the ubiqui

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