1d ago

How To Respond When Your Teen Wants A Career You’re Not Thrilled About

When your teen names a career that concerns you, your first response can shape whether they keep talking. Welcoming the interest can give you room to stay involved without endorsing the job. Jay explores Celebrate through a coaching-client story and three shifts that help parents make room for curiosity. Discover how an unfinished idea can become an opening for meaningful exploration. Parent Reflection When my teen shares a career interest that concerns me, does my first response make it easier for them to keep talking or make them feel they need to defend the idea? Start a Convo Use these questions to start a convo with your kid on the topic. What kinds of jobs seem interesting to people your age right now?Is there a job that’s caught your attention lately, even if you’re just curious about it?What kind of response from me would make it easier for you to share and explore career ideas while you’re still figuring things out? Freee Resource The Top Ten Initial Responses When Your Teen Expresses Interest in a Career You’re Not Thrilled About https://lifeafter12th.com/best-initial-responses-when-your-teen-has-a-concerning-career-idea The MapInMe Journey If your teen or 20-something is struggling with career direction, learn more about the MapInMe Journey, a six-week coaching experience designed to help them discover a True Job Match. https://lifeafter12th.com Get this Content Delivered to your Inbox Subscribe to the LA12 Podcast at https://lifeafter12th.com/la12emailoptin Connect with Life After 12th Facebook https://www.facebook.com/jaydusoldcoaching/ TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@lifeafter12th

Oct 8

Why Career Conversations With Your Teen Are Often Filled With Friction

Why Career Conversations With Your Teen Are Often Filled With Friction Career conversations can be difficult even when you want to help. Your teen’s growing independence, the feelings tied to uncertainty, and earlier conversations may all play a part. In this opening episode of a new series, Jay explores why the topic can create friction and previews four steps for offering meaningful career guidance while preserving your relationship. Parent Reflection When career conversations become difficult in your family, which seems to play the biggest role: my teen’s desire for more say, the feelings this topic brings up, or the way I’ve responded in the past? Start a Convo Use these questions to start a convo with your kid on the topic. When I bring up careers or your future, what does that feel like for you?What kind of involvement from me would be helpful as you think about career options?Have any of my past responses made it harder to share your ideas with me? I’d like to understand. The Free Resource The Teen Brain and Career Choices: Five Connections Parents Should Understand https://lifeafter12th.com/teen-brain-and-career-choices The MapInMe Journey If your teen or 20-something is struggling with career direction, learn more about the MapInMe Journey, a six-week coaching experience designed to help them discover a True Job Match. https://lifeafter12th.com Get this Content Delivered to your Inbox Subscribe to the LA12 Podcast at https://lifeafter12th.com/la12emailoptin

Oct 5

Teen Starter Jobs and Strategic Networking

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Oct 2

Using Starter Jobs to Create Powerful Resume Content

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Sep 23

Starter Jobs Build Critical Skills That Travel

Communication, reliability, teamwork, problem-solving, professionalism, and adaptability aren’t developed simply by hearing about them. They’re developed through practice. In this episode, Jay explains how starter jobs give teens a real-world place to build Transferable Skills they can carry into future jobs, internships, programs, and careers. Parent Reflection What are other important workplace skills your teen could develop faster through real-world work than through school alone? Start a Convo Use these questions to start a convo with your kid on the topic. Do you think most teens your age realize that starter jobs can help them develop skills they may use in almost any future career?If you had a starter job, what is one workplace skill you would want to improve?How do you think becoming more reliable, professional, or confident at work could affect your future opportunities? Mentioned Resources National Association of Colleges and Employers — Career Readiness Competencies https://www.naceweb.org/career-readiness/competencies/career-readiness-defined/ Extern — Career Readiness: NACE’s 8 Competencies Explained (2026) https://www.extern.com/post/career-readiness-competencies-guide The MapInMe Journey If your teen or 20-something is struggling with career direction, learn more about the MapInMe Journey, a six-week coaching experience designed to help them discover a True Job Match. https://lifeafter12th.com Get this Content Delivered to your Inbox Subscribe to the LA12 Podcast at https://lifeafter12th.com/la12emailoptin Connect with Life After 12th LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaydusold/ Facebook Group for Parents https://www.facebook.com/groups/LifeAfter12th

Sep 16

Starter Jobs Give Teens the Real-World Experience Employers Increasingly Expect

Entry-level jobs were once where young people went to gain experience. Increasingly, employers want applicants to already have real-world experience before they apply. In this episode, Jay explains why Workplace Experience is becoming a competitive advantage and why the best time for teens to start building it may be before anyone requires it. Parent Reflection Do you currently think of work experience as something teens should gain after graduation or something they should begin building before they need it? Start a Convo Use these questions to start a convo with your kid on the topic. Do you think most teens understand why real-world work experience can matter before graduation?If you had a starter job, what kind of experience would you most want to gain?How do you think having real-world experience before applying for jobs, internships, or programs could affect your opportunities later? The MapInMe Journey If your teen or 20-something is struggling with career direction, learn more about the MapInMe Journey, a six-week coaching experience designed to help them discover a True Job Match. https://lifeafter12th.com Get this Content Delivered to your Inbox Subscribe to the LA12 Podcast at https://lifeafter12th.com/la12emailoptin Read this Content on the LA12 Blog https://lifeafter12th.com/la12-blog Connect with Life After 12th LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaydusold/ Instagram https://www.instagram.com/lifeafter12th YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@LifeAfterTwelfth/shorts TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@lifeafter12th Facebook Group for Parents https://www.facebook.com/groups/LifeAfter12th

