Who’s Even Listening ?

Andrew Dufendach
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Podcast by Incognito ? We Bring up things most people won’t discuss and try to bring light to a world trapped in darkness…

  1. 3d ago

    Why Every Woman Should Learn Self-Defense with Got Your Back

    Send us Fan Mail In Season 3, Episode 8 of Who’s Even Listening ?, Andrew sits down with Marla Wilson and Valerie Plump of Got Your Back Self Defense for an honest conversation about awareness, confidence, preparation, and learning how to protect yourself without living in fear. Marla and Valerie share what inspired them to create Got Your Back and explain why women’s self-defense is about much more than physical strength. They discuss situational awareness, becoming a more difficult target, Brazilian jiu-jitsu, and what someone can expect when beginning hands-on training. They also explore the role firearms can play in personal safety, why awareness and physical training still matter, and how people can overcome the fear or embarrassment that sometimes comes with attending their first class. The conversation also touches on motherhood, preparing the next generation, and the larger mission behind helping women build confidence and understand that they are worth protecting. Connect with Got Your Back Self Defense: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gotyourbackselfdefense Website: https://gotyourback302.com/ Their website is currently live and still being developed, so some information may change over time. Learn more about Mental Medicine: https://www.mental-medicine.com ELE — Everybody Love Everybody 💚 This conversation is for general educational purposes and is not a substitute for professional self-defense instruction, firearm training, or legal advice. Support the show

  2. Sep 30

    Can Workers and Supervisors Actually Get Along?

    Send us Fan Mail Can workers and supervisors actually get along — even when personalities clash, disagreements happen, and one person technically has authority over the other? In Season 3, Episode 7 of Who’s Even Listening ? — Episode 84 overall — Andrew sits down with Bobby Nichols, one of his supervisors at work. Andrew normally keeps pretty quiet while he’s working, so Bobby discovering that he hosted a podcast revealed a side of him that most people at work don’t usually see. Bobby, a big podcast listener himself, reached out about coming on the show, and the result became a conversation about much more than their jobs. Andrew and Bobby talk about worker-supervisor relationships, dealing with different personalities, giving people respect even when you disagree, and finding the balance between doing your job and still treating people like people. They also step completely outside the workplace and get into Bobby’s life as a person, his love of podcasts, what makes certain shows connect with listeners, family, fatherhood, raising two daughters, Girl Scout cookies, and some of the lessons that work and family have taught him along the way. The conversation eventually comes back to a bigger question: When everything is said and done, how do you want people to remember you? That leads into legacy, the bigger picture, and Mental Medicine’s message of ELE — Everybody Love Everybody. You don’t have to agree with everybody. You don’t have to like everybody. But there’s still room for respect, understanding and recognizing the human being on the other side. P.S. We joked about taking the next podcast to the kayaks since Bobby has an extra one. 😂🛶 Kayak podcast episode coming someday… assuming we can keep the equipment out of the water. Learn more about Mental Medicine:  https://www.mental-medicine.com ELE — Everybody Love Everybody 💚 Support the show

  3. Sep 23

    What Women Aren’t Told About Hormones & Fertility

    Send us Fan Mail What happens when you feel like you’re doing everything “right” — eating healthy, exercising, trying harder — but your hormones, menstrual cycle, or fertility still aren’t where you want them to be? In Season 3, Episode 6 of Who’s Even Listening ?, Andrew sits down with Kelli O’Brien, MS, CNS, LDN, a fertility nutritionist and Licensed Dietitian who helps women better understand hormone health, fertility, nutrition, and their relationship with food. Kelli shares both her professional knowledge and her own personal experience with losing her menstrual cycle, PCOS, underfueling, and eventually learning how to better support her body. That journey became a big part of the work she does today. They talk about why fertility can feel so overwhelming, what underfueling and overexercising can do to the body, why doing everything “right” doesn’t always mean you’re getting the right result, and where women can look for better answers without immediately spending a fortune. Andrew also approaches the conversation from a partner’s perspective — asking what men can actually do to better support women navigating fertility struggles, hormone issues, and the emotional weight that can come with all of it. It’s an honest conversation about fertility, hormones, PCOS, nutrition, body trust, and asking better questions when you feel like you’ve already tried everything. Connect with Kelli O’Brien:  Website: https://kelliobriennutrition.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kelliobriennutrition Email: info@formativenutrition.co Learn more about Mental Medicine: https://www.mental-medicine.com ELE — Everybody Love Everybody 💚 This episode is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for individualized medical care. Support the show

  4. Sep 16

    She Built a Business at 22 Before She Felt Ready

    Send us Fan Mail At just 22 years old, Grace Kathleen Burns took the leap and built Burned Media, LLC—before she felt completely ready. In Season 3, Episode 5 of Who’s Even Listening ?, Grace joins Andrew for a conversation about starting young, building confidence through experience, creativity, entrepreneurship, marketing, photography, storytelling, and learning as you go. Grace shares what pushed her toward creating her own business, what she’s learned from working with small businesses and nonprofits, and why waiting until you feel completely prepared can keep you from ever starting. They also get into consumer behavior, networking, filmmaking, building a reputation in your community, finding joy in what you do, and turning creative interests into something much bigger than a hobby. It’s a conversation about betting on yourself, staying curious, building confidence through action, and realizing that you don’t need every answer before you begin. Connect with Grace Kathleen Burns & Burned Media, LLC:  Website: https://www.burnedmediallc.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/burnedmediallc/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BurnedMediaLLC  Learn more about Mental Medicine: https://www.mental-medicine.com ELE — Everybody Love Everybody 💚 Support the show

