Ride or Lie

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Ride or Lie started as a rideshare storytelling podcast where wild journeys met unexpected twists. Now, we’re switching lanes and taking on a new ride: Modern Dating.  But why? Because somewhere along the way, we realized we wanted to tell a different story—our own. So now, we’re navigating the world of modern dating, taking you along on the ride and sharing with you what has, and hasn’t worked for us.   From swipes to situationships, red flags to green light moments, we realized that modern dating has been its own kind of journey— crazy, beautiful, unpredictable, and oftentimes, frustrating.   It’s all about facing the hard truths and calling out the lies society—and even we—keep telling ourselves. Because in love and life, you’ve got two choices: Ride or Lie. Welcome to the Ride or Lie Podcast

  1. APR 22

    Charmers, Sugar Daddies & Grown Woman Standards

    This week, Shan and CoCo are keeping it real about dating then vs. now… and how much (or how little) has actually changed. From joking about sugar daddies to questioning whether spinning the block is ever worth it, the conversation takes a deeper turn into how women evolve in what they want, what they tolerate, and what they’re no longer falling for. They reflect on high school dating experiences, the types of men they used to entertain, and how maturity, self-awareness, and life responsibilities have reshaped their standards. And then there’s “Todd.” Inspired by their new micro-drama series Circles of the Ridge, they break down the classic “charmer” archetype… the smooth-talking, overly polished guy who knows exactly what to say and do. The question is: are women still falling for that? Or have we finally learned to see through it? This episode dives into: The idea of “spinning the block” and when (if ever) it makes sense Why charm alone doesn’t hit the same anymore The difference between validation vs. genuine connection How self-awareness impacts the type of partners we attract What actually matters now vs. what used to It’s funny, honest, and a little nostalgic… but ultimately about growth. Because at some point, it’s not about who looks good on paper… it’s about who actually adds value to your life. 📲 Stay Connected Join the conversation and let us know your thoughts: Instagram, Facebook, TikTok: @rideorliepodcast Email: theblinknetwork@gmail.com

    29 min

  2. MAR 24

    Satisfaction vs Fulfillment in Modern Dating

    Has Shan finally found the one? In this episode, Shan and CoCo are joined by Marlon, a close friend of the show, who challenges what we think we know about emotional maturity, intentionality, and modern relationships. After meeting on a dating app and ultimately choosing friendship over romance, Shan found herself experiencing something unexpected with Marlon: consistency, clarity, and the rare feeling of being genuinely seen and wanted...all the things she's been looking for in a partner...so what's the issue?! This conversation dives into: * Why so many people feel unsatisfied in relationships * The difference between being chosen vs truly being wanted * How intentionality separates real interest from excuses * The truth about poly relationships and emotional maturity Marlon shares his perspective as a man living a poly lifestyle, breaking down the difference between satisfaction and fulfillment and what it really takes to show up for the people you care about. If you’ve ever questioned why someone isn’t showing up for you… this episode might give you your answer. Connect with us:  IG/FB/TikTok: @rideorliepodcast Email: info@theblinknetwork@gmail.com

    48 min

  3. MAR 4

    We Weren’t Taught How to Date: How Black Upbringing Shapes Modern Relationships

    Were we ever actually taught how to date, or just how to avoid getting “messed up”? In this layered conversation, Shan and CoCo unpack how black family, culture, generational trauma, and “crisis prevention” shaped what many of us learned about love. Joined by licensed clinical social worker Miesha Rice and Atlanta dating host Vanessa, the group explores why courtship can feel foreign, how dating apps changed accountability, and what it takes to build healthier connections when nobody handed you the blueprint. What You’ll Hear in This Episode Why so many of us were taught what not to do (don’t get pregnant, don’t ruin your future) instead of how to build a healthy relationship How family history, long-term stress, and generational patterns can show up in adult dating choices The “connection vs protection” gap: what was missing from the conversations we needed A real talk breakdown of ghosting, fading out, and the lack of accountability in modern dating The “date them all” debate: keeping options open, communicating expectations, and avoiding rose-colored glasses Why singles mixers and in-person events are trending again (and what they offer that apps can’t) A powerful case for therapy early, including the idea of moderated conversations at the start of dating The Clip That Sparked the Conversation Shan brings in a viral-style perspective on how Black communities are socialized differently around dating, courtship, and “pair bonding,” than their White counterparts sparked by a video that a friend shared with her from @bunmisupreme on Instagram. The conversation expands the idea by adding emotional availability, family modeling (even in two-parent homes), and the long shadow of cultural and historical trauma. Key Takeaways If your only relationship education was avoidance, it makes sense that adult dating can feel confusing, anxious, or high-stakes. “Serious” isn’t assumed anymore. Clarity comes from direct conversations about what dating means to each person. Apps can encourage low-effort behavior. In-person spaces often create more accountability and real chemistry checks. Emotional intelligence matters early. Look for it before you’re already invested. Healing isn’t just personal, it’s cultural. Therapy and guided conversations can help you build a new script. Guest Info Vanessa (Dating Host) Company: Jigsaw Dating (app) Instagram: @popupwithvaness Promo code: VanessaHost10 (10% off first ticket) Miesha Rice, MSW, LCSW-C, LCSW CEO/Founder: Whole Family Healing Group Therapy for individuals and families (ages 6+) Website: www.wholefamilyhealinggroup.com Clip Credit: @bunmisupreme on Instagram What did you learn about dating growing up: connection, protection, or nothing at all? And how is that showing up in your relationships right now? If this episode made you think, send it to a friend who’s “tired of the apps” and trying to date with intention. And connect with us: @RideOrLiePodcast on Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok

