Oblivious Witness

Michelle Neeling
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On the Oblivious Witness podcast, I talk to a new guest every week about the things they've witnessed while travelling around the world, and how those things have made them who they are. michelleneeling.substack.com

  1. Sep 4

    Sandu

    The Man and the Musician Stepping into the presence of Sandu, international tabla player, is a beautiful experience. Sandu is immediately warm, kind and generous, and you can’t help but feel that you’re in the company of someone who cares about who you are. Sandu’s interest in the instrument with which he now travels the world began when he was just six years old. His parents, who were extraordinarily artistic, progressive and open-minded, encouraged his passion, which led to him touring with the tabla from a very young age. But there’s an unusual aspect to Sandu’s musical education. During our conversation, Sandu explained that his teachers’ first priority was always to emphasise the importance of kindness. They taught him that being a musician is a job, and like any other job, it’s possible to do it well or to do it badly. And the only way to do this particular job well is to be kind, compassionate and empathetic. It’s from that starting point that you can feel your way into the music, collaborate with other artists, and sense the needs of your audience. Having now lived that ideal for over 32 years, Sandu has gained international recognition and collaborated with renowned artists including Hans Zimmer and Bahramji. His work not only builds bridges between musical styles but also fosters deeper connections between people. For more about Sandu’s beautiful life, music and philosophy, check out his website at https://sandutabla.art, or follow him on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/sandu.tabla/ And I’d love to hear your stories too If anything in this episode inspires you to see the world a little differently or to expand your own horizons in any way, I’d love to hear from you. Please drop a note in the comments or send me a message about a story you’d like to share. Every heart-squeeze and comment makes it more likely that someone else might happen upon a conversation that could just widen their world. MUSIC: Defining Life, by Bill Conn PHOTOGRAPHY: Michelle Neeling Written and produced by Michelle Neeling Oblivious Witness is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Get full access to Oblivious Witness at michelleneeling.substack.com/subscribe

    Sandu

  2. Aug 7

    Colin Archibald

    “I needed to understand where I was from before I could begin to understand where I was going.” When Colin Archibald moved from London to Perth twenty years ago, he started to reflect on all the many journeys that had led to him having the chance to do that. Through his research, he learned more about how his ancestors were taken from Africa and forced to cross the seas to Jamaica. He reflected on how strong they must have been to survive that journey, and recognised that he was standing on the shoulders of giants. He thought about how his parents, so many years later, had crossed back over the oceans, this time to the UK, to help rebuild the nation after the second World War. And when he himself decided to move from the UK to Perth, his eyes were opened to the lessons he could learn from the experiences of his forebears.Colin is now a storyteller, facilitator, and community consultant exploring identity, culture, healing, and lived experience. He writes essays, poetry, and reflections that sit between the personal and the political, centred on voice, belonging, and purposeful living. Please enjoy this conversation about the resilience required to cross continents and learn lessons from both your ancestors and from the ghosts of your former selves. And I’d love to hear your stories too If anything in this episode inspires you to see the world a little differently or to expand your own horizons in any way, I’d love to hear from you. Please drop a note in the comments or send me a message about a story you’d like to share. Every heart-squeeze and comment makes it more likely that someone else might happen upon a conversation that could just widen their world. MUSIC: Defining Life, by Bill Conn PHOTOGRAPHY: Michelle Neeling Written and produced by Michelle Neeling Oblivious Witness is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Get full access to Oblivious Witness at michelleneeling.substack.com/subscribe

    Colin Archibald

  3. Jul 24

    Melati Wijsen

    I’m so excited to bring you a conversation with an extraordinary young woman who has dedicated her life to helping the world. I first met Melati Wijsen at the launch of her book, “Change Starts Now – 100 Lessons from a fulltime changemaker”. Soon after, I was lucky enough to see Melati speak to and inspire hundreds of students during a school visit, an activity which she says is central to the fulfilment of her purpose. A few weeks later, Melati spoke at the Ubud Writers and Readers Festival about the power of youth to shape a more sustainable future.Melati began her changemaker journey when she was twelve years old, when she and her sister created an organisation called Bye Bye Plastic Bags. Melati has since inspired audiences all over the world, with appearances on important stages including the General Assembly of the United Nations in New York, National Geographic’s Sustainability Week in Bangkok, and the Ziggo Dome in Amsterdam, where she opened for President Barack Obama. Melati’s three TED Talks have been viewed over two million times. When she was 18 years old, Melati founded Youthtopia, a free learning platform where young changemakers can come together and share the ways in which they’ve had an impact on a changing world. In this tumultuous time, I feel that it’s more important than ever to listen to the voices of young people whose vision, determination, optimism and sheer strength of character will be the building blocks of a more positive future. Melati’s is one of the most important of those voices. Please share this episode with your friends, and especially with the young people in your life. Learn more about Melati’s incredible work at https://www.youthtopia.world/ Oblivious Witness is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Get full access to Oblivious Witness at michelleneeling.substack.com/subscribe

    Melati Wijsen

  4. Jul 10

    Pico Iyer

    Pico Iyer is the consummate Oblivious Witness guest. Having lived on three continents and spent five decades travelling the world as a writer and journalist, he has developed insights into the way we all live that can't help but inspire tolerance, compassion and kindness.Pico's five TED Talks have been viewed over eleven million times. To meet him, though, you'd never know that he'd enjoyed such wide-spread admiration and acclaim. Pico's humility and curiosity about other people is a testament both to his own character and to the lessons he's learned from amazing friends like Leonard Cohen and the Dalai Lama. There are so many jewels in this conversation with Pico Iyer, as he talks us through his extraordinary childhood, his glamorous life as a writer on world affairs for Time Magazine, and his decision to leave it all behind to go and live a simple life in Kyoto, Japan.Pico has written seventeen best-selling books, the most recent being Aflame: Learning From Silence, in which he reflects on the power of silence and what it can teach us about how to live and how to love.Pico Iyer Get full access to Oblivious Witness at michelleneeling.substack.com/subscribe