Aug 14

The Starter-Job Advantage

A starter job can give your teen much more than a paycheck and a stronger work ethic. In this episode, Jay introduces The Starter-Job Advantage and four World-of-Work Assets teens can begin building early: Workplace Experience, Transferable Skills, Resume-Building Accomplishments, and Professional Relationships. Parent Reflection When you think about a starter job, do you primarily see it in terms of money and maturity or as a way to build a future advantage? Start a Convo Use these questions to start a convo with your kid on the topic. Do you think most teens see a part-time starter job more as a paycheck or as a way to build future opportunities?If you had a starter job, what would you most want to gain from it besides money?How do you think building experience, skills, accomplishments, and professional relationships early could affect your future opportunities? Mentioned Resources National Association of Colleges and Employers — Career Readiness Competencies https://www.naceweb.org/career-readiness/competencies/career-readiness-defined/ The MapInMe Journey If your teen or 20-something is struggling with career direction, learn more about the MapInMe Journey, a six-week coaching experience designed to help them discover a True Job Match. https://lifeafter12th.com Get this Content Delivered to your Inbox Subscribe to the LA12 Podcast at https://lifeafter12th.com/la12emailoptin Read this Content on the LA12 Blog https://lifeafter12th.com/la12-blog Connect with Life After 12th LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaydusold/ Instagram https://www.instagram.com/lifeafter12th YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@LifeAfterTwelfth/shorts TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@lifeafter12th Facebook Group for Parents https://www.facebook.com/groups/LifeAfter12th

Mar 31

The Busting Free Blueprint for Overcoming False Limiting Beliefs: Part 1

A lot of teens and twenty-somethings get stuck because harmful false beliefs keep showing up as recurring, negative thoughts about their abilities, their futures, or specific situations, and those thoughts can quietly limit their career options and potential. In this episode, you’ll hear the start of the Busting Free Blueprint, a simple three-step process that helps young people identify what I call “Nagging Negativity,” crystallize the message of those thoughts, and get ready to evaluate them for accuracy so they can bust free, stay free, and be their very best. 𝗙𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝗥𝗲𝘀𝗼𝘂𝗿𝗰𝗲𝘀 Student Resource Your child can access a free self-guided experience that walks them through all of the steps in the Busting Free Blueprint. You can check it out at https://link.lifeafter12th.com/mindsetguide and then share the link with them. 𝗗𝗶𝘀𝗰𝘂𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁𝗲𝗿𝘀 Use these prompts to start a discussion with your teen or 20-something on this issue: Do you think most young people are bombarded by negative thoughts about themselves, their futures, or specific situations?What percent of those negative thoughts do you think are true?What do young people typically do in response? 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗠𝗮𝗽𝗜𝗻𝗠𝗲 𝗝𝗼𝘂𝗿𝗻𝗲𝘆 In just six weeks, students identify a True Job Match, create a thorough plan to get into the job, and address false, limiting beliefs so they’re free and clear to move forward with confidence. All the work is done together to ensure success, and there’s nothing to manage in between sessions. Learn more at https://lifeafter12th.com 𝗖𝗼𝗻𝗻𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝗪𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗠𝗲 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/lifeafter12th YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@LifeAfterTwelfth/shorts TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@lifeafter12th Facebook Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/LifeAfter12th 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗟𝗔𝟭𝟮 𝗠𝗮𝗶𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗟𝗶𝘀𝘁 Want this in an email format delivered to your inbox every week? I got ya! Subscribe at https://lifeafter12th.com/la12emailoptin 𝗖𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗮𝗰𝘁 𝗠𝗲 Email: jay@LifeAfter12th.com WhatsApp: https://wa.me/17178554400

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How To Respond When Your Teen Wants A Career You’re Not Thrilled About

Why Career Conversations With Your Teen Are Often Filled With Friction

Teen Starter Jobs and Strategic Networking

Using Starter Jobs to Create Powerful Resume Content

Starter Jobs Build Critical Skills That Travel

Starter Jobs Give Teens the Real-World Experience Employers Increasingly Expect

The Starter-Job Advantage

The Busting Free Blueprint for Overcoming False Limiting Beliefs: Part 1

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How To Respond When Your Teen Wants A Career You’re Not Thrilled About

Why Career Conversations With Your Teen Are Often Filled With Friction

Teen Starter Jobs and Strategic Networking

Using Starter Jobs to Create Powerful Resume Content

Starter Jobs Build Critical Skills That Travel

Starter Jobs Give Teens the Real-World Experience Employers Increasingly Expect

The Starter-Job Advantage

The Busting Free Blueprint for Overcoming False Limiting Beliefs: Part 1

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