    59 min

  4. FEB 11

    Why Are We Really Doing This? Purpose, Mental Health & Choosing Yourself

    In this episode of Ride or Lie, Coco and Shan step away from surface-level conversations and get honest about the question that shapes everything: Why are we really doing this? This is a reflective, vulnerable conversation about purpose, evolution, mental health, and the courage it takes to choose yourself, especially when life doesn’t look the way you imagined it would. Shan opens up about how her “why” has shifted over time, from ambition and entrepreneurship to motherhood, healing, and stability. She shares how becoming a mother reshaped her priorities around mental health, financial security, emotional safety, and self-preservation. This season of her life is about being whole so she can show up fully, not just for her child, but for herself. Coco shares a deeply personal reflection on her own journey, stepping back from distractions, reassessing dating, and choosing alignment over noise. Her “why” is bigger than relationships and external validation. It’s about safety, creativity, integrity, and being able to say, at the end of the day, “I’m proud of myself.” Together, they unpack:  • Mental health and emotional regulation  • Personal growth through pain and transition  • Letting go of distractions that no longer align  • Redefining success beyond relationships and timelines  • What it means to evolve without abandoning who you are The conversation also touches on current events and culture, including reflections on media coverage, loss, and visibility. They reference the public attention surrounding Savannah Guthrie and how empathy, access, and attention show up differently in national news. This episode lands during Black History Month, grounding the discussion in awareness, reflection, and community responsibility. Coco and Shan also acknowledge recent loss in the culture, including the passing of DJ Young Slade, the son of Lil Jon. Connect with us anytime @rideorliepodcast

    35 min

  5. JAN 28

    Swipe Fatigue: Are We Fed Up with the Dating Apps?

    On this episode of the Ride or Lie Podcast, we’re tackling a real struggle in today’s dating world—swipe fatigue. With endless choices, ghosting, and the never-ending cycle of matching but never meeting, or meeting and being severely disappointed,  are we all just burning out on modern dating through app overload? Join us and our special guest co-host, Jarratt Damn, of the It’s About Damn Time podcast, bringing his unfiltered take on modern dating and why so many of us are feeling so exhausted by this app game! What We Cover in This Episode: What swipe fatigue really is and why so many people are feeling it. Why online dating feels like a full-time job—are we even enjoying it anymore? How dating apps may be training us to seek validation rather than real connection. The mental toll of endless swiping: Can we actually date without burning out? What you can do if you’re experiencing dating app burnout. We Want to Hear from You! Are you over the dating apps? Have you ever taken a break from swiping? What’s your biggest struggle with online dating? Drop your thoughts in the comments or visit us on our socials @rideorliepodcast.   Let's ride!