    Pico Iyer

  5. Jun 26

    Kadek Sonia Piscayanti

    Sonia Kadek Piscayanti is the founder and director of the Singaraja Literary Festival. She also founded the Mahima Community, which promotes literacy and literature in Singaraja, Bali. In this conversation, Sonia talks with us about what it means to be a Balinese woman, and to travel all around the world, taking her Balinese spirituality with her, and knowing that the final destination is always her family. The Singaraja Literary Festival is coming up next week! Join us there if you happen to be in Bali from July 3-9. https://www.instagram.com/mahima_institute/https://www.instagram.com/komunitas_mahima/https://www.instagram.com/singarajaliteraryfest_official/ Get full access to Oblivious Witness at michelleneeling.substack.com/subscribe

    Kadek Sonia Piscayanti

  6. 05/16/2025

    "You’ve got to put yourself out on the edge of the cliff, waiting to catch the wind."

    The artist is present There’s something incredibly special about recording a conversation in a podcast guest’s own home. For this episode, I was lucky enough to sit with Australian artist and illustrator Jeremy Ley in his studio, which is attached to the beautiful home he shares with his partner and two children in Kerobokan, Bali. During our conversation, Jeremy often picked up books or artworks he’d created, or pointed to boxes of memorabilia from his mum and his late wife. It was like having a brief and beautiful glimpse into his spectacularly creative and philosophical brain, and I feel so much richer for the experience.During our long conversation (which felt, in real time, as though it took only a few minutes!), Jeremy and I covered so many topics, including: * Jeremy’s early travels with his parents * The life and death of his beloved mother* The birth of his beautiful sons and the tragic death of their mum in her early thirties* His ability to put himself in the path of golden opportunities* His work in books, aged care and a hugely successful Australian start-up* His approach to life and travel* His openness to finding love and happiness after lossDo check out Jeremy’s Instagram to see more of his work.Please enjoy this conversation with the wonderful Jeremy Ley. And I’d love to hear your stories too If anything in this episode inspires you to see the world a little differently or to expand your own horizons in any way, I’d love to hear from you. Please drop a note in the comments or send me a message about a story you’d like to share. Every heart-squeeze and comment makes it more likely that someone else might happen upon a conversation that might just widen their world. MUSIC: Defining Life, by Bill Conn PHOTOGRAPHY: Michelle Neeling Written and produced by Michelle Neeling Oblivious Witness is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Get full access to Oblivious Witness at michelleneeling.substack.com/subscribe

    "You’ve got to put yourself out on the edge of the cliff, waiting to catch the wind."

  7. 05/02/2025

    "Change is hard for me but I love the idea of a new life."

    I always love speaking with people who follow their curiosity to create a life filled with movement and change, and those conversations are even more intriguing when the people I’m speaking with have made it their life’s work to encourage other people to seek adventure too.Alison Emerick is an American photographer, writer, and accidental expat navigating life abroad with two small children. She shares insights on family travel, expat life and parenting abroad through her Instagram and Youtube channel. This year she’s moving her family from Bali to Portugal to embark on a new European adventure.Please enjoy this conversation with the inspiring Alison Emerick. And I’d love to hear your stories too If anything in this episode inspires you to see the world a little differently or to expand your own horizons in any way, I’d love to hear from you. Please drop a note in the comments or send me a message about a story you’d like to share. Every heart-squeeze and comment makes it more likely that someone else might happen upon a conversation that might just widen their world. MUSIC: Defining Life, by Bill Conn PHOTOGRAPHY: Michelle Neeling Written and produced by Michelle Neeling Get full access to Oblivious Witness at michelleneeling.substack.com/subscribe

    "Change is hard for me but I love the idea of a new life."

  8. 04/10/2025

    "Curiosity is the closest thing to life force that we have."

    A week, six decades (and three continents) in the life of a truly brilliant writer So far this week, Peter Godwin has launched his beautiful new book in the US, been interviewed at his NYC launch party by Booker Prize winner Marlon James, and been featured in the New York Times. And today here he is on the Oblivious Witness podcast, talking with me about Exit Wounds: A Story of love, loss and occasional wars, which focuses on his changing relationships with the three women who shaped his life. It was an incredible honour to sit down with Peter for this conversation, and I’m so thrilled to share it with you here.Oh and breaking news that you’ll get here on Oblivious Witness first! Having now written four brilliant memoirs, Peter’s considering writing a book called First Person Singular that might help the rest of us to write our own… I’ve pre-ordered my copy on the strength of this announcement! Let me know if you’d like to do the same! And I’d love to hear your stories too If anything in this episode inspires you to see the world a little differently or to expand your own horizons in any way, I’d love to hear from you. Please drop a note in the comments or send me a message about a story you’d like to share. Every heart-squeeze and comment makes it more likely that someone else might happen upon a conversation that could just widen their world. MUSIC: Defining Life, by Bill Conn PHOTOGRAPHY: Michelle Neeling Written and produced by Michelle Neeling Get full access to Oblivious Witness at michelleneeling.substack.com/subscribe

    "Curiosity is the closest thing to life force that we have."
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On the Oblivious Witness podcast, I talk to a new guest every week about the things they've witnessed while travelling around the world, and how those things have made them who they are. michelleneeling.substack.com

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  • Creator
    Michelle Neeling
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    22
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