  5. Sep 9

    We’re All We Have

    Send us Fan Mail What happens when you’re trying to make the world better—but privately struggling with everything it takes to keep going? In this solo episode of Who’s Even Listening ? — Season 3, Episode 4 — Andrew opens up about his mental health, the pressure of balancing UPS, family, and Mental Medicine, and the frustration of working toward something meaningful for years without seeing the traction it needs. He talks honestly about feeling overlooked, watching other people run with ideas similar to his own, and questioning how long Mental Medicine can continue without real growth. But even from a difficult mental place, Andrew still believes that we must help one another, choose love over destruction, and take responsibility for the world we’re creating. The conversation also explores the growing debate around artificial intelligence. Andrew explains why he believes there is a difference between using AI as a tool to support your workflow and allowing it to replace your creativity, identity, or humanity. Topics include: Mental health and creator burnoutBalancing UPS, family, and Mental MedicineFeeling overlooked, copied, and left behindThe future of Mental MedicineHumanity’s responsibility to help itselfFinding a responsible balance with AIProtecting authenticity in a changing worldWhy ELE matters now more than everNobody else is guaranteed to come save us. We’re all we have—and it’s on us to start treating each other like it. Mental Medicine:  https://www.mental-medicine.com Watch and subscribe on YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@MentalMedicineELE ELE — Everybody Love Everybody 💚 Support the show

  6. Sep 2

    She Knew Something Was Wrong—and It Saved Her Life

    Send us Fan Mail In Season 3, Episode 3 of Who’s Even Listening ?, Andrew sits down with Brittany Strauss, a young mother, healthcare worker, crafter, and millennial carrying a powerful health story. Brittany became a mother at 15 and had to grow up quickly. Years later, just two months after turning 30, genetic testing led to an unexpected breast cancer diagnosis. Brittany explains why she decided to pursue testing, what the process involved, and how learning more about her own health risks ultimately changed her life. She and Andrew also discuss the importance of asking questions, advocating for yourself within the healthcare system, and understanding that serious health concerns do not only affect older people. Beyond her diagnosis, Brittany shares what everyday life looks like when things become heavy, how she balances motherhood and work, and how crafting, true crime, and reality television give her moments to decompress and remain connected to herself. This honest and encouraging conversation is about growing up quickly, navigating uncertainty, and reminding young women and mothers that taking their health seriously is never an overreaction. Connect with Brittany Strauss: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brit.hastings93/  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@b_jean93  Learn more about Mental Medicine: https://www.mental-medicine.com ELE — Everybody Love Everybody. Support the show

  7. Aug 26

    Why Don’t We Learn About Money Until It’s Too Late?

    Send us Fan Mail In Season 3, Episode 2 of Who’s Even Listening ?, Andrew sits down with financial coach and public-school educator Marie Flood for an approachable conversation about financial literacy, money anxiety, investing, and the lessons many of us were never taught growing up. Marie brings six years of public-school teaching experience into her education-first coaching style. She helps women—including members of the LGBTQ+ community—better understand their finances, build confidence, and take practical steps toward their goals. Marie shares what inspired her to become a financial coach, why money feels intimidating to so many people, and how past experiences and emotions can affect the way we save, spend, invest, and plan. She is also working toward additional training in trauma-informed money coaching. Andrew and Marie discuss why people procrastinate on financial decisions, the value of starting young, building a business while teaching, and why nobody needs to understand everything before taking their first step. Connect with Marie Flood: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mindfulmoneymarie/ Website: https://www.budget-your-way.com/ Additional link:  https://www.budget-your-way.com/resources Learn more about Mental Medicine: https://www.mental-medicine.com ELE — Everybody Love Everybody. Support the show

  8. Aug 19

    What If We Were Looking for Answers in the Wrong Place?

    Send us Fan Mail What if the thing we’re searching for was never just about aliens? Welcome to the Season 3 opener of Who’s Even Listening ?. In this episode, Andrew sits down with his dad for a deeper conversation about aliens, UFOs, religion, the universe, and the bigger question underneath all of it: what are we actually searching for? They talk about why so many people look to the sky, to space, to UFOs, or to the unknown for answers — and how that connects to the same kinds of questions people have always asked through faith, religion, and spirituality. This conversation is not about proving one side right or wrong. It is about staying open, asking bigger questions, and wondering why we feel like we have to choose only one place to search for meaning. Season 3 starts with a simple but heavy question: What if we were looking for answers in the wrong place? ELE — Everybody Love Everybody 💚 Support the show

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Podcast by Incognito ? We Bring up things most people won’t discuss and try to bring light to a world trapped in darkness…

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  • Creator
    Andrew Dufendach
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    85
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 Who’s Even Listening ?
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