    55 min

  6. JAN 13

    Hello 2026: New Year Energy - Reflections, Growth, and What's Next

    🎉 Happy New Year, Riders! We’re officially stepping into 2026, and we’re so glad you’re here with us. Thank you for riding alongside us through every season, shift, and surprise. This episode is our way of welcoming you back, setting the tone for the year ahead, and grounding ourselves in gratitude, honesty, and intention. Episode Summary: In this first episode of the new year, Shan and CoCo reflect on 2025 and the very different, but equally powerful journeys they each experienced. For Shan, 2025 was a year of major transition, including buying a new home and navigating the loss of a job that ultimately pushed her closer to freedom, clarity, and purpose. For CoCo, it was a year rooted in growth and learning, as she leaned into personal development and creative goals that expanded her vision. Together, the ladies talk about what it means to enter 2026 with intention, excitement, and openness. From Shan’s unexpected discovery of her femininity to CoCo celebrating Shan’s ability to soften, this conversation sets the stage for deeper dialogue, fresh perspectives, and real healing. A new segment is also introduced, along with a preview of what’s coming next: new conversations, new guests, bold topics, and yes… more therapy as the year unfolds. 🔥 What We Cover: Reflecting on the lessons and losses of 2025 Shan’s year of transition, resilience, and awakening CoCo’s season of growth, learning, and creative focus Redefining strength & femininity Introducing a new segment What Riders can expect from Ride or Lie in 2026 🎧 Listen & Subscribe: If you’re new here, welcome. If you’ve been riding with us, thank you. Be sure to subscribe, rate, and review Ride or Lie on your favorite podcast platform. Your support keeps the conversations coming. 🤍 Connect With Us: Instagram: @rideorliepodcast TikTok: @rideorliepodcast Threads: @rideorliepodcast Website: www.rideorlie.com 🚨 Be Part of the Ride: Have a story, a question, or a topic you want us to unpack this year? DM us or reach out through the website. Some of our best conversations start with you.   Have an LOL letter: send it to us at: theblinknetwork@gmail.com  🖤 Our Tagline: In life and love, you have two choices: Ride or Lie.

    23 min

  7. 12/21/2025

    Tis the Season: Naughty, Nice, or Just Wired This Way?

    Happy Holidays Riders! As the year comes to a close, Shan and CoCo get real about the holidays, the pressure to feel “in the spirit,” and what it actually feels like wrapping up the year.  💔 Dating Match Update What ever happened with the New Guy (NG) Shan was feeling even before she matched with Dion from our previous 3-part series? We’re giving an owed update on where things landed, what shifted, and the lessons that came with it. Next the ladies dive into the inspiration behind this episode...a Facebook post got the ladies thinking deeply about the biological differences between men and women and how those differences show up in relationships over time. The post raises some uncomfortable but very real questions: Women are born with a fixed number of eggs and experience hormonal changes that often impact libido through menopause. Men, in many cases, don’t experience the same decline in sexual desire. So what does that mean for long-term monogamy? 🤔 The Big Question Did God design men to have multiple partners? Not as permission to cheat, but as an honest exploration of patterns we see everywhere across cultures, faiths, income levels, and age groups. When love remains but desire shifts, especially as women age and men don’t seem to slow down, who’s wrong… if anyone? Shan and CoCo weigh in with personal insight and of course, differing perspectives. ❤️ A Special Thank You to Our Riders This episode also marks the close of our launch year of the Ride or Lie Podcast, and we want to sincerely thank everyone who listened, shared, commented, and rode with us from day one. Your support made this year possible. And trust… next year we’re coming even harder. Connect with us on all social platforms @rideorliepodcast and via email at theblinknetwork@gmail.com

    31 min

  8. 12/10/2025

    Curiosity, Chemistry, and the Mic Between Us - Part 3

    Curiosity, Chemistry, and the Mic Between Us — Part 3 The moment curiosity finally meets reality. In the finale of this three-part experience, Shan and Dion push the conversation to its deepest point yet. They explore the modern divide between men and women and how AI, social media, and shifting expectations are reshaping the dating landscape. Shan shares why she believes both sexes still fundamentally need each other, while Dion opens up about the lessons that his father’s legacy left on the way he loves and dates. Just before the moment everyone’s been waiting for, they jump into a quick-fire round designed to take them one layer deeper before everything changes. And then… the reveal. For the first time, Shan and Dion see each other’s faces live on the recording. No filters. No profile photos. No assumptions. What do they see? How do they feel? And what happens next? We want to hear from you... Did Shan and Dion have any chemistry?? Chime in on our social pages @RideOrLiePodcast and/or email us ridewithus@rideorliepodcast.com

    20 min
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Ride or Lie started as a rideshare storytelling podcast where wild journeys met unexpected twists. Now, we’re switching lanes and taking on a new ride: Modern Dating.  But why? Because somewhere along the way, we realized we wanted to tell a different story—our own. So now, we’re navigating the world of modern dating, taking you along on the ride and sharing with you what has, and hasn’t worked for us.   From swipes to situationships, red flags to green light moments, we realized that modern dating has been its own kind of journey— crazy, beautiful, unpredictable, and oftentimes, frustrating.   It’s all about facing the hard truths and calling out the lies society—and even we—keep telling ourselves. Because in love and life, you’ve got two choices: Ride or Lie. Welcome to the Ride or Lie Podcast

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    Ride or Lie
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    21
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    Explicit
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